{"id":47575,"date":"2019-11-14T18:10:58","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T18:10:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47575"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:42:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:42:11","slug":"5-formas-en-las-que-un-hombre-toxico-te-hace-volver-a-por-mas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-formas-en-las-que-un-hombre-toxico-te-hace-volver-a-por-mas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneras en las que un hombre t\u00f3xico te hace volver a por m\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando alguien se encuentra en una situaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica o <\/span>relaci\u00f3n abusiva<\/span><\/a>, the first question that goes through everyone\u2019s mind is why they don\u2019t just leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfqui\u00e9n en su sano juicio elegir\u00eda conscientemente permanecer en una relaci\u00f3n malsana que sigue rompi\u00e9ndole el coraz\u00f3n y destruyendo su vida?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the fact is that things aren\u2019t as simple as they appear at first because toxic people have a way of dragging their victims back to an endless circle of emotional violence and toxicity.<\/span><\/p>\n

Utilizan diferentes estrategias de manipulaci\u00f3n para dejarte siempre con ganas de m\u00e1s y \u00e9stas son las m\u00e1s comunes. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Es incoherente<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

La raz\u00f3n principal por la que sigues volviendo con un chico t\u00f3xico es su inconsistencia. Ver\u00e1s, este tipo de persona rara vez muestra su verdadera cara desde el principio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, they usually pretend to be something they\u2019re not until you fall in love with them. And the same goes for this guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay d\u00edas en los que es el mejor hombre del mundo. <\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00edas en los que no para de recordarte c\u00f3mo se sienten las mariposas y d\u00edas en los que te sientes la mujer m\u00e1s feliz del mundo s\u00f3lo por tenerle a tu lado.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, there are also moments in which he turns into a monster and moments when you can\u2019t recognize him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y, por desgracia, las situaciones en las que su toxicidad sale a la superficie se producen cada vez con m\u00e1s frecuencia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por eso, siempre te deja volviendo a por m\u00e1s, simplemente porque esperas recuperar al hombre del principio de la historia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sigues minti\u00e9ndote a ti mismo dici\u00e9ndote que su lado malvado es s\u00f3lo una fase y sigues esperando que el <\/span>buen chico<\/span><\/a> reaparecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He convinces you that you\u2019re not enough<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

Another strategy toxic men use to keep their victims wanting more is telling them that they\u2019re not enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo consigui\u00f3 convencerte de que no vales nada y de que nada de lo que haces est\u00e1 bien.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, inconscientemente, sigues recurriendo a \u00e9l e intentas demostrarle que se equivoca. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quieres que vea tu verdadero valor y que deje de considerarte inmadura y buena para nada.<\/span><\/p>\n

Without being aware of it, you\u2019re actually in the constant search of his approval, which you\u2019ll never get. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want him to realize that you\u2019re enough because you think that is the only way in which you\u2019ll regain a sense of your own self-worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. He makes you think you\u2019re unlovable<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

A toxic man won\u2019t only convince you that <\/span>you\u2019re not enough<\/span><\/a>\u2014he will also make you believe that you\u2019re unlovable. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will persuade you that he is the only guy who could ever be with you and that all other men out there would only use your body and throw you away after they\u2019re done with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, le agradeces que haya aceptado estar contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You think yourself lucky to have him, despite all the awful treatment he\u2019s putting you through.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, you don\u2019t even think of replacing him with someone else because you think no other man could ever love you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even when you try finding someone else, you doubt his intentions and you constantly hear this guy\u2019s warning voice in the back of your head, telling you that you\u2019ll end up ridiculed and heartbroken.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is exactly what he wants\u2014to keep you by his side and to have you always going back to him.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Te a\u00edsla del resto del mundo<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Todos los hombres t\u00f3xicos tienen algo en com\u00fan: hacen todo lo posible por aislar a sus v\u00edctimas de sus seres queridos. <\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, your friends are not good for you and even your family members don\u2019t mean you well.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al principio, piensas que este tipo intenta protegerte de las personas malvadas de tu vida, sin ser consciente de que \u00e9l es el malo de la pel\u00edcula. <\/span><\/p>\n

No te das cuenta de que en realidad est\u00e1 haciendo todo esto para alejarte de todos los que podr\u00edan abrirte los ojos y revelarte la verdad sobre \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, haci\u00e9ndote cortar lazos con todos los que te rodean, tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 haciendo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil que le dejes. <\/span><\/p>\n

De este modo, incluso cuando pienses en marcharte, recordar\u00e1s que no tienes ad\u00f3nde ir.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost all the people you could rely on, the people who could help you get back on your feet and the people who could support you when turning a new page. So you stay right there where you are, without a chance to make a difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. He\u2019s made you dependent on him<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Una de las cosas m\u00e1s importantes para las personas t\u00f3xicas es hacer que sus v\u00edctimas dependan de ellas. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you\u2019re struggling with financial or <\/span>dependencia emocional<\/span><\/a>\u2014the point is the same; it is a toxic man\u2019s way of caging you.<\/span><\/p>\n

He is the one who knows what\u2019s best for you. He is the one whose advice you should listen to and even when he is insulting you, he is doing it for your own good.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de que te deval\u00fae, piensas que es mucho mejor que t\u00fa. <\/span><\/p>\n

You believe him when he tells you that you\u2019re incapable of achieving anything without him and that you couldn\u2019t go through life without his hand to guide you.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, even when you try walking away from this relationship, you keep on going back because you\u2019re scared that you won\u2019t make it on your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

This guy is your comfort zone and you\u2019re too afraid to step out of it.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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