{"id":47435,"date":"2019-11-13T14:41:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:41:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47435"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:17:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:17:16","slug":"5-cosas-que-tienes-cuando-lo-pierdes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-tienes-cuando-lo-pierdes\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que conseguiste cuando lo perdiste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perder a alguien a quien quieres nunca es f\u00e1cil, sobre todo si ese alguien es la persona a la que quer\u00edas m\u00e1s que a nada y el hombre junto al que planeabas pasar el resto de tu vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, sometimes it can be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Even when you don\u2019t see it, every loss you experience actually brings you a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estas son las 5 cosas que ganaste cuando perdiste a tu ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Tu vida de vuelta<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Puede que ahora no lo veas pero la verdad es que este hombre t\u00f3xico ten\u00eda incre\u00edbles <\/span>control<\/span><\/a> sobre tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Things didn\u2019t seem that way at first glance but you were overly concerned with what he might have thought and how he might react to every move you made and every decision you took.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estabas tan obsesionada con complacerle y hacer lo que \u00e9l esperaba de ti que, con el tiempo, dejaste de existir. <\/span><\/p>\n

You stopped being your true self, you stopped being a woman, a daughter, a friend\u2026 and you became only his girlfriend.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pues bien, ha llegado el momento de volver a tomar las riendas de tu vida. Hora de volver a ser la persona que realmente eres y hora de librarte de su control.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014losing this man was anything but easy. In fact, it was a devastating experience which broke your heart into millions of pieces.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it didn\u2019t break you, did it now? You survived and there you are, standing, whole and complete as if you were never damaged.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if this doesn\u2019t deserve loads of respect, I don\u2019t know what does. <\/span><\/p>\n

If the mere thought of everything you\u2019ve been through and the fact that you\u2019ve managed to pick up your pieces and come out of this nightmare stronger than ever doesn\u2019t make you proud of yourself, I don\u2019t know what will.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those days in which this awful man tried to convince you that you\u2019re not good enough and those moments in which you sadly believed him are now just part of ancient history. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve grown into a woman who appreciates, respects and loves herself. Into a woman who sees her own worth and who wouldn\u2019t let anyone devalue her.<\/span><\/p>\n

And these facts alone are worth losing a man who wasn\u2019t the right one for you from the beginning.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. M\u00e1s tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"Bonita<\/p>\n

You know all those nights you spent thinking about the future of your relationship, being perfectly aware that it was anything but healthy and that it wasn\u2019t going anywhere? <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos los <\/span>energ\u00eda que desperdiciaste<\/span><\/a> en tratar de entender a este tipo y hacer lo mejor para leer a trav\u00e9s de sus se\u00f1ales mixtas?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas todas esas horas que pasaste acech\u00e1ndole a \u00e9l y a todas las mujeres que estaban cerca de \u00e9l? \u00bfToda la energ\u00eda que malgastaste esperando a que entrara en raz\u00f3n?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, now that you\u2019ve taken back your life, you should do the same with your time and energy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of wasting another minute on this douchebag, redirect your focus and invest everything you have on to the only person who deserves your undivided attention\u2014yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3mprate un nuevo hobby, empieza a leer, ve al gimnasio o haz algo que llevas tiempo queriendo hacer pero nunca has tenido la oportunidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

De cualquier manera, empieza a ponerte a ti primero y date todo el amor que este chico estaba recibiendo de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Libertad<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

A relationship cannot be successful without compromise\u2014there is no doubt about that.<\/span><\/p>\n

You always have to try your best to satisfy the other person\u2019s needs as well, to meet them halfway and for both of you to be pleased with the final solution.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is especially difficult and exhausting when you\u2019re dealing with a selfish man who doesn\u2019t give a damn about making you happy. <\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, todo ten\u00eda que salir a su manera y tus deseos no ten\u00edan importancia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cuando perdiste a este imb\u00e9cil, ganaste autom\u00e1ticamente la libertad de hacer lo que te diera la gana. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y esto es algo que debes aprovechar al m\u00e1ximo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Puedes empezar con peque\u00f1as cosas como ver esa pel\u00edcula que nunca aceptar\u00eda ver contigo o pedir comida para llevar de ese sitio que desprecia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Later on, you\u2019ll see how liberating it is to have the complete freedom to make all of your life decisions on your own, without having to consult anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. 5. Nuevas oportunidades<\/h2>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should <\/span>saltar de un romance a otro<\/span><\/a> el momento en que escapas de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t forget that this hombre que se alej\u00f3 de ti<\/a> en realidad dej\u00f3 un camino abierto para todos esos otros tipos que quieren una oportunidad contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ese hombre que te dej\u00f3 te dio la oportunidad de conocer por fin a alguien digno de tu tiempo y alguien que te har\u00e1 sentir querida y apreciada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin ser consciente de ello, te dio la oportunidad de encontrar la felicidad y de conocer a tu alma gemela.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, al perder al tipo equivocado, tuviste la oportunidad de conocer al correcto.<\/span><\/p>\n

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