{"id":47721,"date":"2020-08-15T16:48:28","date_gmt":"2020-08-15T16:48:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47721"},"modified":"2021-10-29T14:21:10","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T14:21:10","slug":"el-tiempo-cura-todas-las-heridas-o-realmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-tiempo-cura-todas-las-heridas-o-realmente\/","title":{"rendered":"El tiempo lo cura todo (\u00bfo no?)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Whenever you’re going through a painful situation and experience something that will definitely leave a permanent stretch mark on your coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> y alma, probablemente escuches algunas frases t\u00edpicas de tu familia, tus mejores amigos y todos los que te rodean.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you are going through some mental health problems, have lost a loved one,  didn\u2019t succeed in your lifelong dream, have lost your best friend or life partner, or in the middle of a heartache or family emergency, the fact is that most people use similar clich\u00e9s to comfort you.<\/p>\n

Te dicen cosas que suponen que quieres o\u00edr.<\/p>\n

Que un d\u00eda tu desamor<\/a> will be a part of the past, that you’ll manage to overcome your emotional pain, that those difficult times will go away, and that the bad emotions won’t get the best of you. <\/p>\n

They tell you that everything will be better and the good times will come (even in situations where the light at the end of the tunnel cannot be seen), that you\u2019ll be stronger (even when all you want is to give up), that everything will eventually go away (even when you\u2019re convinced that this overwhelming pain will consume you forever), that everything happens for a reason and a greater cause (even when there is obviously nothing good in this evil that life threw at you), that one day you\u2019ll laugh at all of this (even when you\u2019re struggling to not start crying at this exact moment) and that you\u2019ll eventually learn a valuable lesson from this heartbreak (even when you have no desire to be taught any lessons).<\/p>\n

Of course, people are telling you all of this simply because they don\u2019t know better.<\/p>\n

They see that you\u2019re a wreck, but can\u2019t do anything concrete to help you fix your emotional wounds \u2013 which sometimes hurt the same as physical wounds \u2013 so they say these seemingly empty phrases because that\u2019s the only choice they have left.<\/p>\n

However, sadly, in most times, all of these clich\u00e9s often have a completely counterproductive impact on the person hurting, albeit said with the best intentions and  that everyone telling you these things is well-meaning.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

When you hear them, you get annoyed because you\u2019re pretty much sure that the person doesn\u2019t mean it.<\/p>\n

You get frustrated when people who haven\u2019t walked a mile in your shoes try to convince you that your hardships are not such a big deal.<\/p>\n

Not only that, you also feel pressured, as if they\u2019re telling you to hurry up with this recovery and giving you some kind of a deadline by which it would be socially acceptable for you to get over whatever\u2019s bothering you and for your heartache to be gone.<\/p>\n

Yes, there are numerous clich\u00e9s you hear from well-meaning people when you\u2019re going through a difficult time and trying to heal from emotional wounds.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, \u201ctime heals everything\u201d is the most common one, without doubt and without competition.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfrealmente cura el paso del tiempo? \u00bfTiene el tiempo la capacidad de hacerte sentir mejor?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTrae buenos momentos y consigue curar las heridas?<\/p>\n

\u00bfBasta con dejar pasar un tiempo y que haga su magia? \u00bfO no es m\u00e1s que ret\u00f3rica vac\u00eda?<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re here to find out.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEl tiempo lo cura todo? <\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque muchos est\u00e1n de acuerdo con esta teor\u00eda, son a\u00fan m\u00e1s los que piensan lo contrario.<\/p>\n

Namely, the truth is that time doesn\u2019t have a magic wand that will make all of your problems disappear.<\/p>\n

Yes, when you suffer from a broken heart or when something even more devastating happens to you, you probably won’t spend your entire life crying over it and suffering with the same intensity. <\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, cuando su muere un ser querido<\/a>...al principio, sientes que tu vida tambi\u00e9n ha terminado.<\/p>\n

You feel like you can\u2019t breathe and as if this pain will always consume you with the same severity.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, parece que el dolor empieza a desaparecer. Al cabo de un rato, se transforma en una especie de entumecimiento.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, esta p\u00e9rdida sigue doli\u00e9ndote cada d\u00eda, pero de alg\u00fan modo, tras mucho esfuerzo, aprendes a desenvolverte en el mundo real.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, you wake up every day, go to work, eat, engage with other people, start to sleep better, return to your old hobbies and interests\u2026<\/p>\n

Por fin, un d\u00eda, te sorprendes a ti mismo sonriendo o incluso ri\u00e9ndote de alguna cosa al azar.<\/p>\n

You catch yourself waking up in the middle of the night, without feeling like you\u2019re covered in physical wounds, as if there\u2019s a huge, sharp knife stabbed in your stomach.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, b\u00e1sicamente, la vida sigui\u00f3, por mucho que probablemente intentaras luchar inconscientemente contra ella. Seguiste viviendo y existiendo y las buenas emociones se impusieron.<\/p>\n

You survived. It seems that you\u2019ve continu\u00f3<\/a> y superado todo.<\/p>\n

However, does that mean that you\u2019re fully recovered? Does that mean that your heart has healed, just because you don’t have trouble getting out of bed every single day?<\/p>\n

\u00bfO simplemente te has insensibilizado? \u00bfDej\u00f3 de existir el dolor o simplemente aprendiste a vivir con \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that, in these case scenarios, you\u2019re never fully healed, no matter how much time has passed.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, le sigue doliendo cada vez que piensa en su p\u00e9rdida o en su desamor.<\/p>\n

So, no, the emotional pain doesn\u2019t go away, you just learn to live with it. You get used to your scars and they become an inerasable part of you.<\/p>\n

El dolor ya no es lo \u00fanico que sientes y definitivamente deja de definirte, pero sin duda sigue estando presente.<\/p>\n

Simplemente aprendes a sobrellevarlo, silenciarlo e ignorarlo.<\/p>\n

Even when you do feel better, it is not time\u2019s work. Even when you heal, it\u2019s not time that gets the credit, you\u2019re the one who does it.<\/p>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

Tal vez aprendas alguna lecci\u00f3n valiosa; tal vez la vida ocurra.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you understand that everything happens for a reason or you grow as a person who is now capable of handling everything bad she\u2019s experienced.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 profundices a\u00fan m\u00e1s heridas emocionales<\/a>...as\u00ed que los del pasado se vuelven tontos.<\/p>\n

It could be that you\u2019ve become stronger and braver or  you\u2019ve thought things through and realized they\u2019re not worthy of your tears.<\/p>\n

However, you were the one who took the initiative. Yes, time might have helped you in the process, but you\u2019re the deserving one.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who took your entire life in your own hands and did all the work your own way, with time as your ally.<\/p>\n

El que salv\u00f3 tu salud mental, el que se dio cuenta de que dejarse llevar<\/a> is the only option you have, who accepted the things you couldn\u2019t change, who decided to rise above the pain.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, s\u00ed, el tiempo puede servirle como un analg\u00e9sico eficaz.<\/p>\n

The passage of time might serve you as an assistant in healing wounds and it will surely be your best friend while you’re trying to recover. <\/p>\n

Pero nunca es el sanador definitivo. <\/p>\n

El tiempo cura todas las heridas Significado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando alguien dice que el tiempo lo cura todo, significa literalmente que el tiempo borra el dolor.<\/p>\n

Significa que a veces, est\u00e1s sufriendo y pasando por un proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/a> at the same time \u2013 that you are actually doing better with each day that passes, usually without even being aware of it while it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n

It means that no matter the pain you\u2019re feeling, the grief that\u2019s consuming you, and the hardship you\u2019ve been through, things will eventually be okay \u2013 you just need to give it some time. Time for the healing process to take its course.<\/p>\n

Tiempo para que te des cuenta de que dejar ir es algo que tienes que hacer. Deja tiempo para que las emociones negativas se desvanezcan, para que tus heridas emocionales se conviertan en tejido cicatricial y para que esas cicatrices desaparezcan por completo.<\/p>\n

In fact, what you have to do is give yourself some time \u2013 to process things, accept them, forgive, get over something or someone, forget, and move on.<\/p>\n

This phrase is telling you that nothing happens overnight. That physical, mental, and emotional recovery is a healing process that lasts and you can\u2019t force it.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t apply to sorrow and sadness only.<\/p>\n

Cuando pasa el tiempo, tambi\u00e9n se quita la rabia y el resentimiento, se eliminan algunos problemas de confianza o traumas de abandono<\/a> que puedas tener.<\/p>\n

Este dicho intenta darte la esperanza de que nada es permanente.<\/p>\n

Hope that you definitely won\u2019t be feeling this way \u2013 that time will fix you, if nothing else does.<\/p>\n

So, basically, whatever you\u2019re experiencing, the bottom line is that it will go away.<\/p>\n

Por muy optimista que esto pueda sonar cuando se trata de las cosas malas, tambi\u00e9n es bastante deprimente cuando se trata de emociones y estados positivos porque, seg\u00fan esta l\u00f3gica, tambi\u00e9n desaparecer\u00e1n, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

El tiempo cura todas las heridas Origen<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Mires donde mires, ves a alguien con un el tiempo lo cura todo <\/i>tattoo, quote, bumper sticker, social media post\u2026<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cabe preguntarse qui\u00e9n dijo primero que el tiempo cura todas las heridas. \u00bfCu\u00e1l es el origen y el trasfondo hist\u00f3rico de esta frase?<\/p>\n

Pues bien, aunque no hay datos exactos al respecto, existen algunas suposiciones sobre qui\u00e9n fue el primero que pronunci\u00f3 esta famosa frase y c\u00f3mo se convirti\u00f3 en un proverbio en muchos idiomas de todo el mundo.<\/p>\n

According to some sources, Glenn McCormick was the name of the man who once said \u201cGod heals all wounds.<\/p>\n

\u201d Nevertheless, after a while, the word Dios<\/i> fue sustituido por tiempo <\/i>and that is how we got today\u2019s form of this sentence.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, algo optimista y positivo como esto atra\u00eda a las masas. Les daba fe en un ma\u00f1ana mejor y fuerzas para seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

It was a silver lining to many people\u2019s cloud, so it\u2019s no wonder this phrase not only stuck in many cultures, but also became so powerful and common.<\/p>\n

El tiempo cura todas las heridas Biblia<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La noci\u00f3n de que cuando el tiempo pasa, se convierte en sanador, est\u00e1 presente en muchas religiones y especialmente en el cristianismo.<\/p>\n

Aunque la Biblia nunca dice expl\u00edcitamente esta frase exacta, ciertamente aconseja paciencia y da esperanza.<\/p>\n

For example, in the words of the Psalm 147:3: \u201cHe heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.\u201d<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed se da a entender que es Dios quien cura todas las heridas, en lugar del propio tiempo.<\/p>\n

Also, in Jeremiah 33:6, it is said: \u201cBehold, I will bring it to health and healing, and I will hear them and reveal to them abundance of prosperity and security.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sin duda, la palabra m\u00e1s importante de esta frase es ESPERAD, que b\u00e1sicamente est\u00e1 diciendo a los creyentes que no esperen que se produzca un milagro de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana.<\/p>\n

So, based on all of this, one can conclude that time alone doesn\u2019t have the necessary power to cure the believers and that time does not heal you. Instead, Jesus Christ sometimes needs time to save them because, according to the Bible, he is the only real healer.<\/p>\n

El tiempo cura todas las heridas Citas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Existen numerosos citas profundas e inspiradoras<\/a> en el tiempo lo cura todo<\/i>. <\/i>He aqu\u00ed algunos de los m\u00e1s motivadores:<\/p>\n

Dicen que el tiempo lo cura todo<\/i>. D\u00e9jame decirte que el tiempo no cura nada. <\/i><\/p>\n

You can do the wrong thing for 10 years and it doesn’t equal the right thing for one day. \u2013 <\/i>Phil Mcgraw<\/p>\n

Se ha dicho que el tiempo lo cura todo. No estoy de acuerdo. Las heridas permanecen. <\/i><\/p>\n

Con el tiempo, la mente, protegiendo su cordura, los cubre con <\/i>tejido cicatricial<\/i> and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. \u2013 <\/i>Rose Kennedy<\/p>\n

El tiempo cura las penas y las rencillas, porque cambiamos y ya no somos las mismas personas. <\/i><\/p>\n

Neither the offender nor the offended are any more themselves. \u2013 <\/i>Blaise Pascal<\/p>\n

El tiempo cura las heridas, pero no las borra. <\/i>las cicatrices<\/i><\/a>. \u2013 <\/i>Jane Yolen<\/p>\n

I’ve learned\u2026 That love, not time, heals all wounds. \u2013 <\/i>Andy Rooney<\/p>\n

Who said that time heals all wounds? It would be better to say that time heals everything \u2013 except wounds. With time, the hurt of separation loses its real limits. <\/i><\/p>\n

With time, the desired body will soon disappear, and if the desiring body has already ceased to exist for the other, then what remains is a wound, disembodied. \u2013 <\/i>Chris Marker<\/p>\n

The defects and faults of the mind are like wounds in the body; after all imaginable care has been taken to heal them up, still there will be a scar left behind, and they are in continual danger of breaking the skin and bursting out again. \u2013 <\/i>Fran\u00e7ois de La Rochefoucauld<\/p>\n

El tiempo no cura<\/i> all wounds. It just puts more space between the times you remember the events that gave you those wounds\u2026 There are some hurts that never stop hurting no matter how faded are <\/i>las cicatrices<\/i>.<\/i> \u2013 Charles Watson<\/p>\n

Time doesn\u2019t, as advertised, heal wounds. Although the wrenching immediacy of grief eventually passed, the settled sorrow that replaced it might in its <\/i>a su manera<\/i> ser a\u00fan m\u00e1s intenso.<\/i> \u2013 Dean Koontz<\/p>\n

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