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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\nUno de los consejos m\u00e1s \u00fatiles para ayudarte a hacer una introspecci\u00f3n del a\u00f1o pasado es hacer dos listas de todas las cosas cruciales que han ocurrido en tu vida en 2024.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Remember that \u201ccrucial\u201d is a relative term, so these things don\u2019t have to be significant as such \u2013 the fact that that they left an impact on you is more than enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pon todas las cosas malas en una lista y todas las buenas en la otra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ahora, desp\u00eddete de la lista negativa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This way, you\u2019re symbolically leaving everything negative behind instead of carrying it with yourself into the next year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019re putting all of your focus on the good things and learning how to appreciate them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ahora, vuelva a leer atentamente la lista positiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Agradece todas las bendiciones y la buena suerte que has recibido, por el hecho de estar vivo y sano, y por tener tu seres queridos<\/a> a tu lado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Be grateful for each one of the things that happened to you and promise to never take life\u2019s mercy for granted again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, don\u2019t forget to be grateful for all the bad ones either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They shaped you into the person you are today and gave you the strength you weren\u2019t even aware you had.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Y eso tambi\u00e9n es algo que agradecer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you really want the new year to also be a new chapter of your life, you can\u2019t carry any of the emotional weight from 2024 with you into it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After all, what\u2019s the point of turning a new leaf if you keep on turning back the pages and reading the parts of the book you already know by heart?<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can\u2019t expect to make any progress in 2025 unless you get rid of resentment and grudges before anything else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can\u2019t expect to enter the New Year peacefully if you\u2019re consumed with the desire for revenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s why you should see these last days of 2024 as a perfect opportunity to forgive everyone who has done you any harm, including yourself, and even accept the apologies you never got.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s to free yourself from the burdens of someone else\u2019s wrongdoings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Most importantly \u2013 forgive yourself for all the times you didn\u2019t treat yourself the way you should, failed to put yourself first, devalued your self worth, and settled for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hablamos de los que te lastimaron y te hicieron mal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 hay de las situaciones en las que las cosas sucedieron al rev\u00e9s?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s face it \u2013 you aren\u2019t perfect either and it isn\u2019t possible that you didn\u2019t hurt anyone in 2023.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It is impossible that you didn\u2019t insult, humiliate, or treat anyone badly, or that you didn\u2019t break any hearts along the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It doesn\u2019t have to necessarily mean that you\u2019ve done any of these things on purpose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, the fact that you caused someone harm involuntarily doesn\u2019t erase or ease their pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s why it is as equally important to apologize as it is to forgive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u00e9 el hombre m\u00e1s grande.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Say \u201cI\u2019m sorry<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Arrepi\u00e9ntete de tus errores y haz todo lo que est\u00e9 en tu mano para corregirlos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As you end another chapter of your life, it\u2019s perfectly natural that you want closure on some things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t be ashamed to call the ones you think owe you an explanation and ask them the questions that have been left unanswered and about the things that have been left unsaid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sin embargo, aunque estas personas se nieguen a aclarar tus dudas, tienes que seguir adelante sin cerrar el caso y acabar con \u00e9l de una vez por todas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If nothing, you\u2019ll always know you tried and that should be enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo hace que no llamas a tus amigos y familiares m\u00e1s cercanos s\u00f3lo para saber c\u00f3mo est\u00e1n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n When was the last time you said \u201cthank you\u201d to the people who\u2019ve been your rock for as long as you can remember?<\/p>\n\n\n\n To the ones who\u2019ve been there to have your back, through thick and thin?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00bfA los que siempre te secan las l\u00e1grimas y te devuelven la sonrisa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n I know you think that these are your people who aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That there\u2019s nothing you could do for them to stop loving you, and they know how much they matter to you, even without you saying it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bueno, \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Escuchar unas palabras de agradecimiento siempre es agradable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After all, these are the last people you should take for granted and disregard while you waste your time chasing the ones who couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Coge el tel\u00e9fono.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ll\u00e1males o env\u00edales esos mensajes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dile a todas esas personas lo mucho que significan para ti, lo mucho que las quieres y dales las gracias por ser el viento de tus alas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Most importantly \u2013 thank God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Agrad\u00e9cele por todas las bendiciones y por toda Su misericordia y gracia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Also, don\u2019t forget to thank Him for all the puertas cerradas<\/a> y oraciones sin respuesta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dale gracias por todas las veces que te ha salvado de ti mismo, sin que ni siquiera te dieras cuenta.<\/p>\n\n\n\nPerdone<\/h2>\n\n\n
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