{"id":50711,"date":"2020-01-07T13:13:24","date_gmt":"2020-01-07T13:13:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50711"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:48:20","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:48:20","slug":"deja-de-enamorarte-si-el-deja-de-intentarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-enamorarte-si-el-deja-de-intentarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de enamorarte si \u00e9l deja de intentarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dicen que el amor verdadero exige esfuerzo y sacrificios. Hay que luchar por la persona amada y estar dispuesto a superar todos los obst\u00e1culos que la vida ponga a tus pies. <\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ve read all the fairytales. You know how both the Prince and the Princess fight the evil witches and don\u2019t let anyone stand in the way of their romance. <\/p>\n

And I couldn\u2019t agree more: no relationship can become healthy overnight. Instead, it takes a lot of hard work, commitment, devotion, trust, and compromise to make things work. <\/p>\n

Of course, most importantly\u2014it takes a lot of love to build it right. <\/p>\n

However, the truth is that sometimes, love isn\u2019t enough, especially if it\u2019s one-sided.<\/p>\n

There is no point if you\u2019re <\/b>el \u00fanico que lo intenta<\/b><\/a>el \u00fanico que hace avanzar su relaci\u00f3n y el \u00fanico que se preocupa por su futuro.<\/b><\/p>\n

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Remember: every relationship is a two-way street, and all of your efforts are in vain if the other person isn\u2019t ready to move his finger for the sake of your romance.<\/p>\n

In this case scenario, you will burn out in a matter of time, while your partner will start taking you for granted and assume that you\u2019ll always be there to prevent your relationship from going downhill. <\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, entiende que luchar por el amor y perseguirlo son dos cosas distintas. Dar lo mejor de uno mismo y ser el \u00fanico que lo intenta no es lo mismo. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, you\u2019re no pedir demasiado<\/a> just because you want to have a mentally and emotionally present boyfriend who doesn\u2019t consider his job to be done the moment he sees that you\u2019ve fallen for him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not overdemanding for wanting a man who will spend the rest of his life in attempts to win you over with each day that comes. <\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have too high of a standard for expecting a gentleman who will forever court you\u2014a real man who will never forget your worth and who will consider himself lucky for having a woman like you by his side. <\/p>\n

No, it is not selfish to walk away from someone who stops putting effort around you; leaving a man who obviously couldn\u2019t care less whether you\u2019re around or not is an act of self-care, not a sign of ego-centrism. <\/p>\n

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All of this is a lot easier said than done, I know. However, it seems that you keep forgetting that you\u2019re the ruler of your own emotions, not the other way around. <\/p>\n

Yes, you have what it takes to order your heart to stop loving someone who doesn\u2019t deserve it. <\/b><\/p>\n

Tienes la capacidad de dejar de dar todo de ti, sin recibir nada a cambio.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, you can\u2014and have to\u2014stop falling in love the moment you see that he isn\u2019t trying to put a smile back on your face anymore or that he doesn\u2019t care whether he is breaking your heart and how his actions are affecting you; the moment you see that this man wouldn\u2019t do anything if you abandon him and that he would never chase you to come back. <\/p>\n

You need to stop falling in love when he stops seducing you and putting effort into reminding you how butterflies feel each day; when he stops paying attention to the little things\u2014when he starts forgetting your birthday or anniversary date, stops noticing that you have a new haircut, and stops caring when he sees that you\u2019re sad. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to call it quits the moment you start feeling like his second choice.<\/p>\n

The moment he puts everyone and everything in front of you, just because he\u2019s certain that you\u2019re not going anywhere. <\/p>\n

It needs to happen when you see that he doesn\u2019t appreciate you anymore; that he is taking you for granted and stops matching your sacrifices. <\/p>\n

Deja de enamorarte cuando \u00e9l deje de estar totalmente implicado. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Deja de entregarte por completo en el momento en que te des cuenta de que esto se ha convertido en una relaci\u00f3n unilateral; cuando empieces a sentirte m\u00e1s sola de lo que te sentir\u00edas si estuvieras soltera y ese hombre s\u00f3lo fuera oficialmente tu pareja sentimental. <\/b><\/p>\n

Deja de enamorarte cuando esa relaci\u00f3n empiece a traerte m\u00e1s penas que alegr\u00edas; cuando veas que agobia tus pensamientos y que te sigue rompiendo el coraz\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Back out when you see that it has a negative impact on your emotional and mental health; once you see that you\u2019re losing yourself, in attempts to save the remains of this already failed relationship. <\/p>\n

Deja de enamorarte de \u00e9l en cuanto veas que est\u00e1 a punto de <\/b>desenamorarme de ti<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, admitir ante ti misma que el hombre que cre\u00edas tu alma gemela se est\u00e1 volviendo indiferente hacia ti es incre\u00edblemente dif\u00edcil, pero cr\u00e9eme, es mucho mejor hacerlo antes de que sea demasiado tarde. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be desperate, and don\u2019t wait for all of his emotions to fade away. Don\u2019t settle for crumbs, and don\u2019t expect things to go back the way they used to be.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, corre por tu vida, sin mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Olv\u00eddate de culparte y olv\u00eddate de las segundas oportunidades porque el momento en el que este hombre dej\u00f3 de intentarlo fue el momento en el que rompi\u00f3 vuestra relaci\u00f3n sin remedio. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>\n

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They say that true love takes effort and that it demands sacrifices. You should fight for the one you love and be ready to overcome all obstacles life might throw at your feet.  After all, you\u2019ve read all the fairytales. You know how both the Prince and the Princess fight the evil witches and don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":50713,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_14626124031.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50713"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}