{"id":49074,"date":"2020-10-22T20:05:29","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T20:05:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49074"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:16:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:16:58","slug":"no-envies-ese-mensaje-de-feliz-navidad-a-tu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-envies-ese-mensaje-de-feliz-navidad-a-tu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"No env\u00edes ese mensaje de \"Feliz Navidad\" a tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La nostalgia se apodera de ti y tu mente y tu coraz\u00f3n no dejan de volver a ese lugar feliz que sol\u00edais compartir tu ex y t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s pensando en el calor de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/4-cosas-puede-encontrar-abrazos-chico\/\">su fuerte abrazo<\/a>acurrucados frente al televisor viendo una pel\u00edcula navide\u00f1a.<\/p>\n<p>You miss him, you miss all those moments of pure joy and you keep forgetting that it wasn\u2019t all that perfect.<\/p>\n<p>All you want to do is reach out and make contact and you think a Merry Christmas text gives you the perfect excuse to casually start the conversation off and maybe even fix what\u2019s already broken.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t do that.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Don\u2019t send that \u201cMerry Christmas\u201d text because he isn\u2019t worth it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> He isn\u2019t worth a minute of your time or efforts. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Usted tiene esta fantas\u00eda perfecta de c\u00f3mo los mensajes de texto se llevar\u00e1 a cabo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108757\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Escribir\u00e1 algo entra\u00f1able y sincero y le desear\u00e1 a \u00e9l y a su familia una Feliz Navidad.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, esperar\u00e1 de \u00e9l la mejor reacci\u00f3n posible a su texto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Esperar\u00e1 la misma calidez de vuelta.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Esperar\u00e1s que te diga que te echa de menos, que ahora sabe lo imb\u00e9cil que ha sido y que cometi\u00f3 el mayor error de su vida al alejarse de ti. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Desgraciadamente, las posibilidades de que esto ocurra son m\u00ednimas.<\/p>\n<p>At best, you will get \u201cThanx.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>En el peor de los casos, te ignorar\u00e1n.<\/p>\n<p>En cualquier caso, doler\u00e1 mucho.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do that to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow him to make you feel small once more.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00ed\u00f1ase al <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/recuperacion-de-una-ruptura-regla-de-los-90-dias-sin-contacto\/\">norma de no contacto <\/a>y nunca lo rompas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Recuerda, tuvo su oportunidad, tuvo todas las oportunidades del mundo para ser el hombre que te mereces y las desperdici\u00f3 todas. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Piensa en todas las veces que te hizo mal.<\/p>\n<p>Piensa en lo mucho que te decepcion\u00f3 incluso antes de vuestra ruptura.<\/p>\n<p>It was all one-sided, wasn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>Eras t\u00fa la que hac\u00eda todo el esfuerzo, la que iniciaba conversaciones y mensajes, la que hac\u00eda planes y hac\u00eda lo imposible por hacerle feliz y que te quisiera m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>So, whenever you want to text him, whether it\u2019s Christmas or not, keep in mind that you don\u2019t actually miss him, you miss the person you created him to be in your mind.<\/p>\n<p>El verdadero \u00e9l no tiene nada que ver con tu versi\u00f3n azucarada de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>He probably doesn\u2019t even have the potential of becoming that man one day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108763\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Puedes hacerlo mucho mejor.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Mucho, mucho mejor. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t you ever forget that for a second! <\/b><\/p>\n<p>C\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo y en convertirte en lo mejor que puedas so\u00f1ar.<\/p>\n<p>Mira en tu interior, observa la persona que realmente eres y date cuenta de una vez por todas de que mereces a alguien mejor.<\/p>\n<p>Eres digno de amor.<\/p>\n<p>Eres digna de un hombre que quiera estar contigo en todo momento y tratarte como te mereces.<\/p>\n<p><b>As\u00ed que con la Navidad a la vuelta de la esquina, toma la firme decisi\u00f3n de no enviar mensajes de Feliz Navidad o Felices Fiestas a tu ex. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Above all, respect yourself and don\u2019t sell yourself short.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit.jpg\" alt=\"mujer disfrutando del esp\u00edritu navide\u00f1o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit.jpg 5000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eres digna de amor verdadero, no del compromiso a medias que \u00e9l te estaba dando.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 m\u00e1s fuerte que tu nostalgia y tus sentimientos y detente cada vez que tengas ganas de enviarle un mensaje de texto.<\/p>\n<p>Mira a tu ex por lo que es y no por lo que deseas que sea.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez que lo hagas, ver\u00e1s que no es el hombre con el que debes pasar tu vida para siempre.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t send that text, don\u2019t make that call, don\u2019t browse through his social media, kick him out of your life and he will, with time, disappear from your heart too. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Olv\u00eddate por completo del contacto durante las fiestas y conc\u00e9dete un comienzo de a\u00f1o limpio, tranquilo y m\u00e1s feliz.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108754\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No env\u00edes ese mensaje de &quot;Feliz Navidad&quot; a tu ex\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nostalgia is getting the best of you and your mind and your heart keep going back to that happy place you and your ex used to share. You are thinking about the warmth of his tight hug, you two cuddled up in front of the TV watching a Christmas movie. You miss him, you miss&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":108767,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49074","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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