{"id":50480,"date":"2020-01-04T16:59:24","date_gmt":"2020-01-04T16:59:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50480"},"modified":"2022-03-18T00:35:48","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T00:35:48","slug":"como-acercarse-a-un-chico-sin-parecer-desesperado-10-pasos-para-el-exito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-acercarse-a-un-chico-sin-parecer-desesperado-10-pasos-para-el-exito\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo acercarse a un chico sin parecer desesperado : 10 pasos para el \u00e9xito"},"content":{"rendered":"

Let’s face it\u2014<\/span>la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres<\/span> evitar preguntar a un <\/span>chico fuera<\/span> a toda costa. <\/span><\/p>\n

They think that it is a man’s job to make the initial step towards them, and as much as they like someone, they will rarely be the ones to make the <\/span>primer paso<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte que <\/span>hombres que se acercan<\/span> no es algo que deba temer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pedir una <\/span>chico guapo tu<\/span>‘re into doesn’t make you desperate or pathetic. It makes you a modern woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si quieres hacerlo todo bien, aseg\u00farate de seguir esta gu\u00eda paso a paso, y te prometo que este hombre ser\u00e1 todo tuyo. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Aseg\u00farate de que es soltero<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Antes de dar ning\u00fan paso concreto en este sentido <\/span>chico que te gusta<\/span>En primer lugar, debes estar segura de su situaci\u00f3n sentimental y averiguar m\u00e1s sobre su <\/span>amar la vida<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si est\u00e1 ocupado (en cualquier tipo de relaci\u00f3n o casado), est\u00e1 fuera de los l\u00edmites, no importa lo mucho que te gusta porque la \u00faltima cosa que quieres ser es un rompehogares.<\/span><\/p>\n

En primer lugar, antes de <\/span>ligar<\/span> con \u00e9l o utilizar cualquier <\/span>l\u00edneas para ligar<\/span><\/a>Comprueba si lleva anillo de casado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tenga cuidado con sus rastros tambi\u00e9n (como una l\u00ednea de bronceado anillo) porque hay un mont\u00f3n de sneaky <\/span>hombres casados<\/span><\/a> que intentan ocultar su estado civil quit\u00e1ndose las alianzas cuando les conviene.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pregunta tambi\u00e9n si est\u00e1 soltero o tiene pareja. Si es necesario, compruebe su <\/span>redes sociales<\/span> cuentas porque pueden revelar mucho.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, the fact that this guy is officially single doesn\u2019t have to necessarily mean much. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe he is not in a labelled relationship but isn\u2019t emotionally available either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, you can\u2019t know this for a fact, but you can try and ask around if you have some mutual friends or acquaintances. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to chase a man with loads of emotional baggage or someone who is still in an on-and-off relationship <\/span>con su ex<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, if you\u2019re not positive that he really is one hundred percent single and available, maybe it would be wiser to wait a little longer before you approach him and until you\u2019re completely sure about his status. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por otro lado, si ha conseguido averiguar todo lo que quer\u00eda saber, es hora de pasar a la acci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Encuentre la manera de reunirse con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las mujeres<\/span> cometen un error similar cuando se trata de chicos que <\/span>discreto<\/span> como: no hacen literalmente nada al respecto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, they just sit there patiently, waiting for this guy to magically notice them, to read their minds, to realize they\u2019re into him, and finally, to like them back and win them over with his <\/span>l\u00edneas para ligar<\/span><\/a> y se mueve. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that things don\u2019t really work out like that. <\/span>After all, how can a man even form an opinion, let alone grow feelings for you, if you\u2019re nowhere near his radar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tal vez le volver\u00edas a gustar si supiera que existes en primer lugar. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019ll never know this as long as you expect him to find you under the rock where you keep hiding.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por eso el siguiente paso es crucial. Es hora de que te hagas visible para este hombre de cualquier manera posible para que pueda notarte y darse cuenta de tu existencia y presencia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, ser\u00eda lo m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil si pudieras simplemente <\/span>saluda<\/span> a \u00e9l, pres\u00e9ntate y empieza con alguna <\/span>charla trivial<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, you want to avoid this at all costs because you\u2019re scared of chasing him away or coming on as too creepy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, tienes que crear una situaci\u00f3n en la que este encuentro tenga que producirse accidentalmente. Ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s que suficiente para que este hombre te registre y sepa qui\u00e9n eres.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vale, esto es f\u00e1cil cuando es tu compa\u00f1ero de trabajo, un vecino, alguien con quien vas al colegio o le ves cuando vas al gimnasio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si es as\u00ed, s\u00f3lo tienes que encontrar un motivo para iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n: puedes preguntarle un <\/span>simple pregunta<\/span> or ask him for a favor\u2014to lend you a pen, to help you out with your task or to show you that difficult exercise you can\u2019t seem to grasp.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, when we\u2019re talking about a <\/span>chico tu<\/span> no tienen nada en com\u00fan con (por ejemplo, un <\/span>chico tu<\/span> see on the bus every day you when go back home from work or someone you keep spotting in the same club every Saturday night), things aren\u2019t that simple. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is why, in this case scenario, the best way to make him notice you is through your mutual friends or acquaintances\u2013make sure you two get invited to the same event or have a group get-together.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Averig\u00fce m\u00e1s sobre \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

The next thing to do is to find out as much as you can about this man you\u2019re infatuated with.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you to become obsessed with him, to stalk him or to suddenly start appearing everywhere he goes because that would only make you look like a lunatic.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you to find out more about his hobbies, his taste in music and movies, his favorite sport, and other things he is interested in. <\/span><\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you should pretend you have the same interests as him just to be more appealing to this guy, but if you do happen to have some things in common, great! <\/span><\/p>\n

Estas son las cosas que puedes utilizar a tu favor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estos son todos los datos sobre \u00e9l que pueden acercaros m\u00e1s a los dos, y los que pueden ayudarte a saber m\u00e1s sobre los lugares y acontecimientos que visita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, esta informaci\u00f3n le resultar\u00e1 \u00fatil cuando decida que ha llegado el momento de hacer el <\/span>primer paso<\/span> y acercarte a \u00e9l de verdad.<\/span><\/p>\n

It would be great if someone could tell you something more about this man\u2019s personality, as well\u2014what his <\/span>amar la vida<\/span> c\u00f3mo es la historia y qu\u00e9 tipo de chicas suelen gustarle.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEs t\u00edmido o extrovertido? Un <\/span>introvertido<\/span><\/a> \u00bfo un extrovertido?<\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, conc\u00e9ntrate en lo que puedes decidir sobre su estilo de vida con s\u00f3lo mirarle desde una distancia prudencial. \u00bfEs un empoll\u00f3n o un follador?<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Luzca lo mejor posible<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Te guste admitirlo o no, los hombres son criaturas visuales, y este chico necesita enamorarse de tu apariencia antes de conocerte como persona y antes de enamorarse de tu car\u00e1cter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque suene duro, \u00e9l tiene que enamorarse de tu cuerpo y tu cara antes de descubrir otras capas m\u00e1s importantes de ti como mujer.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, there doesn\u2019t exist a woman in this world who is always dressed for the occasion, who has full makeup on, and whose hair always looks on point. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos tenemos d\u00edas en los que nos vemos y nos sentimos como basura, y d\u00edas en los que preferir\u00edamos no ver a nadie conocido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ironically, these are usually the days during which you\u2019ll run into your crush. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is a huge possibility of you not seeing him for weeks, and then all of a sudden, bump into him when you\u2019re on your way to the nearest shop or when you\u2019re taking out the garbage in your old, ripped sweatsuit.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once this happens, you can\u2019t help but beat yourself up about allowing yourself to look like this. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maldices al destino por haber enviado a este hombre a tu camino justo en el momento en el que no te ves ni cerca del <\/span>mujer hermosa<\/span> que realmente eres.<\/span><\/p>\n

Le suena familiar, \u00bfverdad? Pues bien, para evitar estas situaciones, es fundamental que luzcas tu mejor aspecto en todo momento.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto es especialmente importante en situaciones en las que sabes que hay muchas posibilidades de encontrarte con ese tipo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to wear a fancy gown and have false eyelashes every time you see him\u2014just make sure you\u2019re neat, wearing clean clothes, have clean and brushed hair, and smell good.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Elogiarle<\/h2>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

Ya sabes que a las chicas nos encanta o\u00edr <\/span>otra persona<\/span> telling us that we’re <\/span>mujer hermosa<\/span> y haci\u00e9ndonos otros cumplidos? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that men are no different, so once you\u2019ve managed to reach some kind of contact with this guy, it is time to compliment him. <\/span><\/p>\n

A los hombres les encanta que los alaben, y la mayor\u00eda de ellos disfrutan cuando una chica que les gusta les sube el ego. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al aumentar su <\/span>autoestima<\/span>, you\u2019ll give him the courage to make the <\/span>primer paso<\/span>, and he\u2019ll be more sure about himself when it\u2019s time to approach you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t be too pathetic and constantly go after him, telling him that he is good-looking all the time or trying to assure him that he is the best man in the world. This would be too obvious, and it is clearly not honest.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, wait for the opportunity to arise when you\u2019ll have the chance to compliment his masculinity. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, p\u00eddele un favor (como cambiar una rueda pinchada, abrirte un tarro si compart\u00eds lugar de trabajo o llevarte a casa). <\/span><\/p>\n

Then, after he\u2019s done, show your appreciation and admiration by telling him that he is a great driver or by jokingly praising his strength. <\/span><\/p>\n

Podr\u00edas a\u00f1adir que nunca habr\u00edas sido capaz de hacerlo por ti mismo, y que \u00e9l es tu salvador, lo que definitivamente <\/span>impulsar su <\/span>autoestima<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, none of this is true\u2014you\u2019re not a weak woman, and you won\u2019t follow this behavior pattern in which you pretend to be incapable in the future or throughout your potential relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, doing something like this won\u2019t hurt you in the beginning, and he\u2019ll hopefully have plenty of time to get to know the real you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Otra gran cosa que puedes hacer es prestar atenci\u00f3n a algunos peque\u00f1os detalles sobre \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hazle un cumplido por su nuevo corte de pelo o por el jersey que se acaba de comprar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides making him feel better, you\u2019ll also let him know that he matters to you enough to notice everything about him which is always a plus. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just make sure not to exaggerate and make yourself look like you\u2019re obsessed with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Enviarle signos del lenguaje corporal<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Alegre<\/p>\n

Una de las cosas m\u00e1s importantes a la hora de atraer a la persona que te gusta no son las palabras. <\/span><\/p>\n

It is the hidden meaning behind your actions and behavior, and this is especially the case if you\u2019re wondering <\/span>c\u00f3mo acercarse a un chico t\u00edmido<\/span> who needs some encouragement and assurement that you\u2019re really into him before doing anything about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Precisamente por eso <\/span>ligar<\/span> con este <\/span>chico guapo<\/span>y env\u00edale <\/span>lenguaje corporal<\/span> se\u00f1ales antes de hacer un <\/span>primer paso<\/span> sobre \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

These signals will help you see whether you\u2019re getting any positive feedback or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, they will prepare him for what\u2019s coming next ,so if you decide to admit him your feelings sometime in the future, he won\u2019t be surprised or shocked.<\/span><\/p>\n