{"id":49902,"date":"2020-10-24T19:03:58","date_gmt":"2020-10-24T19:03:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49902"},"modified":"2024-10-30T14:38:55","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T13:38:55","slug":"mi-objetivo-de-ano-nuevo-es-volver-a-enamorarme-de-mi-misma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-objetivo-de-ano-nuevo-es-volver-a-enamorarme-de-mi-misma\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi objetivo de A\u00f1o Nuevo es volver a enamorarme de m\u00ed misma"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por qu\u00e9 esperar a 2025 para empezar, yo empiezo ahora.<\/p>\n

Me debo a m\u00ed mismo empezar cuanto antes. Me debo a m\u00ed mismo el mismo amor que sigo dando a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que mi principal objetivo para el a\u00f1o que viene y todos los que le seguir\u00e1n es enamorarme loca, alocada y profundamente de m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo voy a hacerlo? Bueno, tengo un plan:<\/p>\n

Estoy borrando la negatividad de a\u00f1os pasados y empezando de cero.\u00a0 <\/b>En cuanto tenga un pensamiento negativo, lo cambiar\u00e9 por uno positivo.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t allow one single negative thought to stay with me for more than a split second. If it stays, it will develop, and it will poison my life.<\/p>\n

I will delete all the pain from my past and only take the lessons with me. I can\u2019t change what happened.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t influence the outcome, and thinking about it is just making me sad.<\/p>\n

Me estoy enamorando de mi reflejo en el espejo.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Ya no deseo estar m\u00e1s delgada o haber ganado unos kilos. Ya no tengo los labios demasiado peque\u00f1os ni la nariz demasiado grande.<\/p>\n

No voy a volver a mirar mi reflejo en el espejo de esa manera. Soy mucho m\u00e1s que mi apariencia f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n

I am beautiful inside and out, and I don\u2019t need to look like a photoshopped model from a magazine cover.<\/p>\n

I am sure they also have their insecurities even though they are perfect for us common people. That\u2019s why I am choosing to change my mindset.<\/p>\n

Estoy aceptando mis imperfecciones y las estoy amando. Son las que me hacen ser yo. Son las que me hacen \u00fanica.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que tendr\u00e9 mis altibajos en este camino hacia el amor propio. <\/b><\/p>\n

I know that life without worries, insecurities, and problems is not possible. But I\u2019m making a promise to myself not to create problems where there aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n

Prometo concentrarme en el 80 por ciento de lo bueno de mi vida y de mis relaciones con los dem\u00e1s, en lugar de en ese 20 por ciento de mierda que no deja de hundirme.<\/p>\n

Prometo volver a levantarme cada vez que me caiga. Seguir\u00e9 intent\u00e1ndolo y avanzar\u00e9 siempre. Fuera los t\u00f3xicos. <\/b><\/p>\n

I know I will never reach my goal if I allow toxic people to poison me with their own insecurities. I will never make it if they keep telling me that I can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

I will never have enough strength if they keep exhausting mine. People who don\u2019t have my best interests at heart don\u2019t deserve a place in my life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s so simple, and I don\u2019t know why it took me so long to tell them they don\u2019t belong there.<\/p>\n

Las personas que son mi sistema de apoyo, que creen en m\u00ed y me cubren las espaldas en todo momento, merecen toda mi atenci\u00f3n, y no voy a gastar ni un gramo de mi energ\u00eda en los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Ya no. Voy a ser mi propio h\u00e9roe.\u00a0 <\/b>I won\u2019t wait for love to save me. I am going to save my damn self.<\/p>\n

I am going to stand up for myself, and I won\u2019t lay down silently while people walk all over me. I will speak up when I am not treated right.<\/p>\n

I will pull away when the situation doesn\u2019t suit me. I am that woman who always said nothing for the sake of the greater good.<\/p>\n

F**k the greater good when it\u2019s hurting me so much. Voy a leer m\u00e1s.\u00a0 <\/b>I can\u2019t remember the last time I actually read a book.<\/p>\n

Pero s\u00e9 que en cuanto empiece, me perder\u00e9 en el mundo de la fantas\u00eda. Ser\u00e1 mi momento de desconectar y dejar el tel\u00e9fono en silencio para variar.<\/p>\n

Leer\u00e9 todos los g\u00e9neros, pero empezar\u00e9 con algo motivador e inspirador. Llenar\u00e9 mi mente de pensamientos positivos.<\/p>\n

Me mimar\u00e9 de vez en cuando.\u00a0 <\/b>Me esforzar\u00e9 en mi trabajo. Ir\u00e9 al gimnasio m\u00e1s a menudo y comer\u00e9 m\u00e1s sano.<\/p>\n

I have to\u2014it\u2019s not really an option.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Pero tendr\u00e9 d\u00edas en los que no har\u00e9 absolutamente nada.<\/p>\n

Me quedar\u00e9 dormido frente al televisor. Ver\u00e9 pel\u00edculas en Netflix todo el d\u00eda. Llamar\u00e9 a mis amigos y saldr\u00e9 a cenar. Me pasar\u00e9 todo el d\u00eda en el spa.<\/p>\n

I will find balance because too much work and no play will only make me burn out, and I don\u2019t want that to happen. I will say \u201cNo!\u201d more often <\/b><\/p>\n

There is something liberating about saying \u201cNo!\u201d to things you really don\u2019t want to do. I used to do so many things so no one would get mad at me for skipping.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPero sabes qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

We all have just this one life, and I won\u2019t waste it on being where I don\u2019t want to do what I don\u2019t like to do because I feel pressure from my friends or family.<\/p>\n

Ya est\u00e1 bien. Me divertir\u00e9 m\u00e1s.\u00a0 <\/b>Estoy listo para m\u00e1s aventuras. M\u00e1s sue\u00f1o. M\u00e1s baile. M\u00e1s risas. M\u00e1s creatividad. M\u00e1s amor.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s up to me to make that happen. So I\u2019m already rolling up my sleeves. There will be no excuses for the lack of fun in my life.<\/p>\n

So what if nobody wants to go on a trip with me. I will go all by my lonesome. It\u2019s time I start enjoying my own company.<\/p>\n

Mi felicidad depende enteramente de m\u00ed.\u00a0 <\/b>Puedo cambiar mi suerte si decido hacer algo al respecto. Si mi deseo de cambio viene de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If I am determined to reach the goal of self-love.\u00a0 I am in charge of my feelings.<\/p>\n

Soy un todo por mi cuenta, y I don\u2019t need anyone<\/a> to make me happy. I\u2019ve learned by now that it\u2019s better to be alone than in a bad relationship.<\/p>\n

A\u00fan as\u00ed, creo en el amor y espero encontrar alg\u00fan d\u00eda a alguien con quien compartir mi felicidad. Alguien, adem\u00e1s de mis amigos y mi familia, que me acompa\u00f1e en este viaje salvaje.<\/p>\n

Mientras tanto, seguir\u00e9 record\u00e1ndome mi val\u00eda. Me centrar\u00e9 en mejorar mi vida. Creer\u00e9 en m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

Volver\u00e9 a enamorarme de mi vida.<\/p>\n

\"Mi<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why wait for 2025 to begin, I am starting now. I owe it to myself to start as soon as possible. I owe myself that same love I keep giving others. So my main goal for the year that comes and all the years that will follow is to fall madly, crazily, deeply in love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":177359,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49902","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/My-New-Years-Goal-Is-To-Fall-Back-In-Love-With-Myself-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49902","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=49902"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49902\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177361,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49902\/revisions\/177361"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177359"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49902"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=49902"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=49902"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}