{"id":49124,"date":"2019-12-04T11:49:44","date_gmt":"2019-12-04T11:49:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49124"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:34:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:34:47","slug":"la-incertidumbre-es-inevitable-por-lo-que-la-flexibilidad-es-esencial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-incertidumbre-es-inevitable-por-lo-que-la-flexibilidad-es-esencial\/","title":{"rendered":"La incertidumbre es inevitable, as\u00ed que la flexibilidad es esencial"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Uncertainty is a fact of life \u2013 it\u2019s something that\u2019s inherent in our day-to-day and unavoidable. Even if you try to control as much as possible, there will still be some unexpected twists and turns. This is why it\u2019s so important to remain adaptable, especially when you begin a new relationship.<\/p>\n<p>There is a lot of uncertainty in the beginning of a new partnership when you\u2019re still getting to know each other. Just as you have your own set of goals, wishes, and dreams, your partner is just as complex. You don\u2019t have to agree on everything. The important thing is to get to know the other person and see if their set of values is aligned with yours in a way that\u2019s compatible in the long run.<\/p>\n<p>This means different things to different people \u2013 it all depends on your individual upbringing and perspective on life. Maybe it\u2019s important to you to meet a family man who your parents approve of or someone who integrates well into your group of friends. Maybe he needs to be funny, spontaneous or have everything well-planned out. There is no right or wrong way to be \u2013 rather, there are things that are right or wrong for a potential relationship.<\/p>\n<p>If you love to travel but your new man is a homebody, then the bond is not likely to work. If you love going to the gym but he hates the thought of exercise gear, it\u2019s not likely to last. Find someone who gets you and who you get.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-49130 size-full\" title=\"La incertidumbre es inevitable, as\u00ed que la flexibilidad es esencial\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_380160043a.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja joven sentada en la playa viendo la puesta de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_380160043a.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_380160043a-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_380160043a-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, inevitablemente habr\u00e1 cosas de cada uno que difieran. No hay dos personas exactamente iguales. Y aqu\u00ed es donde entra en juego la adaptabilidad. Si la uni\u00f3n vale la pena para ti y viceversa, pod\u00e9is acordar no estar de acuerdo en ciertos temas y aun as\u00ed hacer que funcione.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t get too hung up on reveling over your similarities that you discount the importance of your differences. If you were one hundred percent the same at every level, you would likely be pretty bored anyway. It\u2019s the differences that keep life interesting. Those things your partner loves that you haven\u2019t had a chance to experience will keep you growing and involving.<\/p>\n<p>La adaptabilidad evitar\u00e1 que te estanques. A veces el cambio puede asustar. Puede ser dif\u00edcil. Pero son precisamente estas cosas las que hacen que merezca la pena. Si fuera f\u00e1cil, no tendr\u00eda sentido experimentar el cambio.<\/p>\n<p>When you enter into a new partnership, keep an open mind. The first thing your partner says or does that\u2019s unfamiliar or you disagree with, communicate your perspective and talk through it. Remember, too, that just as you would not want to do everything your mate suggests, he\u2019s not likely to want to do everything you like to either. Meet in the middle.<\/p>\n<p>When you cannot seem to come to a compromise on something but you\u2019re still completely smitten by your new love, find some time to mull it over on your own before totally writing off the other person\u2019s point-of-view. Sometimes it just takes a little quiet time to truly understand that you can be a bit more flexible than what you may have at first thought. Even if you don\u2019t agree with the whole point, there might be pieces intertwined that still intrigue you.<\/p>\n<p>Black and white thinking is counterproductive to any relationship. Just as you wouldn\u2019t want to be with someone who was so set in their ways that everything you said or did was wrong and that was that, don\u2019t expect your partner to mold to your expectations. Allow him to be an individual and appreciate him for your individually. By the same token, make sure you\u2019re appreciated for yours, too.<\/p>\n<p>All relationships take work. There needs to be some give and take to withstand the test of time. While being inflexible may work in the beginning because neither of you wants to upset the other person, this just isn\u2019t feasible for a long-term union.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-49128 size-large\" title=\"La incertidumbre es inevitable, as\u00ed que la flexibilidad es esencial\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Uncertainty-Is-Inevitable-So-Flexibility-Is-Essential-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"La incertidumbre es inevitable, as\u00ed que la flexibilidad es esencial\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Uncertainty-Is-Inevitable-So-Flexibility-Is-Essential-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Uncertainty-Is-Inevitable-So-Flexibility-Is-Essential-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Uncertainty-Is-Inevitable-So-Flexibility-Is-Essential.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Uncertainty is a fact of life \u2013 it\u2019s something that\u2019s inherent in our day-to-day and unavoidable. Even if you try to control as much as possible, there will still be some unexpected twists and turns. This is why it\u2019s so important to remain adaptable, especially when you begin a new relationship. There is a lot&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":49129,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49124","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_380160043.jpg",800,545,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49124","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=49124"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49124\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/49129"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49124"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=49124"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=49124"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}