{"id":50418,"date":"2019-12-27T17:00:05","date_gmt":"2019-12-27T17:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50418"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:30:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:30:37","slug":"al-hombre-que-no-me-queria-ahora-es-mutuo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-hombre-que-no-me-queria-ahora-es-mutuo\/","title":{"rendered":"Al hombre que no me quer\u00eda: Ahora es mutuo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apuesto a que estabas convencido de que me pasar\u00eda el resto de mi vida esperando a que entraras en raz\u00f3n y tuvieras la decencia de elegirme.<\/span><\/p>\n

To be honest, I don\u2019t blame you that much\u2014everyone who knew how crazy I was for you since day one would assume a similar thing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Desde el primer d\u00eda, no fui m\u00e1s que una chica tonta que segu\u00eda cayendo en tus mentiras vac\u00edas y tus falsas promesas. Una chica que cre\u00eda luchar por tu amor cuando en realidad luchaba contra tu indiferencia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la verdad es que toda esta situaci\u00f3n probablemente tambi\u00e9n te haya subido un poco el ego. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te sent\u00edas tan grande e importante teni\u00e9ndome a m\u00ed desesperada persigui\u00e9ndote y dependiendo de cada uno de tus movimientos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, todo entre nosotros ocurri\u00f3 bajo tus t\u00e9rminos. <\/span><\/p>\n

I settled for crumbs of your attention and appreciated them as I felt I didn\u2019t deserve anything more. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Triste<\/p>\n

No dejaba de culparme por tu falta de emociones y me consideraba insuficiente para un hombre perfecto como t\u00fa. Eso debe haber sido incre\u00edble, \u00bfverdad? <\/span><\/p>\n

Te pareci\u00f3 divertido jugar con mi coraz\u00f3n y mi mente, poner a prueba mi paciencia y la fuerza de mi amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Irte y volver a m\u00ed a tu antojo te divert\u00eda m\u00e1s de lo debido mientras desgarraba mi coraz\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era agradable tener siempre a alguien esper\u00e1ndote pacientemente, sin importar lo lejos que fueras. Tener a alguien que <\/b>couldn\u2019t stop loving you<\/b><\/a>No importa lo que hayas hecho. <\/b><\/p>\n

Tener una chica a la que siempre pod\u00edas volver, cuando todos los dem\u00e1s te abandonaban. <\/span><\/p>\n

Alguien que estuviera dispuesto a perdonarte por todo el dolor, alguien cuyos brazos estuvieran siempre abiertos de par en par y alguien que estuviera a tu lado en las buenas y en las malas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y lo mejor era que nunca te ped\u00edan nada a cambio. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t put any effort into our quasi-relationship; you didn\u2019t make any sacrifices nor did you invest yourself in it. <\/span><\/p>\n

En realidad, yo hac\u00eda todo el trabajo, sin intenci\u00f3n de darte la espalda.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

So, learned from experience, you were convinced that things would go on like this forever\u2014<\/b>t<\/span>que envejecer\u00eda <\/b>rog\u00e1ndote que me quieras<\/b><\/a> y haciendo todo lo que est\u00e9 en mi mano para conquistarte. <\/b><\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, yo tambi\u00e9n lo cre\u00eda. Estaba tan encaprichada de ti que no ve\u00eda salida; no ve\u00eda posibilidad alguna de desenamorarme de ti y seguir adelante con mi vida. <\/b><\/p>\n

Pues adivina qu\u00e9: contra todo pron\u00f3stico, eso fue exactamente lo que ocurri\u00f3. Dej\u00e9 de pensar en ti, dej\u00e9 de esperarte y dej\u00e9 de quererte. <\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that you never wanted me for real. Well, the feeling is mutual now because I don\u2019t want you at all. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not telling you this to capture your attention. I\u2019m not doing it in the hopes that my faked indifference will scare you and that you will end up running into my arms. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying it to hurt your ego or to get even with you. I\u2019m saying it because it is the only truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all of this time, I\u2019ve realized I never actually needed you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Hermoso<\/p>\n

De hecho, me pas\u00e9 todos esos a\u00f1os sin tenerte del todo, as\u00ed que es m\u00e1s que obvio que puedo triunfar sin ti a mi lado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca estuviste ah\u00ed cuando m\u00e1s te deseaba, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 iba a desearte ahora? <\/span><\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t there to hold my hand through hard times, to wipe off my tears, to support me, to have my back. You were never my friend or partner. <\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, <\/span>t\u00fa fuiste quien me ense\u00f1\u00f3 a vivir sin ti. <\/b><\/p>\n

Me ense\u00f1aste que tu presencia en mi vida no es imprescindible y me ayudaste a acostumbrarme a tu ausencia. <\/b><\/p>\n

I guess you got exactly what you wanted all along. You got rid of me, and now you\u2019re free to continue on your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

I just want you to know that I don\u2019t resent you for not loving me enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you couldn\u2019t order your heart to care for me, despite all the love I was giving you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo,<\/span> I can\u2019t forgive you for leading me on for so long<\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t forgive you for stealing years of my life, despite knowing very well how you felt and being aware that you were unable to give me what I wanted . <\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t forgive you for not being man enough and not moving away from me the moment you saw you couldn\u2019t reciprocate my love.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Al<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I bet you were convinced that I would spend the rest of my life waiting for you to come to your senses and have the decency to choose me. To be honest, I don\u2019t blame you that much\u2014everyone who knew how crazy I was for you since day one would assume a similar thing. From…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":50422,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50418","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_434027401.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50418","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50418"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50418\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50418"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50418"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50418"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}