{"id":49018,"date":"2019-12-02T21:28:20","date_gmt":"2019-12-02T21:28:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49018"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:18:30","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:18:30","slug":"dating-someone-with-kids-9-consejos-para-salir-con-una-madre-soltera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dating-someone-with-kids-9-consejos-para-salir-con-una-madre-soltera\/","title":{"rendered":"Salir con alguien que tiene hijos: 9 consejos para salir con un padre soltero"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una de las cuestiones m\u00e1s importantes a las que nos enfrentamos todos es si queremos tener hijos o no. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no wrong answer here\u2014we are all entitled to make our own choices and to run our lives in the way we think best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Algunos so\u00f1\u00e1is con tener la casa llena de hijos y pens\u00e1is que ser padres es lo \u00fanico que da sentido a vuestra existencia. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, there are some people who simply don\u2019t see themselves as good parents and who have no desire to acquire that role.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, the choice is all yours and your partner\u2019s. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sin embargo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurre cuando, de repente, un chico nuevo entra a formar parte de tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida familiar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, even though you probably still didn\u2019t have plans on becoming a parent?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What happens when you meet someone who is already a parent, while you\u2019re child-free? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfPuede funcionar este tipo de relaci\u00f3n y c\u00f3mo sacarle el m\u00e1ximo partido?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014dating is chaotic and hard but dating someone with children is even more challenging. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sin embargo, hay algunas cosas que debe tener en cuenta antes de plante\u00e1rselo y aqu\u00ed tiene las m\u00e1s importantes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49049\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982.jpg\" alt=\"familia feliz\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Salir con alguien que tiene hijos: ventajas e inconvenientes<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tienes una nueva experiencia en la vida<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acabas recibiendo un mont\u00f3n de amor sincero<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pones a prueba tu car\u00e1cter<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te preparas para el papel de padre&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pero<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consigues mucho menos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tiempo a solas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con su pareja<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Es una prueba para su paciencia y <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/6-signos-reveladores-de-que-no-eres-fuerte-mentalmente-solo-te-haces-el-duro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fortaleza mental<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trae mucho estr\u00e9s<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It causes you more problems than a \u2018regular\u2019 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>9 cosas que hay que tener en cuenta antes de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-a-tener-en-cuenta-al-salir-con-un-hombre-con-hijos\/\">Salir con un padre soltero&nbsp;<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1. Los ni\u00f1os vienen en un paquete<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317.jpg\" alt=\"familia jugando junta\" width=\"800\" height=\"671\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317-300x252.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317-768x644.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Algunos de los m\u00e1s importantes <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consejos sobre citas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you mustn\u2019t forget when you consider a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-dealbreakers-evitan-empezar-una-nueva-relacion\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">padre soltero<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (or if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salir con alguien con un hijo en camino<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) es que nunca se obtiene un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuevo socio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sus hijos siempre vienen en el paquete, te guste o no. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No importa la edad que tengan sus hijos, siempre seguir\u00e1n siendo la parte m\u00e1s importante de ellos y si decides compartir tu vida con esta persona, estos ni\u00f1os tambi\u00e9n formar\u00e1n parte de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially the case if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salir con alguien que tiene un hijo con necesidades especiales<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (for example, if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salir con alguien que tiene un hijo con s\u00edndrome de Down<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or some other mental or physical disability); this kid will need their parent\u2019s help and guidance for the rest of their life and that is simply something you have to accept.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re in the initial stages of your relationship and if you still haven\u2019t met the kids; just because they\u2019re not physically present in front of you every day, it doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t exist. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And it certainly doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll manage to \u2018get rid\u2019 of them in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un mill\u00f3n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a\u00f1os.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00ed, es una gran responsabilidad, pero tambi\u00e9n es algo en lo que tienes que pensar desde el principio, antes de que las cosas se pongan serias. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, nobody knows what will happen and whether your relationship will work out but you need to figure out whether you\u2019re ready to become a potential <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">padrastro\/madrastra<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o no de inmediato.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t worry\u2014nobody will judge you if you realize you\u2019re not cut out for something like this. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adem\u00e1s, es mucho m\u00e1s honesto decir <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la verdad<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> justo despu\u00e9s del <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primera cita<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (o unos cuantos mensajes intercambiados en un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">citas en l\u00ednea<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sitio) que echarse atr\u00e1s m\u00e1s adelante en el proceso.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. It won&#8217;t be easy<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49020\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste junto al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cada pieza de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consejos sobre citas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> te dir\u00e1 que estar en una&nbsp; <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-cosas-que-solo-hara-si-tienes-una-relacion-estable\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">padre soltero<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es dif\u00edcil. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Requiere muchas dudas sobre uno mismo y a\u00fan m\u00e1s paciencia y energ\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s face it\u2014maintaining a healthy romantic relationship with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nueva persona<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is hard enough, let alone when there are children involved. However, it doesn\u2019t make it impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f3lo tienes que ser perfectamente consciente de todo lo que has contratado. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recuerda ser comprensivo en todo momento y mantener los nervios templados.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, nobody forced you to get yourself involved in this and now it\u2019s your chance to play your cards right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00ed, habr\u00e1 momentos en los que desear\u00e1s no haberte metido en este l\u00edo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Moments when you\u2019ll want to give up and run for your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, on the other hand, when the beautiful times come and when the sun starts to shine again, you\u2019ll see that all of the hardships were worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Su pareja result\u00f3 herida en su relaci\u00f3n anterior<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49021\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste en el banquillo\" width=\"800\" height=\"551\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204-768x529.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter whether this person you\u2019ve started dating was officially married or this kid was born in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n anterior<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014the bottom line is the same; they\u2019ve been through a lot. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019ve experienced a nasty divorce or a painful break-up and something like that would leave a mark on anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Al fin y al cabo, toda ruptura de una <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es duro. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sin embargo, hay una gran diferencia entre perder a alguien a quien quer\u00edas pero volver a tu antiguo <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-vida-de-soltero-no-eligio-eligio-la-vida-de-soltero\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida de soltero<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> justo despu\u00e9s y quedarte con un ser humano completamente nuevo al que tienes que cuidar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This person wasn\u2019t only heartbroken and abandoned\u2014they also developed serious trust issues and emotional traumas. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despu\u00e9s de todo, su pareja, que prometi\u00f3 seguir formando parte de su vida para siempre, les abandon\u00f3, por lo que es natural que les cueste dejar entrar a alguien nuevo en su coraz\u00f3n, sin esperar el mismo resultado.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, they are probably over everything that happened by now but that doesn\u2019t make them emotionally baggage-free. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That doesn\u2019t mean their pain is wiped away or that they can live as if these painful experiences never happened.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sin embargo, hay que recordar que todo esto les hizo mucho m\u00e1s fuertes que los dem\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They didn\u2019t have time to grieve or feel sorry for themselves. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De hecho, todo su proceso de curaci\u00f3n fue muy diferente al de una simple ruptura.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They couldn\u2019t focus on the pain they were feeling because they had to put all of their energy into dragging their kid out of all this unharmed. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This person didn\u2019t just manage to repair their broken heart\u2014they also raised a child in the process, which is worthy of admiration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, don\u2019t be surprised by their strength of character when you notice it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The hell they\u2019ve been through toughened them up and if their inner power intimidates you, it is time to rethink your choices.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Tienes que comportarte como un adulto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49022\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de rosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lo \u00faltimo que <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">padre soltero<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> quiere es otro ni\u00f1o al que tienen que criar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> They don\u2019t need someone who doesn\u2019t know what they want or a person who will bring unnecessary drama into their life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qu\u00e9 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/se-necesita-un-hombre-fuerte-para-ganar-el-corazon-de-una-madre-soltera\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">madres solteras<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y los pap\u00e1s buscan es un adulto que sea su compa\u00f1ero en todos los sentidos de la palabra. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quieren a alguien que pueda ser su igual, alguien que tenga la capacidad de caminar por la vida hombro con hombro a su lado, en lugar de un mocoso inmaduro y malcriado que espera constantemente que le gu\u00eden.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por lo tanto, si considera <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salir con alguien con hijo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">necesitas reconsiderar tu madurez. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfEres capaz de ser un adulto o esperas que alguien te cuide?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. Don&#8217;t rush things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49023\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546.jpg\" alt=\"citas en pareja\" width=\"800\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546-768x492.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u00e1s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">buenos consejos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que debes tener en cuenta es tomarte las cosas con calma y respetar siempre este <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nueva persona<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2019s personal boundaries. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuidado con el hecho de que <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">madres solteras<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and dads can\u2019t afford to get themselves in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with just about anyone overnight and if you\u2019re not ready to give them the time you need, it is better to walk away right away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta persona tendr\u00e1 que evaluar tu personalidad en m\u00e1s de un nivel <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-deberian-pasar-antes-de-comprometerte-con-un-chico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">antes de comprometerse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a ti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfTienes fuerza de car\u00e1cter? \u00bfHacia d\u00f3nde va tu vida y c\u00f3mo influir\u00e1s en sus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">child&#8217;s life<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfEres lo suficientemente serio como para hacer planes de futuro importantes? \u00bfO vives tu vida d\u00eda a d\u00eda, dej\u00e1ndote llevar por la corriente?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfEs usted responsable? \u00bfCumples tus promesas?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfTiene fama de alborotador? \u00bfEs estable econ\u00f3micamente o piensa vivir de ellos?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfSer\u00edas un buen modelo para tus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s child<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? \u00bfEs usted alguien que ser\u00eda un buen <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">madrastra<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o padrastro de sus hijos?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estos son los dilemas que todo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">padrastro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tiene que afrontar antes de empezar nada serio. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, the last thing they plan on doing is bringing someone who can\u2019t be trusted into their children\u2019s lives, without doing a detailed background check on you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, don\u2019t rush things when it comes to getting to know your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hijastros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Their parent will know when it is the right time to take such a huge step and you can\u2019t expect it to happen after the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primera cita<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o unos cuantos mensajes intercambiados en un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">citas en l\u00ednea<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sitio.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Don&#8217;t expect them to put you in first place<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vista asombrosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una de las cosas que muchas personas <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaciones duraderas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">madres solteras<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y a los padres les cuesta m\u00e1s aceptar que nunca tendr\u00e1n <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primer puesto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in their partner&#8217;s life, as much as they love them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is simply a fact that you can\u2019t change (and shouldn\u2019t even want to) and something you have to deal with from the very start.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019ll be <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-senales-de-que-sufriste-desatencion-emocional-de-nino-y-como-te-afecta-ahora\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desatendida emocionalmente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o no se tienen en cuenta en este <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pero tienes que saber que su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">los ni\u00f1os son lo primero<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pase lo que pase. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They will always love them more, take care of them more and put their needs in front of your relationship\u2019s well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, don\u2019t get all surprised when, for example, they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-alguien-cancela-sus-planes-en-el-ultimo-minuto\/\">cancelar planes en el <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-alguien-cancela-sus-planes-en-el-ultimo-minuto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00faltimo minuto<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because one of the children got a fever or when they don\u2019t answer your text at the exact moment you sent it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t freak out when your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s children<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> durante una rom\u00e1ntica <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tiempo a solas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you\u2019ve planned, simply because they couldn\u2019t find a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ni\u00f1era<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a tiempo (o si su <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ni\u00f1era<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> los dej\u00f3 plantados en el <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00faltimo minuto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To put things simply, don\u2019t expect to have a full-time boyfriend or girlfriend who will only be dedicated to your relationship because, whether you like to hear this or not, there is always something going on in their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kids\u2019 lives<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> they\u2019re also thinking about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially the case if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salir con alguien que tiene un hijo discapacitado<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: tengan en cuenta que tienen <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un mill\u00f3n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> responsibilities you know nothing about and that in the back of their mind, there is always a part of them worrying about their kid\u2019s health and future.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. Don&#8217;t interfere with their parenting methods<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49025\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014.jpg\" alt=\"ma con un ni\u00f1o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despite the fact that you\u2019re in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n seria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> con su pareja, un trozo de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">buenos consejos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is not to forget that you\u2019re still not a part of this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">familia combinada<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lo que significa que no tienes ning\u00fan derecho a inmiscuirte en ciertos aspectos de su vida. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida familiar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto se aplica especialmente a interferir en sus m\u00e9todos de crianza.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lo que hay que recordar es que estos ni\u00f1os tienen una <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mam\u00e1 y pap\u00e1<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y no es tu trabajo criarlos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, you can help your partner when they ask you to but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to make some important decisions regarding these <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kids\u2019 lives<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muchos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">madrastras<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y padrastros cometen el error de ser demasiado amables con sus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hijastros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pensando que es un camino seguro a sus corazones. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though becoming pals with these children is awesome, that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re entitled to skip the rules their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mam\u00e1 y pap\u00e1<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> impuestas, s\u00f3lo para parecer m\u00e1s guay o para demostrar tu amor por ellas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, you don\u2019t have the right to punish or discipline them in any way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De hecho, si ves que se comportan de forma inadecuada, que hacen algo prohibido o que te tratan con falta de respeto, es tu trabajo informar a sus padres al respecto y ellos se encargar\u00e1n a partir de ah\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your views on your partner\u2019s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/este-metodo-es-una-necesidad-cuando-co-crianza-de-los-hijos-con-un-narcisista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e9todos de crianza<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> no son relevantes. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, you can always offer them your advice but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to question their child-rearing strategies or to judge them because you think you would do something better.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. You&#8217;ll have to deal with their ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49026\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adem\u00e1s de conseguir un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">paquete<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> which includes your partner&#8217;s kids, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la verdad<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is that you\u2019ll also get their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex-esposa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o marido, de una forma u otra. Despu\u00e9s de todo, los dos son <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">coparentalidad<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> juntos y esta persona sigue siendo una parte inevitable de su vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lo \u00faltimo que deber\u00edas mostrar son unos celos tontos hacia tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">new partner\u2019s ex-wife<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o marido pensando que todav\u00eda hay algo entre los dos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have in mind that they will be these kids\u2019 parents for the rest of their lives, even when their kids become <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adultos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and that you won\u2019t get rid of your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s ex<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pronto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, I\u2019m sure you also think that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">los ni\u00f1os son lo primero<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n quieres lo mejor para estas criaturas inocentes. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eres perfectamente consciente de que la salud <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/family\/5-consejos-exitosos-para-co-paternidad-con-un-narcisista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">coparentalidad<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es lo que ayudar\u00e1 a este ni\u00f1o a crecer para ser la mejor persona posible, as\u00ed que \u00bfqui\u00e9n eres t\u00fa para decir algo en contra?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. Si te vas, abandonas tambi\u00e9n al ni\u00f1o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49027\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369.jpg\" alt=\"familia en el bosque\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dejar a un ser querido es una de las cosas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles que todos hemos tenido que hacer. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sin embargo, alejarse de varias personas a las que quieres (y que te corresponden) es a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil, sobre todo si una de esas personas es un hijo al que te encari\u00f1aste.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta es otra de las cosas que hay que tener en cuenta antes de comprometerse con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">padre soltero<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014if you leave, you\u2019re not only abandoning your lover, you\u2019re also abandoning a child who embraced you into their life and who accepted you a part of their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">familia combinada<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that\u2014you&#8217;re also leaving a void in this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">child&#8217;s life<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y el alma.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relacion-forzada\/\">obligado a permanecer en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> that doesn\u2019t work just because of the kids; I\u2019m just pointing out that ending a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n seria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> conlleva m\u00e1s responsabilidad que una ruptura normal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, this situation would be more painful for you as well, because you won\u2019t only <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/160-emotivas-frases-de-te-echo-de-menos-para-el-y-para-ella-para-enviar-a-tu-ser-querido\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">echas de menos a tu novio o novia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014you\u2019ll also miss the kids.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-49028\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Salir con alguien que tiene hijos: 9 consejos para salir con un padre soltero\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the most important questions all of us face is whether we want kids or not. There is no wrong answer here\u2014we are all entitled to make our own choices and to run our lives in the way we think best. 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