{"id":47857,"date":"2019-11-18T22:50:40","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T22:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47857"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:18:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:18:05","slug":"10-importantes-lecciones-que-tu-casi-relacion-puede-ensenarte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-importantes-lecciones-que-tu-casi-relacion-puede-ensenarte\/","title":{"rendered":"10 lecciones importantes que te puede ense\u00f1ar tu relaci\u00f3n casi amorosa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Even if he wasn\u2019t the right one, the pain will still be there <\/h2>\n

Que tu pareja no fuera la adecuada no significa que no vayas a sufrir.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eras el que quer\u00eda que esto funcionara. Te entregaste en cuerpo y alma a desarrollar s\u00f3lidos fundamentos con el hombre. <\/p>\n

Lo quer\u00edas todo pero no recibiste nada a cambio.<\/p>\n

Eras una chica m\u00e1s a la que enga\u00f1aba con su encanto y sus dulces palabras.<\/p>\n

Y ca\u00edste en la trampa.<\/p>\n

You gave all you had and he couldn\u2019t even commit to you.<\/p>\n

So, when he leaves, don\u2019t wonder why your heart is broken.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely normal that you feel that way. <\/p>\n

But trust me, what doesn\u2019t kill you makes you stronger.<\/p>\n

Maybe you feel bad now, but you\u2019ll soon be so happy that you got rid of someone who could never love you the way you deserve.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t make you feel good, you\u2019re allowed to leave <\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Permanecer en una casi relaci\u00f3n es como aferrarse a algo que no es real.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo conseguir\u00e1s que te rompan a\u00fan m\u00e1s el coraz\u00f3n y acabar\u00e1s deprimido. <\/p>\n

No man should ever make you feel like you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n

Y si hay alguien que te hace sentir as\u00ed, olv\u00eddate de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never be the man of your dreams. <\/p>\n

Nunca podr\u00eda darte el amor que mereces.<\/p>\n

And what\u2019s most important: nunca podr\u00eda ponerte en primer lugar<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should leave whenever you feel unappreciated.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re ready to invest it all to be happy with him and he doesn\u2019t feel the same way, just leave.<\/p>\n

If he cared enough, he\u2019d pursue you.<\/p>\n

But since he\u2019s not giving you what you want, it is better to end it before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, nadie te culpar\u00e1 por elegir perseguir tu felicidad. <\/p>\n

Te mereces un cierre<\/h2>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

Conseguir el cierre no es algo por lo que debas mendigar.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s something that should happen naturally.<\/p>\n

One of the characteristics of almost relationships is not getting closure because the one who loves less thinks he doesn\u2019t have to justify himself. <\/p>\n

So you end up with all your feelings and you don\u2019t know where to put them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re confused because you didn\u2019t see the red flags and now it\u2019s suddenly all over.<\/p>\n

Puede ser bastante duro.<\/p>\n

But even if he doesn\u2019t give you any closure, just move on and be happy that you\u2019re free to do what you want. <\/p>\n

Te has salvado a tiempo y ahora puedes empezar un nuevo cap\u00edtulo de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Puedes enamorarte de alguien que sabe amar.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change anyone<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No matter how much you try, you can\u2019t change someone unless they want to do so.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t even try.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t waste your time and energy on trying to make someone love you. <\/p>\n

Love and friendships shouldn\u2019t be forced.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edan surgir de forma natural.<\/p>\n

Y si ves que no vas a ninguna parte, d\u00e9jalo estar.<\/p>\n

Te doler\u00e1 menos, cr\u00e9eme.<\/p>\n

Lo que tienes que hacer es aceptar que no est\u00e1 destinado a vosotros dos y seguir adelante. <\/p>\n

Once you remove yourself from everything that was breaking you, you\u2019ll see that you did the right thing.<\/p>\n

Y esa sensaci\u00f3n de estar tan orgulloso de ti mismo ser\u00e1 la m\u00e1s dulce de todas.<\/p>\n

El problema no est\u00e1 en ti<\/h2>\n

\"pura<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019ll reach a stage where you believe that the problem lies with you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not true. You are not guilty of falling in love with that jerk. <\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how he\u2019d behave toward you.<\/p>\n

You believed all he said and thought he\u2019d provide you with that fairytale he was talking about.<\/p>\n

You gave him all you had and he didn\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/p>\n

You waited for him to get his shit together but he didn\u2019t change. <\/p>\n

Y no tiene intenci\u00f3n de hacerlo.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t feel bad after you leave him.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll just jump over to another victim and do the same to her.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think you\u2019re the guilty one.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s the one to blame.<\/p>\n

Please don\u2019t you ever forget that.<\/p>\n

El amor ya no significa lo mismo para ti<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

After you get your heart broken, you don\u2019t have the same outlook on love.<\/p>\n

When you escape an almost relationship, you\u2019re so scared that every next man who enters your life will do the same to you. <\/p>\n

Piensa en esto cada vez que alguien llame tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Y entonces huyes del amor siempre.<\/p>\n

And even if you know that you\u2019re not doing the right thing, you\u2019ll be a prisoner of your own mind for so long. <\/p>\n

You think that true love doesn\u2019t exist until you find a man who makes all your doubts go away.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo entonces ser\u00e1s por fin la antigua versi\u00f3n de ti mismo. <\/p>\n

Aprendes a respetarte m\u00e1s a ti mismo <\/h2>\n

After all that you\u2019ve gone through in your almost relationship, you actually learned one thing well: how to respect and love yourself.<\/p>\n

Now you know that if you don\u2019t respect yourself enough, others won\u2019t do it either. <\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what you are proud of currently.<\/p>\n

Te das cuenta de que cualquier hombre malo intentar\u00e1 enga\u00f1arte y aprovecharse de ti si se lo permites.<\/p>\n

Pero como has pasado por el horror de estar con alguien que lo quer\u00eda todo sin darte nada a cambio, ya sabes c\u00f3mo actuar. <\/p>\n

Nunca permitir\u00e1s que ning\u00fan hombre te maltrate o te d\u00e9 por sentada.<\/p>\n

Ahora lo quieres todo o nada.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re staying single<\/a> hasta que consigas lo que realmente mereces. <\/p>\n

Lo superas antes de lo que crees <\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t believe that you\u2019ll get over your almost relationship, but you will.<\/p>\n

De hecho, ocurre antes de lo que crees.<\/p>\n

I know that you are confused now and don\u2019t know how to move on, but you\u2019ll learn to live with it over time. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ll go through different phases and learn new things about yourself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re no longer the same person and the change you went through actually helped you. <\/p>\n

Maybe you didn\u2019t end up with the love of your life, but you learned to get over some things faster.<\/p>\n

You discovered a new strength within yourself and are now so proud of the woman you\u2019ve become. <\/p>\n

You no longer compare your love life with other people\u2019s lives <\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando terminas una relaci\u00f3n casi, aprendes un par de cosas.<\/p>\n

You learn that you shouldn\u2019t compare your love life with other people\u2019s lives. <\/p>\n

You realize that every love story is individual and you can\u2019t expect the same thing to happen to you as to your best friend.<\/p>\n

If you continue doing that, you\u2019ll end up depressed every time someone else gets what you wanted. <\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, hay gente que sabe mentir bien y fingir que todo va bien.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s one more reason to stop trusting all that you see.<\/p>\n

Cuanto antes lo consigas, m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil te resultar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Si alguien te quiere, te perseguir\u00e1 <\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

It is pretty simple. You know if someone loves you if they\u2019re prepared to chase you.<\/p>\n

Punto. Todo lo dem\u00e1s son tonter\u00edas.<\/p>\n

So, when you notice that a man you\u2019re seeing wants boyfriend benefits but doesn\u2019t want to be your boyfriend, just know it\u2019s a red flag. <\/p>\n

If someone truly cares about you, he\u2019ll make some effort.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll try to make you feel good and nothing will be too much for him.<\/p>\n

So, next time someone tries to lead you on just because they\u2019re your weak spot, just move on. <\/p>\n

Cualquier persona que quiera m\u00e1s de lo que da no es lo suficientemente digna para formar parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n

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