{"id":50662,"date":"2020-01-07T12:40:49","date_gmt":"2020-01-07T12:40:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50662"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:35:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:35:35","slug":"5-grandes-diferencias-entre-el-amor-romantico-y-el-amor-de-apego","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-grandes-diferencias-entre-el-amor-romantico-y-el-amor-de-apego\/","title":{"rendered":"5 grandes diferencias entre el amor rom\u00e1ntico y el amor de apego"},"content":{"rendered":"

Para la mayor\u00eda de la gente, el apego es algo que se debe evitar, ya que lo relacionan con estilos de apego poco saludables que muchos de nosotros tendemos a tener.<\/p>\n

However, what they don\u2019t know is what true, healthy attachment is all about.<\/p>\n

So, what exactly are the crucial differences between a \u201cregular\u201d type of romantic love and an \u201cattachment\u201d kind of love?<\/p>\n

How can you recognize whether you\u2019re experiencing one or another?<\/p>\n

Siga leyendo y desc\u00fabralo. <\/p>\n

Temporal frente a permanente<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

La primera gran diferencia entre los tipos de amor rom\u00e1ntico y de apego es su duraci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, el amor rom\u00e1ntico es un soluci\u00f3n temporal<\/a>\u2014it gives you what you think you need in a given moment.<\/p>\n

Te ayuda a sanar, a llenar los agujeros de tu coraz\u00f3n. Te ayuda a crecer y suele estar relacionado con una determinada etapa de tu vida. Suena incre\u00edble, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Pues bien, el amor de apego es a\u00fan mejor porque es completamente independiente del lugar en el que se encuentre tu vida en este momento.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have anything to do with your surroundings, education, career or age simply because it never stops. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that romantic love necessarily has to be short-lasting. However, in comparison to a lifetime, it can be classified as temporary, while attachment love is permanent.<\/p>\n

Un amor de apego tiene m\u00e1s probabilidades de acabar en matrimonio y familia, mientras que los romances suelen terminar antes de convertirse en algo m\u00e1s grande.  <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: this doesn\u2019t mean that the type of relationships based on attachment love can\u2019t be broken.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, aunque ocurra algo as\u00ed, lo cierto es que siempre guardan un lugar especial en tu memoria. <\/p>\n

Anhelar frente a tener<\/h2>\n

\"Sujeci\u00f3n<\/p>\n

You know how you meet a guy and go crazy for him until you get him? How you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to get under his skin and make him completely yours?<\/p>\n

However, some time after you reach your goal, your emotions slowly start to fade away. You got what you wanted, and you\u2019re not so head over heels for him anymore. <\/p>\n

In fact, he stops being so appealing and interesting to you. After all, you\u2019re certain he isn\u2019t going anywhere, and there is no more need for you to fight for his attention and emotions anymore. <\/p>\n

Si esto le resulta familiar, es una clara se\u00f1al de que ha estado experimentando un tipo de amor rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n

It is actually based on your ego which can\u2019t stand not getting what it wants, and the moment this certain person becomes yours, your feelings start to get colder. <\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, lo que tenemos aqu\u00ed es un ejemplo t\u00edpico de anhelo y ansia. Por otro lado, el amor de apego est\u00e1 representado por el tener. <\/p>\n

You feel the same way about your partner when he\u2019s around you and when he is far away.<\/p>\n

You enjoy his presence, and you never get bored of him just because you see that he\u2019s fallen for you hard. <\/p>\n

Pasi\u00f3n frente a compatibilidad<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Otra diferencia importante entre estos dos tipos de amor es la raz\u00f3n por la que comienzan en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

Dicen que los sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos son en realidad el resultado de reacciones qu\u00edmicas en el cerebro y se producen debido al impacto de ciertas hormonas que hacen que te sientas atra\u00eddo por esa persona especial. <\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, todo esto junto da como resultado amor apasionado<\/a>. You don\u2019t have to like your partner\u2019s personality traits.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to agree with him on important life matters, and you two don\u2019t have to get along to get involved in a romantic kind of love.<\/p>\n

Os sent\u00eds atra\u00eddos el uno por el otro como imanes sin ninguna raz\u00f3n especial.<\/p>\n

Comparten una pasi\u00f3n incre\u00edble y una fuerte qu\u00edmica que les impide a ambos pensar con claridad. <\/p>\n

While I\u2019m not saying that physical attraction and sex are uinmportant in an attachment kind of love, they\u2019re definetely not its essential components.<\/p>\n

In fact, attachment love\u2019s major foundation is compatibility.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you and your significant other have to be the same person or that you have to agree on literally everything.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, es necesario tener actitudes similares y querer las mismas cosas de la vida.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re compatible with someone, your characters match. The other person feels like your missing part of the puzzle, and it is someone you can see yourself growing old next to. <\/p>\n

Emoci\u00f3n frente a paz<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

En ciertos periodos de nuestras vidas, a todos se nos antojan las mariposas y los fuegos artificiales.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re no exception: the last thing you would ever settle for is a boring relationship which doesn\u2019t cause a rollercoaster of emotions in your heart and entire body. <\/p>\n

You want to be with someone you\u2019re incredibly attracted to, someone you can\u2019t live without, and someone who gives you thrills just by looking at you.<\/p>\n

Well, if this is the case, you\u2019re dealing with a romantic kind of love.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: this love makes you feel alive more than anything. It makes you enjoy every breath you take, and it awakens all possible emotions within you. <\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cuando te haces un poco mayor, ves que hay una gran diferencia entre amar a alguien y estar enamorado<\/a> con esa persona.<\/p>\n

And this excitement we\u2019re talking about is a sign you\u2019re feeling the latter. <\/p>\n

On the contrary, when you\u2019re experiencing an attachment love, you\u2019re overwhelmed with peace.<\/p>\n

No, tu estar tranquilo<\/a> next to your partner doesn\u2019t mean that your relationship is stuck in a rut: it means you\u2019ve managed to find the real deal.<\/p>\n

En el amor rom\u00e1ntico, tu pareja es tu amante, y en el apego, tambi\u00e9n es tu mejor amigo.<\/p>\n

He is not just the person who turns you on and someone you\u2019re in a relationship with: he is your confidant, the first person you go to when you need advice or are going through hard times, someone you trust the most, and someone who understands you better than anyone else.<\/p>\n

En el amor rom\u00e1ntico, los dos sois compa\u00f1eros rom\u00e1nticos y nada m\u00e1s. En el amor de apego, por el contrario, sois compa\u00f1eros de vida. <\/p>\n

Com\u00fan frente a raro<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

The final difference between these two types of love lies in their frequency. You\u2019ll probably have more than one romantic kind of love in your life, making it a quite common experience. <\/p>\n

Sin embargo, es menos probable que se produzca el apego.<\/p>\n

 De hecho, puedes considerarte afortunado si te golpea aunque s\u00f3lo sea una vez, porque muchas personas se pasan la vida sin llegar a vivir algo tan fuerte como esto.<\/p>\n

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For most people, attachment is something you should avoid since they connect it to unhealthy attachment styles many of us tend to have. However, what they don\u2019t know is what true, healthy attachment is all about. So, what exactly are the crucial differences between a \u201cregular\u201d type of romantic love and an \u201cattachment\u201d kind of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":50720,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50662","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_69119400731.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50662","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50662"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50662\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50720"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50662"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50662"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50662"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}