{"id":49781,"date":"2019-12-18T16:24:24","date_gmt":"2019-12-18T16:24:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49781"},"modified":"2021-11-05T11:46:17","modified_gmt":"2021-11-05T11:46:17","slug":"como-olvidar-a-un-chico-14-pasos-que-te-ayudaran-a-olvidarle-en-poco-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-olvidar-a-un-chico-14-pasos-que-te-ayudaran-a-olvidarle-en-poco-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo olvidar a un chico: 14 pasos para olvidarle en un abrir y cerrar de ojos"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u00f3mo superar a un chico que<\/span> just broke up with, who doesn’t love you back or a <\/span>tipo que nunca<\/span> \u00bfrealmente ten\u00eda? <\/span><\/p>\n

En primer lugar, me urge acentuar que el amor es una de las emociones m\u00e1s complejas que existen en el mundo y un <\/span>coraz\u00f3n roto<\/span> es uno de los sentimientos m\u00e1s dolorosos que se pueden experimentar. <\/span><\/p>\n

En <\/span>fin de una relaci\u00f3n<\/span> o  <\/span>primer amor<\/span>, realizing that he doesn’t like you back and that he’s just not good for you, all result in a painful <\/span>desamor<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Realizing that you don’t have a future with him and that you never had is the easy part, but getting over him and forgetting him like nothing happened is the hardest one. <\/span><\/p>\n

Acos\u00e1ndole en <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> se convierte en una tarea diaria porque <\/span>eliminar de la lista de amigos<\/span> him means to delete your hope, and you’re simply not ready for that yet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mensajes de texto<\/span> su <\/span>amigos comunes<\/span> is a risky venture (but it’s definitely on the list). Spending the majority of your time watching <\/span>Netflix<\/span> y comiendo toneladas de <\/span>helado<\/span> realmente ayuda, pero s\u00f3lo por un corto tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sitios de citas<\/span> are out of the question because you’re sick of guys and everything that has to do with them.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, have you ever thought that maybe that’s exactly what you need to do? <\/span><\/p>\n

La aut\u00e9ntica verdad es que hacer todo lo anterior nunca ha ayudado a nadie a superar a un chico, y mucho menos a empezar la <\/span>proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/span> porque lo que tienes que hacer es ACEPTAR la verdad y <\/span>emociones negativas<\/span>Acepta la verdad y disfruta del momento.<\/span><\/p>\n

ACEPTAR, ABRAZAR, DISFRUTAR.<\/h2>\n

\"Gran<\/p>\n

I know it sounds like some low-budget commercial for anxiety pills, but trust me, it’s actually the only answer to the question: <\/span>\u00bfC\u00f3mo superar a un chico?<\/b><\/p>\n

<\/b>Se trata de un proceso intensivo <\/span>autocuidado<\/span> e impulsar su <\/span>autoestima<\/span> porque es exactamente lo que necesita cuando un <\/span>fin de la relaci\u00f3n<\/span> o cuando has esperado demasiado por algo que ni siquiera ha empezado.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to accept the truth, focus on yourself, and boost your <\/span>endorfinas<\/span> con actividades sanas porque es lo \u00fanico que te ayudar\u00e1 a olvidar tu <\/span>ex-novio<\/span>casi amante o <\/span>imb\u00e9cil que acaba de hacerte perder el tiempo<\/span><\/a>! <\/span><\/p>\n

And in case you’re wondering how to do it, don’t worry because you will not have to waste large amounts of your time looking for <\/span>expertos en relaciones<\/span> y <\/span>consejos sobre citas<\/span> de los terapeutas. Todo lo que necesitas lo tienes delante de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que respira hondo y lee atentamente la siguiente lista de cosas y pasos que te ayudar\u00e1n a superarle en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00d3MO OLVIDAR A UN CHICO: 14 PASOS PARA OLVIDARLE EN UN ABRIR Y CERRAR DE OJOS<\/h2>\n

1. Accept that it’s over or it will not happen<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

El primer paso para superar un <\/span>chico tu<\/span> just broke up with or you’ve never been with is accepting that it’s over, that it has ended or it will not happen no matter how much you still want it. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que suena duro, pero necesitas cortar toda esperanza porque eso es lo m\u00e1s grande que a\u00fan te impide seguir adelante.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mientras haya esperanza, nunca dejar\u00e1s de acosarlo en <\/span>redes sociales<\/span>esperando a que cambie de opini\u00f3n o se disculpe contigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mientras sigas esperando, nunca alcanzar\u00e1s <\/span>distancia emocional<\/span> que es el ingrediente clave del <\/span>proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that is why you need to accept that what you had with him is gone, and that it’s for your own good because no one deserves to realize too late that you just weren’t meant to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que aceptar que lo que quieres con \u00e9l nunca suceder\u00e1 porque probablemente haya algo mejor esper\u00e1ndote.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. C\u00e9ntrate en tus sentimientos<\/h2>\n

\"Al<\/p>\n

En lugar de huir de <\/span>emociones negativas<\/span> y <\/span>la vida real<\/span>Haz exactamente lo contrario. <\/span><\/p>\n

Open your eyes, feel your pain and focus on your feelings! Why? Because the more you’re trying to fight them or hide them, the longer you’ll feel miserable and in pain.<\/span><\/p>\n

Accept the fact that it’s not your fault things ended the way they ended. <\/span><\/p>\n

No importa lo que hicieras o dijeras, simplemente no ser\u00edas capaz de cambiar nada porque algunas cosas simplemente no est\u00e1n destinadas a ser. <\/span><\/p>\n

A veces tienes que atravesar una tormenta para encontrarte a ti mismo y recibir cosas que realmente mereces. Y estar enfadado contigo mismo no es una de esas cosas. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, focus on what’s real, what exactly happened, and how you feel about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

The longer you practice this, the sooner you’ll be able to replace those feelings with other more fulfilling things like a <\/span>nueva afici\u00f3n<\/span>, <\/span>noche de chicas<\/span>y similares.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Coge a tus chicas y salid a la ciudad<\/h2>\n

\"Grupo<\/p>\n

So, after you’re done with focusing on your feelings, it’s time to occupy yourself with other more exciting things than just watching <\/span>Netflix<\/span>. It’s time to grab your girls and hit the town!<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that this is the last thing you can think of at the moment, but it’s totally necessary. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bailando con tu <\/span>mejores amigos<\/span> te sacudir\u00e1. Hablar de la injusticia del amor te har\u00e1 sentir mejor, y estar en p\u00fablico te impedir\u00e1 pensar demasiado. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s a perfect distraction and a necessary step when it comes to proceeding with the <\/span>proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Haz una lista de cosas buenas y malas sobre \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

You’re probably confused about this one because who in their right mind would want to write something good about the person they’re trying to forget, right? But, in this case you’re doing it for valid reasons. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que hacer una lista de cosas buenas de \u00e9l porque esto te ayudar\u00e1 a borrar todas esas cosas de tu cerebro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una vez que los tengas sobre el papel, intenta imaginar que los borras de tu cabeza. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la lista de cosas malas es la que tienes que seguir leyendo para seguir record\u00e1ndote las cosas negativas de \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

The longer you look at the list, the more you’ll feel at ease and at peace with yourself because you will no longer be blind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, you will start thinking reasonably because you will see that everything is just as it’s supposed to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>Si tu curaci\u00f3n duele demasiado, lee esto<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

5. Mimarse<\/h2>\n

\"Emociones<\/p>\n

When was the last time that you did something for yourself? I’m sure it was a long time ago, and that is why it’s time to change that. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to enjoy long bubble baths, find a <\/span>nueva afici\u00f3n<\/span>C\u00e1mbiate el peinado, c\u00f3mprate un conjunto sexy, lee un buen libro, t\u00f3mate tus c\u00f3cteles favoritos y rel\u00e1jate.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to stop dwelling on your past and enjoy the present. <\/span><\/p>\n

Considere tambi\u00e9n <\/span>citas en l\u00ednea<\/span> si es algo que te entretiene. Y <\/span>as\u00ed que<\/span> si se encuentra con un <\/span>chico nuevo<\/span> there? It’s not the end of the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puedes charlar y <\/span>ligar<\/span> con quien quieras, y cuanto m\u00e1s socialices y ampl\u00edes el c\u00edrculo de tus amigos, m\u00e1s en contacto estar\u00e1s contigo mismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vivir tu vida al m\u00e1ximo evitar\u00e1 que intentes borrar las consecuencias de tu <\/span>amar la vida<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, hacer <\/span>seguro de que<\/span> mimarse para su propio bienestar en el <\/span>primer puesto<\/span>y todo lo dem\u00e1s vendr\u00e1 por a\u00f1adidura. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Mirar las cosas desde otra perspectiva<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

En lugar de enfadarte contigo mismo por dejar que todo esto ocurra, intenta ver las cosas desde otra perspectiva. \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esto? <\/span><\/p>\n

Significa darte cuenta de que probablemente esto ha sido lo mejor que te ha pasado (por muy mal que suene) porque ya no perder\u00e1s el tiempo con alguien que no te merece, alguien que no est\u00e1 preparado para estar contigo o alguien que podr\u00eda haberte hecho m\u00e1s da\u00f1o si te hubieras quedado con \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

Recuerda que todo est\u00e1 en tu cabeza. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you think that what you’re going through is the worst thing that happened to you, think again. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfDeshacerte de alguien a quien nunca has tenido es lo peor o lo mejor que te ha pasado?<\/span><\/p>\n

7. It’s not only your loss\u2014<\/span>It’s his, too (and he’ll probably regret it)<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

No matter how much you were crazy about him and no matter how painful it was to end your relationship, understand that it’s not only your loss\u2014it’s his, too. Why? <\/span><\/p>\n

Because you still cared about him and thinking about him just proves that you’re a person with a big heart and hope. <\/span><\/p>\n

And even though you have no chance of being with him, you’re still fighting it and trying to find reasons why it happened. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re a beautiful, sensitive soul<\/span><\/a>, and you should never think that you’re the only one who lost something or someone. <\/span><\/p>\n

He’s the one who lost you as well, and once you find someone who will treat you the way you deserve and with whom you’ll be compatible, he’ll probably regret losing you, but unfortunately it will be too late. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, there’s no need to bother yourself with imagining that he’s drinking cocktails and enjoying the high life while you’re being miserable within your four walls. <\/span><\/p>\n

Probablemente le remuerde la conciencia, pero sabes que esto no es suficiente para que reconsideres volver a estar juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Al\u00e9grate por \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

I know how hard it is to be happy for someone whom you’re trying to get over and forget, but you need to do it. <\/span><\/p>\n

You need to be happy or at least pretend that you’re happy for him because that’s the only way to block all the negativity and prevent jealousy outbursts.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you happen to see that he’s found someone new, don’t immediately freak out or hit him (or her) with the nearest object.<\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, sonr\u00ede (por tu propio bien) y felic\u00edtale si es necesario. <\/span><\/p>\n

Do whatever you need to, but don’t let him see your weak side because you don’t want to get back to repeating all the initial stages of healing.<\/span><\/p>\n

You need to convince yourself that you’re already over him (even if you’re not) because when your mind is convinced of something, it will start believing it and acting accordingly. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. No le env\u00edes mensajes de texto ni le acoses en las redes sociales.<\/h2>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

This is a big no-no. I know it’s hard to delete someone all of a sudden from your life, but what’s even harder is prolonging the pain. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y por <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> \u00e9l, acech\u00e1ndolo en <\/span>redes sociales<\/span>, liking his every picture, waiting impatiently for his posts and secretly hoping to hear the sound of likes on your pictures, you’re preventing yourself from moving on.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que apaga tu tel\u00e9fono, borra sus perfiles en <\/span>redes sociales<\/span>, go outside, meet your friends or do anything else, but just DON’T stalk him on <\/span>redes sociales<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada vez que sientas el impulso de hacerlo, ocupa tu mente en otra cosa que ser\u00e1 diez veces m\u00e1s productiva y mejor para ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>Lee esto siempre que tengas ganas de mandarle un mensaje, aunque sepas que no debes hacerlo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

10. Stop thinking about ‘Could have’ and ‘What if’<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

‘What might have been’ is a sentence you need to seriously ignore because it will only bring you back to the past\u2014something you want to forget. <\/span><\/p>\n

I will repeat, whatever you could have said or done, it wouldn’t have changed anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

You could have been the perfect girlfriend (even though this doesn’t even exist) and you could have done everything in your power to get him to like you, to change him and to save your relationship, and still something would happen and disrupt everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, there’s no need to bother yourself with thinking about what you could have done nor about what you can do today. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s gone, it’s over and it’s good that it’s over, so occupy yourself with positive people and exciting things, and live a life as you please because you sure as hell deserve it.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Conc\u00e9ntrate en las cosas buenas que ya tienes en la vida<\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Remind yourself that you don’t need a man to make you happy because you’re perfectly happy on your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

Rod\u00e9ate de gente que te quiera y se preocupe por ti, agradece todo lo que ya tienes en la vida y abraza cada cambio futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de centrarte en \u00e9l, tienes que centrarte en todas las cosas buenas que ya tienes en la vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t think that your life will be more fulfilling and better with him in it because it’s not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

Be happy for who you are and be grateful for what you have because that’s all that matters.<\/span><\/p>\n

12. Convi\u00e9rtase en una prioridad<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Si quieres aprender como superar a un chico rapido<\/a>Tendr\u00e1s que convertirte en una prioridad en lugar de una opci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensar constantemente en tu relaci\u00f3n pasada o en \u00e9l te est\u00e1 dando menos tiempo para pensar tambi\u00e9n en ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is why it’s necessary to make yourself a priority. Look at it this way: <\/span>At the end of the day, you’re your longest commitment. <\/b><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is how you’re feeling about yourself and not how you’re feeling about some guy who perhaps doesn’t even know that you exist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Stop treating people who don’t belong in your life as a priority because they’re just not worthy of your time and nerves. <\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo y en el d\u00eda de hoy en lugar de en lo que pas\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

13. Perd\u00f3nate a ti mismo <\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Forgive yourself for everything you wanted to say or do but didn’t. Forgive yourself for forgetting that you’re good enough and that you deserve a lot more than you think.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perd\u00f3nate por no quererte lo suficiente y dejar que juegue con tu mente. <\/span><\/p>\n

You need to forgive yourself for everything that happened because it’s the only way to move forward and accept the truth.<\/span><\/p>\n

14. Encuentra el valor para aceptar las cosas que no puedes cambiar<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

El \u00faltimo paso es encontrar el valor dentro de tu coraz\u00f3n para <\/span>acepta todas las cosas que no puedes cambiar<\/span><\/a> o influencia en tu vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

This includes finding the courage to accept that you two were not meant to be, that you’re ten times better off without him, and that he’s not worthy of being your priority.<\/span><\/p>\n

Encuentre el valor para aceptar su <\/span>coraz\u00f3n roto<\/span>sus l\u00e1grimas y sus noches en vela, y abr\u00e1celos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ac\u00e9ptalos porque forman parte del cambio necesario para evolucionar y hacerte m\u00e1s fuerte y sabio en el futuro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Superar un <\/span>chico tu<\/span> acaba de romper o un <\/span>tipo que nunca<\/span> no es una tarea f\u00e1cil. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s a long process that requires lots of patience, devotion, and effort. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, if you follow all of the steps above and stay persistent, there’s nothing you should worry about. <\/span><\/p>\n

En <\/span>chico tu<\/span> couldn’t stop thinking about will soon become the <\/span>guy you\u2019ve<\/span> olvidado existe. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer es creer que lo conseguir\u00e1s y que llegar\u00e1n d\u00edas mejores, \u00a1porque te aseguro que llegar\u00e1n! <\/b><\/p>\n

And when that happens, you will laugh at everything you’re worrying about now. <\/b><\/p>\n

You will realize that no guy is worthy of your tears, effort, and love if he’s not ready to reciprocate. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y esperar\u00e1s a quien har\u00e1 todo lo posible por demostrarte que mereces ser amada apasionada, loca e incondicionalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>3 maneras de superar a alguien que nunca supo c\u00f3mo quererte<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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