{"id":5089,"date":"2017-09-16T09:46:39","date_gmt":"2017-09-16T09:46:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5089"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:14:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:14:52","slug":"la-chica-de-las-cartas-necesita-aprecio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-chica-de-las-cartas-necesita-aprecio\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la chica que necesita volver a apreciarse a s\u00ed misma"},"content":{"rendered":"

No dejes que nadie te defina. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Once you had a clear vision of yourself. But then, he came along. Now, after he\u2019s done with you, you are lost. You\u2019ve lost that vision you once had\u2014<\/span>perdiste la definici\u00f3n de ti mismo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But don\u2019t stress about it. It will come back. The only thing is that you need to let it come back. You need to open up and own up to your mistakes. You need to clear your mind and remember where you did wrong, so you don\u2019t do those mistakes ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

You need to learn from your mistakes, and you definitely mustn\u2019t blame or hate yourself for getting some things wrong.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No one is perfect. We all have flaws. They are here to serve us as a constant reminder that we are humans\u2014we are not machines. We must have ups and downs, heartbreak, and love. That is what makes us unique\u2014<\/span>nuestra humanidad, nuestra capacidad de sentir, de tocar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Although you think you\u2019ve hit rock bottom now, there is a happy ending to your story. You just can\u2019t see it yet because you didn\u2019t read through the next few chapters that are leading to the grand finale. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t whine, don\u2019t feel sorry for yourself.<\/a> If you treat yourself this way, others will, too. If you pity yourself, others will, too. You don\u2019t want that\u2014<\/span>\u00a1NO! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quieres que la gente te trate con el respeto que mereces. Quieres que te vean como una persona fuerte e independiente. <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

A person who is fearless\u2014ready to take down anything or anyone that comes her way. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tienes que dejarte llevar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s important for you to realize that todo sucede por una raz\u00f3n.<\/a> God or whichever higher force you believe in has put you on this Earth for a reason and with a purpose. Each and every human being has its task. Only some don\u2019t figure it out right from the start. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada nueva bofetada te hace m\u00e1s fuerte. Te recuperas y olvidas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tienes que dejar de vivir en el pasado.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nada de lo que hagas ahora cambiar\u00e1 lo que ya ha ocurrido. No tiene sentido lamentarse porque no hay forma de cambiar el pasado. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you can do is to never do it again\u2014think about your future, and spare your future self what you\u2019re going through now.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tienes que hacer las paces de una vez. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tienes que ser una persona m\u00e1s grande. Tienes que hacer las paces con \u00e9l y con todos los que te hicieron da\u00f1o. S\u00f3lo entonces encontrar\u00e1s la fuerza para seguir adelante y olvidar. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo entonces podr\u00e1s curarte. \u00a0\u00a0<\/i><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que abrazarte a ti mismo. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quererte a ti mismo es lo m\u00e1s importante que debes hacer. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Remember: that is not selfish or narcissistic. It\u2019s about respecting yourself and not letting everyone walk all over you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t let anyone define you. Once you had a clear vision of yourself. But then, he came along. Now, after he\u2019s done with you, you are lost. You\u2019ve lost that vision you once had\u2014you lost the definition of yourself. But don\u2019t stress about it. It will come back. The only thing is that you need…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":5090,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-365341.jpeg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5089"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5089\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5090"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}