C\u00f3mo tratan los narcisistas a sus ex: 12 maneras desvergonzadas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\nYou will\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n
Si\u00e9ntete como Alicia en el Pa\u00eds de las Maravillas.<\/b> Every new (usually normal) feeling is strange. You feel like you don\u2019t deserve this. After some time of maltreatment, you got used to it. You got used to feeling subordinate to your partner.<\/p>\n
Now that your luck has changed, you don\u2019t know how to deal with it. These new feelings you are experiencing are frightening you because they are not abuse, they are love and you don\u2019t know love.<\/p>\n
Duda de su comportamiento.<\/b> Not a day passes by that you don\u2019t suspect things are going to change\u2014that all this nice behavior is just a facade.<\/p>\n
El tipo que te hizo dudar de todos y de todo, al principio actuaba de forma amable y cari\u00f1osa. Luego, de repente, todo cambi\u00f3.<\/p>\n
So it\u2019s completely natural for you to think this one is going to do the same. You are just waiting for the storm that will bring dark clouds to your relationship to happen.<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t hope for the better because you never saw anything but misery. But this time it\u2019s different. Just wait and see.<\/p>\n
Me siento confuso<\/b> because your voice is finally being heard. There is actually someone by your side who is interested in what you\u2019ve got to say.<\/p>\n
No one is ignoring you or shushing you. It\u2019s not easy to switch yourself over to that mode.<\/p>\n
Despu\u00e9s de tanto tiempo siendo tratada como una mierda, por fin recibir\u00e1s todo el amor y el respeto que te mereces. A tu nuevo chico le importar\u00e1n las cosas que tengas que decir porque se preocupa de verdad por ti.<\/p>\n
No ser culpado<\/b> for all the bad stuff that happens in your relationship. You won\u2019t be his punching bag every time he feels like crap. He won\u2019t blame you just because he is unhappy with himself.<\/p>\n
Antes, todo lo negativo que ocurr\u00eda era de alguna manera culpa tuya y, despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, empezaste a creerlo.<\/p>\n
De hecho, te culpabas de sus errores y de su comportamiento cruel. Ahora, las cosas no son as\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Now, you\u2019ve met someone who is responsible enough to admit when he is wrong.<\/p>\n
He is man enough to own up to his mistakes, and that\u2019s something you thought you were never going to see.<\/p>\n
Volver a comprometerse.<\/b> When a narcissist says something, it\u2019s going to be that way and no other way. You didn\u2019t have the right to propose anything.<\/p>\n
Si ten\u00eda ganas de hacer algo, hab\u00eda que hacerlo, y nadie te preguntaba nada.<\/p>\n
After you\u2019ve set yourself free from this suffocating and destructive relationship, a man who knows how to take your opinion into consideration comes along.<\/p>\n
Te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 lo que es el compromiso y c\u00f3mo es una relaci\u00f3n sana y feliz, porque nunca tuviste la oportunidad de aprenderlo.<\/p>\n
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Lo \u00fanico que aprendiste fue a ignorar los insultos y el dolor que te causaba.<\/p>\n
Acost\u00fambrate a toda la amabilidad.<\/b> El ego\u00edsmo fue lo \u00fanico que conociste y experimentaste en tu relaci\u00f3n anterior. Siempre se trataba de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n
Now, you\u2019ve been introduced to kindness and sharing\u2014it should have been like that from the start.<\/p>\n
Puede que te cueste acostumbrarte, pero as\u00ed es como deber\u00eda ser el amor. Deber\u00eda ser una calle de doble sentido y no un callej\u00f3n sin salida.<\/p>\n
Not hear \u2018I\u2019 and \u2018me\u2019 all the time<\/b>. Your new boyfriend is well aware of the things you\u2019ve been through but he will never make everything just about him.<\/p>\n
He will listen to what you\u2019ve got to say because he genuinely cares about your opinion.<\/p>\n
He loves you and he cares about what his better half has got to say, unlike in the past where it was all about one person\u2014the sneaky narcissist.<\/p>\n
Hear \u2018I\u2019m sorry\u2019.<\/b> Hasta este punto, el \u00fanico que se disculp\u00f3 fuiste t\u00fa.<\/p>\n
The narcissist made you think you were to blame for everything, so you apologized for everything, all the time\u2014the things that you did and didn\u2019t do because you were afraid of the confrontations and arguments.<\/p>\n
Al admitir que hiciste algo mal, esperabas que lo dejara pasar, pero nunca lo hizo.<\/p>\n
He dragged you in even deeper. Well, things are different now. You will be left in a state of shock when he apologizes the first time, but it\u2019s true, it\u2019s from the heart.<\/p>\n
Real men own up to their mistakes; they don\u2019t hide and blame others like those cowards do.<\/p>\n
No dejarse manipular.<\/b> There is no more of that feeling of accidentally saying something wrong and then BOOM!\u2014a fight breaks out all of a sudden. You can finally relax and trust your partner.<\/p>\n
Maybe not at first, but as soon as you realize he\u2019s not like that manipulative piece of s**t, you are going to look at things from a different perspective.<\/p>\n
But if you want to do all these things, you have to get rid of the fear and let him find a way to your heart, you have to let him heal you and show you things you haven\u2019t seen thus far.<\/p>\n
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Por fin te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 lo que es el verdadero amor. <\/b>Amor verdadero<\/b> se trata de amar a alguien incondicionalmente.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about loving someone with flaws and all. It\u2019s about appreciating someone.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about finding something in that other person that will make you never let go. That person
\nes el \u00fanico en el mundo que tiene ese algo y t\u00fa lo quieres.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about picking each other up every time you fall down. It\u2019s about supporting your loved one in everything they do.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about respecting each other. It\u2019s about having endless trust in each other.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about compromising and taking each other into consideration.<\/p>\n
Ahora tienes todas estas cosas y entonces no ten\u00edas ninguna. Tuviste la mala suerte de tropezar con alguien que s\u00f3lo se preocupaba de s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n
The only thing the two of you had in common was loving the same person\u2014HIM. Todo eso por fin ha desaparecido.<\/b><\/p>\n
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