{"id":4932,"date":"2017-09-13T10:13:20","date_gmt":"2017-09-13T10:13:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4932"},"modified":"2022-03-08T19:01:39","modified_gmt":"2022-03-08T19:01:39","slug":"carta-abierta-girl-stopped-loving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-abierta-girl-stopped-loving\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta abierta a la chica que dej\u00f3 de quererse a s\u00ed misma"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eres una chica que seguir\u00e1 dando hasta que no le quede nada.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You are draining yourself. You want to make everyone around you happy and loved. But, in the process, you are forgetting about the most important person\u2014<\/span>T\u00da. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

La gente cree que puede pisotearte porque careces de autoestima. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Although you think that you are doing good by giving all the love you have to others, that love is not sincere. It can\u2019t be, and it won\u2019t be until you<\/span> aprende a quererte a ti mismo.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Cuando aprendas a quererte y apreciarte a ti mismo, tu amor por las personas que te importan ser\u00e1 puro y sincero.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard for you to put a stop to everything all of a sudden, but don\u2019t let la gente te utiliza.<\/a> People are a-holes, at least most of them. They will use any opportunity they get to suck you dry. If you are a good person, and you are, they will destroy you. They will be needing more and more each day\u2014<\/span>hasta que no te quede nada que darles. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You mustn\u2019t let everyone else be better and more important than you. Nadie tiene derecho a controlar tu vida.<\/a> \u00bfQuieres envejecer y arrepentirte de haber permitido que otros te empujaran detr\u00e1s de las bambalinas de tu propia vida cuando tu lugar est\u00e1 en la primera l\u00ednea del escenario?  <\/span><\/p>\n

In your life, you are the most important\u2014you are playing the starring role and the world revolves around you. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will be able to say, \u2018No\u2019. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You will not let anybody down if you don\u2019t jump to grant their every wish. If you don\u2019t feel like going out and if you feel like staying home\u2014stay at home. After all, if any of those people were your true friends, they would get it. But, no, these are the leeches who need your energy to feed off of. Otherwise, they would die.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that you need to take care of yourself. It\u2019s perfectly ok to just stop and rewind yourself. Reconsider some things. Find those that really matter to you because after all, you matter. Don\u2019t forget that.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 t\u00fa mismo y qui\u00e9rete primero. Todo lo dem\u00e1s volver\u00e1 a su sitio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> A todas las chicas: Enam\u00f3rate primero de ti misma<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You are a girl who will continue giving until she has got nothing left. You are draining yourself. You want to make everyone around you happy and loved. But, in the process, you are forgetting about the most important person\u2014YOU. People think they can walk all over you because you lack self-appreciation. Although you think…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":4933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/kristina-flour-185595.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}