But out of all men I\u2019ve ever met who wanted to date me or who I was in a relationship with, I wouldn\u2019t be able to make one decent guy. <\/p>\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 demonios est\u00e1 pasando aqu\u00ed?<\/b><\/p>\n
Where have all of the “good men” disappeared to?<\/b><\/p>\n
Bueno, creo que el problema es que los hombres han cambiado.<\/p>\n
They\u2019ve evolved into worse versions instead of better ones.<\/p>\n
Rather than keeping some old school moves and charm, they\u2019ve become lazy and self-absorbed. <\/p>\n
Bueno, tal vez no perezosos en general, pero s\u00ed perezosos en la forma en que abordan a las mujeres y las relaciones.<\/p>\n
Most of them aren\u2019t ready to make any effort.<\/p>\n
Lo hacen todo a su conveniencia. <\/p>\n
Esperan que est\u00e9s totalmente dentro mientras mantienen sus opciones abiertas. <\/b><\/p>\n
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Some of them are intimidated by women because they\u2019ve become more powerful.<\/p>\n
Women today are independent and ambitious, and they don\u2019t need a man to take care of them. <\/p>\n
Then again, men don\u2019t like women who are codependent either.<\/p>\n
Las llaman pegajosas y necesitadas, y pierden inter\u00e9s. <\/p>\n
Parece que las mejores mujeres son las que saben mantener el equilibrio entre fuertes y necesitadas.<\/p>\n
But even that isn\u2019t enough when they stumble upon someone who is emotionally unavailable. <\/p>\n
La mayor\u00eda de los hombres de hoy temen el compromiso m\u00e1s de lo que tem\u00edan al monstruo bajo su cama cuando eran ni\u00f1os. <\/b><\/p>\n
So they like to keep things \u201ccasual.\u201d<\/p>\n
Quieren beneficios de relaci\u00f3n, pero no una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n
They simply don\u2019t want to make even the slightest commitment. <\/p>\n
El nivel superior a los f\u00f3bicos al compromiso son los follamigos, y puedes encontrarlos en cada esquina. <\/b><\/p>\n
These guys share the same fear of being \u201ctied down\u201d in a relationship, but they\u2019re masters at playing games with female hearts. <\/p>\n
Desaparecen durante d\u00edas y luego vuelven actuando como si nada hubiera pasado.<\/p>\n
Utilizan los mensajes de texto como t\u00e9cnica de manipulaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s que como herramienta de comunicaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n
Los tipos as\u00ed casi nunca te dejan saber a qu\u00e9 atenerte desde el principio.<\/p>\n
Dicen exactamente lo que creen que quieres o\u00edr. <\/p>\n
They sweet-talk you into thinking that there\u2019s potential for something more, but sooner or later you find out that they\u2019re only interested in how to get into your pants. <\/b><\/p>\n
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Tanto los fuckboys como los perdedores similares ans\u00edan tu atenci\u00f3n y la de cualquier otra chica que conozcan.<\/p>\n
So they\u2019ll beg you to send nudes they can add to their collection. <\/p>\n
Son groseros, irrespetuosos y se sienten con derecho a tu tiempo y espacio.<\/p>\n
Los hombres t\u00f3xicos, manipuladores y narcisistas tambi\u00e9n son nuestra realidad. <\/b><\/p>\n
There are so many red flags we need to watch out for that we can\u2019t relax and enjoy dating anymore. <\/p>\n
These types of men are not so easy to spot, so we usually recognize them when we\u2019ve already developed feelings for them and it\u2019s become harder to let them go. <\/p>\n
Some of us who had the misfortune of dating some of these worst men ended up with relationship PTSD \u2013 emotionally broken, low self-esteem, and fear of relationships are just some side effects. <\/p>\n
This is just scratching the surface, but it\u2019s pretty obvious it\u2019s not easy for women today to find someone who deserves to be their boyfriend.<\/b><\/p>\n
It\u2019s gruelling to find someone trustworthy, genuine, and normal.<\/p>\n
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Todos los dem\u00e1s tonos oscuros de los hombres son f\u00e1ciles de encontrar.<\/p>\n
Parece que son la mayor\u00eda. <\/p>\n
However, I strongly believe that good men still exist \u2013 they\u2019re just an endangered species.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s no piece of cake finding them, but it\u2019s also not impossible.<\/p>\n
Simplemente tarda un poco m\u00e1s de lo que cualquiera de nosotros querr\u00eda. <\/p>\n
That\u2019s why it\u2019s better to stay single until someone worthy comes along.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s better to have peace in your soul and happiness you yourself created than being in a relationship with just anybody.<\/p>\n
So the next time someone asks you why you\u2019re still single, be sure to tell them you still haven\u2019t found someone worthy of the title.<\/p>\n
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