{"id":50552,"date":"2021-03-05T15:10:53","date_gmt":"2021-03-05T15:10:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50552"},"modified":"2022-10-04T11:09:50","modified_gmt":"2022-10-04T11:09:50","slug":"descifrando-el-comportamiento-de-un-chico-tras-una-ruptura-7-senales-de-que-esta-dolido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/descifrando-el-comportamiento-de-un-chico-tras-una-ruptura-7-senales-de-que-esta-dolido\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo descifrar el comportamiento de un chico tras una ruptura (7 se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1 dolido)"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know that all women would like to know how to decode a guy’s behavior despu\u00e9s de una ruptura<\/a>. \u00bfEst\u00e1 sufriendo o no? \u00bfLe importas o nunca le importaste? \u00bfTe bloque\u00f3<\/a>? \u00bfAlguna vez reunir<\/a>? <\/p>\n

Tenemos esas y muchas m\u00e1s preguntas sobre c\u00f3mo los hombres afrontar las rupturas<\/a> answered for you in this little guide below. We’ll help you enter into their minds and, if you want to get your ex back, this knowledge of psicolog\u00eda masculina <\/a>seguramente ayudar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que ser<\/i> en un largo-<\/i>relaci\u00f3n a largo plazo<\/i><\/a> is inevitably going to result in one of two things. You\u2019re either going to spend your life with this person or you\u2019re eventually going to call it quits.<\/i><\/p>\n

That\u2019s just the factual reality of the dating world.<\/i><\/p>\n

And in my own personal experience, I\u2019d much rather romper a tiempo<\/a> if I see that the relationship is going nowhere fast, because what\u2019s the point in sticking around if you know that this is not your person?<\/p>\n

This leads me to my second point…<\/p>\n

\u00bfLes importa a los chicos despu\u00e9s de una ruptura?<\/h2>\n

\"hombreNo matter what you\u2019ve read or heard, guys suffer just as much as girls do despu\u00e9s de la ruptura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re only human and if you think your ex-boyfriend has magically risen above his desamor<\/a> and entered a new relationship with a healed, happy heart, you\u2019d be dead wrong.<\/p>\n

See\u2026 guys want you to think that things don\u2019t affect them and that they manejar las rupturas<\/a> como los machos que son.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfquieres saber cu\u00e1l es la verdad?<\/p>\n

Te echan de menos<\/i><\/b><\/a> cada segundo de cada d\u00eda, y su <\/i><\/b>autoestima<\/i><\/b> recibe un golpe enorme (especialmente si usted era el volquete<\/a>), but they just don\u2019t have the balls to face their emotions the way girls do!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Todos sabemos lo que hay que hacer cuando se trata de chicas.<\/p>\n

Esta es una oportunidad perfecta para volver a conectar con tus mejores amigos<\/a>. I’m sure you neglected them a bit because of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Go out and have the most fun girls’ night ever. Or, you can stay in and buy copious amounts of wine, then bitch about him on your couch until the wine kicks in and you start feeling like the boss-ass bitch you are and realize you\u2019re better off without him<\/a>.<\/p>\n

(Hasta que llega ma\u00f1ana y todo vuelve a parecer demasiado real.<\/i>).<\/p>\n

Repeat the process for a few weeks until you get your head in order with the help of your support system. Finally, unfollow him on your social media accounts, and pick up your broken pieces without needing anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n

El dolor emocional<\/a> is still there, but you\u2019re not denying it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re willing to face your negative emotions and hard times head-on and take relationship advice from your girlfriends knowing they\u2019ve got your back.<\/p>\n

And with time it really does get better. He\u2019s just one guy and this heartache is going to pass if you process it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Esconderse del mundo: 5 formas de hacerlo y c\u00f3mo ser visto<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo afrontan los chicos las rupturas?<\/h2>\n

\"fotoWith men, things are a little different. Men can\u2019t hacer frente a las cargas emocionales<\/a> como las chicas porque les hace sentirse menos hombres.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., <\/b>c\u00f3mo se comportan los chicos despu\u00e9s de una ruptura<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll deny their heartache, enter <\/b>nuevas relaciones<\/b> sin procesar su dolor, y utilizar <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> to make you feel they\u2019re doing better than they actually are.<\/b><\/p>\n

And why? Because they can\u2019t handle being alone as well as girls can, they turn to relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/a> y las citas en l\u00ednea en busca de una nueva novia en lugar de lidiar con el dolor de su relaci\u00f3n anterior.<\/p>\n

Van ning\u00fan contacto<\/a>, instead of resolving their issues with their ex-girlfriends, which doesn\u2019t allow them to truly get over it when the relationship ends.<\/p>\n

Esto compromete sus futuras relaciones porque nunca pueden ir a por todas, debido a la falta de cierre.<\/p>\n

Heartbreak<\/i><\/b> es algo que requiere sensibilidad, comprensi\u00f3n de tu propia psique y bienestar, junto con <\/i><\/b>apoyo emocional<\/i><\/b><\/a> de sus seres queridos.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Chicos trato<\/i><\/b> con esto haciendo casi exactamente lo contrario.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Se saltan los pasos necesarios y se lanzan directamente a la parte de la actuaci\u00f3n (beberse hasta el culo con sus colegas, ligues al azar, etc.). llamadas telef\u00f3nicas de borrachos<\/a> to their exes, calling on their mutual friends and bitching about the other\u2026 etc.)<\/p>\n

Y al d\u00eda siguiente, cuando la realidad se impone y se dan cuenta de lo perjudicial que es su comportamiento para su curaci\u00f3n, lo reprimen todo y van a por el segundo asalto.<\/p>\n

En empiezo a echarte de menos<\/a> and they\u2019re hurting, but they\u2019ll never say it face to face. They go out with their friends, find new hobbies, drown themselves in work… They try everything just to keep you off their mind.<\/p>\n

And the toxic cycle just keeps on turning until they can\u2019t take it anymore and realize that every little thing they\u2019ve done to get over their ex-novia <\/a>ha sido contraproducente.<\/p>\n

Guys\u2019 brains are just wired differently. They are supposed to be these strong, macho men (en sus propias cabezas<\/i>) y cualquier signo de emoci\u00f3n real est\u00e1 estrictamente mal visto.<\/p>\n

Dios no quiera que admitan que they\u2019re hurting<\/a> y realmente pasar por el proceso como una persona sana lo har\u00eda, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

But I\u2019m here to show you that guys really don\u2019t have it all figured out. They just want you to think that they do.<\/p>\n

Puedes ver <\/i><\/b>su <\/i><\/b>ex-novio<\/i><\/b><\/a> salir por la noche y publicar fotos en <\/i><\/b>redes sociales<\/i><\/b> como un animal de fiesta, pero lo que debes saber es esto: Todo este exterior duro con su mierda resuelta es simplemente un mecanismo de afrontamiento.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Because if he actually let himself FEEL what he\u2019s feeling, the ground would crumble underneath his feet and his head would shatter from all the unresolved issues he\u2019s been suppressing for so long.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme cuando te lo digo, guys\u2019 behavior after a breakup<\/a> is anything but what they\u2019re letting on.<\/p>\n

Inside, there\u2019s a fragile man with un coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a>tratando de arreglar las piezas de todas las maneras equivocadas.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que antes de llamar a tu ex desalmado por seguir adelante<\/a> tan r\u00e1pido, descartando por completo volver a estar juntos, considera las siguientes se\u00f1ales que demuestran exactamente lo contrario.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si un chico est\u00e1 dolido tras una ruptura?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s a well-known fact that hombres y mujeres afrontan las rupturas<\/a> de maneras totalmente diferentes.<\/p>\n

Women tend to cry and I think it’s the reason why they move one faster than guys. They let all of their negative emotions out almost right after the split happens.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, men don’t want to show that they’re suffering and they keep bottling up their emotions as if they will never come out to the surface. And that’s precisely where the biggest problem arises.<\/p>\n

Tarde o temprano, todos esos agobios, emociones reprimidas<\/a> encuentran una salida y se vuelven m\u00e1s dolorosas de lo que eran antes. Al final, esa evasi\u00f3n emocional se traduce en un comportamiento bastante autodestructivo.<\/p>\n

Si quieres averiguar si tu hombre est\u00e1 sufriendo tras la ruptura, tienes que observar atentamente su comportamiento y tratar de encontrarle sentido. Si su <\/i><\/b>ex pareja<\/i><\/b> ha mostrado estos 7 signos <\/i><\/b>despu\u00e9s de la ruptura<\/i><\/b><\/a>, trust me, honey, he\u2019s hurting big time.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Te da de baja en las redes sociales<\/h3>\n

\"hombreUn d\u00eda, estabas desplaz\u00e1ndote por tu Instagram y de repente te diste cuenta de que su presencia no aparec\u00eda por ning\u00fan lado.<\/p>\n

So you went to check his profile and what do you know\u2026 he\u2019s deleted you from Insta! Quickly, you go to your other accounts and find out the same shit happened everywhere.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re baffled. After so much time together, he just nonchalantly decides to delete your presence from his online world.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you\u2019re pissed! You take it personally (even though you probably shouldn\u2019t) and immediately call your girls to bitch about this.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t realize is that this has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him.<\/p>\n

A los chicos se les ense\u00f1a que deben ser impermeables al dolor y desamor <\/a>\u00a1es la personificaci\u00f3n de ello!<\/p>\n

So to make it easier on himself, he deletes every trace of you from his social media accounts so as not to have to be reminded of the pain he\u2019s suppressing.<\/p>\n

Or, he may even do it because he doesn’t want to come into the temptation of reaching out and sending you a (probably) mensaje de texto de borracho<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Guys don\u2019t deal with this shit at all. They just wipe it under the rug and put it on a tough exterior.<\/p>\n

But if he had to see your face every day as he\u2019s scrolling through his Insta, Facebook or Snapchat, his heart would break all over again.<\/p>\n

Le duele ver tu cara. Le duele saber te dej\u00f3 ir<\/a>. He might even shed a tear over it, but he can\u2019t let it happen. He doesn’t want to see you because he’s actually a coward, a man who can’t face his actions. End. Of. The. Story.<\/p>\n

So he ignores how he feels (heartbroken), deletes any sign of your social media presence, and pretends it\u2019s all okay.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t see you face to face<\/h3>\n

\"parejaTras una ruptura, las emociones suelen estar a flor de piel y toda l\u00f3gica sale por la puerta.<\/p>\n

Ambos est\u00e1is dolidos, confusos y dud\u00e1is si dejar que todo pase sin darle sentido. Y las agresiones suelen producirse por falta de sentido com\u00fan tan pronto despu\u00e9s de la ruptura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

With guys, it\u2019s all on an even bigger level. Your ex-boyfriend can\u2019t see you because he hasn\u2019t dealt with what\u2019s happening at all.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s hurt, angry, and perplexed, and very likely to resort to anger and yelling because you are the reason for this pain.<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t mean it in a negative way. You\u2019re la que perdi\u00f3<\/a>, and therefore he\u2019s in pain and angry.<\/p>\n

Seeing you only reminds him of how poorly he\u2019s treated you and therefore lost you, so he lashes out big time.<\/p>\n

The very thing he\u2019s so desperately trying to avoid is staring him straight in the eye and trying to have a conversation with him, and he can\u2019t handle it.<\/p>\n

Quiere alejarse, pero hay cosas que discutir.<\/p>\n

Who gets the dog? Who\u2019s the one who has to move out? Is this realmente<\/i> sucediendo o s\u00f3lo necesitas un descanso<\/a> \u00bfpara averiguar una mierda?<\/p>\n

Talking is mandatory because that\u2019s the only way to get closure.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s unable to see you without feeling crappy, and that\u2019s why he avoids seeing you face to face. It brings out so much shit that he\u2019s just not ready to deal with.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Lee esto cada vez que empieces a compararte con una chica m\u00e1s guapa<\/a><\/p>\n

Empieza a aparecer en lugares que frecuentas<\/h3>\n

\"hombreSometimes, guys\u2019 behavior after a breakup is so transparent. It\u2019s too obvious that he\u2019s going through the motions and he gives it all away with his unorthodox actions.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, sabe que nunca<\/i> va a su cafeter\u00eda favorita, sobre todo para holgazanear y no hacer nada.<\/p>\n

But all of a sudden, there he is. Sitting there, sipping his coffee and pretending to be surprised that he\u2019s bumped into you.<\/p>\n

Like he doesn\u2019t already know that this is where you get your after-work caffeine fix with your girls. So he says hi, chats you up, and marvels at this wonderful coincidence.<\/p>\n

Only it was all planned in advance. See, he can\u2019t get you out of his head, but he also doesn\u2019t want to seem desperate<\/a> llam\u00e1ndote y pregunt\u00e1ndote c\u00f3mo est\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s too much of a man for that. So he decides to show up at places he knows you\u2019ll be, and have a mini convo to see you and get his fix.<\/p>\n

Actually, there\u2019s nothing wrong with this. The chico claramente te echa de menos<\/a> and since he can\u2019t simply talk to you about his feelings and hash things out if possible, he\u2019ll resort to these measures just to see your face.<\/p>\n

That way, his reputation is untarnished and he\u2019s not letting his negative emotions get the better of him.<\/p>\n

Luckily, you know better and you can enjoy the fact that you\u2019ve left such a big hole in your ex\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n

Empieza a enviarte mensajes de texto obsesivamente<\/h3>\n

\"hombreAvoidance didn\u2019t do the trick since he clearly can\u2019t get you out of his head, and pretending that he\u2019s okay is silly since he can\u2019t lie to himself.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que cierra el c\u00edrculo y vuelve a usted<\/i>. It\u2019s eating him alive not knowing how you are and what you\u2019re doing, and since nothing else worked, he starts blowing up your phone.<\/p>\n

First, it appears to be just friendly banter \u2013 where you are, how you\u2019re doing, what\u2019s been going on in your life \u2013 and for a minute, it all seems normal.<\/p>\n

Pero entonces empieza a sacar el tema de la ruptura y se pone en plan detective contigo.<\/p>\n

Why did you guys break up in the first place, how did you let it happen, he might even start blaming you for how it all went down, and all that because he\u2019s hurting and te quiere de vuelta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A guy who\u2019s over you and turned a new page wouldn\u2019t be blowing you up this way and pinning blame.<\/p>\n

A guy who has his shit together doesn\u2019t reminisce about the breakup and mentions volver a estar juntos<\/a>, as if it didn\u2019t take you so long to finally move on.<\/p>\n

His behavior is shady but it all comes from a place of misplaced hurt. He still has feelings for you and he can\u2019t process them right.<\/p>\n

So he texts you, calls you and initiates conversations to try to make sense of what\u2019s going on and help himself avanzar<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Crea una falsa narrativa sobre la ruptura<\/h3>\n

\"hombreOne of the most concerning types of guys\u2019 behavior after a breakup is distorting the truth about how it all happened.<\/p>\n

Clearly, you know what went down and he does too. There\u2019s no point lying to yourselves.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando uno de los miembros de la pareja no puede afrontar las secuelas de la ruptura, tiende a crear su propia versi\u00f3n de la verdad.<\/p>\n

Se trata de un mecanismo de afrontamiento<\/a> that lets them face what happened easier and look better in other people\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n

Suddenly, you\u2019ll start hearing stories about your breakup that bear zero resemblance to what actually took place.<\/p>\n

Si fueras t\u00fa quien vertido<\/a> him, all of a sudden, he\u2019ll turn things around and make it seem as if it was all his idea.<\/p>\n

Fue \u00e9l quien inici\u00f3 la ruptura <\/a>because you were suffocating him or he just couldn\u2019t handle your bossy personality anymore.<\/p>\n

Whatever he starts telling people, it\u2019ll be a blatant lie.<\/p>\n

And do you know why he\u2019s doing this? It\u2019s because he\u2019s so hurt and feels betrayed by your breakup that the only way to feel better is to be the victim in other people\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t change what happened but he sure can tell his own version and, in that way, move on knowing he\u2019s no longer el malo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This behavior is unhealthy and hurtful toward you, so it\u2019s on you to talk to him and make him see how wrong and toxic this is.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfSexo con amigos? Los 10 mayores secretos que nadie te contar\u00e1<\/a><\/p>\n

Se convierte en un gilipollas<\/h3>\n

\"mujerS\u00ed. A veces los chicos se convierten en completos gilipollas <\/a>after the breakup and they\u2019re the only ones who can make any sense of that shitty behavior.<\/p>\n

They look at it this way: \u201dYou\u2019re the one who dumped me, so now I get to hurt you back.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

They become obnoxious and unbearable. Anytime they\u2019re around their ex-girlfriend, they start calling her names, being nasty, and acting as if she\u2019s a bitch simply because she couldn\u2019t handle being around his sorry ass anymore.<\/p>\n

Este es el peor tipo de comportamiento que un hombre puede mostrar despu\u00e9s de una ruptura.<\/p>\n

It shows his lack of respect for his ex and it proves my point \u2013 guys suck at handling their emotions post-breakup!<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who stood by his side while he was going through shit.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who held his hand when it wasn\u2019t easy for him. And how does he repay you?<\/p>\n

By hurting you and treating you like an enemy. I don\u2019t know how much this is going to help, but the only reason he\u2019s doing it because deep down he\u2019s still hurting.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not over you and he can\u2019t accept how things ended, so he turns you into his enemy.<\/p>\n

For some guys, this only lasts for a short amount of time until they realize how childish and cruel they\u2019re being. Here\u2019s hoping that yours is among them!<\/p>\n

Se lanza a una nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

\"parejaOne of the weirdest guys\u2019 behavior after a breakup is moving straight into a new relationship.<\/p>\n

What the hell is up with that? It doesn\u2019t even have to be an actual, relaci\u00f3n seria<\/a>. Tambi\u00e9n puede tratarse de un rollo de una noche que se convierte en algo m\u00e1s que eso.<\/p>\n

Pero, por desgracia, esto es lo que su ego masculino le dice que haga. Usan esa validaci\u00f3n como una tirita para su baja autoestima.<\/a> Unfortunately, they don’t know that it’s nothing but a short-term solution.<\/p>\n

En lugar de afrontar su mierda de frente, siente la necesidad de demostrar a todo el mundo lo duro y varonil que es y la mejor forma de hacerlo es dej\u00e1ndose ver con otra chica.<\/p>\n

Why? Because then, he\u2019ll show everyone just how strong and impervious he is.<\/p>\n

Nada puede con \u00e9l, ni t\u00fa ni su desamor. Y su nueva relaci\u00f3n es el comienzo de un nuevo \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Only, that\u2019s just a front. He\u2019s anything but equipped to handle a new GF since his old one is still clearly taking the top spot in his heart.<\/p>\n

A guy who\u2019s lidiando con su dolor<\/a> doesn\u2019t do anything rash.<\/p>\n

A guy who has his ducks in a row doesn\u2019t feel the need to impress the public with his array of new chicks. He just doesn\u2019t care <\/a>lo que piensen los dem\u00e1s<\/p>\n

It\u2019s his life and his choices. The only person whose opinion he should consider is his own and yours.<\/p>\n

L\u00e1stima que los hombres tiendan a ser tan testarudos en su supuesta hombr\u00eda que no vean lo infantiles que les hace. Ir\u00f3nico, \u00bfeh?<\/p>\n

So if your ex-boyfriend is parading around town with his new girlfriend, don\u2019t take it too personally (even though it hurts like fuck, I know). He\u2019s acting out and pretending to be okay.<\/p>\n

Pero que sepas que un d\u00eda, su dolor se<\/i> catch up with him and he\u2019ll finally be forced to face his demons.<\/p>\n

Without it, he’ll never be able para seguir adelante<\/a>, because the fact is that he can’t move on before he actually goes through the healing process. And he can’t heal until he’s ready to face all of his emotions.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 8 problemas de las relaciones a distancia (y c\u00f3mo hacer que funcionen)<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tarda un chico en arrepentirse de su ruptura?<\/h2>\n

\"hombrePor desgracia, ni yo ni nadie puede darte una respuesta definitiva a esta pregunta. Sin embargo, la mayor\u00eda de los expertos en relaciones coinciden en que un chico puede tardar hasta seis meses en llegar a ese punto de arrepentimiento.<\/p>\n

We already saw that men deal with heartaches and breakups in a totally different way than we do. They skip all the ‘normal’ things that usually come after a breakup, all those negative feelings and deep emotional pain.<\/p>\n

It’s just like their stubborn pride doesn’t allow them to show to their ex-partner and to the rest of the world that they’re suffering.<\/p>\n

Intentan encontrar el consuelo que tanto necesitan en los brazos de otra mujer o en salir de fiesta con sus amigos todo el d\u00eda. Desgraciadamente, s\u00f3lo consiguen comportamiento autodestructivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They skip the whole healing process and think (or at least want to think) that they’re ready to move on. After some time, it all hits them big-time and that’s when regrets creep upon them.<\/p>\n

Por fin aceptan todas sus emociones, tanto las positivas como las negativas, y se sienten preparados para afrontarlas todas.<\/p>\n

Finalmente, comprenden que su est\u00fapido ego masculino podr\u00eda costarles perder a la mujer que honestamente aman y comienzan a luchando por su amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It may take some time, it may take even more than six months, but once a man reaches this ‘regretting phase’ he’ll do just about everything to win you over again.<\/p>\n

However, the thing you should really think about is the reason why he’s coming back into your life again. Does he miss you because te quiere<\/a>? O, \u00bfvolvi\u00f3 porque echa de menos tener a alguien que se preocupe de verdad por \u00e9l en su vida?<\/p>\n

So, the question shouldn’t be WHEN is he going to regret the breakup, but WHY… What are the reasons that made him change his mind and come back into your life…<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo conseguir el cierre?<\/h2>\n

\"elBy realizing that you can\u2019t change the past, but you puede<\/i> toma las riendas de tu presente. Los chicos ser\u00e1n chicos.<\/p>\n

Si tuviste la suerte de salir con un verdadero caballero<\/a>, you\u2019ll decode your guy’s behavior after the breakup very easily.<\/p>\n

Algunos chicos manejan las rupturas sorprendentemente bien y tratan a sus ex novias con el m\u00e1ximo respeto, \u00a1y as\u00ed deber\u00eda ser!<\/p>\n

Pero hay tipos cuyo comportamiento empieza a ser extremadamente perjudicial para su propio bienestar y a reflejarse muy mal en ti tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s an unfortunate instance, but your main takeaways should be these:<\/p>\n

1. If he\u2019s acting out, making rash decisions and behaving like a completely different person, it\u2019s all because he\u2019s hurting on the inside and he\u2019s refusing to face all those <\/b>sentimientos negativos<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t take it personally. It has everything to do with him and nothing to do with you.<\/p>\n

2. Verlo con una nueva chica es una de las p\u00edldoras m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles de tragar, especialmente tan pronto despu\u00e9s de la ruptura.<\/b><\/p>\n

PERO, eso s\u00f3lo significa he\u2019s not over usted<\/i><\/a>,<\/i> guys who process their emotions in a healthy way don\u2019t just jump from one relationship to another. They\u2019ve got heart.<\/p>\n

3. Dejar de seguirte en <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> means that it\u2019s too painful for him to see the face of the girl he let go on a daily basis.<\/b><\/p>\n

So instead of clearing the air with you and by being frank, he deletes all traces of you online, thinking it\u2019ll help him cope (Hint: it won\u2019t, at least not in the long run).<\/p>\n

4. Y por \u00faltimo, cuando los chicos se convierten en completos idiotas <\/b>despu\u00e9s de la ruptura<\/b>, it only means they\u2019re too immature to handle their demons like adults.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tratando de parecer macho, hace exactamente lo contrario. Cuando lo veas as\u00ed, al\u00e9jate y compad\u00e9cete de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s the one who\u2019ll have to face his shitty actions one day, not you.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que alguien que te ama de verdad nunca se arriesgar\u00eda a perderte.\"Descifrando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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