{"id":47447,"date":"2019-11-13T14:50:00","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47447"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:48:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:48:38","slug":"a-la-chica-que-confundio-el-abuso-con-el-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-confundio-el-abuso-con-el-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que confundi\u00f3 el abuso con el amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando conociste a este hombre, te encant\u00f3 su amor eterno por ti. O al menos, algo que ve\u00edas como amor pero que nunca estuvo cerca de eso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014at first, <\/span>estabas m\u00e1s que feliz de haberte encontrado por fin con un hombre que te quer\u00eda toda para \u00e9l; <\/b>a man who was ready to do everything in his power to keep you by his side and who wasn\u2019t ready to give up on you just like that.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all those guys who couldn\u2019t make up their minds about you and refused to <\/span>ponga una etiqueta a su relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>...fuiste derribado por el hombre que estaba orgulloso de llamarte suyo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Incluso cuando empez\u00f3 a tratarte como si fueras de su propiedad, te gust\u00f3 ese sentimiento de pertenencia que nunca antes hab\u00edas experimentado.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all those guys who didn\u2019t give a damn whether you were seeing other people as long as you were always available to them, <\/span>estabas encantada de encontrar a un hombre que actuaba como si fuera a morir si pon\u00edas tus ojos en otro macho.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ve\u00edas sus celos como una prueba de su profundo amor y como una forma de demostrarte lo asustado que estaba de perderte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Incluso cuando empez\u00f3 a pedirte que cortaras todos los lazos con todos tus amigos hombres y compa\u00f1eros de trabajo, incluso cuando te pidi\u00f3 que borraras todos tus perfiles en las redes sociales e incluso cuando empez\u00f3 a hacer escenas cuando hablabas con otro hombre, <\/span>you didn\u2019t see it as a <\/b>peligrosamente posesivo<\/b><\/a> comportamiento<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Lonely<\/p>\n

Instead, deep down, you were actually honored by the fact that he was clearly so crazy over you and that he wouldn\u2019t stand sharing your heart and thoughts with anyone else.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all those guys who weren\u2019t interested in your life, you didn\u2019t mind him talking trash about your closest friends.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensaste que s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda distanciarte de su mal impacto en lugar de verlo como su forma de aislarte del resto del mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todos esos tipos que te dieron migajas de su atenci\u00f3n, <\/span>estabas encantada de encontrar a un hombre que estaba completamente centrado en ti<\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even when he started calling you every fifteen minutes, even when he started showing up at your doorstep unannounced, and even when he wasn\u2019t allowing you to spend a second of your free time without him, <\/span>you didn\u2019t see it as a red flag<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see it as his way of caging you and limiting you. Instead, you couldn\u2019t believe that you were so lucky to run into a man who was so in love with you that he didn\u2019t want to spend a moment apart.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todos esos tipos que se mostraron completamente indiferentes hacia ti y nunca se preocuparon por el futuro de vuestra relaci\u00f3n, te sorprendi\u00f3 un hombre que luch\u00f3 por ella, aunque eso significara pelearse contigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see all the arguments he provoked as a sign of violence\u2014you saw them as his way of improving your relationship, working on your issues.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see the insults he kept telling you as his attempts to put you down\u2014you saw them as his way of inspiring you to become better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todos esos chicos que nunca te dejaron entrar en sus corazones, fue f\u00e1cil para ti cegarte y confundir el abuso con el amor.<\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, the truth is that you enjoyed this man\u2019s sick behavior at first\u2014<\/span>hasta que fue demasiado para ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Te hizo sentir especial y \u00fanica, y en lugar de huir para salvar tu vida, te sentiste halagada y convencida de que te hab\u00eda tocado la loter\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hasta que te diste cuenta de la horrible verdad: nada de esto fue nunca amor<\/b>\u2014<\/span>era <\/b>abuso emocional<\/b><\/a> todo el tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Y de alguna manera, te las arreglaste para mezclar las dos cosas.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter that he never actually hit you<\/b>\u2014<\/span>era controlador, posesivo y t\u00f3xico y lo m\u00e1s importante, abusivo. Pero nunca te quiso de verdad.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even if you still don\u2019t see it, I promise you that one day, you will. <\/span><\/p>\n

Once true love enters your life, you\u2019ll see the difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you experience a healthy relationship which is based on mutual respect and trust, you\u2019ll see that this man never truly cared for you because this is not the way you treat the people you care for.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you first met this man, you were enchanted by his undying love for you. Or at least, something you saw as love but was never near that. Let\u2019s be honest\u2014at first, you were more than happy that you finally ran into a man who wanted you all for himself; a man who was ready…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":47452,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47447","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_344500055.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47447","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47447"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47447\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47452"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47447"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47447"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47447"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}