Prep\u00e1rese mentalmente:<\/h2>\n
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The process of trying to figure out how to tell a guy you ‘re into him can be nerve-wracking .<\/p>\n
That\u2019s why you have to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for the first move before anything else.<\/p>\n
If you follow this step-by-step guide, you’ll be ready to express your feelings and let this guy know how crazy you are for him in the best possible way.<\/p>\n
1. Olv\u00eddate de los roles de g\u00e9nero tradicionales<\/h2>\n
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When it comes to dating, relationships, romance, and love life in general, the man is usually the one who\u2019s expected to make the primer paso <\/a> .<\/p>\n He\u2019s the one who approaches the girl, asks her out, kisses her first, and should initiate the first sex.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, es evidente que estas reglas han quedado obsoletas y son cosa del pasado, porque aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s, pregunt\u00e1ndote c\u00f3mo decirle a un chico que te gusta.<\/p>\n Como mujer, quieres igualdad en todos los aspectos de la vida, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n So, why can\u2019t you also sometimes take over the leading role when it comes to dating, instead of always waiting for a guy to do all the work?<\/p>\n Es hora de olvidarse de las tradicionales divisiones de g\u00e9nero y tomar las cosas en sus propias manos si quieren conseguir algo.<\/p>\n Es hora de averiguar c\u00f3mo decirle a un chico que te gusta .<\/p>\n Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t embarrass yourself, he won\u2019t think of you as any less of a woman, and you won\u2019t endanger his masculinity for taking the first step.<\/p>\n De hecho, esto te ayudar\u00e1 a destacar entre el resto de chicas y te aseguro que, en lugar de burlarse de ti, el chico que te gusta admirar\u00e1 tu valent\u00eda.<\/p>\n Besides, you can\u2019t expect for this man to magically know that you\u2019re into him unless you give some hints.<\/p>\n The last thing you want is to miss a chance with someone you like just because you\u2019re burdened with some ancient stereotypes.<\/p>\n El siguiente paso en el proceso de prepararte mentalmente para expresar tus sentimientos a un hombre es preparar tu confianza <\/a> .<\/p>\n En esta situaci\u00f3n, tu autoestima tiene que estar a tope.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re trying to get this man to like you back, aren\u2019t you? Well, this is something you\u2019ll never manage to achieve unless you start liking and loving yourself first.<\/p>\n You need to convince him that you\u2019re a high quality woman who\u2019s worthy of his time and attention, and in order to do that, you have to become aware of all of your good sides.<\/p>\n You have to start thinking of yourself as the woman of every man\u2019s dreams \u2013 as the most beautiful and attractive, the smartest and the most interesting girl that this guy\u2019s ever had the chance of meeting.<\/p>\n Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean you ought to become cocky or self-centred.<\/p>\n De hecho, el objetivo de aumentar la confianza en ti misma es que dejes de ver a ese hombre como algo fuera de tu alcance y que dejes de considerarte a ti misma no es suficiente <\/a> para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Besides, even if things between you two fail and don\u2019t turn out the way you imagined them to, the progress you made on yourself remains.<\/p>\n Therefore, don’t waste a lot of time focusing on your insecurities and start seeing yourself as the catch you really are.<\/p>\n Lo malo de estar enamorado de alguien que nunca has tenido es que sueles idealizar a esa persona.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve only seen his good sides and never had the chance to get bored of him.<\/p>\n Bueno, antes de hacer nada concreto con respecto a tus sentimientos, tienes que quitarte las gafas de sol de color de rosa y empezar a percibir a este chico como un ser humano de carne y hueso en lugar de esto Sr. Perfecto <\/a> que creaste en tu cabeza.<\/p>\n Once you do this and become aware of his imperfections, you\u2019ll see that getting to him is actually a piece of cake.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not claiming you don\u2019t like him enough, I\u2019m just saying that you think he is the only man you could ever feel this incredible infatuation for because he\u2019s unattainable and unreachable.<\/p>\n There is no point in idealizing your potential romance either. Even if you two do hook up, it won\u2019t be a fairytale.<\/p>\n I assure you that you\u2019ll argue from time to time, that he has some personality traits you don\u2019t like, that sometimes he\u2019ll annoy you, and that there\u2019ll be times in which you\u2019ll want to send him to hell.<\/p>\n Todo esto es perfectamente normal y les ocurre a todas las parejas, a pesar del amor que comparten.<\/p>\n However, if you keep on expecting too much of this guy, once you win him over, see his true colors, and your relationship falls into a rut, you\u2019ll just end up disappointed.<\/p>\n When you build your self confidence, it\u2019s time to get rid of negative thoughts. Instead of picturing the worst case scenario, imagine that things will turn out for the best and that this guy will soon become your boyfriend.<\/p>\n Ante todo, atraes lo que temes.<\/p>\n Therefore, there\u2019s a great possibility of your energ\u00eda negativa y pesimista <\/a> para ahuyentar a este hombre de ti incluso antes de que lo consigas de verdad.<\/p>\n If you see yourself as a loser, that is exactly what you\u2019ll be.<\/p>\n Secondly, negative thoughts won\u2019t bring you anywhere and have no real point.<\/p>\n Things will end up they way they\u2019re destined to be and if you keep on wracking your brains about all the possible outcomes, you\u2019ll just stress yourself out and burden your mind with all of this unnecessary overthinking.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, el pesimismo aumentar\u00e1 tu ansiedad e inseguridades.<\/p>\n Si dejas que el miedo al fracaso se apodere de ti, tu subconsciente te persuadir\u00e1 para que abandones antes incluso de haberlo intentado.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, lo que tambi\u00e9n es importante es estar preparado para el peor escenario posible, sin obsesionarse con ello.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t fear rejection and realize that even if this guy tells you NO, it won\u2019t be the end of the world.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re no destinado a ser amado <\/a> or not enough. There is always a tiny chance of him not liking you back and that\u2019s his right, and you shouldn\u2019t blame him for it.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, si esto ocurre, lo \u00faltimo que debe hacer es ver este rechazo como una derrota personal.<\/p>\n No, you\u2019re not humiliated and you didn\u2019t embarrass yourself for going after what you wanted.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you. if you get rejected, you\u2019ll certainly feel bad. Nevertheless, it will be his loss, not yours.<\/p>\n You gave your best and you\u2019ll always know you tried. Instead of beating yourself up for it, be proud of your strength and determination.<\/p>\n Besides, remember that everything happens for a reason. So, if it turns out that this guy doesn\u2019t like you back, it simply means you two are not meant to be.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t see it as a failure \u2013 see it as a new, valuable experience that helped you learn a lot.<\/p>\n Instead of perceiving all of this as the worst thing that\u2019s ever happened to you, see it as God’s way of saving you \u2013 His way of clearing your path for someone better.<\/p>\n En lugar de verlo como una maldici\u00f3n, m\u00edralo como una bendici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Haz movimientos concretos:<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n You might think that all of the above-mentioned steps won\u2019t bring you closer to this man and are just nerve-wracking .<\/p>\n However, mental preparation is actually crucial for what\u2019s coming next.<\/p>\n One of the first steps is to find out more about this guy\u2019s love life . After all, you don\u2019t want to be anyone\u2019s mistress and it\u2019s important to find out whether he\u2019s taken or not.<\/p>\n Si resulta que te enteras de que este hombre tiene una relaci\u00f3n o incluso casado <\/a> , I\u2019m sorry, but sadly, your journey ends here.<\/p>\n Por mucho que te guste, es una clara se\u00f1al de que debes renunciar a \u00e9l y buscar a otra persona.<\/p>\n Sea muy detallista en esta investigaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not claiming that this guy is one of those douchebags who\u2019re hiding their wife or girlfriend while they pretend to be bachelors, but it\u2019s always better to be safe than sorry.<\/p>\n After checking whether he\u2019s wearing a wedding ring or not, snoop through his social media profiles and subtly ask your mutual friends about his relationship status.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t worry, you\u2019re not crazy for doing all of this, you\u2019re just making sure that you won\u2019t be interfering in someone\u2019s relationship if you come clean about your feelings.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you\u2019re certain that he is single, this fact alone doesn\u2019t have to necessarily be a green light for you to start chasing him.<\/p>\n \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo ha pasado desde su \u00faltima relaci\u00f3n seria?<\/p>\n Has he really cut all ties with his past or will you likely find yourself third-wheeling in the middle of an on-and-off relationship that obviously won\u2019t ever end?<\/p>\n \u00bfResponder\u00eda a tus sentimientos s\u00f3lo para darle celos a alguien?<\/p>\n Would you be his rebound he doesn’t plan on spending a lot of time with, after he gets what he wants?<\/p>\n \u00bfHay alguna carga emocional que pueda llevar en una relaci\u00f3n? Puede que est\u00e9 soltero, pero \u00bfest\u00e1 disponible emocionalmente?<\/p>\n S\u00ed, todo esto parece mucho trabajo y demasiadas vueltas.<\/p>\n However, it\u2019s better to know these things upfront, before you get yourself dragged into an unwanted situation.<\/p>\n Also, keep in mind that you probably won\u2019t be able to get all the answers you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t get to the bottom of all the details regarding his romantic past, but try finding as much as you can to get the bigger picture.<\/p>\n Is there any chance that this guy already likes you back? Maybe he\u2019s also trying to find a way to approach you, but you haven\u2019t been paying attention?<\/p>\n En primer lugar, esfu\u00e9rzate por saber m\u00e1s sobre el tipo de chicas que prefiere.<\/p>\n And I\u2019m not talking about a physical type here only, I\u2019m talking about whether he likes introverted or extroverted girls, if he\u2019s more into the \u201cnice girl\u201d type of prefers the alpha females, and so on.<\/p>\n All of this intel doesn\u2019t serve you to change your ways in order to become more likeable for him.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t pretend to be someone you\u2019re not until you get him, because sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to show your true colors, which will leave this guy feeling deceived.<\/p>\n En cambio, saber m\u00e1s sobre sus ex s\u00f3lo puede ayudarte a ver si encajas o no en su tipo.<\/p>\n Remember: Even if you\u2019re completely different from all the girls he\u2019s ever dated, it doesn\u2019t mean he can\u2019t grow to like you, if you two click.<\/p>\n The next thing is to check out the signals he\u2019s been sending you.<\/p>\n \u00bfMantiene el contacto visual, aprovecha cualquier oportunidad para estar cerca de ti y tener contacto f\u00edsico, coquetea contigo y c\u00f3mo responde a tus preguntas? l\u00ednea de recogida<\/a>s?<\/p>\n Keep your eyes wide open and pay attention to his body language because it\u2019s possible that he\u2019ll make the first step, if he just gets a little push from you.<\/p>\n Antes de que puedas esperar que empieces a gustarle a este hombre, primero tiene que fijarse en ti y darse cuenta de tu existencia.<\/p>\n Therefore, it\u2019s your job to make yourself visible to him without becoming a pain in the ass in the process.<\/p>\n If he\u2019s your compa\u00f1ero de trabajo <\/a> Si no lo haces, empieza convenientemente a ir a la hora de la comida a la misma hora que \u00e9l, haz algo que d\u00e9 a tus supervisores la oportunidad de elogiarte delante de todos o p\u00eddele ayuda.<\/p>\n If he\u2019s your neighbour or someone you often see on the street, make sure you two run into each other as much as possible. If he\u2019s someone you noticed in the gym, start exercising at the same time he does\u2026<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you and this guy don\u2019t have much in common, use some sneaky ways to find out where he spends his free time.<\/p>\n “Accidentally” appear at the club or coffee shop he usually visits, or see if you have some mutual friends who can introduce you to him.<\/p>\n However, make sure he doesn\u2019t notice you doing any of these things on purpose.<\/p>\n Yes, it can be a funny story once you start dating and he\u2019d probably be flattered by the effort you invested in winning him over, but at this point, he\u2019ll only think of you as a stalker and your behavior might chase him away.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 men are visual creatures before anything else.<\/p>\n Significa que un chico tiene que sentirse f\u00edsicamente atra\u00eddo por ti antes de empezar a descubrir capas de tu personalidad.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. I bet that you\u2019re an amazing person and that every man would be thrilled to have you as his girlfriend.<\/p>\n However, sadly, he probably won\u2019t give you a chance unless he considers your looks appealing.<\/p>\n After all, I\u2019m sure that this guy\u2019s physical appearance is also one of the reasons you like him so much, so why would he be different?<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you have to look your best every time you think you might run into him.<\/p>\n Nadie espera que seas una top model, pero puedes centrarte en tus atributos y maquillarte un poco.<\/p>\n Also, don\u2019t forget to have clean and nice hair and always smell good.<\/p>\n If you have trouble letting this guy know how you feel, can’t find a way to get closer to him, and seem to have a problem with running into him face to face , use the benefits of modern technology and approach him online.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo tienes que enviarle una solicitud de amistad o de seguimiento en sus cuentas de las redes sociales.<\/p>\n Like his pictures, comment on his status updates, watch his stories, and if he has a dating profile like Tinder, don\u2019t forget to swipe right.<\/p>\n Also, this way you two can start some kind of communication \u2013 if nothing else, you can always direct message him regarding something he posted.<\/p>\n Cuando veas que la conversaci\u00f3n fluye, prueba con algunos l\u00edneas para ligar <\/a> y muestra tu inter\u00e9s por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n After all, texting a guy you like is much easier than talking to him face to face . He won\u2019t see that you\u2019re nervous or shaking, and you have more time to think of a witty response.<\/p>\n However, make sure you\u2019re not too pushy either. It\u2019s one thing for you to make the first step towards him, but completely different if you send him a text message every few minutes, without any positive feedback.<\/p>\n When it comes to your social media profiles, make sure he can see that you\u2019re single and available and always post photos of yourself looking as gorgeous as possible.<\/p>\n Hide the photos with your ex you still might have on your page, put a hashtag \u201cfriend\u201d every time you post a picture with your guy friend, and forget about posting some sad quotes or songs, which might imply that you\u2019re still not over someone from your past.<\/p>\n Otra cosa que podr\u00eda enviarle a este hombre una indirecta de que te gusta es hacer algo agradable por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t exaggerate with huge gestos rom\u00e1nticos <\/a> and expensive gifts \u2013 just show him that you\u2019re there and he can count on you.<\/p>\n Buy him a little something you know he likes, wish him a happy birthday, politely ask him if he needs anything when he\u2019s going through hard times, or do him a favor when he\u2019s in a time of need.<\/p>\n Cualquier cosa que decidas hacer le demostrar\u00e1 que te fijas en los peque\u00f1os detalles sobre \u00e9l, que quieres hacerle feliz y que te preocupas por su bienestar.<\/p>\n Also, don\u2019t hesitate turning to him when you need help during your own hard times .<\/p>\n Remember that men enjoy being the heroes and he\u2019ll probably be thrilled at the fact that you see him as reliable and all too happy to have the chance to help you out.<\/p>\n Sometimes, when you\u2019re trying to get closer to the object of your affection, the hardest thing is to break the ice.<\/p>\n You\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll get tongue-twisted if you try talking to him and just make a fool of yourself.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, s\u00f3lo tiene que iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n <\/a> con este tipo, de una forma u otra, si planeas llegar a su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t approach him out of the blue, telling him you\u2019re into him.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you have to be patient and wait for an opportunity to talk to him, without looking like a lunatic.<\/p>\n Por ejemplo, puedes pedirle un simple favor, ayuda o consejo, seg\u00fan las circunstancias y la naturaleza de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n What\u2019s important here is to plan the conversation in as much detail as you can before saying anything.<\/p>\n Al menos, practique su frase inicial y espere que el resto de la conversaci\u00f3n fluya con naturalidad.<\/p>\n You two will probably start with some irrelevant small talk, but that\u2019ll give you an opportunity for some meaningful, deeper conversation in the future.<\/p>\n When talking to this guy for the first time, do your best to make him laugh. Be witty and interesting and don\u2019t bore him.<\/p>\n Un gran consejo es terminar la conversaci\u00f3n en medio de ella, para dejarle con ganas de m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, ser\u00eda bueno evitar temas demasiado serios desde el principio y mantener las cosas lo m\u00e1s informales posible.<\/p>\n Cuando quieras volver a gustarle a un chico, s\u00f3lo tienes que saber c\u00f3mo flirtear con \u00e9l de forma eficaz y c\u00f3mo utilizar tu lenguaje corporal a tu favor.<\/p>\n El truco est\u00e1 en darle una pista sin ser demasiado insistente.<\/p>\n For starters, try maintaining eye contact . Stare at him and when he looks at you, smile and don\u2019t look away.<\/p>\n Whenever the two of you are close, make sure to sit next to him. Laugh at his jokes and glance over his mouth when you\u2019re talking.<\/p>\n Every time you two greet, hug him tightly and don\u2019t let go right away.<\/p>\n B\u00e9sale en la mejilla o en la comisura de los labios y estate atento a su reacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Aprovecha todas las oportunidades que puedas para tocarle.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re laughing or making a point, put your hand on his shoulder or knee. This way, his body will get used to yours.<\/p>\n When you two are texting , don\u2019t hesitate to send him some textos coquetos <\/a> . Usa emojis de besos y corazones y ver\u00e1s c\u00f3mo responde.<\/p>\n Whatever you do, pay attention to the feedback you\u2019re getting.<\/p>\n \u00bfSe siente c\u00f3modo en tu presencia y te devuelve el flirteo?<\/p>\n \u00bfO te est\u00e1 pidiendo indirecta pero claramente m\u00e1s espacio personal y obviamente preferir\u00eda que dieras un paso atr\u00e1s?<\/p>\n Otra forma de decirle a un chico que te gusta es inv\u00edtale a salir<\/a>. If you still don\u2019t have enough courage for some big steps, this doesn\u2019t have to be a primera cita<\/a> invitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n It\u2019s enough to ask him on a group get-together with your other friends or coworkers.<\/p>\n Puedes pedirle que te acompa\u00f1e a comer o a tomar un caf\u00e9, sin que ello implique ning\u00fan significado m\u00e1s profundo.<\/p>\n Another sneaky way you can use here is to get to the bottom of this guy\u2019s interests.<\/p>\n Por ejemplo, si te enteras de que le gusta un grupo de m\u00fasica o un autor, c\u00f3mprale entradas para el concierto o la presentaci\u00f3n e inv\u00edtale.<\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t honestly tell him just how much effort you put into all of this.<\/p>\n Instead, make it all look like a coincidence. Mention the event and tell him that you\u2019d like to go, but none of your friends want to accompany you.<\/p>\n When he gets surprised that you have common interests and tells you that this is something he likes too, casually mention that you have a spare ticket and ask if he\u2019d like to tag along.<\/p>\n Despite the fact that you show interest in them, there are simply some guys who can\u2019t seem to take the hint.<\/p>\n Si la persona que te gusta es una de ellas, no tienes m\u00e1s remedio que sincerarte sobre tus sentimientos y ser completamente directo.<\/p>\n Maybe he\u2019s convinced that you\u2019re just being kind and don’t see him as more than a nice guy whom you’ll put in the friend zone.<\/p>\n2. Aumentar la confianza en uno mismo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Don\u2019t expect too much<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Be optimistic\u2026<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. …but prepare for the worst<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Find out more about his relationship status…<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. …and whether this chico le gusta<\/a> de vuelta<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Hazte visible<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Luzca lo mejor posible<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. S\u00edgale en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Haz algo por \u00e9l<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Empezar a hablar con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Coquetea<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Inv\u00edtale a salir<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n10. D\u00edselo directamente<\/h2>\n
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