{"id":48690,"date":"2020-08-28T02:06:25","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T02:06:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48690"},"modified":"2021-12-06T13:10:01","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T13:10:01","slug":"cualidades-de-una-mejor-amiga-10-rasgos-esenciales-que-debes-buscar-en-una-bff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cualidades-de-una-mejor-amiga-10-rasgos-esenciales-que-debes-buscar-en-una-bff\/","title":{"rendered":"Cualidades de un mejor amigo: 10 rasgos esenciales que debes buscar en una mejor amiga"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfAlguna vez te ha traicionado alguien a quien considerabas tu buen amigo<\/a>?<\/p>\n

By someone you thought you could trust with your life and by someone you thought would remain \u201cyour person\u201d and partner in crime for as long you both breathe?<\/p>\n

Si lo ha hecho, sabr\u00e1 que este dolor es incluso peor que el que experimenta cuando ruptura<\/a> una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if your former friend forgot all about you when they found someone new, if they revealed your secrets, if they didn\u2019t put the same amount of effort in your friendship you did or if it turned out that they were just using you all along\u2014losing a friend and realizing someone was never your friend in the first place is shattering.<\/p>\n

Besides feeling like you\u2019re all alone in this world, you can\u2019t believe that you were so foolish to let this person manipulate you and make you think they were someone they obviously never were.
\nYou feel humiliated, heartbroken, and devastated, and you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to prevent this from happening again, even if that means never having a friend in your life.<\/p>\n

After your friend backstabs you, you lose trust in everyone around you, and you can’t help but wonder if you’ll ever again have the bravery to let someone new in.<\/p>\n

Te cambia para siempre y te deja cicatrices imborrables en el coraz\u00f3n y en el alma.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that you’re not the only one who has experienced something similar because nowadays, finding a true friend is like winning a lottery.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like everyone expects instant friendships which end before they actually began and as if everyone forgot the meaning of loyalty, trust, devotion, and unconditional love.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, encontrar un verdadero amigo es dif\u00edcil, pero tambi\u00e9n es esencial para tu salud mental, tu calidad de vida y tu felicidad en general.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re social beings; we need that one special person to hang out with, to share our secrets with, and to go through life with.<\/p>\n

Yes, finding a true friend is difficult, but it doesn\u2019t mean that you should lose hope because it is definitely not impossible.<\/p>\n

Puede que ahora no me creas, pero te aseguro que existen personas que re\u00fanen todas las cualidades que debe tener un mejor amigo y personas que pueden ser mejores amigos para ti de lo que nunca lo ha sido nadie de tu pasado.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, siempre es mejor tener un amigo valioso del que puedas estar seguro que una docena de conocidos que te dejar\u00e1n colgado en cuanto surja la primera oportunidad.<\/p>\n

So, after reading all of this, I\u2019m sure you can\u2019t help but wonder what are the qualities of a best friend you should pay special attention to?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQui\u00e9nes son las personas que merecen ser llamadas tus amigos y que merecen un lugar en tu vida?<\/p>\n

Pues s\u00f3lo tienes que leer esta lista y averiguarlo.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, si hay una persona con la que puedas relacionar todos o la mayor\u00eda de estos rasgos, nunca la dejes escapar y consid\u00e9rate afortunado porque tienes un amigo para toda la vida.<\/p>\n

10 cualidades del mejor amigo<\/b> :<\/b><\/p>\n

Leal<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Una de las primeras cualidades esenciales de un mejor amigo que debes buscar es lealtad<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not talking about the fact that this person has to necessarily support you even when you\u2019re doing something wrong and applaud you even when you\u2019re destroying yourself.<\/p>\n

No, cuando digo que tus amigos m\u00e1s \u00edntimos tienen que ser leales, me refiero a que debes buscar personas que se queden contigo en los momentos dif\u00edciles, porque tener a alguien que est\u00e9 ah\u00ed para ti, que te cubra las espaldas y que nunca piense en abandonarte cuando m\u00e1s lo necesitas es lo m\u00e1s valioso de la vida.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de buscar a una persona que beba y salga de fiesta contigo, busca a alguien que pase contigo por tus rupturas, tus emergencias familiares y todas las dem\u00e1s desgracias.<\/p>\n

Para una persona que, en cierto modo, ser\u00e1 tu compa\u00f1era de vida, alguien que siempre te cubrir\u00e1 las espaldas, alguien que permanecer\u00e1 a tu lado en las buenas y en las malas y en la salud y en la enfermedad, y alguien que nunca te permitir\u00e1 resolver tus problemas por ti mismo.<\/p>\n

This is someone you can rely on and count on, no matter what happens, despite the distance between you two and despite the time you\u2019ve spent apart.<\/p>\n

Someone who would never sit still while others talk trash about you, and someone who won\u2019t leave your side the moment things get rough.<\/p>\n

You see, finding friends who are willing to party with you and who are there when you\u2019re laughing and when everything is going smoothly is a piece of cake.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need anyone special for this kind of relationship.<\/p>\n

However, having a good friend who holds your hand through all the hard times and who doesn\u2019t let you go through life’s difficulties on your own is like winning a lottery. And that is what true loyalty is all about.<\/p>\n

Honesto<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014most people feel that they\u2019re in good company when they\u2019re surrounded by people pleasers and others who nod their heads at everything they have to say.<\/p>\n

All of us love hearing compliments and enjoy spending time with someone who agrees with us, who always thinks we\u2019re absolutely right, and who boosts our ego.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, a pesar de la opini\u00f3n popular, un buen amigo no es eso, y \u00e9stas no son las cualidades que debes buscar en un mejor amigo.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, tus amigos m\u00e1s \u00edntimos deben elogiarte cuando te lo mereces, sobre todo delante de los dem\u00e1s, pero una de las cualidades m\u00e1s esenciales del mejor amigo es, en realidad, la sinceridad.<\/p>\n

You want your BFF to be someone who tells you the truth, even when you don\u2019t want to hear it, no matter how harsh and painful it might be and even when you\u2019re trying to lie and deceive yourself.<\/p>\n

Quieres que esta persona sea brutalmente honesto<\/a>, open your eyes when you\u2019re blinded, to tell you that you\u2019re wrong even when you\u2019re convinced that you\u2019re not, to call you out on your actions, to prevent you from making wrong choices, and to point out to your mistakes, even when you don\u2019t see them.<\/p>\n

You want them to tell you some silly things such as you look awful in that new outfit you bought or that your new haircut isn\u2019t as great as you thought.<\/p>\n

To be brave enough to tell you some more serious things such as your boyfriend or girlfriend is good for nothing, that you\u2019re making lousy judgments or that it\u2019s about time to step out of your comfort zone and make some changes in your life.<\/p>\n

Al principio, puede que incluso odies a este amigo duro porque a nadie le gusta o\u00edr hablar de sus errores.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this is actually the person who loves you the most\u2014a friend who cares about your well-being and someone you can trust your life with.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, es tu trabajo ser lo suficientemente sabio como para diferenciar entre los que realmente est\u00e1n tratando de insultarte con sus comentarios y los que est\u00e1n tratando amablemente de inspirarte para que te conviertas en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want your friends to pat you on your head and give you a thumbs up even when you\u2019re making some harmful moves, just because they don\u2019t want to risk your good relationship, but you shouldn\u2019t allow anyone to put you down either.<\/p>\n

Aceptar<\/h2>\n

\"abrazando<\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes c\u00f3mo los adolescentes cambian todo su comportamiento s\u00f3lo para encajar en un determinado grupo?<\/p>\n

You remember how back in highschool you pretended to love a certain type of music you actually couldn\u2019t stand or how you acted completely different to your true self just to be liked by the cheerleaders and mean girls and boys from your class?<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re not in highschool anymore, and there are no cheerleaders and mean girls anymore.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to look for some other qualities in friends besides the fact that they belong to the popular squad.<\/p>\n

Ahora sabes que ese tipo de relaciones y amistades eran t\u00f3xicas y no algo con lo que debieras conformarte en tu edad adulta.<\/p>\n

En cambio, una de las cualidades de un buen amigo es la capacidad de aceptarte completamente por lo que eres.<\/p>\n

Los verdaderos amigos te querr\u00e1n con todos tus defectos e imperfecciones y nunca esperar\u00e1n que te entregues a otra persona s\u00f3lo para complacerlos.<\/p>\n

Respetar\u00e1n tu individualidad y tus diferencias y nunca querr\u00e1n obligarte a convertirte en su copia.<\/p>\n

Por el contrario, amar\u00e1n todas tus partes, incluidas las que no les gusten.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you and your BFF don\u2019t have the same taste in music or clothes, and it is completely irrelevant if you don\u2019t share similar hobbies or interests\u2014that is not what verdadera amistad<\/a> se trata.<\/p>\n

A good friend will never try to change the essence of who you are, and they certainly won\u2019t make you feel rejected just because you don\u2019t fit their imaginary standards of perfection.<\/p>\n

Respetuoso<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Una de las cualidades m\u00e1s importantes de una buena amistad (ya sea una amistad a distancia<\/a> o no) es sin duda el respeto mutuo.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you think someone cares for you, if they don\u2019t respect you as a person, I assure you that they don\u2019t love you as much as you think they do.<\/p>\n

Un amigo de calidad nunca te menospreciar\u00e1 delante de los dem\u00e1s y siempre tendr\u00e1 cuidado de no herir tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Nunca le insultar\u00e1n ni le tratar\u00e1n de forma que usted pueda considerar irrespetuosa o humillante.<\/p>\n

Le apreciar\u00e1n como persona. Respetar\u00e1n tu personalidad, tus deseos y la gente de la que te rodeas.<\/p>\n

Aunque no est\u00e9n de acuerdo con tus elecciones y decisiones, las aceptar\u00e1n porque te consideran una persona madura y con capacidad de juicio.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, su amigos de verdad<\/a> respetar\u00e1 tu tiempo, tu espacio personal y tu esfuerzo, a pesar de lo cerca que est\u00e9is.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t act like they\u2019re more important than you or expect you to be grateful they\u2019re hanging out with you.<\/p>\n

Estas son las personas que nunca te har\u00e1n sentir como su segunda opci\u00f3n o su red de seguridad.<\/p>\n

People who won\u2019t expect you to put them first while they treat you like their last resort.<\/p>\n

De confianza<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Una verdadera amistad no puede existir sin confianza mutua. Despu\u00e9s de todo, esta es la persona con la que deber\u00edas poder compartir tu d\u00eda a d\u00eda, y alguien que conoce todos tus secretos m\u00e1s profundos, por lo que no tiene sentido llamar a tu mejor amigo<\/a> someone you can’t trust.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, lo \u00faltimo que quieres es tener un mal amigo que aproveche cualquier oportunidad para compartir tus miedos, dudas y humillaciones con todo el que se cruce en su camino.<\/p>\n

Someone who doesn’t know when to keep their mouth shut and who doesn’t value the fact you chose them as your confident.<\/p>\n

This is the first person you call whenever you’re in trouble, and the first person who finds out about every silly, little thing you do.<\/p>\n

Someone who is non-judgmental even when they think you’re wrong, and someone who would rather die than violate your trust.<\/p>\n

Un amigo de calidad lo sabe literalmente todo sobre ti.<\/p>\n

Conocen las cosas que ocultas al resto del mundo (incluso a ti mismo a veces) y nunca te querr\u00e1n menos por ello.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que un amigo aut\u00e9ntico nunca revelar\u00eda tus secretos, aunque su vida dependiera de ello.<\/p>\n

They wouldn’t think about going around and gossiping about you even with their friends or family.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, a close friend won’t talk about the things you told them even if your friendship comes to an end.<\/p>\n

Un verdadero mejor amigo nunca usar\u00eda tu basura en tu contra, incluso si ocurre que os separ\u00e1is.<\/p>\n

Amable<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

A lo que la mayor\u00eda de la gente presta atenci\u00f3n cuando se trata de las cualidades de un buen amigo es a la forma en que esta persona les trata.<\/p>\n

Aunque \u00e9sta es sin duda una cualidad importante, debes buscar un amigo que sea esencialmente un buen ser humano, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

Your real friends should be kind, understanding, and non-judgmental to everyone who crosses their path\u2014not just to ones they love.<\/p>\n

Tu mejor amiga<\/a> deben ser serviciales, respetuosos, cari\u00f1osos y atentos con sus otros amigos, con los miembros de su familia y con cualquier otro ser humano con el que se crucen.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfpodr\u00edas realmente tener una buena amistad con alguien que es grosero con el camarero, que busca cualquier oportunidad para enga\u00f1ar a alguien, que humilla a los dem\u00e1s y que realmente no es una buena persona, a pesar de la forma en que te trata?<\/p>\n

With someone who doesn’t have any empathy, who is completely selfish, and who doesn’t care about other people’s well-being?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 se puede esperar de este tipo de persona?<\/p>\n

What would they do to you if you argue\u2014would they start treating you the same way they treat everyone else in their surroundings?<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014if someone is a toxic person, they can’t be a better friend.<\/p>\n

Buen oyente<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Let’s face it\u2014at some point, all of us get boring to others.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter if you keep on talking about that ex who dumped you ages ago, if you continuously bother everyone else with the same problems you could fix in a blink of an eye or if you go on and on about one and the same issue that has already been talked about million of times.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento, la gente que te rodea se ha cansado de todo lo que tienes que decir, por mucho que te quieran.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, su amigo aut\u00e9ntico<\/a> tambi\u00e9n sabr\u00e1 escuchar.<\/p>\n

Nunca estar\u00e1n demasiado ocupados para escuchar tus problemas, aunque les parezcan una tonter\u00eda, y nunca te ignorar\u00e1n cuando los necesites.<\/p>\n

They will be your shoulder to cry on, even after hundreds of “I told you sos”, and they will always do their best to make you feel better.<\/p>\n

Esta es la persona a la que puedes llamar en mitad de la noche, s\u00f3lo para compartir algo emocionante o abrumador que te haya pasado; la persona que dejar\u00e1 todo y a todos colgados s\u00f3lo para escucharte; y la persona que siempre tendr\u00e1 la paciencia de pasar por tus problemas, como si fueran suyos.Perdonar<\/p>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

One’s character can be best seen through their ability to forgive.<\/p>\n

Yes, most of us have fragile egos, and there are some deal breakers we simply can’t ignore, but if your true best friend really loves you, they will forgive you for almost everything.<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong\u2014this is not a green light to keep on hurting this person just because you know they will always have your back.<\/p>\n

Just because they call you their best friend, it doesn’t mean that you should take advantage of their love and kindness and treat them however the hell you want.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, there doesn’t exist a friendship which hasn’t had a rough phase, and it doesn’t mean that you and your BFF are bad friends just because you occasionally have an argument.<\/p>\n

However, if you two have managed to become stronger from all of this, it is a clear sign that you’re real friends.<\/p>\n

Si cometiste un error y tu amigo reuni\u00f3 la fuerza para perdone<\/a> y considerado que toda vuestra amistad no merece ni una discusi\u00f3n, esto es algo que deber\u00edas apreciar.Protective<\/p>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Otra de las cualidades de un buen amigo es sin duda su car\u00e1cter protector.<\/p>\n

Todos tenemos el impulso de cuidar a los que queremos, as\u00ed que tus amigos \u00edntimos tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edan cuidarte a ti y viceversa.<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you’re an immature brat who needs someone leading you through life or that you can’t make it on your own.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t mean that you’re looking for your best friend to be your parent.<\/p>\n

Es agradable saber que tienes a alguien que se preocupa por tus necesidades y alguien que mover\u00eda monta\u00f1as para hacerte sentir mejor, si fuera necesario.<\/p>\n

Los buenos amigos son como \u00e1ngeles guardianes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They call to check up on you, take care of you when you’re sick, pay attention to the way you feel, worry when you’re not answering your phone, do their best to save you from your bad judgments, and chase away the people who want to hurt you.<\/p>\n

So, if you’re lucky enough to have a friend like this, don’t consider them boring or nagging. Instead, appreciate everything they’re doing for you because people like this are hard to find.<\/p>\n

Divertido<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Now that we’ve dealt with all the important character traits of a best friend, let’s not forget that your good friend should also be someone you always have a blast with.<\/p>\n

Es alguien que hace que tus d\u00edas sean un poco m\u00e1s brillantes y alguien que hace que todos vuestros momentos juntos sean memorables y merezcan la pena ser vividos.<\/p>\n

This is the person who is up for everything you suggest, someone who is always ready for adventure, someone who supports your crazy ideas, and the person you share your wildest and the dearest memories with\u2014 a spontaneous and relaxed person you’re always comfortable next to.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, lo \u00faltimo que quieres es tener un amigo pesimista que arruine todas vuestras reuniones con tensiones innecesarias.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to spend your time with a person who picks fights, who is never satisfied, and who spreads their negativity everywhere they show up.<\/p>\n

A amigo de verdad<\/a> debe ser alguien capaz de hacerte re\u00edr, incluso en tus horas m\u00e1s oscuras, y alguien que tenga la capacidad de ayudarte a levantarte de tu punto m\u00e1s bajo.<\/p>\n

So, if your best friend has all the qualities mentioned above and is also fun to be around, congratulations because you’ve hit the jackpot!<\/p>\n

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