{"id":47421,"date":"2019-11-13T14:28:05","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:28:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47421"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:50:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:50:50","slug":"3-razones-por-las-que-no-debes-salir-para-casarte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/3-razones-por-las-que-no-debes-salir-para-casarte\/","title":{"rendered":"3 razones por las que no debes salir para casarte"},"content":{"rendered":"

It is perfectly okay if you\u2019re feeling <\/span>inseguro sobre el matrimonio<\/span><\/a> or even know that you don\u2019t want to share your life with another person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, there\u2019s nothing wrong with you if you dream of waking up next to the same man for the rest of your days.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, una cosa es que quieras casarte y encuentres a la persona adecuada. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely different if it becomes your obsession and the only thing you think about whenever you date someone new.<\/span><\/p>\n

Times have changed and today, there are hundreds of reasons why you actually shouldn\u2019t date to marry. Here are the most important ones.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. La pr\u00e1ctica hace al maestro<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

When you think about your dream man, you have an exact picture of how this guy should behave, how he should treat you, how he should look \u2013 you have every little detail about him all planned out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puedes estar segura de que ese hombre imaginario es el indicado para ti, a menos que pruebes algo y a otra persona primero?<\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque las citas pueden ser dolorosas y agotadoras, en realidad son una experiencia valiosa que puede ense\u00f1arte algunas lecciones importantes de la vida, especialmente las relacionadas con las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando sales con m\u00e1s de una <\/span>tipo equivocado<\/span><\/a>, it helps you see what you don\u2019t want from a man and  realize what qualities you are looking for.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, las rupturas y las relaciones condenadas al fracaso son duras. <\/span><\/p>\n

Que te dejen o quedes atrapado en una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica es algo que todos queremos evitar, pero sigues olvidando que incluso las peores experiencias pueden ense\u00f1arnos mucho.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of it builds you as a person and helps you become the woman you\u2019re destined to be. It helps you see how much you can take and learn a lot about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you don\u2019t date the men you know you wouldn\u2019t marry from the start, you miss out on all of this. <\/span><\/p>\n

You deprive yourself of the opportunity to fail \u2013 and it\u2019s a well known fact that you can\u2019t expect to succeed unless you fail a few times first.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. You\u2019ll appear as too desperate<\/h2>\n

\"Dolor.\"<\/p>\n

Despite your final goal being finding husband material, you probably don\u2019t go around telling your plans to every man you run into. <\/span><\/p>\n

I suppose you don\u2019t surprise a guy on your first date with the marriage talk.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not giving some subconscious signals that this is the only thing on your mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, el hecho es que los hombres tienen una forma de darse cuenta cuando una mujer tiene el objetivo de atarlos, lo que en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, los hace correr por sus vidas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not telling you to allow any guy to <\/span>guiarte<\/span><\/a> for ages just because you don\u2019t want to appear as overly desperate to get married. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, if a man senses your vibe and sees that you\u2019re obsessed with entering a serious relationship that would eventually end up in marriage, he\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re trying to trap him and run away before you have the chance to limit his freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether you like to hear it or not, most men love spontaneous girls who don\u2019t give out the impression that they have every second of the rest of their lives all planned out. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re obsessed with tying the knot, in his eyes, you\u2019ll be everything but that.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, he\u2019ll immediately perceive you as a woman too weak to go through life on her own and ready to settle for everything he has to offer \u2013 even if it\u2019s less than she deserves \u2013 just to finally have a husband.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Te produce demasiado estr\u00e9s<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Another reason why you shouldn\u2019t only date to marry is your mental health. <\/span><\/p>\n

If this is the only thing on your mind, every date you go on and every potential relationship you get yourself involved in is a source of stress, instead of it being something you\u2019ll enjoy.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfFracasar\u00e1? \u00bfO funcionar\u00e1 esta vez?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo ser\u00eda mi vida al lado de este hombre? \u00bfEs alguien a quien pueda imaginar como posible padre de mis hijos?<\/span><\/p>\n

Estas y otras muchas preguntas te rondan por la cabeza cada vez que conoces a un chico que te gusta. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de estar relajado, tu ansiedad entra en acci\u00f3n y te arruina la experiencia de conocer a alguien nuevo.<\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de vivir el presente <\/span>pensar demasiado<\/span><\/a> tu futuro potencial, que es lo \u00faltimo que deber\u00edas hacer.<\/span><\/p>\n

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