{"id":50862,"date":"2021-09-28T19:10:18","date_gmt":"2021-09-28T19:10:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50862"},"modified":"2024-10-30T15:51:40","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T14:51:40","slug":"que-haga-perder-el-tiempo-a-los-demas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-haga-perder-el-tiempo-a-los-demas\/","title":{"rendered":"En 2025, que haga perder el tiempo a otro"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSabes de ese tipo que te quitaba el sue\u00f1o casi todas las noches en 2024? Y lo peor era que, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, no era en el buen sentido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfEl tipo que te hizo llorar un oc\u00e9ano de l\u00e1grimas? \u00bfEse tipo al que pasaste horas intentando analizar y descifrar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know, that guy who never knew what he wanted? Who didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you for real and kept you on standby throughout the entire previous year?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The guy you spent the whole of 2024 loving and patiently waiting for, while he couldn\u2019t make up his mind about you?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfAl que le diste todo pero no recibiste nada a cambio, excepto su amor a medias?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bien, isn\u2019t it time to finally admit to yourself that he was nothing but a <\/b>p\u00e9rdida de tiempo<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n

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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Isn\u2019t it time to start seeing things clearly and accept that he wasn\u2019t worth it, that he\u2019ll never change, and that he\u2019ll never make you happy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know it\u2019s hard. After all, you invested so much time and effort into trying to make things work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You spent 365 days completely focused on him. That\u2019s a whole year of trying to read between the lines,interpret his texts and late night drunk calls, and decrypt his mixed signals. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un a\u00f1o entero de pensar demasiado y obsesionarte con \u00e9l. Un a\u00f1o entero de ponerlo a \u00e9l antes que a ti misma. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pones tantas esperanzas en que las cosas acabar\u00e1n encajando.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That one of these days, he\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re the one and he\u2019ll just show up on your doorstep, apologizing for all the pain he\u2019s caused you, asking for your forgiveness and begging you to be with him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about your boyfriend who treats you poorly, about your ex, your casual hookup, your almost boyfriend, or someone who keeps dejarte y volver <\/a> \u2013 the bottom line is the same: No te trajo nada bueno en el pasado <\/b>a\u00f1o.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n

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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Entonces, \u00bfrealmente quieres permitirle ser parte de esta tambi\u00e9n? <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfDe verdad quieres pasarte otros 12 meses acechando sus perfiles en las redes sociales, odiando a todas las chicas con las que tiene algo que ver?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you really need another 52 weeks of endless phone calls with your best friend where you only talk about what he did or didn\u2019t do, and try to predict his next move?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfDe verdad quieres dedicar otro a\u00f1o de tu vida a este gilipollas que claramente nunca mereci\u00f3 un lugar en tu vida, coraz\u00f3n o mente?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Come on. Let\u2019s be real for once. Si quisiera ser tuyo <\/a> , he would\u2019ve been with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he really loved you, he wouldn\u2019t have second thoughts about your relationship and would\u2019ve treated you accordingly from day one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, this isn\u2019t his freaky way of showing love. No, he isn\u2019t dwelling in darkness and you\u2019re not his savior who will bring him to the light.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you care for him deeply and I know it\u2019s difficult to move on just like that. However, you have to do it at some point.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n

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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

So, why not today? Why don\u2019t you choose this moment as the perfect time to finally let him go? <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deja de buscar un cierre y una explicaci\u00f3n porque sus acciones hablan m\u00e1s alto que sus palabras vac\u00edas y falsas promesas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deja de darle infinitas segundas oportunidades. Deja de poner tu vida en espera a causa de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Corta todos los lazos y empieza de cero.<\/b> .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Block his number, stop going to places you know he might appear, quit looking for nonexistent signs of his nonexistent feelings, and don\u2019t even mention his name ever again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quit worrying what\u2019ll happen with him \u2013 I assure you that he\u2019ll do just fine without you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stop thinking whether he\u2019ll come to his senses or start to miss you once he sees that you\u2019re really gone.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Don\u2019t expect him to come back after he realizes you\u2019re nowhere to be found in all those other women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t spend another minute of your precious time concentrated on him and for a change, put all of your focus on yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deja de permitir que tu vida pase de largo, mientras sigues esperando un milagro que nunca llegar\u00e1. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

As much as it hurts, erase all of your hopes and dreams and accept that they\u2019ll never turn into reality. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This year, let him waste someone else\u2019s time. Show him that you\u2019ve had more than enough of his crap. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9chalo de tu sistema<\/a> de una vez por todas, y cerrar la puerta para siempre.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n

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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Deja que se vaya con todas esas chicas que cree que son mejores que t\u00fa. D\u00e9jale vivir la vida de soltero que tanto ans\u00eda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let him try and get by without you. Let him see what he\u2019s lost and make him feel your absence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, I guarantee you one thing: Once this happens and he starts regretting everything he did to you, he\u2019ll put all of his effort in trying to win you back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019s going to do everything in his power to return to your life and convince you that he\u2019s realized all of his mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, this is when you\u2019ll have to show your inner strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is when you\u2019ll have to send him to hell, where he deserves to be.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n

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\"mujer<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Una vez que esto ocurra, demu\u00e9strale a los dos que tienes lo que hay que tener para respaldar tus decisiones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Show both him and yourself that you were serious when you promised yourself that you\u2019ll start and end this year without him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, it\u2019ll be the best choice you could ever make and you\u2019re going to spend the rest of your life grateful for playing your cards right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, you\u2019re an adult and the last thing you need is some immature brat who makes your life difficult.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

De hecho, necesitas un hombre de verdad que sepa lo que quiere y est\u00e9 siempre seguro de ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, until that man comes, keep in mind that it\u2019s always better to permanecer soltero <\/a> than settle for someone\u2019s crumbs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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