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<\/p>\nNo hay excusa para tener un bajo nivel de exigencia en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n
Por mucho que ames a otra persona o tengas miedo de acabar solo, nunca debes conformarte con menos de lo que mereces.<\/p>\n
Olv\u00eddate de los que te acusan de ser demasiado exigente o de pedir demasiado.<\/p>\n
Tienes la suficiente autoestima para saber lo que quieres y eso es algo de lo que estar orgulloso. <\/p>\n
Sin embargo, \u00bfc\u00f3mo saber qu\u00e9 normas deben ser las que rompan el trato? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puede saber a qu\u00e9 cosas debe prestar especial atenci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n
Si estas son las preguntas que te rondan por la cabeza, es hora de que eches un vistazo a nuestra lista de est\u00e1ndares para las relaciones, que representa los requisitos m\u00ednimos que deber\u00edas buscar en una pareja potencial. <\/p>\n
Lista de normas de relaci\u00f3n<\/p>\n
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Let\u2019s be real: you can\u2019t expect to enter a new relationship with someone you\u2019re not physically attracted to.<\/p>\n
Yes, there are other way more important things to look for while setting relationship standards, but you won\u2019t be able to get yourself to scratch underneath those layers if you don\u2019t first find them attractive.<\/p>\n
It doesn\u2019t mean you necessarily have to be turned on by this person the moment you lay eyes on them \u2013 you just have to like them enough to be drawn to them.<\/p>\n
This person doesn\u2019t have to be beautiful or handsome according to society\u2019s standards \u2013 it is enough for them to be appealing to you.<\/p>\n
Por supuesto, la atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica por s\u00ed sola nunca puede ser la base de una relaci\u00f3n sana.<\/p>\n
Puedes compartir una qu\u00edmica incre\u00edble con alguien, pero si los dos sois no compatible<\/a>, things won\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n As much as you shouldn\u2019t limit yourself to just one type and reject a person just because they, for example, have brown hair and you prefer jet black. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t accuse yourself of being shallow or having overly high standards just because of a certain taste when it comes to the opposite sex.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re just a human being who\u2019s in a search for a romantic partner, not a best friend.<\/p>\n En el mundo moderno de las citas, no poner una etiqueta a una relaci\u00f3n no es nada extraordinario.<\/p>\n Muchos hombres y mujeres pasan meses o incluso a\u00f1os saliendo con una persona sin llegar a llamarse novio y novia.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. If both you and your current partner want to keep cosas casuales<\/a>, there is nothing remotely wrong with that, and it\u2019s not something you should be judged for.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, perder el tiempo y esperar a que alguien tenga la decencia de decidirse por ti es un no rotundo.<\/p>\n After all, we\u2019re talking about setting RELATIONSHIP standards here, aren\u2019t we? So the bare minimum is to actually call all that\u2019s going on a romantic relationship before building it any further.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not old-fashioned for wanting to know where you stand and not accepting someone who\u2019ll lead you on.<\/p>\n You need a partner who won\u2019t have any doubts when it comes to choosing you. Someone who\u2019ll be proud to hold your hand in public.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re nobody\u2019s puppet and you\u2019re completely right for wanting to make things official.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if the other person makes an issue out of this, it\u2019s clear that they don\u2019t match your standards and you shouldn\u2019t spend another minute next to them.<\/p>\n Seg\u00fan los expertos en relaciones sentimentales, otro factor que rompe definitivamente el acuerdo es salir con alguien que te considere c\u00f3modo<\/a> y nada m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t settle for a partner who\u2019s in your life just because it\u2019s time for a serious relationship or because they can\u2019t seem to find anyone better.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not too picky if you demand someone who won\u2019t treat you like plan B or the person they come to when everyone else turn their backs on them.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be your significant other\u2019s safety net or last resort, and don\u2019t let them equate your relationship to settling for less.<\/p>\n What you want is a partner who keeps on choosing you every day. Someone who can live without you but doesn\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n Someone who wouldn\u2019t trade you for millions of other people and treats you not just like their first option, but the only option they\u2019re willing to even consider.<\/p>\n Despite what you might think, true love can\u2019t exist without mutual respect.<\/p>\n Por lo tanto, este es uno de los aspectos m\u00e1s importantes a los que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n antes de involucrarte en algo serio con otra persona.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t forget that you\u2019re a person and an individual before you\u2019re someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve invested too much in building yourself until now, so it\u2019d be silly to allow someone who\u2019s just walked into your life to treat you like you\u2019re not enough or not to respect you.<\/p>\n Significa que su ser querido debe respetar tambi\u00e9n a las personas que le rodean.<\/p>\n They\u2019re not under any obligation to love your best friends and family members, but they certainly must respect the place they have in your life and heart.<\/p>\n Not only that \u2013 they also must have enough respect for your time, career, accomplishments, opinions, attitudes, wishes, and desires, as well as for your personal boundaries and space.<\/p>\n Sin respeto, todo lo dem\u00e1s carece de sentido.<\/p>\n After all, you can\u2019t expect to have a healthy relationship with someone who uses every opportunity to put you down, diminish your worth, or insult you in any way (especially in front of others).<\/p>\n Todos estos son enormes banderas rojas<\/a> de faltas de respeto a las que debe estar atento.<\/p>\n Aunque mucha gente confunde los t\u00e9rminos respeto y aprecio, los expertos en relaciones dicen que estos dos conceptos son en realidad bastante diferentes, adem\u00e1s de tener algunas similitudes.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re appreciated, your efforts and hard work are not taken for granted and your current partner is aware that everything you\u2019re doing is for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that you ought to expect constant gratitude for acting like every normal person should in a relationship.<\/p>\n Tu pareja no est\u00e1 obligada a besar el suelo que pisas por cada peque\u00f1a cosa que haces por ella.<\/p>\n That said, it\u2019s nice knowing that you\u2019re not doing anything in vain, and that your efforts are seen and acknowledged.<\/p>\n It\u2019s nice knowing that the other person is thankful for the fact that you\u2019re giving your best, and appreciative of all the hard work you’re putting in this relationship.<\/p>\n Lamentablemente, hay mucha gente que tiene un list\u00f3n m\u00e1s bajo de lo que deber\u00eda y piensa que los celos equivalen al amor verdadero.<\/p>\n S\u00ed, un poco de celos es bonito, pero cuando cruza la l\u00ednea del buen gusto, puede ser potencialmente peligroso.<\/p>\n Of course, your partner wouldn\u2019t stand still while watching you, for example, kiss another person.<\/p>\n It\u2019s natural for them to be afraid of losing you and therefore have a tiny dose of jealousy in themselves.<\/p>\n However, it\u2019s completely different if your current partner is posesivo<\/a> and controlling, and this is the arrangement you shouldn\u2019t accept under any circumstances whatsoever.<\/p>\n This person needs to be aware that you\u2019ve had friends, family members, hobbies, and a life of your own before they tagged along, and that you won\u2019t throw it all away just because they\u2019ve become a part of it now.<\/p>\n It\u2019s insane to have a partner who forbids you to have friends of the opposite sex or hang out with your family members.<\/p>\n Uno que est\u00e1 constantemente a tu espalda, sospecha de todos tus movimientos, te acusa constantemente de enga\u00f1arte sin pruebas concretas, revisa tu tel\u00e9fono en busca de aplicaciones de citas, te acosa o limita tu libertad de cualquier otra forma.<\/p>\n This is not love \u2013 it\u2019s a form of emotional slavery and something you should never put up with.<\/p>\n Lo cierto es que en muchos casos de relaciones rom\u00e1nticas, las personas esperan cambiar el uno por el otro en el futuro.<\/p>\n You meet another human being that you think would be perfect for you \u2013 with slight modifications.<\/p>\n La gente rara vez se enamora de otras personas. En cambio, se enamoran de su potencial y de lo que podr\u00edan llegar a ser.<\/p>\n Needless to say, when the expected change doesn\u2019t happen, problems arise. <\/p>\n That\u2019s exactly why your process of setting standards has to include finding a person who will accept you for who you really are.<\/p>\n Una persona que ser\u00e1 completamente consciente de tus defectos sin intentar borrarlos nunca.<\/p>\n Es alguien que refuerza tu autoestima y te empuja a convertirte en tu mejor yo, sin necesidad de cambiarte.<\/p>\n La persona qui\u00e9n te inspira<\/a> to engage in more self care and self love, so you become better for yourself \u2013 not for them.<\/p>\n Yes, a healthy relationship is based on compromise, there\u2019s no doubt about that.<\/p>\n There will be hundreds of situations in which you\u2019ll probably have to meet your partner halfway or do some things you would prefer not doing.<\/p>\n Podr\u00edas hacer algunos cambios en tus h\u00e1bitos o modificar algunas cosillas que les molestan.<\/p>\n However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should allow them to try and cambiar<\/a> la esencia de tu personalidad y transformarte en una persona completamente distinta.<\/p>\n Si esto ocurre, ambos acabar\u00e9is insatisfechos.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll never be able to truly change you, which will make them unhappy while you\u2019ll be uneasy in the constant struggle between the person you really are and the person you ought to become according to their standards.<\/p>\n Therefore, if you see that your partner can\u2019t seem to accept the true you, walk away in time and save both of you a lot of unnecessary headaches, because they’re definitely not your soulmate.<\/p>\n No hay nada malo en tener una relaci\u00f3n sin ataduras, siempre que ambos hay\u00e1is decidido que las cosas sean as\u00ed.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, lo \u00faltimo que alguien deber\u00eda experimentar es ser un reclamo para la persona a la que realmente quiere y con la que desea algo m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n A mature relationship is much more than sex. It has to be based on other things as well. The same goes with intimacy \u2013 it\u2019s not only physical. It\u2019s built on many other levels.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que no. don’t have high standards<\/a> if you\u2019re content with a partner who pretends they like you just to get in your pants.<\/p>\n You should never settle for crumbs of someone\u2019s love and connect it with the attention they give to your body only.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re a whole package and if someone has a problem with that, they don\u2019t deserve getting parts of you either.<\/p>\n Si una persona quiere tu cuerpo, tiene que esforzarse por ganarse tambi\u00e9n tu coraz\u00f3n y tu cerebro.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that good quality sex is not required for a well functioning love life \u2013 it definitely is.<\/p>\n You probably won\u2019t notice its importance while everything is in perfect order, but if it happens that things in the bedroom start going downhill or if you experience lack of sex, you\u2019ll immediately notice that your entire relationship is affected.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s get one thing straight. There\u2019s no such thing as people who are good or bad at sex, only ones who suit you or not. That\u2019s why you always have to have a sexually compatible partner. <\/p>\n Por eso, tener las mismas preferencias sexuales, que te gusten cosas parecidas y las mismas ganas de probar cosas nuevas (o no) es uno de los requisitos imprescindibles en toda relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n If that\u2019s not the case, neither of you will be happy under the sheets, which will sooner or later reflect on other aspects of your relationship.<\/p>\n Also, when you’re setting standards, pay attention to the effort your partner puts in in the bedroom.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t be with someone who looks after their needs only and doesn\u2019t give a damn about your satisfaction.<\/p>\n Todos tenemos un bagaje emocional y unas experiencias amorosas que nos han convertido en lo que somos hoy.<\/p>\n When you reach a certain age, it becomes impossible to find a person without any romantic history, and this isn\u2019t something you should factor in when setting relationship standards. <\/p>\n And you shouldn\u2019t try looking for them either, because someone’s past is not necessarily a red flag.<\/p>\n Whatever happened before you and whoever was a part of your partner\u2019s life before you came along doesn\u2019t endanger your place in it and shouldn\u2019t bother you.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you mustn\u2019t allow your partner to compare you to anyone, especially to their exes.<\/p>\n Let them know that you are a separate individual, have no intention of copying their past relationships, and are no one\u2019s rebound or replacement.<\/p>\n Besides, wherever you look, you\u2019ll find people who might be more attractive or smarter than you.<\/p>\n This doesn\u2019t mean that your partner should constantly compare you to any of these people or make you feel bad for not being someone else.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re special and unique just the way you are. If someone doesn\u2019t see it \u2013 their loss. They don\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n Una norma importante en las relaciones que debes establecer desde el principio es el compromiso.<\/p>\n Nunca debes conformarte con una pareja rom\u00e1ntica que no est\u00e9 totalmente entregada o dedicada a vuestra relaci\u00f3n, a pesar del amor que puedas sentir por ella.<\/p>\n Simplemente necesitas saber que esa persona est\u00e1 al cien por cien emocional y mentalmente presente en vuestra relaci\u00f3n en todo momento.<\/p>\n You have to be certain that your romance is as important to them as it is to you, and see that they\u2019re ready to put in the same amount of effort you are.<\/p>\n Tener una pareja comprometida significa tener una pareja que sabe que construir una relaci\u00f3n es un trabajo en equipo y que siempre pondr\u00e1 tu amor en lo m\u00e1s alto de su lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n It\u2019s having someone who is ready to fight by your side, won\u2019t back out on you on the first sign of the slightest inconvenience, and will be there for you whenever you need them.<\/p>\n Todos tenemos derecho a desenamorarnos de nuestra media naranja, y tu pareja no es una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si esto ocurre, tienen la posibilidad de marcharse con dignidad y el enga\u00f1o nunca es una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Remember: When a person loves you, they won\u2019t cheat on you. Everything else is empty excuses and lies.<\/p>\n This is something that shouldn\u2019t be especially noted; it\u2019s something that\u2019s a minimum requirement for every relationship.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, por desgracia, muchas personas olvidan \u00faltimamente la importancia de la fidelidad, por lo que es claramente necesario plantearla como una norma a la que nunca se debe ni pensar en renunciar.<\/p>\n What\u2019s also vital to keep in mind is that cheating is much more than sex or some other physical contact.<\/p>\n It includes flirting, using dating apps, and searching for someone new while you\u2019re still taken, as well as having an aventura emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n These are all the things you shouldn\u2019t put up with.<\/p>\n Because if you tolerate it once, you\u2019re just giving the other person the green light to keep on hurting you, continue sneaking behind your back, and make you a fool once more.<\/p>\n Toda relaci\u00f3n exitosa, y especialmente una rom\u00e1ntica, es una asociaci\u00f3n con sus miembros en pie de igualdad.<\/p>\n Therefore, one of your relationship standards should also be finding a partner who won\u2019t act as if they are above you in any way or expect you to always be the dominant one.<\/p>\n Los dos deb\u00e9is tomar todas las decisiones juntos y tener la capacidad de responsabilizaros de vuestros actos.<\/p>\n One person shouldn\u2019t be in charge and carry all the weight on their back, nor should anyone be treated as inferior.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t look for someone who\u2019ll be intimidated by your success or use every opportunity to put you down and treat you like you\u2019re their servant.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t look for someone who\u2019ll follow you or go ahead of you. Look for a partner who will walk through life next to you, shoulder to shoulder, holding your hand.<\/p>\n Lamentablemente, hay situaciones en las que emotions simply aren\u2019t enough<\/a>tanto como queramos.<\/p>\n You can love someone with all of your heart, but if the two of you aren\u2019t compatible, there\u2019s no point in fighting for this relationship.<\/p>\n Las personas inteligentes buscan una pareja que tenga una visi\u00f3n del mundo similar a la suya, cuya personalidad se adapte a su car\u00e1cter, con la que compartan objetivos futuros comunes y que quiera las mismas cosas de la vida.<\/p>\n Doesn\u2019t sound overly romantic, I know, but it\u2019s reality and the only way a relationship can actually work out.<\/p>\n For example, if your lifelong dream is to become a parent, you can\u2019t expect to be happy with someone who doesn\u2019t plan on having kids.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t believe in marriage, you can\u2019t plan a future with a person who\u2019d never live with you unwed.<\/p>\n Lo mismo ocurre con su enfoque actual.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re into building a career right now, you can\u2019t get along with a partner who took a year off from work and decided to go and travel the world. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 all of us have our differences. But we\u2019re talking about some crucial disagreements here.<\/p>\n Por lo tanto, te ruego que tengas en cuenta una cosa a la hora de establecer tus normas de relaci\u00f3n: Los polos opuestos se atraen, pero las semejanzas perduran.<\/p>\nSaber a qu\u00e9 atenerse<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nNo ser conveniente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSer respetado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSer apreciado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nNo ser controlado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSer aceptado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nNo ser utilizado para el sexo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPero tener buen sexo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nNo compararse con nadie<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCompromiso<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFidelidad<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTener un socio igualitario<\/a><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nQuerer las mismas cosas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBuena comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
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