{"id":48020,"date":"2019-11-19T20:02:30","date_gmt":"2019-11-19T20:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48020"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:19:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:19:30","slug":"elige-bien-tus-batallas-porque-no-todas-merecen-tus-cicatrices","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/elige-bien-tus-batallas-porque-no-todas-merecen-tus-cicatrices\/","title":{"rendered":"Elige bien tus batallas porque no todas merecen tus cicatrices"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00e9 que eres el tipo de chica que defiende lo que cree.<\/p>\n<p>A girl who can\u2019t keep still while there is injustice going on around her, a girl who is always giving her best to do the right thing and a girl who thinks she can change everyone for the better, if she just tries hard enough.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque tener este tipo de esp\u00edritu es impresionante, tengo que reventar tu burbuja y decirte que aflojes, que seas un poco m\u00e1s realista y que bajes la cabeza de las nubes.<\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019re not a kid anymore and it\u2019s time to realize that you can\u2019t save the world, as much as you\u2019d like to.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to start appreciating your own time and energy and to stop wasting either of them on irrelevant people and situations.<\/p>\n<p>Es hora de elegir qu\u00e9 y qui\u00e9nes merecen tu m\u00e1ximo esfuerzo.<\/p>\n<p><b>You simply have to learn when it\u2019s time to fight and when it\u2019s time to turn your back and <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/las-unicas-5-veces-que-es-excusable-dejar-a-alguien-que-ama-de-verdad\/\"><b>dejar<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Learn when it\u2019s time to tackle a certain issue and when it\u2019s time to embrace it and to accept that you can\u2019t change it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You have to learn that letting go doesn\u2019t equal quitting and that giving up doesn\u2019t necessarily mean you\u2019re weak.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest\u2014for as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been always giving one hundred percent of yourself to every relationship you get involved with.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether we\u2019re talking about romance, friendship, your studies or your work\u2014you go all the way in or you don\u2019t put yourself out there at all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48106\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10394090171.jpg\" alt=\"mujer amada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10394090171.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10394090171-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10394090171-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Enhorabuena porque se trata de un rasgo de personalidad asombroso.<\/p>\n<p>It shows that you\u2019re a persistent girl who doesn\u2019t give up until she gets what she wants and until she achieves her initial goals.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, aunque tu poder de car\u00e1cter es impresionante, este tipo de estilo de vida ha hecho mella en tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/self-love\/girl-power\/a-la-chica-con-el-alma-cansada-es-hora-de-que-te-salves\/\">alma cansada<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Te agotaba y te dejaba sin fuerza interior para ocuparte de las cosas que realmente importan.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re left with negativity and darkness which cannot be chased away as easily.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re left all alone to tackle your own issues, without anyone to give you a hand.<\/p>\n<p><b>Desperdiciaste mucho tiempo y esfuerzo en innumerables relaciones condenadas al fracaso, en numerosas amistades que resultaron ser falsas y en personas que nunca merecieron que movieras un dedo por ellas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Y ahora, no tienes energ\u00eda para luchar contra tus propios demonios y poner en orden tu propia vida.<\/p>\n<p>So instead of acting like everyone\u2019s guardian angel, give yourself a break.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of being so scared of quitting, give yourself the opportunity to change your mind and to let go of those who don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014you can\u2019t win every battle.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this shouldn\u2019t be your goal either.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48107\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6355998441.jpg\" alt=\"linda chica rizada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6355998441.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6355998441-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6355998441-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En su lugar, <b>deber\u00edas centrarte en aprender a elegir sabiamente tus batallas porque no todas son dignas de tus cicatrices. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Most importantly\u2014if you fight each one of them with the same passion and intensity, you\u2019ll be too exhausted to win the ones which really matter.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t allow toxic people to drain your precious energy because when the time comes, you\u2019ll have none left to handle your own issues.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Y tambi\u00e9n hay una cosa que tienes que recordar cuando se trata de ti: no todos los problemas que tienes son el fin del mundo, \u00bfsabes?<\/p>\n<p>No todos los peque\u00f1os inconvenientes que experimentas merecen que te machaques o que permitas que te abrumen por completo y no todas las discusiones en las que te ves envuelto merecen que pierdas la cabeza por ellas.<\/p>\n<p>La gente siempre har\u00e1 cosas que t\u00fa desapruebas.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre tendr\u00e1n perspectivas diferentes en la vida y siempre cometer\u00e1n errores.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, no es tu trabajo mostrarles el camino y llevarles de la mano por el camino, sobre todo si no es algo que desean.<\/p>\n<p>No es tu trabajo tirar de ellos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/romantic-love\/alma-gemela\/persona-tirada-oscuridad\/\">de la oscuridad<\/a> y ser su luz al final del t\u00fanel.<\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00e9 lo bastante inteligente para elegir los retos a los que te enfrentas y responder a ellos. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Lo suficientemente inteligente como para preservar tu energ\u00eda y tu tiempo para personas y situaciones relevantes sin utilizarlo con todo el que entre en tu vida por casualidad.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por favor, s\u00e9 prudente y elige s\u00f3lo los retos que te ayuden a mejorar y que te ofrezcan la posibilidad de superarte.<\/p>\n<p>Y en cuanto al resto, d\u00e9jalos pasar y d\u00e9jalos atr\u00e1s, donde deben estar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48109\" 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A girl who can\u2019t keep still while there is injustice going on around her, a girl who is always giving her best to do the right thing and a girl who thinks she can change everyone for the better, if&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":48108,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6451009631.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48020"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48020\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48108"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}