{"id":50156,"date":"2019-12-23T22:30:13","date_gmt":"2019-12-23T22:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50156"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:37:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:37:36","slug":"5-cosas-que-debes-recordar-cuando-no-te-corresponde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-debes-recordar-cuando-no-te-corresponde\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que debes recordar cuando \u00e9l no te corresponde"},"content":{"rendered":"

Loving someone who doesn\u2019t love you back<\/span><\/a> is, without a doubt, one of the worst things you\u2019ll ever feel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te sientes miserable y hay una batalla constante entre tu orgullo y el deseo de perseguir a esta persona y darle otra oportunidad para conquistarla. <\/span><\/p>\n

Experiencing unrequited love is never easy. Besides being heartbroken by the realization that the man you love so deeply doesn\u2019t care for you, this also brings about many insecurities and self-doubts. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever been in this kind of situation, you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see all of this as the end of the world and you can\u2019t help but wonder why can\u2019t you be enough for this guy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re here to give you these 5 reminders which will help you get out of this as unharmed as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. It\u2019s his right<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Por mucho que duela este hecho, la cruda verdad es que la gente tiene derecho a no quererte o a que no le gustes. Y este tipo no es una excepci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, you are the one who doesn\u2019t have the right to hate him because of this. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t blame him, don\u2019t look for his flaws and have enough decency to accept the reality, even though it is painful.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of this doesn\u2019t make him a douchebag or a jerk\u2014it just makes him a human being with a heart that doesn\u2019t take orders from anyone.  <\/span><\/p>\n

What you have to understand is that you can\u2019t force anyone to have feelings for you, just because you would want it that way. <\/span><\/p>\n

The same way you can\u2019t control your emotions and make yourself stop this person just like that, the same goes vice versa: he can\u2019t make himself love you back. <\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfrealmente querr\u00edas que este hombre estuviera contigo por l\u00e1stima? <\/span><\/p>\n

Would you be happy knowing that he agreed to give you a chance even though he doesn\u2019t see you as girlfriend material?<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, this is probably not the last time you\u2019ll be in this situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

There will be some other men in your future who won\u2019t give you back the love you expect to receive from them and that is all part of life. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Lo superar\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"Respire\"<\/p>\n

Even though things probably don\u2019t seem this way now, the fact is that you will forget all about this man sooner or later.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, at this point, you see him as the love of your life and you\u2019re convinced that you\u2019ll spend an entire eternity crying over him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? You won\u2019t. In fact, in a few months, you\u2019ll forget that he ever existed, you\u2019ll move on with your life and you\u2019ll be sorry for wasting so much energy on him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember how they say that if something won\u2019t matter in five years from now, it doesn\u2019t deserve five minutes of your time. <\/span><\/p>\n

And you and I both know that this guy won\u2019t even be on your radar in the future. <\/span><\/p>\n

El amor es como una flor: hay que regarla y alimentarla para que crezca. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, when you\u2019re not getting any feedback, the love you\u2019re feeling toward someone is slowly dying with each day that passes until it completely fades away.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not trying to devalue your current emotions. Instead, this is just a reminder that you will <\/span>sup\u00e9ralo<\/span><\/a> y que estar\u00e1s mejor. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. It doesn\u2019t make you unlovable<\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

When someone you deeply care for doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, the first thing that goes through your mind is that you\u2019re apparently unlovable. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, this is the man who saw the best of you and someone you gave your entire self to, so if he can\u2019t love you, who else could? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you something: this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, you won\u2019t end up alone and you won\u2019t spend the rest of your life chasing men who can\u2019t give you what you need just because one guy couldn\u2019t love you back. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, puede que ahora est\u00e9s da\u00f1ado, pero te prometo que tus cicatrices desaparecer\u00e1n y que tu coraz\u00f3n sanar\u00e1. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te prometo que un d\u00eda (y ese d\u00eda est\u00e1 m\u00e1s cerca de lo que crees), aparecer\u00e1 en tu vida un chico que te dar\u00e1 su amor verdadero e incondicional. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando llegue el momento, conocer\u00e1s a un chico que ver\u00e1 toda tu belleza exterior e interior, un chico que te querr\u00e1 por lo que eres y que nunca se le ocurrir\u00e1 hacerte sentir as\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will run into a man who will see how much love and attention you deserve and who won\u2019t go anywhere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014just because one man doesn\u2019t love you, it doesn\u2019t give you permission to stop loving yourself and it certainly shouldn\u2019t be a reason for you to start seeing yourself through his eyes. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember: your relationship with yourself always comes first and it doesn\u2019t depend on the way others perceive you, treat you or how they feel about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Sus sentimientos no son un reflejo de tu val\u00eda<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Another thing that you must never forget is that one person\u2019s perception of you is in no way a reflection of your value as a person, as a woman or as a potential girlfriend. <\/span><\/p>\n

El hecho de que este hombre en particular no haya visto todo lo que tienes que ofrecer, no es una se\u00f1al de que debas empezar a cuestionar <\/span>tu valor<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t take his rejection so personally. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not beautiful, attractive, smart or interesting enough, just because his heart didn\u2019t grow fond of yours. <\/span><\/p>\n

It just means he doesn\u2019t see you that way. <\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, there is always the possibility that objectively, this guy considers you to be an awesome girl but he simply can\u2019t get himself to see you as his forever person. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, even if he considers you not to be enough for him at the moment, that doesn\u2019t devalue you in any way. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that all other men from your future will see you as unworthy or especially that you should see yourself this way.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Deber\u00edas estar agradecido<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

En lugar de pensar que es lo peor que te pod\u00eda pasar, agradece que las cosas hayan salido como han salido. En lugar de maldecir el d\u00eda en que naci\u00f3 este hombre, agradece su honestidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014instead of feeling sorry for yourself, consider yourself lucky. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, es mejor que sepa a qu\u00e9 atenerse.<\/span><\/p>\n

The guy we\u2019re talking about was sincere; he didn\u2019t try <\/span>gui\u00e1ndote<\/span><\/a>, he didn\u2019t give you false promises and he didn\u2019t swear his eternal love for you one day just to backstab you the very next.<\/span><\/p>\n

No obstante, aunque todo esto haya sucedido y aunque haya mentido al decir que te quer\u00eda, es estupendo que hayas descubierto la verdad a tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

En realidad has esquivado una bala aqu\u00ed; podr\u00edas haber pasado a\u00f1os al lado de este hombre, estando segura de sus emociones s\u00f3lo para darte cuenta de que no era m\u00e1s que un enga\u00f1o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, don\u2019t forget to be thankful for all the lessons this experience taught you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si nunca hubieras experimentado un amor no correspondido, nunca habr\u00edas sabido que algunas personas no est\u00e1n destinadas a serlo, que todo ocurre por una raz\u00f3n y que nunca se pueden forzar las emociones. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, you wouldn\u2019t have learned how to recognize the signs that a guy doesn\u2019t love you back and that is something that might come in handy in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n

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