{"id":4936,"date":"2017-09-13T10:22:31","date_gmt":"2017-09-13T10:22:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4936"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:30:24","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:30:24","slug":"carta-futuro-marido-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-futuro-marido-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a mi futuro marido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querido futuro marido<\/a>,<\/p>\n

Sabes que llevamos mucho tiempo saliendo y que ya es hora de sentar la cabeza. S\u00f3lo quiero darte las gracias por elegirme para ser tu esposa. Gracias por todos estos a\u00f1os de amor y apoyo. Sabes c\u00f3mo he cambiado durante todos estos a\u00f1os, y s\u00f3lo quiero decirte que probablemente volver\u00e9 a cambiar.<\/p>\n

It is just a phase in my life, and I can’t skip it. I must try new things to learn life lessons. I need to make mistakes in order to become mature. I need all this, so please let me do it. Let me make mistakes because I won’t learn anything from yours. Let me be independent because that is something I need. I need my job, my friends, and most of all, I need my freedom.<\/p>\n

If you think this is too much for you, please leave now. Don’t wait for us to get married and have kids to leave me. I won’t judge you for anything\u2014if you can’t stand something, that is a sign that we weren’t meant to be together.<\/a><\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas cosas que se me antojan, as\u00ed que esc\u00fachame con atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

First of all, I want love! I want an extreme, supernatural type of love that nobody around us has. I want to be the most loved woman of all, and I want to show off with you\u2014\u00a1mi marido perfecto, mi alma gemela, mi amante!<\/a><\/p>\n

After love, I want some respect. I want you to help me with everything. I want us to be equals. I want you to support me at home and at work just like I will support you. I want you to wash dishes because I already cooked a meal. You should know that I wasn’t born to be a housewife who will clean after her husband nonstop. I was born to make my own life, not depending on anyone, especially you. And I want you to understand that.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> Cuando hay amor pero no respeto en la relaci\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n

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\"S\u00f3lo<\/p>\n

Cuando construimos el amor y el respeto, podemos tener hijos. Espero que me mimes durante el embarazo. Quiero que sepas que cambiar\u00e9, y que mis hormonas a veces har\u00e1n de m\u00ed un monstruo.<\/p>\n

But I want you to know, it wasn’t my purpose to do that. Our baby is growing inside me, and all those are symptoms of pregnancy. I want you to be pregnant with me. I want you to hold my head every time I am sick, and when I start to vomit. I want you to massage my back and legs because they hurt.<\/p>\n

Y sobre todo, quiero que est\u00e9s conmigo durante el parto. Para decirme que todo ir\u00e1 bien. Para recordarme lo fuerte que soy. Quiero que seas t\u00fa quien me d\u00e9 a nuestro beb\u00e9 despu\u00e9s de darlo a luz. Quiero que sientas mi dolor y mi felicidad. Quiero que est\u00e9s unido a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

When I go back to work, I expect you to take care of our child, getting up at night and calming him so I can get some extra sleep. I want you to know that my body won’t be the same after giving birth, and I want you to be okay with that. I just need you to know why I am doing all this.<\/p>\n

Quiero que sepas que estoy intentando hacer una buena vida para los dos, una vida feliz.<\/a> Con una casa con patio, ni\u00f1os, un perro y el balc\u00f3n m\u00e1s soleado donde tomaremos caf\u00e9 caliente los domingos por la ma\u00f1ana. Hago todo esto porque te quiero, y espero que t\u00fa sientas lo mismo por m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

In this letter, I have my heart on my sleeve, telling you all that is important. So, please after you read this, tell me if you can handle all of it. Tell me if you can handle me, with all my imperfections and my insanity. If your answer is \u201cYES\u201d, then welcome to my life and bear in mind that you will never get rid of me once you put a ring on it.<\/p>\n

Estoy seguro de que juntos haremos una historia de vida incre\u00edble.<\/p>\n

Te quiero hasta la luna,<\/p>\n

\u00a1Tu futura esposa!<\/p>\n

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Dear future husband, You know that we have been dating for a long time, and it is time to settle down. I just want to thank you for choosing me to be your wife. Thank you for all these years of love and support. You know how I changed during all these years, and I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":4937,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4936","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/zoriana-stakhniv-347480.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4936","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4936"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4936\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4937"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4936"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4936"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4936"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}