{"id":50180,"date":"2019-12-24T21:32:07","date_gmt":"2019-12-24T21:32:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50180"},"modified":"2022-02-26T22:23:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T22:23:57","slug":"el-no-es-el-elegido-si-hace-estas-6-cosas-cuando-no-estas-cerca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-no-es-el-elegido-si-hace-estas-6-cosas-cuando-no-estas-cerca\/","title":{"rendered":"No es el indicado si hace estas 6 cosas cuando no est\u00e1s cerca"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando te preocupas por alguien, normalmente s\u00f3lo prestas atenci\u00f3n a la forma en que act\u00faa ante ti y contigo.<\/p>\n

Supones que realmente es la persona que finge ser cuando est\u00e1is los dos solos y rara vez investigas su comportamiento m\u00e1s a fondo. <\/p>\n

However, there is one huge difference between your forever person and the guy who is not the one for you; the latter will do his best to convince you he is your Mr. Perfect but will show his true colors when you\u2019re not around. <\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, si tu pareja rom\u00e1ntica tiene la mala costumbre de hacer todas o la mayor\u00eda de estas cosas a tus espaldas, son claros indicadores de que no es tu alma gemela. <\/p>\n

Habla mal de ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombres<\/p>\n

A hombre que te quiere<\/a> ser\u00e1 completamente honesto contigo.<\/p>\n

Of course, he won\u2019t put you down but he will point out your flaws and will use every opportunity to inspire you to become the best possible version of yourself. <\/p>\n

Sin embargo, todo esto debe ocurrir cara a cara, en privado, cuando no haya nadie m\u00e1s alrededor. <\/p>\n

In fact, this guy should have your back, stand by you and defend you in front of the entire world, even when he sees that you\u2019re mistaken.<\/p>\n

Luego, cuando os qued\u00e9is a solas, te dir\u00e1 lo que has hecho mal. <\/p>\n

Nevertheless, your partner is different. He compliments and praises you all the time but changes his story whenever you\u2019re not around. <\/p>\n

You\u2019re not perfect but talking trash about you behind your back is, without a doubt, a huge sign of disrespect.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you two are in the middle of a fight or if he is angry at you at a given moment; he should never allow himself to criticize you or to gossip about you to others. <\/p>\n

Coquetea con otras chicas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In today\u2019s world, having a faithful partner is a real blessing.<\/p>\n

However, it is not enough for your boyfriend to give you all of his undivided attention only when you\u2019re around and to completely change his behavior as soon as you walk out of the door. <\/p>\n

After all, if he\u2019s in a relationship, his status is defined in all possible situations and it has nothing to do with your presence or absence.<\/p>\n

It is not acceptable for him to take on the role of a bachelor every time you\u2019re not around and to start hitting on other girls, as if he were single. <\/p>\n

Si este es el caso de tu relaci\u00f3n, te garantizo que lo \u00fanico que impide que este chico te enga\u00f1e es la posibilidad de que t\u00fa atrap\u00e1ndolo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He is not faithful because he loves you\u2014he is scared that he\u2019ll get caught. <\/p>\n

He is actually calculating things and he just doesn\u2019t want to risk everything you two built for some temporary passion.<\/p>\n

So, instead of putting up with his behavior any further, it\u2019s time to give him exactly what he wants\u2014a chance to really become single and a clear path to seguir persiguiendo a otras mujeres<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Habla de los detalles de su relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Everything that happens between you and your boyfriend shouldn\u2019t concern anyone besides you two. This especially applies to your fights and bedroom activities. <\/p>\n

Naturalmente, ambos ten\u00e9is amigos y, a veces, quer\u00e9is compartir con ellos las cosas que os molestan.<\/p>\n

Quieres escuchar sus opiniones, seguir sus consejos o simplemente tener a alguien que te escuche. <\/p>\n

Sin embargo, incluso en este caso, tienes que tener mucho cuidado con los detalles que mencionas. Y tu novio tambi\u00e9n. <\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si sus amigos saben todo lo que ha pasado entre vosotros, no es el hombre para ti.<\/p>\n

Es evidente que no es lo suficientemente maduro y necesita a alguien que le tutele y le diga qu\u00e9 hacer en determinadas situaciones. <\/p>\n

Knowing all of this, it is more than apparent that you\u2019re not in a relationship with just him but with his entire entourage as well. <\/p>\n

Sigue siendo amigo de su ex<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

En amigos con un ex<\/a> no es un delito; de hecho, puede ser un signo de indiferencia real entre dos personas que sol\u00edan estar enamoradas.<\/p>\n

Mientras ahora puedan ser amigos sin rencores ni resentimientos, todas las emociones que antes exist\u00edan habr\u00e1n desaparecido. <\/p>\n

Lo importante en este caso es que tu nueva pareja sea plenamente consciente de esta amistad, de su naturaleza y de su historia.<\/p>\n

And that is exactly the issue with your relationship; it is not a problem that your boyfriend stayed on friendly terms with his ex\u2014it is the fact that he is trying to keep it a secret from you.<\/p>\n

Bueno, esto puede ser una bandera roja de que todav\u00eda hay algo entre los dos.<\/p>\n

O quiz\u00e1s es \u00e9l quien todav\u00eda siente algo por esa chica, sabe que est\u00e1 haciendo algo mal y por eso tiene la necesidad de escabullirse a tus espaldas.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00faltimo que necesitas es un hombre que tenga asuntos sin resolver del pasado, un chico que te est\u00e9 utilizando como chica de rebote o que tenga mucha carga emocional que est\u00e9 intentando aportar a vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Hace planes sin ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Just because you and your boyfriend are a couple, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re tied to one another.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re both allowed to have a life outside of your relationship as well as to hang out with other people. <\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si ten\u00e9is una relaci\u00f3n seria y comprometida, no est\u00e1 bien que haga planes importantes sobre su futuro sin contar contigo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not talking about things such as moving away or changing career here only\u2014I\u2019m also talking about, for example, planning his next holiday without even talking about it with you first. <\/p>\n

Of course, he is an individual and you can\u2019t tell him what to do but if you guys are a team, him not taking your opinion into consideration is definitely sending you a message. <\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t keep his promises<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

There is nothing worse than dealing with a sweet talker whose actions don\u2019t match his words.<\/p>\n

Y esta es la mejor descripci\u00f3n posible de tu novio; sigue haciendo promesas vac\u00edas<\/a> he doesn\u2019t keep. <\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what we\u2019re talking about here; if he promises you one thing but continues doing something completely the opposite, he\u2019s not the one for you.<\/p>\n

It is not okay if he plays by the book and acts like he agrees with everything you say just while you\u2019re physically present and then suddenly changes his behavior as soon as he sees your back. <\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>\n

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