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<\/p>\nSo, you’re in love with a married man.<\/p>\n
Por muy convencida que estuvieras de que nunca podr\u00edas enamorarte de un hombre casado y a pesar del respeto que sientes por una uni\u00f3n matrimonial, sucedi\u00f3 de todos modos.<\/p>\n
I’m sure you’re already aware of how wrong this affair is and in how many ways this new relationship could go south.<\/p>\n
Pero esta es una historia tan antigua como el tiempo.<\/p>\n
Falling in love comes naturally to all humans, and sometimes you end up developing feelings you shouldn’t for a married person.<\/p>\n
There isn’t a part of the world or a culture where it hasn’t happened and, as much as it hurts so many people, it’s all too common in its occurrence.<\/p>\n
Especially if this is the first time you’ve engaged in such a complex scenario and you’re scared and disappointed in yourself for not trying harder to find a healthy relationship with a man who’s actually available.<\/p>\n
I’m not going to pretend that I understand or am privy to the ins and outs of your <\/b>relaci\u00f3n amorosa<\/b> con un <\/b>hombre casado<\/b>. <\/b><\/p>\n
I’m not going to sit here and judge you for choosing to ignore your <\/b>amado<\/b>‘s <\/b>estado civil<\/b> para seguir am\u00e1ndole en secreto.<\/b><\/p>\n
Pero yo soy <\/i>va a inculcarte algunas palabras de sabidur\u00eda, por el bien de tu autoestima y tu bienestar.<\/p>\n
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Mi intenci\u00f3n no es romper tu relaci\u00f3n il\u00edcita, sino servirte algunas verdades duras sobre tu hombre casado que tu enamoramiento te est\u00e1 prohibiendo ver.<\/p>\n
Regardless of how you two crossed paths, there\u2019s only one way this is likely to end.<\/b><\/p>\n
And it’s not ideal.<\/b><\/p>\n
Puede que fuerais los mejores amigos del instituto, o que os conocierais en las redes sociales, a trav\u00e9s de citas online o mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n
Anyone of these doesn’t justify the nature of your relationship, although it’s understandable how easy it can be to fall in love with a married woman (or man) when experiencing relationship problems.<\/p>\n
You got tired of going through the same thing with those toxic losers day in and day out and you needed something better \u2013 something full time.<\/p>\n
Meaningless hookups aren’t your thing anymore and you simply need a hombre<\/i>...no un ni\u00f1o.<\/p>\n
You’ve been on numerous dating sites which led to a bunch of potential boyfriends, and they all ended up being not good for you.<\/p>\n
Y entonces tropezaste con <\/b>\u00e9l. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo poner fin a un romance con integridad y ayudarle a dejarlo para siempre<\/a><\/p>\n You didn’t plan it. It sort of just happened and you were just as surprised as anyone else would be.<\/p>\n Con este tipo, simplemente hiciste clic.<\/p>\n No hab\u00eda se\u00f1ales de alarma (evidentes), incluso te dijo que te quer\u00eda (y sab\u00edas que lo dec\u00eda en serio).<\/p>\n Te trataron con amor, cari\u00f1o y devoci\u00f3n y, al fin y al cabo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 m\u00e1s puede pedir una chica?<\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de tu \u00faltima ruptura, este chico fue un soplo de aire fresco.<\/p>\n He showed you how it feels to be in a healthy relationship (or so you thought…) and never once did it occur to you that he was having a physical and emotional affair with anyone other than you.<\/p>\n Fast forward to now: You’re stuck between a rock and a hard place. You don’t want to be caught in the middle of this.<\/p>\n You don’t want to be in love with a married man. This is not you.<\/p>\n But now, you’re here and you need to find a way to get out of this situation without causing any further damage.<\/p>\n Yet\u2026 You just can’t help but ask yourself: How did he have so much free time to spend with you if he’s got a wife?<\/p>\n \u00bfD\u00f3nde estaba \u00e9l durante todas tus llamadas nocturnas? \u00bfTodos los hombres enga\u00f1an?<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfExtra\u00f1an los hombres casados a sus amantes? 7 razones<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n There are so many conflicting emotions that are plaguing your mind right now and you’re in desperate need of good <\/b>consejos sobre relaciones<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n \u00bfDeber\u00edas poner fin a este romance de casi un a\u00f1o?<\/p>\n \u00bfPuedes imaginarte verle cara a cara sin dejar que su encanto te desarme una vez m\u00e1s?<\/p>\n \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 a veces enamorarse es tan insoportable?<\/p>\n You were so sure that he loves you and now you know nothing. The first time you think you’ve met an actual decent guy, this is what happens.<\/p>\n Your self-esteem is at an all-time low and you don’t trust yourself with anything anymore.<\/p>\n There’s a married woman out there who has no idea you’re intruding on her marriage and you’ve never felt so angry at yourself for letting yourself be pitted against another woman.<\/p>\n If you’re in a tough spot right now and in dire need of relationship advice, I’m here to offer you some tough truths.<\/p>\n Tu hombre casado podr\u00eda estar enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote f\u00e1cilmente tanto a ti como a su mujer, y Dios sabe qu\u00e9 m\u00e1s podr\u00eda estar tramando a tus espaldas.<\/p>\n In order to get a full grasp of this complex situation, here’s what you need to take into account before making an educated decision that will resolve your situation with this <\/i>persona casada<\/i> y ayudarte a encontrarte a ti mismo de nuevo.<\/i><\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo vivir en paz y armon\u00eda con la ayuda de estos 5 pasos<\/a><\/p>\n As difficult as it is to comprehend this, if this dude is already cheating on his wife with you, one needs to ponder whether or not you’re the only one he’s cheating with?<\/p>\n If he’s so good at sneaking around and doing the nasty with you behind his wife’s back, there could very well be another ”other” woman.<\/p>\n Lo que me lleva al segundo punto. \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes confiar en \u00e9l?<\/p>\n He’s already lying to one woman.<\/p>\n What’s to stop him from making a fool of you?<\/p>\n These types of men who cheat and so easily get away with it can’t really stop themselves from pushing the boundaries and testing out how many times they can actually successfully pull this off.<\/p>\n Are you sure you’re the only mistress in his life?<\/p>\n Can you declare with utmost certainty that he’d leave his wife for you one day?<\/p>\n Ten cuidado con este tipo.<\/p>\n He could be selling the same BS to another poor girl who’s buying it just like you are.<\/p>\n A married man can tell you what he wants and you’ll believe it because you want it to be true.<\/p>\n But here’s a tough truth.<\/p>\n Los hombres casados rara vez dejan a sus esposas por su amante.<\/p>\n Te llenan la cabeza con cosas que saben que necesitas o\u00edr y siguen viviendo su vida de casados, mientras t\u00fa esperas impaciente su llamada.<\/p>\n \u00bfEs justo? No. \u00bfSigues esperando? S\u00ed. Entonces tienes que preguntarte por qu\u00e9 y por cu\u00e1nto tiempo.<\/p>\n When will it become obvious to you that you’ll always come second? He’s got his priorities (his wife and family) and you must focus on yours!<\/p>\n You’ll never get to sleep beside him and wake up next to him happy because he’ll always have to go back to her.<\/p>\n Y cada vez que eso ocurra, tu coraz\u00f3n se romper\u00e1 un poco m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Don’t do this to yourself. Pick yourself up, choose yourself, and leave him for your own well-being.<\/p>\n You deserve more than someone’s sloppy seconds and his wife deserves a man who won’t step out on her.<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: As\u00ed es como dejas de sentir celos de una chica m\u00e1s guapa<\/a><\/p>\n Let’s assume he actually leaves his wife and commits to you.<\/p>\n Te elige a ti y toma esta decisi\u00f3n desgarradora para su familia.<\/p>\n For a while, you’ll be on cloud nine. You’ll have everything you ever wanted. He’s finally all yours.<\/p>\n You don’t have to share him with anyone and you don’t have to keep your relationship a secret.<\/p>\n Puedes pasear por la calle y cogerte de la mano.<\/p>\n You can go on a couple’s getaway and not hide under fake names. But deep down, you’ll always wonder if he’s faithful to you.<\/p>\n You can’t lie to yourself \u2013 you know he’s already cheated, so how do you know he won’t do the exact same thing to you?<\/p>\n He can sweet-talk you all he wants, but when you know someone, it’s a different story.<\/p>\n So yeah, things will appear great and you’ll think you’re happy.<\/p>\n Pero este sentimiento nunca dejar\u00e1 de atormentarte, haci\u00e9ndote cuestionar toda tu relaci\u00f3n y su credibilidad cada d\u00eda.<\/p>\n \u00bfMerece la pena?<\/p>\n Un hombre casado ha desarrollado una t\u00e1ctica astuta que le permite seguir enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote mientras te hace creer todas las mentiras que te dice.<\/p>\n This isn’t the first time he’s doing this.<\/p>\n Sabe c\u00f3mo conquistarte y mantenerte enganchado.<\/p>\n You might feel special and like there’s actual hope for your relationship, but as I said, in this situation, married guys rarely choose the other woman.<\/p>\n Words mean nothing when they’re not supported by actions.<\/p>\n \u00bfY qu\u00e9 te han dicho sus acciones hasta ahora? \u00bfTe ha dicho algo y lo ha hecho realidad?<\/p>\n \u00bfEst\u00e1 haciendo alg\u00fan progreso con respecto a su promesa de dejar a su mujer?<\/p>\n You might be in love with a married man, but if the feeling was truly reciprocated, he’d show it to you by doing something about the situation.<\/p>\n No matter the relationship problems in his marriage, if he isn’t showing any will to leave her, you should beat him to it.<\/p>\n I know you’ll never admit this to yourself or anyone else, but there’s something truly hot and sexy about sneaking around and finding new, creative ways to go about your affair.<\/p>\n Te hace sentir importante e ingenioso y, a veces, orgulloso.<\/p>\n I don’t expect you to own up to this, but you have to admit that there’s a tiny bit of truth there.<\/p>\n Tu vida era bastante rutinaria hasta que conociste a tu hombre casado.<\/p>\n And ever since, you’ve been living a completely different type of life \u2013 one that requires you to be sneaky and smart while keeping this huge secret under wraps.<\/p>\n It’s thrilling and exciting almost as much as it’s wrong and regretful.<\/p>\n Every day is a risk and a new adventure, and the fact that you never know where and when you’ll see him next is downright salacious.<\/p>\n You’re feeling the thrill of the whole thing while being cautiously aware of how wrong you are to feel this way.<\/p>\n And yet, you’re not doing anything to change it. What does that tell you?<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfSexo con amigos? Los 10 mayores secretos que nadie te contar\u00e1<\/a><\/p>\n Si tu hombre casado tiene hijos, la situaci\u00f3n puede volverse mucho m\u00e1s fea.<\/p>\n En primer lugar, si dejara a su mujer por ti, sus hijos estar\u00edan resentidos contigo por romper su familia.<\/p>\n Do you want to take on this huge responsibility of being a major part of their life, all the while knowing they’re unlikely to warm up to you?<\/p>\n Every time they see you, they’ll be reminded that you were the reason for their mom and dad’s break-up.<\/p>\n Esto podr\u00eda causar muchos conflictos y rencores, que tambi\u00e9n ser\u00e1n perjudiciales para su relaci\u00f3n sentimental.<\/p>\n Being in love with a married man is one thing\u2026 but when there are kids involved, it’s simply playing with fire.<\/p>\n \u00bfEst\u00e1s preparado para quemarte?<\/p>\n A bad marriage is never just one partner’s fault.<\/p>\n It takes two to tango. And you’re never going to get the full story behind their failed marriage and how it all came about.<\/p>\n He can tell you whatever he wants, but do you really think that he didn’t play a part in his marriage crashing and burning?<\/p>\n If he’s bad-mouthing his wife, don’t you feel sorry for her?<\/p>\n Isn’t there a part of you wondering if she’s truly as possessive and controlling as he’s making her sound?<\/p>\n \u00bfO podr\u00eda ser manipulador y t\u00f3xico, lo que no le dio otra opci\u00f3n que ser as\u00ed?<\/p>\n Hay tantos problemas que podr\u00eda estar ocult\u00e1ndote, pero su mujer los conoce demasiado bien.<\/p>\n Piensa en ello antes de comprometerte con \u00e9l. Tu relaci\u00f3n podr\u00eda fracasar tan f\u00e1cilmente como su matrimonio.<\/p>\n \u00bfVale tu vida este desastre? \u00bfVale \u00c9L la pena que sacrifiques tu dignidad y conf\u00edes ciegamente en \u00e9l?<\/p>\n Has it ever occurred to you that you might simply be his temporary saving grace while he’s struggling with his marital issues?<\/p>\n Men cheat and people lie. That’s a fact of life.<\/p>\n Y t\u00fa podr\u00edas ser v\u00edctima de su manipulaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Puede que te hayas convencido a ti mismo de que se trata de una grandiosa historia de amor y de que est\u00e1is hechos el uno para el otro.<\/p>\n But it’s far more likely that you’re just someone with whom he gets to enjoy himself and forget about the world and his broken marriage.<\/p>\n At first, it’s sexy, fun, and thrilling.<\/p>\n Pero con el tiempo, se vuelve dif\u00edcil, desafiante y desastroso.<\/p>\n Empiezas a verle como realmente es y a darte cuenta de que he doesn’t really love you.<\/a><\/p>\n He loves what you give him \u2013 relief from his relationship problems and a good time.<\/p>\n He doesn’t love usted<\/i>le encanta la sensaci\u00f3n de ser temporalmente libre.<\/p>\n![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-typing-in-bed-while-woman-sleeping.jpg\")
<\/p>\nPuede que no seas el \u00fanico<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou shouldn’t be sitting around waiting for him to decide<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nWhat he’s doing to his wife, he could easily do to you<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe’s highly unlikely to choose you<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’re probably secretly enjoying the thrill of this<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nQue tenga hijos lo hace mucho m\u00e1s complejo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’ll never know the other side of the story (his wife’s)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’re a temporary fix for a broken marriage<\/h2>\n
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