{"id":48893,"date":"2020-04-29T18:27:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T18:27:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48893"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:26:16","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:26:16","slug":"comprension-de-la-psicologia-masculina-durante-la-regla-del-no-contacto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/comprension-de-la-psicologia-masculina-durante-la-regla-del-no-contacto\/","title":{"rendered":"La psicolog\u00eda masculina durante la regla del no contacto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tanto si quieres recuperar a tu ex como si quieres superarlo definitivamente y superar una relaci\u00f3n<\/a>, there is one truth\u2014la regla del no contacto funciona<\/a> como ninguna otra cosa.<\/p>\n

If you know that you DO want him back – PULSE AQU\u00cd<\/a>, I guarantee you’ll not only get him back but solve all the issues that got you to break up in the first place.<\/p>\n

La regla del no contacto establece que no debes tener absolutamente ninguna comunicaci\u00f3n con tu ex.<\/p>\n

Es decir, nada de mensajes de texto, llamadas telef\u00f3nicas, fisgonear en sus cuentas de redes sociales ni nada de nada.<\/p>\n

It’s simple in theory. But it’s much harder in practice. It’s not easy to go complete radio silence with someone you have cared for over a long period.<\/p>\n

That’s why the timespan of this rule is what a lot of people get wrong.<\/p>\n

Creen que todo se arreglar\u00e1 en una semana. Lamentablemente, tarda mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

El periodo de no contacto<\/a> debe ser hasta 90 d\u00edas pero al menos 30 d\u00edas <\/a>ninguna comunicaci\u00f3n en absoluto, ni siquiera un mensaje de vuelta si \u00e9l inicia la conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Si te preguntas si esta regla funciona con los hombres, la respuesta es: definitivamente s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Si quieres estar absolutamente seguro de recuperarlo, utiliza Gu\u00eda del Factor Ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s the only thing that actually works that can ensure you get your ex-boyfriend back.<\/p>\n

Si te mantienes firme en tu decisi\u00f3n y te alejas de \u00e9l, est\u00e1 garantizado que volver\u00e1 a quererte.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica pregunta que te har\u00e1s entonces es si todav\u00eda le quieres, porque este periodo sin comunicaci\u00f3n te har\u00e1 ver las cosas de otra manera.<\/p>\n

\u00bfFunciona la regla del no contacto con los hombres?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, la regla del no contacto funciona con los hombres. S\u00ed, tiene todo que ver con el g\u00e9nero y las diferentes mentalidades que tienen los hombres y las mujeres.<\/p>\n

Female and male psychology differ. That’s why this rule won’t work the other way around; the approach a man should have with his ex-girlfriend is usually completely different.<\/p>\n

La mente masculina s\u00f3lo responde a psicolog\u00eda inversa<\/a>. B\u00e1sicamente, tienes que hacer las cosas al rev\u00e9s de lo que \u00e9l espera.<\/p>\n

En lugar de perseguirlo, <\/b>mensajes de texto<\/b>, calling, looking for closure, you simply disappear from his life and that’s the only thing that will make your ex think, “I made a mistake when I broke up with her.”<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Hay otra cosa esencial que hacer y es desplazar tu inter\u00e9s de \u00e9l hacia ti.<\/p>\n

Tienes que trabajar para convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo para que esta regla funcione.<\/p>\n

That’s why this is both a post-breakup recovery method and a strategy to get your ex boyfriend back.<\/p>\n

The beauty of no contact is that even if it fails for some reason that we have no power over, we start to rebuild ourselves into better and self-loving creatures instead of thinking we are not enough. It’s a healthy way of dealing with a break-up.<\/p>\n

En <\/b>norma de no contacto<\/b> y <\/b>psicolog\u00eda masculina<\/b>:<\/b><\/p>\n

This is a general portrait of a man’s thoughts during this radio silence. It’s not always easy to figure out what’s going on in that brain of theirs, that’s why we are here to help.<\/p>\n

Jugar duro<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

What’s more, he won’t just pretend, he might actually feel tough in this first phase.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de terminar contigo, buscar\u00e1 formas de disfrutar de su nueva libertad.<\/p>\n

Dir\u00e1 que nunca ha estado mejor y que estar soltero es lo mejor que le ha podido pasar.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Este per\u00edodo posterior a la ruptura se reserva para salir de fiesta con sus amigos varones.<\/p>\n

El peor error que puedes cometer es ponerte en contacto con \u00e9l tan pronto. S\u00f3lo conseguir\u00e1s inflar su ego y darle la oportunidad de presumir ante sus amigos de c\u00f3mo suspiras por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

But this phase will soon pass and he will slowly start to wonder where you are and why you aren’t running back to him.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: \u00bfQu\u00e9 piensa \u00e9l durante la ausencia de contacto? (Los 8 pensamientos m\u00e1s comunes)<\/a><\/p>\n

Tu comportamiento le confundir\u00e1<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se siente un hombre cuando una mujer se va<\/a>? He expects you to chase after him in every way imaginable and once you don’t it will leave him in a state of shock.<\/p>\n

Probablemente se acostumbr\u00f3 a que estuvieras a su entera disposici\u00f3n, a que le contestaras siempre y a que estuvieras disponible siempre que se acordara de llamarte.<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you took all the control he had over you. He can’t manipulate you with love anymore. You decided to be stronger than your feelings.<\/p>\n

Empezaste a pensar en lo que mereces en lugar de en lo que quieres y eso marca la diferencia.<\/p>\n

This is the point at which he begins to wonder why this is all happening, how you changed overnight… and he starts missing you.<\/p>\n

The less he knows about you, the more he’ll wonder<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

When he doesn’t hear from you for a long period of time, he will start to wonder why, especially if you have been in a long-distance or long-term relationship and you were used to everyday communication.<\/p>\n

El miedo a que hayas pasado p\u00e1gina ir\u00e1 apareciendo poco a poco. Se preguntar\u00e1 si le echas de menos, si tienes a otra persona, si le has superado, etc.<\/p>\n

Las preguntas se amontonar\u00e1n en su mente. Este es probablemente el punto en el que te enviar\u00e1 un mensaje de texto o tratar\u00e1 de acercarse de alguna manera. S\u00f3lo tienes que ser lo suficientemente fuerte como para no responder.<\/p>\n

Once you don’t answer, the anger will kick in<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Como la mayor\u00eda de los hombres, probablemente sol\u00eda ignorar tus mensajes en varias ocasiones.<\/p>\n

Now that you are giving him a taste of his own medicine, he can’t handle it.<\/p>\n

“How dare she treat me like this?” is echoing in his mind and bruising his ego.<\/p>\n

Lo que \u00e9l no ve es que te trat\u00f3 diez veces peor y te destroz\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Y aunque no utilices este silencio para enfadarle y s\u00f3lo para demostrarle tu val\u00eda, podr\u00eda ser vengativo.<\/p>\n

A new relationship will seem like a good idea to him. It’s one way to get his mind off of you and show the world and himself that he is \u2018just fine\u2019.<\/p>\n

Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, cuenta con que eso te cabree y quiz\u00e1 haga que te pongas en contacto con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won’t do that. It will lead nowhere and make your heart more broken\u2014if that’s possible.<\/p>\n

So let the anger pass, remember that you went through things that were far worse and you’ve come out stronger and wiser from all of it. Hopefully, he will too.<\/p>\n

El periodo de no contacto recomendado transmite el mensaje correcto<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

As I stated earlier, the 30-day no contact rule is the minimum time in which you can’t be in touch with your ex.<\/p>\n

It’s just enough time to show him what life without you looks like, to miss you and want you back.<\/p>\n

More importantly, it\u2019s enough time for him to think about where he went wrong.<\/p>\n

Si vuelves con \u00e9l demasiado pronto, naturalmente asumir\u00e1 que no ha hecho nada malo y que puede volver corriendo a ti cuando le plazca.<\/p>\n

You don’t want him to think that now, do you?That’s why that 30-day no contact span is of extreme importance.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t just deepen his longing for you, it also shows him that you value yourself and that he can’t mess with your feelings.<\/p>\n

Te echar\u00e1 de menos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Los d\u00edas sin contacto se volver\u00e1n duros para \u00e9l, como lo fueron para ti todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n

Lo har\u00e1 evidente y habr\u00e1 algunas se\u00f1ales obvias de que te echa de menos durante la ausencia de contacto.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, que te env\u00ede mensajes aunque t\u00fa no se los contestes es una gran se\u00f1al de que te echa de menos. En segundo lugar, est\u00e1 mostrando signos de celos.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, puede que te enteres por vuestros amigos comunes de que ha estado preguntando por ah\u00ed sobre tu vida amorosa y si ese chico de tu foto de Instagram es tu buen amigo o algo m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Jealousy in a healthy amount is a good indicator of somebody’s feelings.<\/p>\n

Also, he might \u2018accidentally bump into you\u2019 from time to time. You will immediately know it’s no accident if he doesn\u2019t usually visit the same places as you.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, podr\u00eda intentar hablar con tus amigos sobre tu situaci\u00f3n actual, preguntarte por qu\u00e9 no le devuelves las llamadas, preguntar un poco por ah\u00ed o incluso decir que te echa de menos. Sabe que todo lo que diga te llegar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Te querr\u00e1 de vuelta y tomar\u00e1 medidas para demostrarlo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

There will come that final point in which he will regret letting you go. He will finally realize that you\u2019re one of a kind.<\/p>\n

Recordar\u00e1 todos esos momentos que pas\u00f3 contigo, echar\u00e1 de menos c\u00f3mo le hiciste sentir y deja a un lado su orgullo<\/a> and do the impossible to get you back. If he is the real deal, he won’t let you go without a fight.<\/p>\n

Excepciones a la regla de no contacto:<\/strong><\/p>\n

All men are different and aside from some general predictions we made earlier, there are some men who can’t be sorted there.<\/p>\n

Su reacci\u00f3n a este m\u00e9todo ser\u00e1 diferente porque su naturaleza es distinta. He aqu\u00ed algunos ejemplos de mentalidades espec\u00edficas de la psicolog\u00eda masculina:<\/p>\n

Un hombre obstinado<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

He won’t contact you during the no contact period because he is just too proud and too stubborn to do that.<\/p>\n

He will want to hear from you but he will wait until you make the first move. Which you won’t make.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, si t\u00fa das el primer paso, \u00e9l tendr\u00e1 la idea de que ha ganado y de que est\u00e1s loca por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Esa idea le halagar\u00e1 al principio, pero antes de lo que imaginas volver\u00e1 a hacerse el interesante.<\/p>\n

You see, while a bullheaded man is inflexible and not big on changing his mind, it’s not impossible.<\/p>\n

Tardar\u00e1 m\u00e1s, pero si realmente te quiere, tendr\u00e1 que llamarte primero o perderte para siempre. No hay otra forma de que esto acabe bien.<\/p>\n

Un hombre inseguro<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He won’t text, he won’t call, he won’t come anywhere near you because he thinks he is not good enough.<\/p>\n

Unlike a stubborn guy whose ego doesn’t let him contact you, this guy won’t get in touch because he is afraid of rejection.<\/p>\n

Your first instinct after reading this is to contact him but don’t (wait at least 30 days).<\/p>\n

A pesar de sus inseguridades y miedos, sigue siendo un hombre y en cuanto vea un mensaje tuyo, habr\u00e1 ganado la partida y lo ver\u00e1 como un signo de tu debilidad.<\/p>\n

Un hombre despistado<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Nunca entiende por qu\u00e9 est\u00e1s enfadado con \u00e9l. Tiene el peor timing para decir cosas<\/a> y es socialmente torpe. \u00bfTe suena familiar?<\/p>\n

Men definitely come from a different planet, there is no doubt about it. That’s why it’s no wonder they don’t pick up on most things.<\/p>\n

If you are dealing with a clueless man, he might not even be aware that you went no contact and he might have the impression that everything is fine. He might text you randomly to see what’s new.<\/p>\n

\u00bfFuncionar\u00e1 la regla de no contacto con este hombre? Una vez m\u00e1s, la respuesta es S\u00cd, lo \u00fanico diferente es el enfoque.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de un periodo de 30 d\u00edas sin contacto, tendr\u00e1s que ser t\u00fa quien tenga que sentarse con \u00e9l y explicarle que ciertas cosas tienen que cambiar si quiere que vuelvas.<\/p>\n

Este es el tipo de hombre al que tendr\u00e1s que guiar constantemente en tu historia de amor.<\/p>\n

Don’t expect him to know or guess your feelings and wants, as he is clueless.<\/p>\n

Un hombre herido<\/h2>\n

\"silueta<\/p>\n

To make things clear from the start, the term \u2018hurt man\u2019, in this case, signifies that you are the one to blame for the break-up.<\/p>\n

You betrayed his trust, cheated on him or have done anything that is unforgivable in his eyes and that’s that.<\/p>\n

Unlike the other guys, who want to contact you but they don’t want to because of their male pride, this guy has no wish to hear from you.<\/p>\n

In this case, the no contact rule won’t work. Sure, there is a possibility that you guys will get back together eventually but you have to be patient and understanding.<\/p>\n

Take a deep look inside though\u2014if you did something wrong, why you did it, if there was something lacking in the relationship that made you act out, etc.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you and your ex-boyfriend are not compatible and he isn’t the man of your dreams. Think about it before you torture yourself and him once again.<\/p>\n

The ‘YOU’ factor in the no contact rule<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

I mentioned this at the beginning but it’s worth stressing it once more. You are the one holding the keys that unlock the doors of your love life.<\/p>\n

The post-breakup period is the worst time to do anything. Your emotions are all over the place. Your mind is anything but focused. Your pride is hurt and your self-esteem shook. You’re heartbroken.<\/p>\n

That’s why the days of no contact are as important for you as they are for getting your ex back, if not more. There is a reason for a minimum of 30 days of complete silence between you and your ex.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que date tiempo. Ded\u00edcate esos 30 d\u00edas (o m\u00e1s si lo necesitas) a ti mismo y s\u00f3lo a ti. Reconstr\u00fayete desde cero.<\/p>\n

Learn from what happened and don’t let it bring you down. See what you want and what you need and if there is the prospect of ever having that with your ex.<\/p>\n

Puede que al final de estos d\u00edas sin contacto, te des cuenta de que est\u00e1s mejor sin tu ex, m\u00e1s en paz contigo mismo, m\u00e1s satisfecho y m\u00e1s feliz.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, si a\u00fan le quieres y crees que existe un fuerte v\u00ednculo entre vosotros y que es el hombre de tus sue\u00f1os, int\u00e9ntalo de nuevo.<\/p>\n

Pero tiene que ser con una condici\u00f3n: tienes que aguantar al menos 30 d\u00edas sin ning\u00fan tipo de contacto, de lo contrario todo ser\u00e1 in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n

Everything you need to get your man back on your side is the no contact rule and male psychology\u2014or in other words, you need their way of thinking.<\/p>\n

There is one thing you need to remember though:The no contact rule doesn’t work if you break it.<\/p>\n

Once you break it, he immediately starts thinking, “I have her eating out of the palm of my hand,” and that’s where he starts taking you for granted and you will be back where you started.<\/p>\n

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