{"id":48452,"date":"2019-11-22T15:14:44","date_gmt":"2019-11-22T15:14:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48452"},"modified":"2022-08-12T07:57:02","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T07:57:02","slug":"8-problemas-de-las-relaciones-a-distancia-y-como-hacer-que-funcionen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-problemas-de-las-relaciones-a-distancia-y-como-hacer-que-funcionen\/","title":{"rendered":"8 problemas de las relaciones a distancia (y c\u00f3mo hacer que funcionen)"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s a known fact that maintaining a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span> es una carga que muchos dudan mucho en asumir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Conservar un <\/span>relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/span> en <\/span>Skype<\/span> con su <\/span>amado<\/span> aporta <\/span>problemas comunes<\/span> que muchas parejas nunca deber\u00edan llegar a experimentar. <\/span><\/p>\n

En el <\/span>fin de la jornada<\/span>, <\/span>amor a distancia<\/span> doesn’t provide you with that <\/span>cara a cara<\/span> tacto que aporta calidez y seguridad durante <\/span>d\u00edas malos<\/span> y te nutre durante las buenas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Las relaciones son <\/span>trabajo duro<\/span> tal cual. Pero cuando la vida te lleva de viaje lejos de tu <\/span>amado<\/span> (a veces incluso a diferentes <\/span>husos horarios<\/span>), pone a prueba todo lo que t\u00fa y tu pareja hab\u00e9is construido.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s extremely emotionally exhausting, and most <\/i><\/b>larga distancia<\/i><\/b><\/a> relaciones<\/i><\/b> don’t go the distance (pun intended), particularly for that reason. You need your partner right by your side. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mensajes de texto<\/i><\/b> isn’t going to cut it when you’re balling your eyes out at midnight<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Llamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/span> can’t replace the touch of your <\/span>pareja<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver <\/span>Netflix<\/span> juntos sobre <\/span>Skype<\/span> se vuelve tan triste, y tu <\/span>LDR<\/span> provoca tantas cosas injustificadas <\/span>mala comunicaci\u00f3n<\/span> que acabas imaginando tu inminente <\/span>ruptura<\/span><\/a> no matter how hard you’re fighting for your <\/span>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

A <\/span>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/span> doesn’t make you feel paranoid and lonely on a daily basis. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero una pareja a distancia puede empezar a tener problemas con <\/span>posesividad<\/span> when they can’t be there to <\/span>registrarse<\/span> todos los d\u00edas en persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para que su <\/span>relaciones a distancia funcionan<\/span>necesitas confianza. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y si su <\/span>pareja a distancia<\/span> can’t give you that, how long until many other <\/span>problemas en las relaciones a distancia<\/span> empezar a atormentar a tu amor?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto falta para que <\/i><\/b>Skype<\/i><\/b> sesiones se convierten en acaloradas discusiones sobre lo que tu pareja vio en tu <\/i><\/b>redes sociales<\/i><\/b><\/a> \u00bfAyer? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto falta para <\/i><\/b>mensajes de texto<\/i><\/b> convertirse en una conversaci\u00f3n pasivo-agresiva que empiezas a temer?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

How long until you realize you’re neglecting your <\/span>propias vidas<\/span> while trying to salvage what’s left of your <\/span>LDR<\/span>? <\/span><\/p>\n

And before you know it, with tears streaming down your cheeks and barely being able to utter a word, you’re looking for a <\/span>salida<\/span>\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

It shouldn’t be this hard. You love your significant other more than anything and you know you’re with the <\/span>persona adecuada<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfc\u00f3mo te las arreglaste para subestimar la gravedad de la distancia? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 pens\u00f3 que un <\/span>Cita por Skype<\/span> podr\u00eda sustituir por completo a <\/span>contacto visual y presencia f\u00edsica<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad cre\u00edas que este <\/span>ser\u00eda<\/span>‘t be happening? Were you naive to think that you two could survive this?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que funcione?<\/h2>\n

\"Cuando<\/p>\n

Ante todo, si el amor es tan fuerte y apasionado como crees, nunca renunciar<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Las carreteras se llenar\u00e1n de baches, todos los <\/span>LDR<\/span> problemas van a empezar a meterse en tu cabeza, pero un <\/span>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span> PUEDE sobrevivir si ustedes dos son un frente unido.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re willing to fight for each other, then all of these problems will be merely obstacles that can’t touch the bond of your commitment to each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s foolish to think that you two are going to be the ones to break the mold. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re not. Most people realize they’re in way over their heads within the first weeks of their <\/span>LDR<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean you can’t make it. It only means you’re going to have to fight a little bit harder and stick by each other, no matter what your head tells you during the <\/span>d\u00edas malos<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Parejas a distancia<\/i><\/b> son los que tienen los trabajos m\u00e1s duros. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

They don’t have the warmth of their partner’s body keeping them feel safe and protected at night.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

They can’t rush over to their partner in times of need and rest their head on their <\/span>amado<\/span><\/a>‘s chest.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y no vernos <\/span>cara a cara<\/span> es m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil y frustrante cada d\u00eda que pasa.<\/span><\/p>\n

But this is why you work on it twice as hard. This is why you tell your partner you love them even when your heart is breaking in two while saying it. You’ll be feeling sadness you didn’t know existed.<\/span><\/p>\n

One whole part of you will be far away and you’ll be the only one picking up your pieces. <\/span><\/p>\n

But this isn’t forever. Let that keep you sane during times when you want to explode. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pod\u00e9is salvar vuestra relaci\u00f3n y sobrevivir a esto mientras sig\u00e1is anteponi\u00e9ndoos el uno al otro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lucha contra esos molestos <\/i><\/b>husos horarios<\/i><\/b> y ap\u00e9gate a tu <\/i><\/b>Cita por Skype<\/i><\/b> Noches. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Keep to your routine and remember that for as long as you persevere in this, you’re one step closer to a permanent solution.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c9stos son los <\/span><\/i>problemas habituales en las relaciones a distancia<\/span><\/i> que van a empezar a rondarte antes de lo que crees.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But if you’re ready to fight for <\/span><\/i>tu persona<\/span><\/i><\/a>, you’ll find ways to make it work. Love as strong as yours deserves a fighting chance.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. Falta de comunicaci\u00f3n sana<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Mala comunicaci\u00f3n<\/span> es uno de los mayores obst\u00e1culos para un \u00e9xito <\/a><\/span>LDR<\/span>.  Sure, you’ve got your <\/span>Fechas de Skype<\/span>constante <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> y comunicando a trav\u00e9s de <\/span>redes sociales<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero lo que nadie te dice es que muchas veces las cosas se pierden en la traducci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you don’t see your <\/span>amado<\/span> Regularmente, desarrollas este mecanismo de defensa que te ayuda a navegar por esta nueva realidad, pero tambi\u00e9n te vuelve paranoico y desconfiado. <\/span><\/p>\n

There doesn’t even have to be a legit reason for your anxiety, but it still happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ahora es cuando te desquitas con tu <\/span>pareja<\/span> de una manera muy pobre, en lugar de compartir abiertamente sus problemas. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s normal to feel a certain way and to get things stuck in your head that distance makes you believe are true.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero a menudo, en lugar de hablar de ello, se producen enfrentamientos a gritos y declaraciones hirientes.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se arregla?<\/b><\/p>\n

En lugar de se\u00f1alar con el dedo y echar culpas innecesarias, respira hondo, cuenta hasta tres y preg\u00fantales amablemente sobre los temas que te preocupan. <\/span><\/p>\n

If they said something you took the wrong way, don’t accuse them prematurely but rather ask them politely.<\/span><\/p>\n

”<\/span>Sorry, honey, I’m not sure what you meant by that, can you please repeat what you just said?<\/span><\/i>” is how you can put it, and <\/span>tu pareja<\/span><\/a> will calmly explain what he said and it will all be resolved within seconds. Don’t attack \u2013 ask!<\/span><\/p>\n

If you forego communication right from the start, you’ve got nothing to go on. <\/span><\/p>\n

La \u00fanica forma de sobrevivir a esto es hablar abiertamente de todo y no irse nunca a la cama enfadado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Air out all of your qualms and sleep knowing there’s someone out there wishing you were there.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. You’re stuck in a rut<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

When you’ve been in a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span> durante demasiado tiempo, con el tiempo, tus temas de conversaci\u00f3n empezar\u00e1n a parecerte que sigues teniendo la misma charla \u00e1rida todos los d\u00edas.<\/span><\/p>\n

There’s no excitement, no novelty, just the same old things at the same time every day that you hope will help you keep your relationship on its feet. But it’s slowly making you feel like there’s nothing left to talk about.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can’t actually BE with them, hug them, kiss them and feel safe around them, and it’s slowly killing your communication. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te cansas tanto de todo que dejas de intentarlo por completo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo de problemas son muy comunes para un <\/span>LDR<\/span>. It’s still frustrating and saddening, though.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se arregla?<\/b><\/p>\n

First, you realize that it’s normal not wanting to talk every single day for hours and it’s totally expected to not have anything new to say all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

That doesn’t make it weird or worrying, it only means you’re human.<\/span><\/p>\n

There will be dry spells where you’ll talk every few days and there will be times when you’ll talk every single day. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s what happens in a relationship, so don’t worry about it. My suggestion is to write down everything you want to share as it comes to mind throughout the day so you don’t forget it!<\/span><\/p>\n

That way when they call you, you won’t be scratching your head wondering what it is you wanted to mention because you’ll have it right there. Help yourself not to forget anything and you’ll go to bed happier.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Impaciencia<\/h2>\n

\"Mujeres<\/p>\n

When you’re in a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span>tu paciencia empieza a agotarse poco a poco. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cosas que antes eran lo de menos ahora te molestan como locos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Normally, if your partner doesn’t reply immediately, you don’t even think about it because you know they’ll get back to you asap.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero en un <\/span>LDR<\/span>, you expect an answer immediately and if you don’t get it, you get anxious and start getting insane ideas in your head. <\/span><\/p>\n

What the hell are they doing that’s more important than getting back to you?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1n tonteando? \u00bfEst\u00e1n hartos de ti <\/span><\/i>mensajes de texto<\/span><\/i> them? What\u2019s going on?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

That’s just your paranoia talking. You can’t see them, so your need for their presence is stronger than ever, which makes you go mad if they don’t reply promptly.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se arregla?<\/b><\/p>\n

Piense en la ra\u00edz de su problema. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son tus expectativas? \u00bfTienen sentido o te est\u00e1s dejando <\/span>tu ansiedad<\/span><\/a> ...\u00bflo mejor de ti? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfTu hombre te est\u00e1 dejando de lado o simplemente eres demasiado impaciente e insegura para pensar con claridad?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfTu incertidumbre sobre sus sentimientos hacia ti hace que esto parezca m\u00e1s grande de lo que realmente es? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfPodr\u00eda ser que la distancia te est\u00e9 haciendo necesitar una validaci\u00f3n y confirmaci\u00f3n constantes de su amor?<\/span><\/p>\n

Talk to your partner. Explain how hard it’s become for you to stay sane. Let them know that you really love it when they get back to you quickly because it puts your mind at ease. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if they can’t always talk, they can shoot a simple ”<\/span>Te quiero pero estoy demasiado ocupado para hablar ahora. Te llamar\u00e9 m\u00e1s tarde.<\/span><\/i>” and you’ll know everything is okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Crecer separados<\/h2>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

Just because you’re now in a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span>, it doesn’t mean your individual lives stop progressing. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to go through life, accumulate new experiences, and fight your battles by yourself. Those things will change you in ways that will make you grow and drift apart from the person you used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

The same goes for your partner. His life will take him down a different path and who’s to say it won’t be as life-changing as yours might end up being? That’s just life.<\/span><\/p>\n

And the unfortunate thing is, all of this will be happening without them present, which will inevitably make you feel like you’re growing apart.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll both be in your own lane, not sure where your partner is headed, and that can cause emotional turmoil.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se arregla?<\/b><\/p>\n

Como se trata de uno de los mayores <\/span>LDR<\/span> asesinos, t\u00f3matelo muy en serio y trabaja en lo siguiente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mantengan una comunicaci\u00f3n regular e inf\u00f3rmense mutuamente de todo lo que ocurre, por aparentemente irrelevante que sea.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hable de su nuevo acuerdo y de c\u00f3mo le hace sentir con respecto al lugar al que le lleva su viaje. <\/span><\/p>\n

Seguid siendo un equipo durante todo el proceso e incluid todas las visitas que pod\u00e1is. <\/span><\/p>\n

Stick by each other and if your end goal is a future by each other’s side, keep each other in the loop and never let them question your loyalty.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Diferentes zonas horarias<\/h2>\n

\"Estilo<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can personally do to change the fact that you live in different <\/span>husos horarios<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean it won’t become an issue at some point.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’ve been in a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span> for too long, it’s so easy to get annoyed at the smallest things, and this will become one of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll get <\/span>harto de<\/span><\/a> always having to talk very early in the morning or late at night. You’re either too tired to have a full-on convo or it’s too early for any type of conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se arregla?<\/b><\/p>\n

Te das cuenta de que esto es lo que has firmado. Cuando aceptaste un <\/span>LDR<\/span>sab\u00edas ad\u00f3nde iba tu pareja (o t\u00fa mismo) y prometiste hacer que funcionara. <\/span><\/p>\n

And now it’s time to accept this as a small sacrifice for your <\/span>pareja<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not easy for them either, you know? But if you want to remain in a happy, <\/span>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/span>hay que llegar a un compromiso. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you’d rather not talk to your SO at all than get up early to see them, then what’s the point?<\/span><\/p>\n

Long-distance is no picnic. Unless you’re ready to face the challenges, you’re only delaying the inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. 6. Falta de confianza<\/h2>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

Normally, you’re not the type of person who gets paranoid for no reason and questions their partner’s loyalty for no valid reasons. <\/span><\/p>\n

But this distance thing is making you turn into a crazy person. Suddenly you find yourself questioning your partner for every little thing and it’s driving you insane.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust is the basis for every relationship. Without it, it’s <\/span>trabajo duro<\/span> mantenerlo unido. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y un <\/span>amor a distancia<\/span> needs extra love and tenderness. Don’t let your <\/span>d\u00edas malos<\/span> convertirte en detective. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know what your partner’s role is in your life, so don’t let distance shake you up.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se arregla?<\/b><\/p>\n

Sencillo. Conf\u00eda en la persona que prometi\u00f3 cuidar de <\/span>tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

If they weren’t trustworthy, you <\/span>ser\u00eda<\/span>‘t have even agreed to an <\/span>LDR<\/span> en primer lugar. A menos que tu pareja te d\u00e9 motivos reales para desconfiar de ella, tenle un poco de fe. <\/span><\/p>\n

Distance can only separate you if you let it. Yes, physically you’re miles and miles away. But if you know that this is the <\/span>persona adecuada<\/span> para ti, entonces deber\u00edas darles m\u00e1s cr\u00e9dito. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s difficult for both of you. Don’t make it worse with unwarranted and misplaced outbursts.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re both trying to stay in the same lane while being physically far away from each other. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust and effort are the only ways to make it go the distance. Don’t sabotage a good thing just because it’s getting challenging. Always keep the end goal in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Celos repentinos<\/h2>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

You need your partner to function normally. When they’re away from you, it’s like one whole part of your body is missing and it’s affecting you in big ways.  <\/span><\/p>\n

And since you can’t rest your head on their shoulder while snuggled up in front of the TV anymore, you can’t help but wonder if someone else is.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know it’s crazy. You know there’s no basis for such thinking. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 otra cosa se supone que tienes que hacer sino crear estas versiones jodidas de los acontecimientos en tu cabeza ahora?<\/span><\/p>\n

They’re not here to tell you that you’re being silly. They can’t kiss your forehead and soothe you with their presence. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now, all you have left is your jealousy and it’s eating you alive.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo solucionarlo?<\/b><\/p>\n

Recuerda todas las veces que tu pareja te dio motivos para confiar en ella. <\/span><\/p>\n

S<\/span>Compara lo que t\u00fa tienes (una relaci\u00f3n duradera, significativa y con futuro) con una relaci\u00f3n superficial que crees que tiene tu pareja.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad crees que te traicionar\u00edan de esta manera? \u00bfO est\u00e1s dejando volar tu imaginaci\u00f3n? <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada vez que tengas esos arrebatos de celos, revi\u00e9ntalos inmediatamente y cambia tu enfoque hacia un pensamiento m\u00e1s positivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner is dealing with his own difficulties, so don’t add to them. Stop finding problems where there aren’t any. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deja de husmear y de querer buscar problemas. Este comportamiento destructivo va a acabar perjudicando a tu <\/span>LDR<\/span> hasta que actives la raz\u00f3n y desactives la paranoia.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Stonewalling<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Relaciones a distancia<\/span> aren’t immune to <\/span>evasivas<\/span><\/a> y actos similares de necesidad pasivo-agresiva de control. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’m no stranger to such a thing, unfortunately. <\/span><\/p>\n

In case you weren’t sure what stonewalling means, it’s purposefully not answering texts or getting back to a person for a few days as a way of controlling the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s when one partner uses silence as a weapon in the most passive-aggressive way imaginable. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esto puede ocurrir como resultado directo de <\/span>falta de comunicaci\u00f3n,<\/span> que no es infrecuente en <\/span>LDRs<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de armarse de paciencia y tratar de entenderles para responder, se recurre a un completo silencio de radio que mata lentamente por dentro al otro interlocutor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Luego, sobreviene el silencio y se te revuelven las tripas cada d\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se arregla?<\/b><\/p>\n

If you’re the partner who’s doing the stonewalling, ask yourself why. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfIntentas hacer sufrir a tu pareja empleando esta t\u00e1ctica hiriente? \u00bfRealmente se lo merece? <\/span><\/p>\n

Or are you simply activating your defense mechanism and it’s making you do stuff like this because otherwise, you’re going to break?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tratamiento silencioso<\/a> nunca es la respuesta. S\u00f3lo empeora la situaci\u00f3n y hace que ambos sint\u00e1is que el otro se os escapa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Communicate even when it’s the hardest. You’re going to thank yourself later.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if you’re the one who’s being stonewalled, text your partner how disappointed you are that they chose to go this route.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s hurtful and low and you deserve better. Nothing will ever work itself out without healthy communication. <\/span><\/p>\n

They’ll probably eventually realize this too and you’ll end up talking it out.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Enga\u00f1o en una relaci\u00f3n a distancia: 15 se\u00f1ales y formas de afrontarlo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"relaci\u00f3n<\/p>\n

This one’s for all the long-distance lovers out there. Nobody understands the burden you bear better than you and your <\/span>pareja<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos los problemas se\u00f1alados aqu\u00ed son consecuencia directa de la presi\u00f3n a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span> brings and the constant yearning for a partner who’s not there.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve found yourself in these, don’t let it get you down. I promise you, all long-distance lovers go through these at some point. <\/span><\/p>\n

El truco est\u00e1 en seguir luchando incluso cuando quieres acabar con todo.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s the distance talking. And if you let it win, you’re going to be even more miserable than you are now. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sigue adelante. Lucha contra los problemas e intenta encontrar un t\u00e9rmino medio sea cual sea la cuesti\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fechas de Skype<\/span> will be your best friend from now on. I know it’s not ideal and nothing can replace being able to hold your person in the flesh, but it’s the best thing you’ve got right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember, where there’s a will, there’s a way. You can do this while knowing that this isn’t forever, that one day you’ll figure it all out. <\/span><\/p>\n

One day, you’ll be waking up next to each other and going to bed together.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isn’t that all you really need to keep persevering in making this work? The distance only wins if YOU let it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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It’s a known fact that maintaining a long-distance relationship is a burden many are extremely hesitant to take on.  Preserving a romantic relationship over Skype with your loved one brings on common problems that many couples should never get to experience. At the end of the day, long-distance love doesn’t provide you with that face-to-face…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":48463,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48452","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_656530654.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48452","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48452"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48452\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48452"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48452"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}