{"id":50500,"date":"2020-01-04T17:41:24","date_gmt":"2020-01-04T17:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50500"},"modified":"2022-07-15T08:01:34","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T08:01:34","slug":"como-mantener-una-conversacion-con-un-chico-15-formas-infalibles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-mantener-una-conversacion-con-un-chico-15-formas-infalibles\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo mantener una conversaci\u00f3n con un chico: 15 m\u00e9todos infalibles"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’ve finally started a thing with the guy you’ve been into for a while and you booked yourself a <\/span>primera cita<\/span><\/a>! <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve been <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> de un lado a otro y a trav\u00e9s de <\/span>redes sociales<\/span>, you’ve been having a <\/span>gran conversaci\u00f3n<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

It all seems potentially promising, but you’re going to be meeting him for the <\/span>primera vez<\/span> cara a cara<\/span> and you’re dreading the potential <\/span>torpeza<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desear\u00edas poder seguir teniendo un <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n interesante<\/span> \u2013 a witty <\/span>mensaje de texto<\/span> is one thing, but what if he’s not a natural <\/span>conversador<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY si el <\/span><\/i>conversaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/i> goes south and you realize you’re not exactly in possession of <\/span><\/i>grandes dotes de conversaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/i> \u00bfTampoco?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

A trav\u00e9s de <\/span><\/i>conversaci\u00f3n de texto<\/span><\/i>, he seems like a worthy candidate, but what if in reality he doesn’t have a <\/span><\/i>sentido del humor<\/span><\/i>? You couldn’t live with that.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfY si tiene cero <\/span><\/i>temas de inter\u00e9s<\/span><\/i> para discutir y te dan ganas de escamarte a los 10 minutos? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You’d rather let the wormhole eat you up than share an <\/span>silencio inc\u00f3modo<\/span> una vez m\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

No poder tener una <\/span>buena conversaci\u00f3n<\/span> es un <\/span>rompe tratos<\/span><\/a>. If he can’t give you that, you’re going to have a <\/span>mal rato<\/span> aceptando una segunda cita.<\/span><\/p>\n

So now, you’re trying to figure out if there’s a way to keep the <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> y evita en la medida de lo posible esos temidos silencios. <\/span>Mensajes de texto<\/span> es genial y todo, pero \u00bfpuede mantener el ritmo <\/span>cara a cara<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

God knows you can’t handle another shitty date, so you’d rather avoid dating altogether than suffer through another horrible blind date. <\/span><\/p>\n

Those days are behind you and it’s time to find a good guy worthy of your precious time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Good thing you’re here, then! Once you’re done reading this, the only problem you’ll be having is how to make yourself<\/b> stop<\/i><\/b> Hablaremos cuando nos veamos.<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

(And that’s a good problem to have.)<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo mantener una conversaci\u00f3n con un chico?<\/h2>\n

\"Compa\u00f1eros<\/p>\n

It’s only natural to be a little anxious when meeting a guy you like, especially for the <\/span>primera vez<\/span>. Desea que el <\/span>qu\u00edmica textual <\/span><\/a>to translate to real life and there’s nothing wrong with that.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it’s also important to realize that <\/span>cara a cara<\/span> conversation is much more challenging, so you shouldn’t put so much pressure on yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is a person who likes you just as much as you like him and he’s probably dreading the very same things! <\/span><\/p>\n

Y ambos quer\u00e9is causar la mejor primera impresi\u00f3n posible, lo que supone una enorme presi\u00f3n para los dos.<\/span><\/p>\n

So my first piece of advice would be to relax and stop taking this too seriously or you’ll drive yourself mad.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is not that complicated. If you click, you click, and if you don’t, there are no <\/b>temas de conversaci\u00f3n<\/b> que podr\u00eda salvar un tipo de qu\u00edmica cero.<\/b><\/p>\n

But while you figure out if you’re vibing or not, there are plenty of <\/span>excelentes maneras<\/span> para intentarlo de verdad. <\/span><\/p>\n

And today, I’m going to be your own personal guide in helping you get your <\/span>propia vida<\/span> en el amor y haz que ese chico suspire por ti en un santiam\u00e9n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay algunas <\/span>preguntas abiertas<\/span> con las que puedes empezar y que ayudar\u00e1n a que la conversaci\u00f3n fluya con naturalidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre puedes <\/span>ligar<\/span> innocently as you’re talking and distract him with your gorgeous looks.<\/span><\/p>\n

Contacto visual<\/span><\/a> es crucial para mantener la <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> (junto con <\/span>lenguaje corporal<\/span>, but we’ll get into that later), as well as having a <\/span>nuevo tema<\/span> to fall on if the first one doesn’t do the trick.<\/span><\/p>\n

La ausencia de presiones y una mente abierta son una combinaci\u00f3n poderosa. <\/b><\/p>\n

Don’t expect to become <\/b>mejores amigos<\/b><\/a> turned lovers within hours. Chemistry takes time. If you’re both vibing textually, let it happen organically when you’re <\/b>cara a cara<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Here’s how you can ease the atmosphere once you meet up, and keep the <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> de forma totalmente natural y eficaz con <\/span>preguntas correctas<\/span>. Tome un <\/span>respiraci\u00f3n profunda<\/span> y rel\u00e1jate. All\u00e1 vamos.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Don’t force it if there’s no conversational chemistry<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Primera regla para mantener un <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> with a guy is to NOT force it if you’re not clicking and the vibe is off. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember. you’re not going to click with everybody you meet and that’s the most normal thing to expect.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just like you’re not friends with every single person that has ever entered your life, you’re not going to find what you’re looking for in every guy you meet.<\/span><\/p>\n

If the conversation keeps falling flat, you’re not feeling his vibe AT ALL, and the <\/span>torpeza<\/span> could eat you alive, there’s honestly no resurrecting it from the dead.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finish up the date, be polite, and excuse yourself as fast as you can. If you’re not feeling it, it’s not supposed to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una simple conversaci\u00f3n no deber\u00eda costar TANTO esfuerzo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Claro, siempre hay un poco de <\/span>silencio inc\u00f3modo<\/span> as you’re breaking the ice, but eventually it’s supposed to get going and become easier as you go along.<\/span><\/p>\n

If there’s absolutely nothing to go on, save yourself the trouble and call it a night.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Estar realmente interesado en conocerle<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Don’t go into this wanting to make it all about you. You have to understand that this guy has dreams, ambitions, and hobbies you’re not necessarily going to be into, but that shouldn’t stop you from getting to know him.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to be interested in all aspects of him if you want to make it work and vice versa! So what if he’s insanely obsessed with <\/span>videojuegos<\/span>, you have your hobbies too that I’m SURE wouldn’t be his cup of tea.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deja que <\/span>ganarte<\/span><\/a> con sus palabras y an\u00edmale a que te cuente lo que le hace querer levantarse cada ma\u00f1ana. Con\u00f3celo. Averigua qu\u00e9 le mueve y cu\u00e1les son sus <\/span>cosa favorita<\/span> \u00a1en el mundo es!<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s the basis of any <\/span>gran conversaci\u00f3n<\/span>. Deja que la otra persona comparta abiertamente y prep\u00e1rate para participar en la conversaci\u00f3n si esperas que te corresponda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deja que te hable de su <\/span>equipo favorito<\/span> (basketball or football, it doesn’t really matter) and talk about your <\/span>pel\u00edculas favoritas<\/span>! And before you know it, you’ll be in a deep conversation completely smitten with each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Escuchar para comprender, NO para responder<\/h2>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

Esto es clave en cualquier <\/span>buena conversaci\u00f3n<\/span>. La gente est\u00e1 tan ocupada esperando su turno para hablar que s\u00f3lo escucha para responder, en lugar de escuchar para obtener informaci\u00f3n real sobre la persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t be that girl. Don’t just sit around, waiting for your turn to talk. <\/span><\/p>\n

Listen to him when he’s talking about something and always use the phrase ”<\/span>t<\/span>dame m\u00e1s<\/span><\/i>” to make him feel like he’s not talking to a wall.<\/span><\/p>\n

People need to feel like they’re being paid attention to. <\/span><\/p>\n

Imagine how you’d feel if you were opening your soul to a person and all he does is nod his head and as soon as you’re finished he starts blurting out something about himself.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m sure that would make you feel so low and unappreciated. So make sure to never do that to a guy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Listen, engage, and participate. That way, it’ll go both ways.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Preg\u00fantale por sus cosas favoritas<\/h2>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

You know how you just can’t shut your mouth when someone asks you about that one thing you’re deeply passionate about? <\/span><\/p>\n

It just excites you too much and there’s so much you want to share!<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo mismo ocurre con su <\/span>primera cita<\/span> con este chico. Deja que la conversaci\u00f3n te lleve a un lugar en el que \u00e9l se sienta totalmente c\u00f3modo compartiendo sus pasiones contigo y deja que te lo cuente todo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Firstly, it’s going to make him so happy to talk about something he genuinely loves. And secondly, it’s going to be so enjoyable listening to a guy you like talk about something with such joy and zest.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s definitely going to make you <\/span>enamorarse de \u00e9l<\/span><\/a> mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y al hacerlo, la conversaci\u00f3n simplemente fluir\u00e1 como un r\u00edo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can exchange your dreams and share your experiences while encouraging the other person to feel relaxed sharing this with you, knowing you’re <\/span>realmente<\/span><\/i> tan interesado.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Don’t let the occasional silence discourage you<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, hay <\/span>se <\/span><\/i>ser momentos ocasionales de <\/span>silencio inc\u00f3modo<\/span>, It happens. It’s your <\/span>primera cita<\/span> and you’re literally just getting to know each other. Don’t expect miracles on your first try.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re not robots and at some point, the conversation is going to come to its natural end and you’ll be scratching your head for a few seconds in panic.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfPero adivina qu\u00e9 m\u00e1s? Que <\/span>doesn’t <\/span><\/i>mean there’s anything wrong with the guy or that you should give up. It means that you’re human and you’re only starting up something together.<\/span><\/p>\n

There will be bumps in the road and little hiccups now and again, but if the vibe is right and the guy is nice to be around, you’re not going to throw in the towel. <\/span><\/p>\n

As the days go by and you’re getting more emotionally attached, it’s going to feel SO much easier filling in those pesky silent moments.<\/span><\/p>\n

You just have to grow into it, like every couple does. It’s normal and if you’re really feeling this guy, keep working on it and don’t give up just when it\u2019s started.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Repite lo \u00faltimo que ha dicho<\/h2>\n

\"Feliz<\/p>\n

Here’s a cool tip on how to keep a <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> with a guy. If you’re struggling to find a new <\/span>tema interesante<\/span> para hablar, \u00a1s\u00f3lo repite lo \u00faltimo que dijo!<\/span><\/p>\n

If he’s talking about some crazy adventures he was on or a dangerous hobby he loves so much, repeat the last sentence as if in disbelief.<\/span><\/p>\n

He’s going to respond with a little smile on his face and expand on the topic. It’s such a silly thing but it works. It makes the guy feel like the man and it gives you a chance to come up with something interesting to say next.<\/span><\/p>\n

This will him give him a push that he needs and make him feel like you’re not bored with his stories.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Preg\u00fantele por sus antecedentes familiares<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Get to know him by asking about his childhood memories. But don’t pry too much. See if he’s willing to open up about it and if so, ask him about what he remembers from when he was young and what his upbringing was like.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfTiene hermanos? \u00bfEst\u00e1n unidos y qu\u00e9 les gusta hacer cuando se re\u00fanen? \u00bfViven lejos y es dif\u00edcil separarse de ellos?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

This will make him feel nostalgic and eager to share because who doesn’t get emotional and happy to share family stories about the people closest to him in the world?<\/span><\/p>\n

Esto mantendr\u00e1 el <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> so smoothly that you’ll forget you’re on a <\/span>primera cita<\/span> and feel like you’ve known him for a while.<\/span><\/p>\n

And when it starts feeling so homey and comfy being around him, you just know you’re with a <\/span>buen chico<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. \u00bfQu\u00e9 hace y le satisface?<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

What does he do for a living? Is it something he dreamed of since he was a kid or was it a job he needed in order to pay the bills while he’s searching for something more in his lane?<\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre que la conversaci\u00f3n empiece a fluctuar, puedes preguntarle por el trabajo. Casi toda persona adulta tiene un trabajo y probablemente un mill\u00f3n de historias que podr\u00eda contarte sobre todas sus experiencias relacionadas con el trabajo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ask him about his favorite project he’s worked on and the one he hated the most. Does he have funny work anecdotes? Perhaps a funny colleague he does a perfect imitation of?<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe he’s the fun guy at the office who keeps the atmosphere light and joyful so you can ask him about his secrets.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bottom line \u2013 there are a million and one work-related things you can discuss. After all, your job takes up half of your day! Surely, there are plenty of things to talk about there.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Comparte tus propias historias <\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

It’s a good start getting the guy to talk about him and his dreams in life. But don’t neglect yourself! He also wants to know everything about you so be prepared to open up as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mantenga una conversaci\u00f3n c\u00e1lida y agradable compartiendo an\u00e9cdotas e historias ligeras y divertidas de su vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tell him about your family, friends, and workplace. Share your awkward moments that will make you both laugh and let him know you don’t take life too seriously.<\/span><\/p>\n

Be light and fun and don’t be afraid to make fun of yourself. That’s what guys look for in a girl. <\/span><\/p>\n

Alguien con <\/span>a <\/span>sentido del humor<\/span><\/a> que pueden re\u00edrse de s\u00ed mismos sin tomarse nada a pecho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life’s an adventure and there’s no point being serious all the time. <\/span><\/p>\n

A <\/span>gran conversaci\u00f3n<\/span> nace de an\u00e9cdotas divertidas e inc\u00f3modas que liberan toda presi\u00f3n y hacen que la otra persona se sienta lo suficientemente c\u00f3moda como para compartir las suyas.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Inv\u00edtale con tu lenguaje corporal<\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Lenguaje corporal<\/span><\/a> es tan importante como las palabras que salen de tu boca. Si pareces desinteresada y cerrada, el chico se sentir\u00e1 rechazado.<\/span><\/p>\n

But there’s a simple solution there, too. For starters, don’t cross your arms as you’re talking as it feels like you’re being defensive and judgmental. <\/span><\/p>\n

Rather keep your arms on your legs or in an open position where anything he says feels like it’s being received openly. <\/span><\/p>\n

Secondly, don’t be looking around the room as he’s sharing a story. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mantente recto <\/span>contacto visual<\/span> (but don’t forget to blink, girl!) and make him see you’re there. Smile every now and then (nothing forced) and keep a relaxed posture.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is not a job interview, you’re on a date with a guy you really like, so act like it. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s supposed to be chill and relaxed, so don’t give him the 20 questions treatment and let him talk as you’re carefully listening and looking him in the eye.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Dejar un aire de misterio<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Don’t be too available too soon. Let the man <\/span>quieren<\/span><\/i> conocerte m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s cada vez que te ve. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s good to share, but always leave a little something to the imagination. That way, he’ll keep coming back for more.<\/span><\/p>\n

He needs to see that you’re an intriguing enigma that keeps on giving, but if he wants to know more, he’d better make an effort to get you to share.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s supposed to be a little playful situation where you both win. You keep him hooked with your flirtatious stories and <\/span>habilidades de conversaci\u00f3n<\/span>pero siempre deja espacio para m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s an <\/span>manera excelente<\/span> para que se haga una idea de ti y de tu personalidad extravagante y coqueta que le atraer\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

12. Evitar los temas delicados desde el principio<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Si quieres saber c\u00f3mo mantener un <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> con un chico, d\u00e9jame decirte lo primero que NO debes hacer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get into sensitive subjects way too soon (<\/span>ex-novios<\/span><\/i><\/a>, money, politics… you name it<\/span><\/i>) and you’ll be well on your way.<\/span><\/p>\n

People don’t want to hear all about your sad breakup story on your <\/span>primera cita<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

And this guy certainly didn’t invite you to dinner (or his place) to discuss politics and get into a heated discussion in case your views clash.<\/span><\/p>\n

So scratch all that and keep it light, warm, and fun. That’s what the first few dates should be all about!<\/span><\/p>\n

Getting to know each other and testing out the air. Seeing if there’s a click and if so, deepening your chemistry and having a good time together while your relationship progresses.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estos temas (<\/span>los ya mencionados<\/span><\/i>) are for later on when you’ve established what you are and already have that type of relationship where you can discutir temas controvertidos<\/a> sin que afecte a vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

13. Don’t complain<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Lo peor que puedes hacer es hacerle creer que puedes quejarte de cualquier cosa. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEs esa la primera impresi\u00f3n que quieres dejar? En lugar de buscar algo de lo que quejarte, busca cosas en las que puedas estar de acuerdo y encuentra puntos en com\u00fan.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deja las cosas pesadas para m\u00e1s tarde. Esta es tu \u00fanica oportunidad de causar la mejor impresi\u00f3n, as\u00ed que aprov\u00e9chala bien.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m talking from my own experience. Guys are truly put off by negativity and bitchiness. Leave him discover that side of you once you’re knee-deep in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Be mindful of your habit of judging stuff you don’t really get. Be open-minded as opposed to judgy and critical. <\/span><\/p>\n

The guy will not want to go on a second date if you’re nagging about all kinds of stuff.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s unappealing and you’re better than that. It’s all about light topics, positive vibes, and fun banter!<\/span><\/p>\n

14. H\u00e1gale preguntas divertidas que le hagan reflexionar<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Pretend you live in a world where anything you wanted could become reality! Now ask him about the things he’d choose if he had a say in every single thing that happens from then on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, si pudiera elegir cualquier lugar de la Tierra al que teletransportarse ahora mismo, \u00bfad\u00f3nde ir\u00eda y por qu\u00e9?<\/span><\/p>\n

Si pudiera hacer de cualquier celebridad su <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span>\u00bfQui\u00e9n ser\u00eda? \u00bfCambiar\u00eda algo de s\u00ed mismo si pudiera?<\/span><\/p>\n

What’s the one food he’d have every single day delivered to his door if he could?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya entiendes. Vive en un mundo de fantas\u00eda y averigua todo lo que le gusta y lo que no, sus preferencias y las cosas que le desaniman. <\/span><\/p>\n

En cierto modo, esto te dir\u00e1 todo lo que necesitas saber sobre \u00e9l. \u00a1Int\u00e9ntalo!<\/span><\/p>\n

15. Hacer un cumplido<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Everyone likes to hear a nice thing about themself, that’s just a fact, and guys aren’t immune to this. Just because they act as if they don’t care to be complimented, it doesn’t make it true.<\/span><\/p>\n

Teniendo eso en cuenta, encuentra algo genuino por lo que hacerle un cumplido, y hazlo de una manera no forzada y org\u00e1nica. <\/span><\/p>\n

If when you’re talking, you notice how his dimples get so visible when he gives you an honest smile, tell him that!<\/span><\/p>\n

He’s going to blush a bit, but he’ll be pleased to hear a compliment, especially about something he can’t even control!<\/span><\/p>\n

Y esto podr\u00eda ser un <\/span>gran tema de conversaci\u00f3n<\/span> if you need one. Even if you’re <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span>siempre se puede compartir un cumplido genuino y hacer que el tipo <\/span>me siento tan bien<\/span><\/a> sobre s\u00ed mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Los cumplidos nunca pasan de moda y siempre ayudan a mantener la <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span>. So keep that in mind next time you need a trick up your sleeve. It’s simple, kind, and very effective in disarming a person.<\/span><\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

Encontrar un buen chico con el que formar una relaci\u00f3n estable, madura y divertida ya es bastante trabajo por s\u00ed solo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero encontrar una manera de mantener la <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> durante esas primeras citas es un juego de pelota completamente diferente.<\/span><\/p>\n

A veces, los nervios te dominan y te quedas paralizado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Other times, you\u2019re so eager to say so much that you end up talking all over yourself and making zero sense.<\/span><\/p>\n

And it\u2019s all perfectly normal \u2013 expected even. So many women around the globe go through the exact same thing every single day. <\/span><\/p>\n

And I\u2019m here to wash away your worries and make you see that you\u2019ve got this!<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve collected some of the most effective things you can take into consideration if you truly want to know how to keep a <\/span>conversaci\u00f3n en curso<\/span> con un chico.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are so many options out there, that I truly believe the only problem you\u2019ll have is having too much fun exploring all these tips!<\/span><\/p>\n

Dating should be light and fun, so always keep it that way. It\u2019s not a job and nobody is grading you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re there to find a guy who\u2019ll compliment your quirky side and balance you out with his mild demeanor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Try out these 15 awesome ideas and see for yourself that dating isn\u2019t as bad as you have it pictured in your head!<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019ll be a fun ride, but not without its bumps in the road. So remember, just because it isn\u2019t smooth sailing, it doesn\u2019t mean it isn\u2019t right. <\/span><\/p>\n

Las mejores cosas de la vida requieren esfuerzo, tiempo y paciencia.<\/span><\/p>\n

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