{"id":47530,"date":"2019-11-14T17:34:58","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T17:34:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47530"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:44:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:44:57","slug":"estas-con-el-por-razones-toxicas-5-maneras-de-averiguarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estas-con-el-por-razones-toxicas-5-maneras-de-averiguarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfEst\u00e1s con \u00e9l por razones t\u00f3xicas? 5 maneras de averiguarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 que estar en una relaci\u00f3n supera ser soltero<\/a> cualquier d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfmerece realmente la pena aguantar por todas las razones equivocadas, incluso t\u00f3xicas?<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n debe ser enriquecedora, tranquilizadora y reconfortante.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00eda ser tu lugar seguro, una forma de esconderte de los problemas que te molestan.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n debe ser algo que te motive a superar los d\u00edas de mierda porque al final puedes ver a tu persona favorita.<\/p>\n

It shouldn\u2019t be about just not being alone.<\/p>\n

It shouldn\u2019t be about being able to tell people you\u2019re with someone.<\/p>\n

Those are all the wrong reasons and you\u2019ll never find happiness that way.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

What you need is someone who\u2019ll make you feel like you\u2019re walking on clouds.<\/p>\n

Someone who\u2019ll make you see why it never worked out with anyone else.<\/p>\n

No alguien s\u00f3lo para llenar un lugar vac\u00edo en tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/a><\/p>\n

Por favor, ten cuidado con la gente en la que inviertes tu tiempo.<\/p>\n

No todo el mundo es tan amable como parece.<\/p>\n

No todo el mundo merece tu amor.<\/p>\n

Are you in a relationship because you can\u2019t fathom a day without him or are these 5 toxic reasons keeping you attached?<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you feel like your ship has sailed<\/h2>\n

\"triste<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t any good, kind, and available men out there anymore, so you took what you could get.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not a bad guy, but you don\u2019t feel that everlasting love with him.<\/p>\n

You keep trying to convince yourself that you\u2019ll get there, the feelings will appear, and it\u2019ll end up being your ultimate love story, but deep down you know it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not the love of your life.<\/p>\n

Sientes que tus opciones son limitadas y te conformaste con un tipo aceptable.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a decent option, but he\u2019s not someone you\u2019d go to the ends of the earth for.<\/p>\n

He may be sweet and he may be kind, but if he doesn\u2019t make your heart skip a beat, he\u2019s not the one.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you\u2019ve been hurt way too many times to look for someone better<\/h2>\n

El dolor por el que pasaste y las experiencias que tuviste con otros chicos dejaron un gran impacto en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Now you\u2019re too scared to look for someone who\u2019ll make you the happiest you could ever be.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY si vuelve a ocurrir?<\/p>\n

\u00bfY si acabas destrozado como tantas otras veces?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a risk you\u2019re not willing to take.<\/p>\n

This guy is not someone who\u2019d herirte<\/a>; he\u2019s proved it multiple times.<\/p>\n

So you\u2019ll stick it out because you feel it\u2019s better than finding an overwhelming love story and being broken again.<\/p>\n

You desperately wish you felt as strongly as he seems to feel for you\u2026 but you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a nice dude and he treats you right, so you\u2019ll stay to protect your heart from further pain.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you were the last one in your circle to find a man<\/h2>\n

\"matrimonio<\/p>\n

Ser la \u00fanica soltera en tu c\u00edrculo social te pas\u00f3 factura.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s no fun being the only one without Saturday night plans once they all go off with their boyfriends.<\/p>\n

Being single does have its perks, but you can\u2019t enjoy it if all your girls are happily taken and you\u2019re left there alone, watching Netflix and wishing a man was there with you.<\/p>\n

You had to find someone, even if it wasn\u2019t a love for the ages.<\/p>\n

A cierta edad, uno deja de ser exigente y rebaja sus criterios.<\/p>\n

So now you\u2019re taken, but it\u2019s not a love story you\u2019ll be telling your grandkids about.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not the guy you see a future with.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s good for now, but deep down you know that your one is still out there somewhere.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you needed to forget about your ex<\/h2>\n

You had a shitty breakup and you just couldn\u2019t stand the thought of him anymore.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00f3 un hueco en tu coraz\u00f3n y necesitabas llenarlo con alguien.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what this guy is.<\/p>\n

Un sustituto de un ex que necesitas desesperadamente alejar de tu mente.<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s wrong and you know you\u2019re going to end up hurting him and yourself in the process.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s only a matter of time before it happens.<\/p>\n

Pero de alguna manera, hace que sea un poco m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil olvidarse de tu ex<\/a> si tienes a otro hombre a tu lado.<\/p>\n

You know he\u2019s not your forever, but you\u2019ll stay for as long as he serves his purpose.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you need someone to flaunt on your Instagram<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You just need people to see you\u2019re “happily” taken.<\/p>\n

Even though you know it\u2019s not real happiness, it\u2019s more important to you to keep people fooled than to actually be happy.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que sigue con tu treta.<\/p>\n

No paras de presumir de \u00e9l en las redes sociales y la gente no para de darle a me gusta en vuestras fotos de enamorados.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re selling them something that\u2019s not real and sooner or later your lie is going to catch up with you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize how miserable you are by basically faking your life and people will start noticing you\u2019re not as happy as your photos seem to show.<\/p>\n

Antes de que te hagas a\u00fan m\u00e1s da\u00f1o, deja de guardar falsas apariencias y empieza a cuidarte mejor.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo cuando te des cuenta de lo err\u00f3nea que es esta falsa relaci\u00f3n, \u00a1te dar\u00e1s la oportunidad de publicar sobre alguien que realmente te haga feliz!<\/p>\n

\"\u00bfEst\u00e1s<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know that being in a relationship trumps being single any day. But is it really worth it sticking it out for all the wrong, even toxic reasons? A relationship should be nurturing, calming, and reassuring. It should be your safe place, a way to hide from the problems that are bothering you. A relationship…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":47545,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47530","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_36041066921.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47530","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47530"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47530\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47530"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47530"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47530"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}