{"id":50426,"date":"2019-12-27T21:32:22","date_gmt":"2019-12-27T21:32:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50426"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:30:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:30:09","slug":"te-necesitas-mas-a-ti-mismo-que-a-ellos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-necesitas-mas-a-ti-mismo-que-a-ellos\/","title":{"rendered":"Te necesitas m\u00e1s a ti mismo que a ellos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Perder a alguien a quien aprecias profundamente nunca es f\u00e1cil. Acabar sin las personas que quieres es devastador para los m\u00e1s fuertes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, suffering because of someone\u2019s absence and missing them are not signs of weakness. In fact, it is what makes you a human being made of flesh and blood.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So, I\u2019m not here to preach to you or act like a smartass who knows it all. I\u2019m not going to try to convince you that your heartbreak is unimportant and that you\u2019re crying without a valid reason.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether you were disappointed by a boyfriend, a friend or a family member.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50660\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_12968858741.jpg\" alt=\"chica cerca de la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_12968858741.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_12968858741-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_12968858741-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sea como sea, la cuesti\u00f3n es que ahora tienes que seguir adelante sin ellos y aprender a vivir tu vida sin su apoyo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>No matter who hurt or backstabbed you, having to remove the person you love from your life or them abandoning you is one of the worst things you\u2019ll ever have to go through.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/a-la-chica-que-llora-la-perdida-de-alguien-que-sigue-vivo-2\/\">llorar la p\u00e9rdida<\/a> de una persona que, gracias a Dios, est\u00e1 viva, sana y salva, y eso requiere tiempo y fuerza.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00ed, perder a un ser querido es dif\u00edcil. Sin embargo, \u00bfsabes qu\u00e9 es a\u00fan peor? Perderte a ti mismo.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50429\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_13015203223.jpg\" alt=\"chica triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_13015203223.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_13015203223-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_13015203223-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Puede sonar brutal, pero <b>Quien se aleja de tu vida puede y ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cilmente reemplazado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Encontrar\u00e1s un nuevo novio, otro amigo o incluso podr\u00e1s conectar con una persona que representar\u00e1 una figura familiar para ti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>La \u00fanica persona a la que nunca podr\u00e1s sustituir es a ti mismo.<\/b> That is exactly why the most important relationship you\u2019ll ever have is the one with yourself.<\/p>\n<p>So, please don\u2019t allow your losses and heartbreaks to spiritually kill you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them leave permanent consequences on your emotional and mental health and don\u2019t let your bad experiences mark you for life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m begging you to chase away the idea that you\u2019re incomplete without someone else. That you need other people\u2019s approval, advice and guidance to carry on the right path.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m asking you to stop thinking that someone was giving purpose to your life. That you would be nothing without them and that you will never make it on your own.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>This might sound brutally honest but the truth is that we\u2019re all alone in this world.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50659\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_14321281611.jpg\" alt=\"chica sola de noche\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_14321281611.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_14321281611-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_14321281611-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, it is nice having someone to love and support you but at the end of the day, you\u2019re the one who has to deal with your own problems, the one who has to make all the important decisions regarding your life.<\/p>\n<p>El que tiene que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/20-cosas-que-debes-saber-para-ayudarte-a-curar-un-corazon-roto\/\">cura su coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a>La que tiene que vivir con las consecuencias de sus actos y la que acaba sola con sus pensamientos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014<b>you\u2019re the only one who can make yourself happy.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, otras personas pueden contribuir a tu felicidad y hacerla a\u00fan mayor, pero si no est\u00e1s contento con la vida que tienes, nadie aparecer\u00e1 con una varita m\u00e1gica y cambiar\u00e1 ese hecho.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de saber esto, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 sigues gastando tanta energ\u00eda en las personas que se fueron de tu vida por una raz\u00f3n? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 sigues permitiendo que tus demonios del pasado te persigan?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Why do you keep on searching for closure and an explanation? Why can\u2019t you leave it all behind and start afresh?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50430\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_125995631531.jpg\" alt=\"pareja enamorada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_125995631531.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_125995631531-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_125995631531-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Acu\u00e9rdate: <b>whoever doesn\u2019t have a place in your life anymore shouldn\u2019t be present in your heart or thoughts either.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que en lugar de centrarte en intentar recuperar a los que perdiste, conc\u00e9ntrate por una vez en ti mismo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Trabaja en la superaci\u00f3n personal y en convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de la chica que eres ahora.<\/p>\n<p>Trabaja para alcanzar tus objetivos futuros, sin esperar que nadie te eche una mano mientras lo haces.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Trabaja para hacer realidad tus sue\u00f1os y conseguir que tu vida sea lo m\u00e1s perfecta posible. C\u00e9ntrate en hacerte feliz a ti mismo, en lugar de esperar a que otro lo haga por ti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>No, <b>no hay nada ego\u00edsta en anteponerse a uno mismo, a sus necesidades y a sus deseos.<\/b> De hecho, es exactamente lo que deber\u00eda haber hecho hace mucho tiempo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t forget that<b> no hay nadie m\u00e1s valioso en este mundo que t\u00fa.<\/b> You\u2019re precious and irreplaceable and no one compares to you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que mejor <b>aseg\u00farese de no <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-tu-culpa-me-perdi-2\/\"><b>pi\u00e9rdete<\/b><\/a><b> en el proceso de b\u00fasqueda de otros.<\/b> Because if that happens, you\u2019re pretty much screwed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, cuida de ti mismo de la misma forma que cuidar\u00edas de la persona que m\u00e1s quieres en este mundo. Porque as\u00ed es exactamente como deben ser las cosas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-50428\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel231-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Te necesitas m\u00e1s a ti mismo que a ellos\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel231-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel231-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel231-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel231-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel231.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Losing someone you deeply care for is never easy. Ending up without the people you love is devastating for the strongest of us.&nbsp; Therefore, suffering because of someone\u2019s absence and missing them are not signs of weakness. In fact, it is what makes you a human being made of flesh and blood.&nbsp; So, I\u2019m not&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":50427,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50426","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_6580596731.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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