{"id":49055,"date":"2020-05-03T19:29:12","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T19:29:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49055"},"modified":"2021-11-03T14:54:21","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T14:54:21","slug":"el-sindrome-de-la-hierba-mas-verde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-sindrome-de-la-hierba-mas-verde\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales del s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde y c\u00f3mo superarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you often have the feeling that if you had another job, if you could buy another car, if you could change your appearance and things in your relationship, you\u2019d be ultimately happy or happier than you are now? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfSientes que siempre hay algo mejor que te est\u00e1s perdiendo? <\/span><\/p>\n

If your answer is yes, I’m sorry to tell you, but you might be another victim of <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span>!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es exactamente el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde?<\/h2>\n

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Una de las formas m\u00e1s sencillas de describir este s\u00edndrome (o fen\u00f3meno) es compar\u00e1ndolo con los juguetes.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, imagine that you have a toy that\u2019s in perfect condition, intact.  You’re playing with it routinely and always having fun while doing it. <\/span><\/p>\n

And then, one day, you start thinking about all the other toys in the store that you don’t have as of yet, all the potential upgrades of that one toy you already possess. <\/span><\/p>\n

And you start reassuring yourself that once you succeed in buying another toy or upgrading the one you already have, you\u2019ll be happier. <\/span><\/p>\n

You convince yourself that you’re not satisfied with the situation you’re in at the moment and the only time you’ll be truly happy is when something changes. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re certain that the grass is <\/i><\/b>m\u00e1s verde<\/i><\/b> por otro <\/i><\/b>lado de la valla<\/i><\/b>!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que la comparaci\u00f3n es un poco absurda, pero ocurre lo mismo con nuestras relaciones, trabajos, apariencia y el entorno en el que vivimos. <\/span><\/p>\n

La b\u00fasqueda constante de algo mejor, m\u00e1s poderoso, m\u00e1s fuerte y m\u00e1s grande siempre ha estado arraigada en <\/span>seres humanos<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

A veces queremos poner fin a nuestra <\/span>relaci\u00f3n actual<\/span> s\u00f3lo porque pensemos que entrar en un <\/span>nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/span> nos har\u00e1 m\u00e1s felices (y hacernos la vida m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil<\/a>). <\/span><\/p>\n

Decidimos <\/span>romper<\/span> con nuestro socio actual s\u00f3lo para darnos cuenta de que un <\/span>relaci\u00f3n perfecta<\/span> doesn’t exist<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Sometimes we think if we upgraded our appearance, we\u2019d be more attractive and therefore get more attention on <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> o tener una vida amorosa mejor, lo que nos har\u00e1 m\u00e1s felices. <\/span><\/p>\n

A veces buscamos <\/span>autoestima<\/span> en cosas artificiales y tenemos un <\/span>mal rato<\/span> seeing the real picture of the situation we’re in.<\/span><\/p>\n

We start seeing flaws everywhere and we’re constantly looking for something better \u2013 the proverbial <\/i><\/b>hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/i><\/b>.<\/i><\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

En <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba siempre es m\u00e1s verde<\/span> becomes a part of our daily lives and often we’re not even aware of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, as always, there’s one sure way to find out whether this is the case with you as well! <\/span><\/p>\n

If the following signs speak the truth, I’m sorry to tell you, but chances are you’re one of the victims of this merciless syndrome! (In which case, make sure to also check down below the tips and steps that\u2019ll help you overcome it.)<\/span><\/p>\n

10 SIGNS YOU’RE SUFFERING FROM THE GRASS IS GREENER SYNDROME<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Constantemente notas defectos e imperfecciones<\/h2>\n

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Uno de los mayores signos de <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span> es la tendencia a estar siempre al acecho de errores, defectos e imperfecciones en la vida cotidiana. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eso incluye tu aspecto, tu trabajo, <\/span>mejores amigos<\/span><\/a>En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, s\u00f3lo se ve lo que est\u00e1 mal y, por lo tanto, se ignora todo lo bueno.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fijarse constantemente en el lado negativo de todo es el mayor atajo para sentirse miserable y pensar que hay que ser perfecto para ser verdaderamente feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n

Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you\u2019ll notice that not everything is as bad as you thought it is. <\/span><\/p>\n

Buscas la perfecci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

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\u00c9ste est\u00e1 conectado con el anterior. <\/span><\/p>\n

Constantly noticing negative things results in seeking perfection \u2013 where you think that if you buy that one T-shirt, if you lose weight, if you find <\/span>nuevos amigos<\/span>, si consigues tu <\/span>ex atr\u00e1s,<\/span> o si sales de tu <\/span>relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/span>, you\u2019ll become perfectly happy and your life will start making sense.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar convencido de que siempre hay algo mejor que necesitas poseer o conseguir para ser feliz es una de las mayores <\/span>banderas rojas<\/span> that you’re suffering from <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span>! <\/span><\/p>\n

Buscar la perfecci\u00f3n es una aut\u00e9ntica monta\u00f1a rusa y, una vez que empieza a gobernar tu vida, es realmente dif\u00edcil detenerla. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re too occupied about the future<\/h2>\n

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\u00bfPiensa a menudo en posibles acontecimientos o resultados futuros, cosas nuevas y similares, que le har\u00e1n m\u00e1s feliz de lo que es en este momento? <\/span><\/p>\n

If yes, it means you’re unable to focus on things that are in front of you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re unable to live in the moment \u2013 another sign of <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar demasiado ocupado con el futuro significa no disfrutar de lo que ya tienes y buscar siempre m\u00e1s cosas o cosas diferentes, pensando que necesitas un poco m\u00e1s para ser verdaderamente feliz. Pero, \u00bfes realmente as\u00ed? <\/span><\/p>\n

Se dice que cuando perdemos algo, s\u00f3lo entonces nos damos cuenta de su verdadero valor, y cuando nos pasa algo malo, s\u00f3lo entonces nos damos cuenta de lo felices que \u00e9ramos en realidad en ese momento. <\/span>primer puesto<\/span>. So, think about it…<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>35 maneras eficaces de vivir tu vida en voz alta<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Teme el compromiso <\/h2>\n

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Cuando conoces a alguien por primera vez <\/span>primera vez,<\/span> y despu\u00e9s de un tiempo te enamoras de verdad de ellos, \u00bfte entra ese miedo a acercarte m\u00e1s a ellos e iniciar algo m\u00e1s serio como una relaci\u00f3n? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEse miedo est\u00e1 relacionado con el temor a quedar atrapado con esa \u00fanica persona, lo que le impedir\u00e1 conocer a <\/span>gente nueva<\/span>? <\/span><\/p>\n

In most of the cases, fearing commitment is linked with the inability to accept the reality (what you have) because of the idea that there\u2019s probably something better out there waiting for you to grab. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todo ello se traduce en evitar el compromiso y aplicar <\/span>Sin contacto<\/span> regla para deshacerte de esa persona que tanto te gusta. <\/span><\/p>\n

After that comes regret in the form of an illusive sentence: “<\/span>I <\/span><\/i>no<\/span><\/i> even like him\/her that much…<\/span><\/i>” <\/span>El s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span> te impide darte cuenta de que ninguna persona puede ser feliz en una relaci\u00f3n si est\u00e1 constantemente pensando en lo que le falta o anticipando algo mejor y m\u00e1s grande.<\/span><\/p>\n

Huyes de las cosas<\/h2>\n

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Cada vez que sientes que tu trabajo te consume, que tu pareja te asfixia exigi\u00e9ndote atenci\u00f3n constantemente o que alguna otra cosa se convierte en una carga en tu vida, \u00bfsueles huir de las cosas sin siquiera pensarlo dos veces? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfLleva usted el t\u00edtulo de <\/span>volquete<\/span> en casi todas sus relaciones anteriores? <\/span><\/p>\n

If your answer to all of this is yes, it probably means you’re being blinded by <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span> sin ni siquiera ser consciente de ello. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re running away from things because you’re convinced that the only way to solve it and being happy again is to abandon it and start looking for something better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te quejas demasiado y comparar con otros<\/a><\/h2>\n

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You’re constantly complaining about basically everything that, according to your standards, is not acceptable. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re complaining about the weather, your partner’s habits, your colleagues, and your life in general. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y deseas que todos ellos simplemente desaparezcan, \u00bfverdad? <\/span><\/p>\n

You wish all of this because you’re convinced that there\u2019s something better waiting around the corner and the only thing you need to do is to pursue it. But, life doesn’t work that way. <\/span><\/p>\n

We convince ourselves that what we’re going through is the worst kind of punishment while other people are enjoying in their perfect lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

For example, let’s say that your <\/span>ex novio<\/span> o novia era un poco <\/span>ligar<\/span> cuando acababas de conocerlos y a menudo pasaban tiempo en <\/span>aplicaciones de citas<\/span>, <\/span>de fiesta,<\/span> and enjoying other people’s attention even though they were with you at the time, but they never actually cheated on you.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then you look at your friend’s “perfect” relationship only to find out later that they broke up because their girlfriend\/boyfriend was cheating the entire time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Then you realize that the grass isn’t greener on the other <\/span>lado de la valla<\/span> y que nada es lo que parece, \u00bfverdad? <\/span><\/p>\n

Fantaseas mucho<\/h2>\n

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\u00bfSus pensamientos se redirigen constantemente a imaginar que se despierta al lado de una pareja perfecta, que tiene un trabajo perfecto, que juega con ni\u00f1os perfectos, que tiene toneladas de dinero y, en pocas palabras, que tiene una vida totalmente opuesta a la que tiene ahora? <\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re spending tremendous amounts of time on fantasizing about becoming someone else and living a perfect life according to your standards, it means you’re convinced that the grass is <\/span>m\u00e1s verde<\/span> and because of that, you can’t really see the real value of what you already have in front of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You use phrases like \u201cwhat if\u201d and \u201cif only\u201d on repeat<\/h2>\n

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“What if” and “if only” are phrases that are closely connected with fantasizing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Thoughts like “<\/span>\u00bfY si quiero algo m\u00e1s emocionante?<\/span><\/i>” leads to statements like “<\/span>Ojal\u00e1 tuviera a alguien m\u00e1s excitante en mi vida.<\/span><\/i>” <\/span><\/p>\n

Estas frases est\u00e1n directamente relacionadas con pensar que la hierba siempre est\u00e1 <\/span>m\u00e1s verde<\/span> por otro <\/span>lado de la valla<\/span> \u2013 <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Repetir constantemente que desear\u00edas que algo fuera diferente pero no hacer nada al respecto equivale a <\/span>vivir en una ilusi\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> y esperando que las cosas empiecen a mejorar por arte de magia.<\/span><\/p>\n

It also comes down to being ungrateful for all the positive things you have in your life because you’re only focused on the negative ones.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re prone to acting on your impulses<\/h2>\n

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When you’re watching an advertisement where an expensive, thingamajig is being advertised in an appealing way \u2013 like something you really need to own in order to be truly happy \u2013 do you instantly act on your impulses and decide to buy it (despite the fact that you don’t really have that money to spend and the thing will be of no use to you)?<\/span><\/p>\n

If this happens to you often in other aspects of your life as well, I’m sorry to tell you, you’re probably a sufferer of <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este s\u00edndrome puede afectar a tu capacidad de pensar racionalmente y, por tanto, convertirte en v\u00edctima de tus propias malas decisiones y de la b\u00fasqueda de una felicidad artificial.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>180 frases conmovedoras sobre la vida que te inspirar\u00e1n<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Te cuesta encontrar la gratitud<\/h2>\n

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Let’s face it. There\u2019s not a single person on earth with a perfect life devoid of any struggle and hardship, and yet usually those who have less are more grateful for what they have (I call it the curse of the modern times).<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re having a <\/span>mal rato<\/span> finding gratitude, it\u2019s probably because you always think you need more and, as a result, you forget to praise what you already have.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, life doesn’t work that way. You could have everything that you\u2019ve ever wanted and I’m sure there would always be something that\u2019s missing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tener un <\/span>mal rato<\/span> ser agradecido y adorar las peque\u00f1as cosas de la vida significa estar cegado por la b\u00fasqueda de <\/span>hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00d3MO SUPERAR EL S\u00cdNDROME DE LA HIERBA M\u00c1S VERDE<\/h2>\n

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If you’ve just realized that you might be suffering from <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span>, there’s really no need to worry (no matter how impossible this sounds to you at the moment). <\/span><\/p>\n

Like every other syndrome, this one can also be overcome \u2013 all you need to do is be persistent and never lose hope! <\/span><\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunos consejos y medidas \u00fatiles para hacer frente a este problema <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span> \u00a1y derrotarlo en el menor tiempo posible!<\/span><\/p>\n

Identificar la ra\u00edz del problema<\/h2>\n

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El primer paso para curarse de <\/span>el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/span> es identificar la causa ra\u00edz. <\/span><\/p>\n

Piense si su infancia ha desencadenado el desarrollo de este s\u00edndrome. <\/span><\/p>\n

Las siguientes preguntas le ayudar\u00e1n a darse cuenta de si sus acontecimientos pasados est\u00e1n directamente relacionados con el s\u00edndrome:<\/span><\/p>\n