{"id":47564,"date":"2019-11-14T17:55:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T17:55:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47564"},"modified":"2022-01-24T22:16:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T22:16:16","slug":"6-razones-por-las-que-tu-ex-probablemente-no-es-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-por-las-que-tu-ex-probablemente-no-es-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"6 razones por las que tu ex probablemente no sea un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

El narcisismo se ha hecho muy popular en los \u00faltimos a\u00f1os. Antes, nadie fuera de la psicolog\u00eda sab\u00eda siquiera que exist\u00eda este trastorno de la personalidad. <\/span>
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

Hoy en d\u00eda, todos sabemos todo sobre los rasgos narcisistas, lo que hacen los narcisistas y por qu\u00e9 lo hacen. En resumen, todos nos hemos convertido en expertos en la materia. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that we shouldn\u2019t be aware of the existence of people suffering from this disorder, especially if they are surrounding us and influencing our lives. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, sinceramente, \u00bfsabes qu\u00e9 posibilidades hay de que eso ocurra?<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you, the chances are very slim. I know I might be a bit harsh now, but isn\u2019t it possible that you\u2019re trying to play the blame game with your ex by accusing him of everything that went wrong?<\/span><\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you look inside yourself and be honest with yourself? You don\u2019t have to do it with me or even your friend, but be honest with yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t there at least one ounce of blame you are responsible for?<\/span><\/p>\n

A lot of people go online in search of the reason why their relationship has ended. It would be the same if you went googling symptoms of your current health \u2013 it always ends up with the worst possible diagnosis. <\/span><\/p>\n

According to Google, you should\u2019ve already been dead.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same when you Google alleged symptoms of your alleged novio narcisista<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find your boyfriend in every article written on the internet. You\u2019ll blame him for everything he\u2019s done to you. He\u2019ll even become a \u201c<\/span>narcisista disfrazado<\/span><\/a>.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

El narcisismo se ha hecho popular hoy en d\u00eda. <\/b><\/p>\n

Pero, cr\u00e9eme, las posibilidades de que tu novio sea un narcisista son casi nulas.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, you can\u2019t go around deciding who is a narcissist and who isn\u2019t without a trained psychologist examining the person accused of suffering from that personality disorder. <\/span><\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan algunas investigaciones, el 1 por ciento de la poblaci\u00f3n humana ha sido seriamente diagnosticada con el trastorno narcisista. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que es mucho m\u00e1s probable que tu supuesto novio narcisista sea un imb\u00e9cil manipulador que un verdadero narcisista. O el caso no es tan grave como lo presentas. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, aqu\u00ed tienes las se\u00f1ales que hundir\u00e1n definitivamente tus teor\u00edas y demostrar\u00e1n que, efectivamente, no es un narcisista: <\/span><\/p>\n

1. What in fact if he\u2019s really not a narcissist?<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Then you end up to be the crazy one. Don\u2019t make false assumptions without solid proof. <\/span><\/p>\n

En este caso, esa prueba es una evaluaci\u00f3n psiqui\u00e1trica. Si te fijas, todos tenemos ese lado narcisista. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all sometimes want to get revenge, we want to look sophisticated, and we\u2019re definitely at least sometimes seeking attention.  <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>Todos queremos ciertas cosas y nadie es ajeno a la manipulaci\u00f3n para conseguir lo que quiere. \u00bfComo si t\u00fa nunca hubieras manipulado a nadie? \u00a1S\u00e9 sincero contigo mismo! <\/span><\/p>\n

Pi\u00e9nsalo, si empiezas a acusar a la gente de cosas horribles, primero tienes que tener pruebas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019ll look like the insane one. So to avoid hurting yourself, don\u2019t jump to conclusions. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s statistically impossible<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Internet est\u00e1 lleno de art\u00edculos sobre novios narcisistas, c\u00f3mo reconocer a un narcisista y c\u00f3mo curarse de haber sido destrozado por un narcisista. <\/span><\/p>\n

While this is all useful information, statistically, the numbers don\u2019t add up. It\u2019s impossible to have that many people suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Acusar a alguien de haber obrado mal es tentador<\/h2>\n

\"Concentrada<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really tempting putting guilt on a person who has hurt you. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s very easy to give in to the emotions of revenge and hatred without thinking about what your part is in the deal. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>So, what most of us do is we  blame someone else completely for everything that\u2019s happened. <\/span><\/p>\n

That way it\u2019s so much easier to live and come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over. <\/span><\/p>\n

Rara vez alguien asume realmente la responsabilidad de sus propios errores. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. El narcisismo no es blanco o negro<\/h2>\n

\"Seguro<\/p>\n

Todos poseemos ciertas caracter\u00edsticas narcisistas. La cuesti\u00f3n es qui\u00e9n est\u00e1 m\u00e1s lejos en el espectro del narcisismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

In other words, it\u2019s important to know who\u2019s bad enough to be a narcissist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nadie es del todo bueno o del todo malo. Todos somos una mezcla de ambas cosas. Lo que importa al final es lo que t\u00fa decidas hacer y lo que te diga tu conciencia.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. El NPD se ha considerado intratable<\/h2>\n

\"Guapo<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the perfect excuse for you. Once again, we get back to you and your lack of responsibility for your own mistakes. <\/span><\/p>\n

By saying the person who hurt you is beyond help, that\u2019s a perfect excuse for not even trying and, of course, making yourself look blameless. <\/span>
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Los emp\u00e1ticos atraen a los narcisistas<\/h2>\n

\"Sexy<\/p>\n

Es el \u00faltimo recurso para, una vez m\u00e1s, evitar asumir responsabilidades. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, but there are indeed women out there who label themselves as empaths, which automatically means they are narcissist\u2019s potential victims.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto las absuelve de toda culpa. Por otro lado, fingir ser una emp\u00e1tica en serio lo hace a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil para las mujeres que realmente son as\u00ed. Tambi\u00e9n hace que sea m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil para las mujeres que de hecho han estado en una relaci\u00f3n con un narcisista.    <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n

If your ex really turns out to be a narcissist \u2013 because as I\u2019ve already said, it\u2019s possible, they do exist \u2013 by talking about them, you\u2019re only giving them attention. That is exactly what narcissists need to feed their ego and continue acting the way they do. <\/span><\/p>\n

La atenci\u00f3n es como el aire que respiran. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>Lo m\u00e1s inteligente que puedes hacer es privarles de esa atenci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deja de hablar de ellos y haz que sean lo m\u00e1s insignificantes posible. Esa es la \u00fanica <\/span>c\u00f3mo liberarse de un narcisista <\/span><\/a>y dejar de ser su suministro. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>As\u00ed es como se sobrevive a un verdadero narcisista.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Narcissism has become so popular in the last few years. Before, no one outside psychology even knew that this personality disorder even existed. Today, we all know everything about narcissistic traits, what narcissists do, and why they do it. In short, we\u2019ve all become experts on the subject. I\u2019m not saying that we shouldn\u2019t be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":47572,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105312263.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47564"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47564\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}