{"id":47382,"date":"2019-11-13T14:13:57","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:13:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47382"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:51:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:51:25","slug":"5-formas-aterradoras-en-que-los-narcisistas-traen-el-caos-a-tu-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-formas-aterradoras-en-que-los-narcisistas-traen-el-caos-a-tu-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"5 formas aterradoras en que los narcisistas traen el caos a tu vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que todos los narcisistas tienen en com\u00fan<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Sin duda, trayendo el caos total a tu vida y trastocando tu mundo tal y como lo conoces.<\/p>\n

Antes de que apareciera tu narcisista, probablemente ten\u00edas una vida bastante relajada.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edas tus peque\u00f1os rituales a los que eras fiel, tu c\u00edrculo de amigos con los que pasabas mucho tiempo y tu trabajo era muy satisfactorio.<\/p>\n

Sure, you had your everyday problems like the rest of us do but nothing out of the ordinary or that couldn\u2019t be fixed.<\/p>\n

Pero una vez que entr\u00f3 en tu vida, todo cambi\u00f3.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Siempre ocurre gradualmente.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Una peque\u00f1a cosa sucedi\u00f3 tras otra y antes de que te dieras cuenta, tom\u00f3 el control total sobre tu mente<\/a>cuerpo y alma y tu mundo tal y como lo conoc\u00edas dej\u00f3 de existir.<\/p>\n

Todo lo bueno que ten\u00edas a tu favor se arruin\u00f3 de repente.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Tus planes y h\u00e1bitos cambiaron dr\u00e1sticamente porque \u00c9L ten\u00eda otros planes para ti.<\/p>\n

Con qui\u00e9n pasabas la mayor parte del tiempo ya no depend\u00eda de ti.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n controlaba eso.<\/p>\n

You still saw your friends\u2026 but not in the capacity you were used to.<\/p>\n

Your family noticed that something was off but they didn\u2019t know the extent of it.<\/p>\n

Nadie lo hizo.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t something you were ever comfortable talking about but your narcissist brought so much chaos into your life that you felt ashamed and somewhat guilty for letting him.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But it wasn\u2019t your fault.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what they do.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t keep you interested in any other way, so they resort to these 5 ways that completely disrupt your world in order to keep you attached for as long as they can.<\/p>\n

1. Deliberately provoking you until you\u2019ve lost your mind<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas y los soci\u00f3patas son maestros en esto.<\/p>\n

Saben exactamente qu\u00e9 botones apretar y qu\u00e9 te hace vibrar.<\/p>\n

Conocen el camino a tu mente y \u00a1vaya si lo utilizar\u00e1n en su beneficio!<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll make up a scenario to see how you\u2019ll react.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll blame you for something you had absolutely nothing to do with, just to see how far they can push you.<\/p>\n

Once they see that what they\u2019re doing is working, they won\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll keep digging, finding new areas to hurt you and provoking you to an extent you never knew existed.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll slowly be losing your damn mind, with a little help of your narcissist\u2019s favorite tactic of keeping you by his side.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll provoke you until he\u2019s finished with you and then, he knows you\u2019ll feel too insane to turn to anyone else.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s how he keeps his victims in check.<\/p>\n

2. Sabotear todos tus planes y ocasiones de celebraci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

You didn\u2019t think he was going to let you stay happy, did you?<\/p>\n

Because he sure as hell won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Around the holidays and on all your celebratory occasions, he\u2019ll make sure to stir up some trouble just to keep you from being happy.<\/p>\n

Cualquier evento que desv\u00ede la atenci\u00f3n de \u00e9l es inaceptable.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t have you remain in the spotlight and actually enjoy yourself.<\/p>\n

This is why he\u2019ll always make sure to keep you distracted in the worst ways possible during the moments when you should be happy.<\/p>\n

Haven\u2019t you noticed how your plans always somehow turn to shit when he\u2019s around?<\/p>\n

Presta atenci\u00f3n a esto.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see how he never lets you enjoy your happy moments.<\/p>\n

3. Enfrentarte a otra mujer por su atenci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Darte celos como forma de darte cuenta de lo mucho que deseas de verdad estar con \u00e9l<\/a> (debido a sus cuidadosas manipulaciones), esto es lo que hace un narcisista una vez que nota que te alejas.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll offer a comment about another woman and how attractive he finds her for the sole purpose of you having an issue with that.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be very sly and you won\u2019t even know that he\u2019s only doing this to pit you against her.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll be someone you know or see regularly, so that you\u2019re always reminded of it when you see her.<\/p>\n

And that way, he\u2019ll have you fighting for his attention without having to do so much as lift a finger.<\/p>\n

Escurridizo, \u00bfeh?<\/p>\n

4. Elegir argumentos nocturnos para no dormir<\/h2>\n

Quiere que te sientas agotado y exhausto.<\/p>\n

Quiere que tu mente est\u00e9 en su punto m\u00e1s d\u00e9bil para poder ganar f\u00e1cilmente la discusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

And he\u2019ll make sure to pick the latest hour so that you\u2019ll be too tired to fight with him.<\/p>\n

He knows what he\u2019s doing.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a clever tactic and a way to keep you sleep deprived, aka too exhausted to fight him about anything he says, as you just won\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

All you\u2019ll want to do is sleep and he\u2019ll know he has won because you\u2019ll never be able to fight fair.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll get his way, you\u2019ll be too tired to care and the cycle will go on for as long as you don\u2019t realize what he\u2019s doing to you.<\/p>\n

5. Invalidar sus argumentos y evitar rendir cuentas<\/h2>\n

\"desacuerdo<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never win this war with him.<\/p>\n

He knows just how to invalidate every single argument before you\u2019ve even had a chance to speak your mind.<\/p>\n

Piensa unos pasos por delante de ti, as\u00ed que digas lo que digas, ya lo ha pensado y ha encontrado la manera de bloquearte.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really disturbing how evil he can get and how badly he\u2019ll herirte<\/a> s\u00f3lo para mantenerte cerca.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never be to blame for anything.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll always be wrong about everything and the weird thing is, he\u2019ll have planned it all out so carefully that you\u2019ll actually start believing him.<\/p>\n

Predice todos tus movimientos para contrarrestarlos.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica forma de ganar esta guerra es march\u00e1ndose, porque los narcisistas manipuladores son las personas m\u00e1s t\u00f3xicas con las que se puede entablar una pelea.<\/p>\n

Hacen sus deberes y NUNCA dejan nada al azar.<\/p>\n

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What do all narcissists have in common? Without a doubt, bringing utter chaos into your life and disrupting your world as you know it. Before your narcissist came along, you probably had a pretty laid-back life. You had your little rituals you were loyal to, your circle of friends who you spent lots of time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":47385,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_14685977031.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47382","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47382"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47382\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47385"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}