{"id":50479,"date":"2020-08-04T21:02:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-04T21:02:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50479"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:10:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:10:57","slug":"como-elegir-entre-dos-hombres-con-la-ayuda-de-estas-13-preguntas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-elegir-entre-dos-hombres-con-la-ayuda-de-estas-13-preguntas\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfC\u00f3mo elegir entre dos hombres? Con la ayuda de estas 13 preguntas"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m guessing that right now you’re in quite a predicament. You’ve opened up tu coraz\u00f3n <\/a>y decidi\u00f3 finalmente dejar entrar a alguien.<\/p>\n

Pero lo que didn’t<\/i> esperaban que dos tipos entraran en tu mundo y lo pusieran patas arriba.<\/p>\n

De alg\u00fan modo, en alg\u00fan momento, conociste a un <\/i>chico nuevo<\/i> que se sent\u00eda como todo tipo de derecho, hasta que conociste a la <\/i>segundo hombre<\/i>\u00bfQui\u00e9n te hizo pensar que hab\u00edas hecho el <\/i>decisi\u00f3n equivocada<\/i> earlier… but did you really?<\/i><\/p>\n

Now, you’ve got a great guy you can’t get out of your head but guy number two is seriously proving to be the right man as well.<\/p>\n

Y sinceramente, para una chica que estuvo soltera tanto tiempo, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puedes estar ahora en un tri\u00e1ngulo amoroso que te impide tomar buenas decisiones?<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

You’ve always been into monogamy. You respect other people’s choices but you’re a one-man woman and swaying from that never crossed your mind until you met two men who won you over and swept you off your feet.<\/p>\n

Now you’re que <\/i>girl. The girl you promised you’d never be. The kind who seemingly plays with the hearts of two men, trying to make the best out of this situation.<\/p>\n

Only you’re not. You’re not enjoying this. You don’t want to be playing with anyone’s feelings. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You didn’t plan for this to happen. You just wanted to meet <\/i><\/b>Mr.Right<\/i><\/b><\/a> who’d turn out to be a really <\/i><\/b>buen chico<\/i><\/b> y convertirse en su <\/i><\/b>mejor amigo<\/i><\/b>!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Spending time with him would hopefully lead to a long-term relationship and you’d know that loving him would be the right decision.<\/p>\n

But finding TWO of these guys you’d eventually fall in love with was beyond your wildest dreams…<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo ha ocurrido?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Te llev\u00f3 mucho tiempo volver a tener citas despu\u00e9s de tu \u00faltima relaci\u00f3n seria. <\/p>\n

Te pusiste en marcha. Has vuelto a salir con alguien y por fin has derribado tus muros.<\/p>\n

Y te sent\u00edas bien. Empezabas a sentirte como antes y eso te dio el empuj\u00f3n que necesitabas para salir con una misi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Y lo hiciste. Parec\u00eda que por fin te hab\u00edas encontrado <\/i><\/b>a <\/i><\/b>buen hombre<\/i><\/b><\/a>. He was kind, he seemed genuine and he didn’t immediately try to get in your pants. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And in today’s world, that’s a huge plus.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

He was easy to talk to and seemed to really like you back. There didn’t seem to be any obvious deal-breakers and you set up a follow-up date and you actually looked forward to it!<\/p>\n

Entonces lleg\u00f3 el segundo hombre.<\/i><\/b> <\/p>\n

De la nada, este otro tipo se te acerc\u00f3 y te habl\u00f3. El hombre ten\u00eda juego. La qu\u00edmica sexual era fuera de lo com\u00fan y tambi\u00e9n era f\u00e1cil hablar con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEsto estaba pasando de verdad? \u00bfDe verdad acabas de conocer a otro candidato leg\u00edtimo para conquistar tu coraz\u00f3n? <\/p>\n

This felt like a dream. For so long, there didn’t seem to be anyone out there. The extent of a male presence in your life was a good friend.<\/p>\n

And now, you’re actually asking yourself c\u00f3mo elegir entre dos hombres<\/i>\u00a1! La vida es realmente un monta\u00f1a rusa.<\/a><\/p>\n

But luckily, you’re in the right place. I’ve had experience on this front (and then some!) so I know just how to help you choose between two men.<\/p>\n

13 preguntas que le ayudar\u00e1n a elegir<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

It sucks being in this conundrum but there’s a way out. The only thing is, you’re going to have to devote some serious time and energy toward resolving this and it’s not going to be easy.<\/p>\n

If you feel like one of these two men could end up making you a better person, at the end of the day, that’s all that really matters.<\/p>\n

Esto es muy importante y te mereces encontrar a tu pareja. amor verdadero<\/a> fuera de este tri\u00e1ngulo amoroso.<\/p>\n

I’m going to show you some questions that will help you find what you’re looking for and weed out the one who’s only aparentemente<\/i> adecuado para ti.<\/p>\n

I know that right now it feels like it’s both of them but trust me, out of these two guys, there’s a real winner and I’m going to help you find him. Your gut feeling is going to play a vital role here as well.<\/p>\n

Tu coraz\u00f3n te meti\u00f3 en este l\u00edo, pero tu cabeza te sacar\u00e1 de \u00e9l. <\/b><\/p>\n

Choosing between two men is a mighty task but after you’re done with this, it’ll all be worth it. Right now there are two guys, one girl and a huge decision to be made. <\/p>\n

One that’s about to change three love lives. Are you ready to make the right decision and find the best man out of the bunch? I hope you are because este <\/i>is how you’ll do it!<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 le atrajo de estos dos hombres?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

What was the thing that made you feel so drawn to the first guy and what was it that you couldn’t resist about the second guy?<\/p>\n

Since you’re in this tricky situation, you must really be into both of these men and the attraction surpasses a physical one. So think about it this way: What was it that drew you to the first guy? <\/p>\n

At first, I’m sure it was his looks (you’re only human) but when you got to talking, you probably realized he was more than just a hunk.<\/p>\n

\u00bfFue su sentido del humor lo que te atrajo? \u00bfFue su inteligencia o la forma en que brillaba su ambici\u00f3n mientras te contaba sus aventuras empresariales?<\/p>\n

Y ahora volvamos al segundo chico. \u00bfC\u00f3mo se las arregl\u00f3 para robarte el coraz\u00f3n despu\u00e9s de haber sido conquistada por el primer gal\u00e1n?<\/p>\n

He must’ve really had something special for you to fall for him without wanting to.<\/p>\n

Vuelve al d\u00eda en que le conociste, piensa detenidamente en las cosas que te atra\u00edan entonces y comp\u00e1ralas con tu situaci\u00f3n actual.<\/p>\n

Which guy made you weak at the knees? Whose personality shined brighter? It might be a close race but it’ll bring you one step closer to finding your guy.<\/p>\n

Does it ever feel like you’re cheating on one guy?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

This one will tell you a lot. Reminisce about when you’re spending time with one guy and think back to how it made you feel (other than wanting to jump his bones).<\/p>\n

Does it ever feel like you’re cheating on the other?<\/p>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez has sentido que a un chico le molestar\u00eda m\u00e1s enterarse del tri\u00e1ngulo amoroso que al otro?<\/p>\n

If so, that could be the guy you’ve forged a stronger bond with, the guy you feel like you’re being unfaithful to.<\/p>\n

Subconsciously, you probably already know which one he is but it doesn’t hurt to reevaluate it again.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, your heart already knows the answer that your brain doesn’t want to accept. Clearly, these two guys are both good men. But which one is el hombre adecuado<\/a> \u00bfpara ti?<\/p>\n

Escucha a tu coraz\u00f3n. Te ha llevado a esta situaci\u00f3n, pero podr\u00eda ayudarte a encontrar el camino de vuelta.<\/p>\n

Which one makes your heart beat faster? That’s the guy for you.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l est\u00e1 listo para comprometerse?<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, ambos hombres est\u00e1n dispuestos a darte lo que necesitas hasta cierto punto. Pero, \u00bfcu\u00e1l est\u00e1 m\u00e1s en sinton\u00eda con tus ideas y esperanzas de futuro?<\/p>\n

You obviously want to build a long-lasting thing here, right? And one guy might be readier to give it to you than the other, it’s just a matter of figuring out which one.<\/p>\n

Have you been able to talk openly about the future with both these guys? Are they both on the same page with you when it comes to your relationship and where it’s going?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCon cu\u00e1l congenias realmente en lo que importa?<\/p>\n

This is really important to figure out because they both seem perfect now. But what you need is someone who’ll remain in harmony with your vision in the years to come.<\/p>\n

Don’t let this current infatuation fool you. With time, it’s going to die down. And then, you’ll be left with two men and less sure of anything than ever before.<\/p>\n

So now is the time to evaluate who’s on your wavelength and who needs to go.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l le hace querer ser mejor persona?<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

El hombre con el que pases tu vida debe hacer que quieras ser lo mejor de ti misma. Debe ser la persona que te empuje a convertirte en la mujer que \u00e9l sabe que puedes llegar a ser y que, mientras tanto, te proporcione amor y apoyo.<\/p>\n

Never settle for a man who doesn’t make you qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/a>. Consid\u00e9relo una se\u00f1al de alarma inmediata.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que ahora tienes que plantearte cu\u00e1l de estos dos tipos te hace querer alcanzar las estrellas.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l le hace desear conseguir lo imposible y le hace sentirse realmente capaz de hacerlo?<\/p>\n

Be with the guy who’s the wind beneath your wings, not the guy who cuts them off.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se comparan estos dos hombres cuando se trata de tus necesidades?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Piensa en lo que necesitas y en las cosas que quieres de un hombre. Preg\u00fantate qu\u00e9 tipo de hombre necesitas realmente en tu vida y empieza a comparar. <\/p>\n

Haz una lista y ve punto por punto marcando todas las casillas en las que est\u00e9 cada uno. \u00bfC\u00f3mo se apilan? \u00bfCu\u00e1l marca m\u00e1s casillas?<\/p>\n

The guy who fits better on paper is probably the guy you’ll have a more promising future with.<\/p>\n

At this point, you know exactly what you need in a man and what you don’t have time for. So help yourself by weeding out the guy who doesn’t have what it takes to go the distance.<\/p>\n

Sure, it’s all rainbows and butterflies now but will it stay that way in the foreseeable future? It’s vital to think ahead.<\/p>\n

Which of them has more qualities that you need in a man? You’ve been settling for far too long.<\/p>\n

Now, choose the man who’ll never make you settle again.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo de bien conoces REALMENTE a estos tipos?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

If you’re wondering how to choose between two men, this could be the deal-breaker. I know this isn’t ideal to hear but ask yourself how well you truly know them.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 informaci\u00f3n han compartido contigo hasta ahora? \u00bfLes conoce a un nivel m\u00e1s profundo o es m\u00e1s bien superficial?<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, la qu\u00edmica sexual es fant\u00e1stica, pero una relaci\u00f3n duradera es mucho m\u00e1s que sexo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfHay alguno que conozcas un poco mejor que el otro? \u00bfAlguno de ellos ha hablado de sus antecedentes familiares?<\/p>\n

These are all crucial boxes to check before deciding. Don’t get involved in a serious relationship with a guy who isn’t willing to share his life story with you.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCon qu\u00e9 defectos es m\u00e1s aceptable vivir?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Okay, so it goes without saying that by now you must’ve come across certain flaws with each man.<\/p>\n

Nobody’s without their imperfections and it’s only a matter of whose flaws are less detrimental to your lifestyle.<\/p>\n

What is it that you don’t like about man A and what puts you off man B?<\/p>\n

Does it feel possible to accept both these guys’ shortcomings and live that way without going insane or is there one of these guys whose flaws are less annoying?<\/p>\n

Nobody’s judging here. We’re all deeply flawed human beings. But this is YOUR life we’re talking about. You’re the one who has to live life alongside one of these men.<\/p>\n

So why not make it easier on yourself and choose the guy who doesn’t make you want to rip his head off every other day?<\/p>\n

\u00bfY la qu\u00edmica sexual?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Ahora llegamos a la parte m\u00e1s jugosa. \u00bfCu\u00e1l te hace querer trepar sobre \u00e9l en cuanto le miras? \u00bfQui\u00e9n entiende todas tus necesidades sexuales sin que tengas que pronunciar ni una palabra?<\/p>\n

Which one makes you forget about the outside world and pleases you in a way you haven’t experienced in a long time?<\/p>\n

I’m guessing both of them are good in the sack, otherwise you wouldn’t be in such a dilemma but when you really think about it, there HAS to be a clear winner here.<\/p>\n

Sexual chemistry is a huge part of a relationship. Which one gets your rocks off the moment you see them? Answer this and you’re so much closer to the right decision.<\/p>\n

Which one would you choose if they weren’t physically attractive?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Take away their looks. Imagine you couldn’t see their faces at all. Now think about it this way: Which guy would you go for if all you had to go on was what you hear and feel when you’re near them?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l de ellos te seduce m\u00e1s cuando te habla? \u00bfQu\u00e9 presencia te tranquiliza?<\/p>\n

You’re looking for an emotional and physical connection. Now that you’ve taken physicality out of the equation, which guy wins tu coraz\u00f3n<\/a>? <\/p>\n

\u00bfCon qu\u00e9 chico est\u00e1s m\u00e1s conectada emocionalmente? \u00bfCon qui\u00e9n te resulta m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil ser vulnerable y cruda?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 piensa tu mejor amiga de cada chico?<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Este me ayud\u00f3 mucho. Adm\u00edtelo, tu mejor amigo<\/a> knows you better than almost anybody else and she’d die for you. <\/p>\n

You KNOW she’d never let you be with a guy undeserving of you so if she has a strong opinion on each guy, I’d listen to her!<\/p>\n

She sees them more clearly than you do and since she knows you to your core, she’ll know which of these two guys brings out the best in you.<\/p>\n

If she’s ever seen you with them or listened to you talking about them, she can easily help you choose the guy who’s a better candidate for your love.<\/p>\n

Ask her and know that she’s probably right, no matter what her opinion is.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCon qu\u00e9 tipo puedes estar tranquila y a la vez c\u00f3moda?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

If I’m with a guy, I have to be able to sit in silence with him and be completely comfortable, otherwise what’s the point?<\/p>\n

No siempre te apetece ser tu yo parlanch\u00edn, as\u00ed que necesitas estar con un chico que pueda sentarse en silencio contigo y disfrutar y viceversa.<\/p>\n

Cuando se te acaban las cosas de las que hablar, \u00bfqu\u00e9 chico te da ganas de irte y cu\u00e1l te da ganas de quedarte ah\u00ed y disfrutar del silencio mientras te abrazas c\u00f3modamente?<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9date con el chico con el que puedas ser una charlatana total un d\u00eda y no tengas que ocultar tu falta de ganas de hablar de nada al d\u00eda siguiente.<\/p>\n

It’s so vital to be able to share the silent moments with each other!<\/p>\n

Un chico que entiende tu silencio y se queda a tu lado es un chico por la que merece la pena luchar<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEl nombre de qui\u00e9n que ilumina tu pantalla te hace m\u00e1s feliz?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

You know that feeling when you’re texting with a guy and you just can’t wipe that smile off your face? Well, that says everything about how he makes you feel and more!<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 chico te hace saltar de alegr\u00eda al ver su nombre en tu tel\u00e9fono? \u00bfCu\u00e1l te hace mantener esa sonrisa tonta durante toda la conversaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

In a serious relationship, it’s SO important to still have that almost childlike joy around each other.<\/p>\n

Isn’t it such a reassuring feeling to know that after a lot of time has passed, you STILL get excited when you see or hear his name?<\/p>\n

And you just can’t get rid of that inner happiness because it makes you glow! Which guy makes you feel this way?<\/p>\n

Which guy can you talk to for hours on end without ever getting tired of them? THAT\u2019S your guy!<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo te trata cada hombre?<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

You deserve to be treated like the amazing, kind woman you are. You’ve spent a lot of time considering their qualities, appearances and flaws. But what about how they are with YOU?<\/p>\n

Which guy treats you better? Which one makes you feel safe and taken care of (emotionally)? It’s important that you’re treated with the respect and effort that you deserve.<\/p>\n

Piensa en esas peque\u00f1as cosas de caballeros que hacen. Como abrirte la puerta o apartarte la silla en la cena.<\/p>\n

Taking your coat when you come over and being there for you emotionally whenever you’re struggling.<\/p>\n

Todos esos son claros indicios de un hombre amable, estable y maduro que sabe c\u00f3mo merece ser tratada una mujer.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 chico gana esta ronda (extremadamente importante)? \u00bfCu\u00e1l te hace ver un futuro juntos bas\u00e1ndote en su comportamiento hacia ti?<\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"\"How to choose between two men? That’s a question to wrap your head around, isn’t it? Being stuck on two guys really makes you wonder how the hell you’re supposed to choose just one!<\/p>\n

But deep down, you probably already know which guy is Mr.Right. You just can’t force yourself to make the right decision out of fear of making the wrong one.<\/p>\n

This is why I’m here. To help you make the right choice without a shadow of a doubt! These questions are designed to help you find your way out of a love triangle. <\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n aqu\u00ed para ayudarte a ver a estos dos hombres tal y como son y lo bien que encajan sus personalidades con la tuya.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, necesitas un chico que te proporcione estabilidad y un compromiso serio. Claro, ahora los dos parecen estupendos sobre el papel. Pero solo uno es el adecuado a largo plazo.<\/p>\n

And by answering the above 13 vital questions, you’re going to get the answer you’re looking for. As long as you’re being honest with yourself, you’ll get the right guy.<\/p>\n

Letting go of one of them feels like a nightmare right now. But once you make this tough choice, it’s going to feel like so much weight has been lifted off your shoulders.<\/p>\n

Buena suerte y recuerda confiar siempre en tu instinto.<\/p>\n

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