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<\/p>\nSi tienes alguna experiencia en el mundo de las citas modernas, probablemente pienses que el peor tipo de hombres son los que te engatusan, sin darte nunca el lugar que mereces en sus vidas.<\/p>\n
The ones who you never know where you stand with, don\u2019t want anything serious, and run away at the sound of the word \u201cfuture.\u201d <\/p>\n
Well, let me tell you that you can\u2019t be more wrong. Even though these guys are douchebags, you should be grateful for their honesty and walk away in time.<\/p>\n
In this case, at least you know what you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n
They\u2019re clear about their desire to fool around, without any intention of committing, and if that\u2019s something you don\u2019t want, nobody is forcing or manipulating you to stay.<\/p>\n
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On the other hand, it\u2019s way worse being with a man who convinces you that he wants to grow old with you, makes concrete plans about your life together, and keeps on bringing up a bright future for the two of you.<\/p>\n
Of course, all of this sounds great if we\u2019re talking about a guy who actually fulfills his promises. <\/p>\n
Sin embargo, si es todo palabras y nada de acci\u00f3n, rara vez va m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de sus planes y nunca da un paso para cumplir sus promesas, tienes un problema.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s likely that he\u2019s future-faking you, just so he can use you in all possible ways. <\/p>\n
But how can you know whether his intentions are pure or he\u2019s a big fat liar? Just read the signs below and it\u2019ll all become crystal clear to you. <\/p>\n
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I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve heard about this phenomena, but bombardeo de amor<\/a> es una de las t\u00e1cticas m\u00e1s comunes que utilizan los narcisistas para atraer a sus v\u00edctimas.<\/p>\n Al mismo tiempo, es una de las t\u00e9cnicas que peores consecuencias deja tambi\u00e9n. <\/p>\n After all those emotionally unavailable men who didn\u2019t know what they wanted, had trouble putting a label on your relationship and defining it, ran away from commitment, and were never clear about their emotions, now you\u2019ve finally met someone who\u2019s completely different. <\/p>\n A man who doesn\u2019t have a problem with telling and showing you how much you mean to him.<\/p>\n Un hombre que te dedique gestos rom\u00e1nticos y sorpresas desde el primer d\u00eda.<\/p>\n A man who opens up to you, makes you a part of his life, listens to you, and \u2013 finally \u2013 a man who obviously loves you unconditionally.<\/p>\n Un hombre perfecto que se cruz\u00f3 en tu camino en el momento en que m\u00e1s lo necesitabas. <\/p>\n Yes, you might get suspicious. You two have known each other for a very short period of time and despite that, he claims that you\u2019re the love of his life and that he plans on spending eternity with you.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, te olvidas r\u00e1pidamente de tus dudas simplemente porque quieres y necesitas creerle.<\/p>\n Pues d\u00e9jame decirte que esto puede costarte muchos nervios y probablemente sea uno de tus mayores errores, porque el bombardeo amoroso es una de las primeras se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que alguien te est\u00e1 enga\u00f1ando de cara al futuro. <\/p>\n When you first meet a guy who has the intention of love bombing you, you can\u2019t believe that you got so lucky and wonder whether he\u2019s too good to be true.<\/p>\n Bueno, por mucho que odie ser yo quien rompa tu burbuja, la triste verdad es que es as\u00ed. <\/p>\n Otra se\u00f1al de que un chico te est\u00e1 enga\u00f1ando es su promesas vac\u00edas<\/a>. Whenever you two talk, he has big plans for your relationship and does his best to convince you he\u2019s honest. <\/p>\n Even if he hasn\u2019t proposed, he\u2019s definitely talking about the way your life together should look like, about buying a house \u2013 he even mentions names for your future kids.<\/p>\n Parece un cuento de hadas, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n Well, sadly, it\u2019s everything but that. <\/p>\n The problem lies in the fact that this man\u2019s actions rarely match his words.<\/p>\n Actually, if you\u2019re honest, you\u2019ll notice that in most situations, he doesn\u2019t stand behind what he preaches and ends up apologizing for his lies, promising he\u2019ll never repeat them. <\/p>\n And I\u2019m not talking about promises regarding the distant future here only.<\/p>\n I\u2019m talking short term plans as well, such as proposing a dinner date and then standing you up, planning a vacation and then leaving you hanging, or even lying that he\u2019ll call you back in a few minutes, which never happens. <\/p>\n At first, all of this might seem irrelevant and something you should forgive him for in a blink of an eye, in comparison to all the love he\u2019s giving you.<\/p>\n However, one thing\u2019s for sure: he\u2019s a mentiroso compulsivo<\/a> que aprovecha cualquier oportunidad para enga\u00f1arte. <\/p>\n Let\u2019s be straight: if you can\u2019t rely on him regarding these small things, what can you expect when it comes to something more important?<\/p>\n If he isn\u2019t trustworthy and you can\u2019t count on him fulfilling his promise about taking you out, how can you believe him when he tells you that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you?<\/p>\n Well, the only possible answer is that you can\u2019t. In fact, it seems that he\u2019s doing all of this on purpose.<\/p>\n It\u2019s like he enjoys seeing you looking forward to your plans together, just so he can disappoint you when he crushes all of your hopes and dreams. <\/p>\n Lo peor de los creadores de futuro es su naturaleza vers\u00e1til.<\/p>\n Este tipo utilizar\u00e1 sus t\u00e9cnicas furtivas para manipularte con el fin de averiguar lo que quieres y esperas de la vida, s\u00f3lo para poder reflejar todos tus deseos y presentarse como tu hombre perfecto.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll analyze your every word and observe your behavior carefully until he gets all the intel he needs.<\/p>\n After he\u2019s done with his investigation, he\u2019ll suddenly show up and tell you that he wants exactly those things. <\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t notice any of this and instead be certain that you\u2019ve found your soulmate.<\/p>\n After all those wrong men, you\u2019ve finally met someone completely compatible with you. <\/p>\n Obviously, you\u2019ll see it as a sign of destiny. As a sign that vosotros dos est\u00e1is hechos el uno para el otro<\/a> because there\u2019s no other valid explanation for running into a man whose personality is the spitting image of yours. <\/p>\n There\u2019s no doubt that he\u2019s the man you\u2019ve been waiting your entire life for. He\u2019s your other half and your match made in heaven. <\/p>\n Oh boy, how wrong you are. Even though it\u2019s nice having a boyfriend with a similar attitude and outlook to yours, the truth is that it\u2019s utterly impossible to not disagree on literally everything. <\/p>\n La verdad es que este hombre t\u00f3xico<\/a> doesn\u2019t have an opinion of his own and even when he does, he carefully hides it because it\u2019s different from yours.<\/p>\n He\u2019s nothing but a people pleaser who\u2019s pretending to be someone he\u2019s not in order to get under your skin with more ease. <\/p>\n At first, narcissists only show you their good sides. According to the first impression, they\u2019re everything a woman could ever wish for: loving, caring, attentive, and kind. <\/p>\n Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, sus m\u00e1scaras empiezan a caerse poco a poco, a pesar de sus impresionantes dotes interpretativas. Es entonces cuando muestran sus verdaderos colores y defectos. <\/p>\n Nevertheless, even when this happens, they won\u2019t allow you to leave them. Instead, they keep on reassuring you that they won\u2019t go back to their old ways.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re involved with a future-faker, he\u2019ll blackmail you that he\u2019ll change<\/a> el momento en que vosotros dos, por ejemplo, os vay\u00e1is a vivir juntos o dig\u00e1is adi\u00f3s a vuestra boda.<\/p>\n However, he isn\u2019t ready to show you any inkling of these changes he keeps talking about at this point of your relationship. <\/p>\nHe promises a lot\u2026<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n…but his actions don\u2019t match his words<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nRefleja tus deseos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPromete cambiar<\/h2>\n
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