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<\/p>\nLa \u00faltima meta amorosa a la que todos aspiramos es ser la primera opci\u00f3n de alguien.<\/p>\n
Cuando hablamos de relaciones sanas, siempre mencionamos, entre otras cosas, que la pareja debe anteponerse al otro. <\/p>\n
And there\u2019s nothing wrong with that. However, cuando salgas con una mujer fuerte e independiente, prep\u00e1rate para quedar siempre en segundo lugar. <\/b><\/p>\n
S\u00ed, has o\u00eddo bien. Puedes ser el mejor novio del mundo, puedes tratarla con amor y respeto, pero ella nunca te dar\u00e1 prioridad. <\/p>\n
No, you won\u2019t be her second choice when it comes to other men. In fact, her fidelity is something you should never worry about because when this woman chooses you, she\u2019ll only have eyes for you. <\/p>\n
You won\u2019t even come after her family, friends, or work either.<\/p>\n
Yes, she loves her dearest ones and she is career-oriented, but she is also very well aware that you\u2019re her life partner and that nobody can be more important than you. <\/p>\n
Excepto una persona. Y esa persona es ella misma. <\/b><\/p>\n
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Ver\u00e1s, por mucho que esta mujer te quiera, siempre se querr\u00e1 un poco m\u00e1s a s\u00ed misma.<\/b><\/p>\n
La vida le ha ense\u00f1ado la importancia del amor propio y autocuidado<\/a> and she\u2019d never allow anyone to take that place in her life. <\/p>\n As much as she cares for you, she\u2019ll never be able to put your needs in front of her own<\/b>.<\/p>\n Yes, she\u2019ll do everything in her power to meet you halfway as long as those compromises don\u2019t make her miserable. <\/p>\n As much as she respects you, she\u2019ll always have a little more self-respect<\/b>.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll never respect your time, friends, job, or desires more than she respects her own. <\/p>\n This is a girl who knows her worth and would never stand idly by, watching you diminish it. She\u2019d never put herself beneath you. <\/p>\n No, all of this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll be emotionally neglected.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll be submissive in this relationship or that sooner or later, you\u2019ll end up feeling unloved and unwanted. <\/p>\n De hecho, esta mujer te dar\u00e1 el tipo de amor que ni siquiera sab\u00edas que exist\u00eda. Lo m\u00e1s importante, she\u2019ll teach you how to love yourself the way you expect someone else to<\/b>. <\/p>\n She\u2019ll cherish your relationship and do everything in her power for the sake of its future \u2013 as long she considers it to be good for her own. <\/p>\n The last thing she\u2019d do is waste years of her life on someone who holds her back and keeps her from progressing.<\/p>\n On someone she isn\u2019t compatible with and who stands a chance of making her life a living hell. <\/p>\n She\u2019ll fight to preserve your love, but never beg for it. Don\u2019t expect her to chase you and settle for crumbs of your attention because she has too much dignity for something like that. <\/p>\n She\u2019ll make sacrifices for your relationship as long as they don\u2019t threaten her well-being.<\/p>\n She won\u2019t endanger her own mental health, nor consciously keep on breaking her heart just to be with you at all costs. <\/p>\n Una mujer fuerte har\u00e1 todo lo posible por hacerte el hombre m\u00e1s feliz del planeta con tal de que permanecer a tu lado la haga feliz.<\/p>\n So, don\u2019t expect her to be with you if your relationship stops fulfilling her, and if you stop giving her what she needs and deserves. <\/p>\n She\u2019ll put all of her effort into your relationship as long as it doesn\u2019t overwhelm and drain her to the point where she\u2019s left without the strength she needs to run her life.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll try hard to make the two of you work, but she\u2019ll try even harder to help herself function. <\/p>\n Therefore, if you ask her to pick between her romantic relationship with you and her relationship with herself, know that she\u2019ll always choose the latter. <\/b><\/p>\n Don\u2019t expect her to stop existing as an individual just because she\u2019s a part of a couple now.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t expect her to disregard her entire life so she can be at your disposal at all times. <\/p>\n Most importantly, don\u2019t ever expect her to love you more than <\/b>se ama a s\u00ed misma<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n Esto puede sonar pesimista, pero a pesar de que vuestra relaci\u00f3n vaya genial ahora, ninguno de los dos sabe lo que os deparar\u00e1 el futuro.<\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de todo, puedes alejarte de ella en cualquier momento. <\/p>\n Puede encontrarse f\u00e1cilmente en una situaci\u00f3n en la que tenga que acostumbrarse a vivir sin ti o sin cualquier otra persona en su vida.<\/b><\/p>\n However, the only one who\u2019ll always stick by her side and never abandon her is herself. <\/b><\/p>\n Puede que llames ego\u00edsta a esta mujer, pero cr\u00e9eme, es la \u00fanica manera de que las cosas funcionen entre vosotros. La \u00fanica manera para ella ser la mejor novia<\/a> es ser primero una mujer feliz. <\/p>\n On the other hand, if this is something you can\u2019t accept, be honest and tell her on time. Yes, she\u2019ll be hurt for losing you, but she\u2019ll survive. <\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_15508522671.jpg\")
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