{"id":50945,"date":"2020-01-09T18:55:07","date_gmt":"2020-01-09T18:55:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50945"},"modified":"2022-04-27T11:59:25","modified_gmt":"2022-04-27T11:59:25","slug":"como-te-iras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-te-iras\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como te marchar\u00e1s aunque sea lo \u00faltimo que quieras hacer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Chasquea los dedos y despierta del sue\u00f1o loco. <\/b>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>That\u2019s the first thing you need to do. Stop living in delusion and stop hoping he will finally pay attention that you exist and that you love him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deja de correr hacia \u00e9l. Deja de hacer planes en funci\u00f3n de \u00e9l. Deja de planificar tu vida en sincron\u00eda con la suya porque \u00e9l nunca har\u00eda lo mismo por ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Es m\u00e1s, te aplastar\u00eda s\u00f3lo para ser feliz, y probablemente ya haya hecho algo as\u00ed antes. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re just denying it because you\u2019re refusing to accept the truth. The truth is too painful for you to face. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a1Deja de preguntar por qu\u00e9!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Miedo,<\/p>\n

No hay ning\u00fan motivo concreto. No hay ninguna predicci\u00f3n de cu\u00e1ndo se detendr\u00e1 o que Dios te est\u00e1 castigando<\/a> for something bad you\u2019ve done. <\/span><\/p>\n

A veces la vida te da una mala mano y tienes que lidiar con ella. A veces, no hay ninguna raz\u00f3n por la que algo haya sucedido, simplemente sucedi\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of wrapping your mind around why this misfortune happened to you, ask yourself why you can\u2019t forgive and forget. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ask yourself why you can\u2019t ou move on with your life, burying the memory of devastating love deep in your past. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a1Afronta la verdad!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Even you know deep inside that the man who broke your heart wasn\u2019t the right man for you from the moment you met him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Incluso t\u00fa ten\u00edas el presentimiento de que las cosas iban a desmoronarse m\u00e1s adelante, pero lo ignorabas porque era tentador. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>Esa relaci\u00f3n era diferente y nueva. Te dio la atenci\u00f3n que siempre so\u00f1aste tener. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eras alguien que importaba por primera vez en mucho tiempo. Eso es lo que te llev\u00f3 por mal camino. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eso es lo que emborron\u00f3 tus ojos y nubl\u00f3 tu clara visi\u00f3n del futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Podr\u00edas haber tomado una decisi\u00f3n mejor, pero la pregunta es: \u00bfhabr\u00edas aprendido la misma lecci\u00f3n?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Elegante<\/p>\n

Todo sucede por una raz\u00f3n. Tu desamor sucedi\u00f3 por una raz\u00f3n, tu lucha por tomar la decisi\u00f3n correcta est\u00e1 sucediendo por una raz\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes what we\u2019re going through is totally unrelated to the present, it\u2019s unimportant for what is happening right now but it\u2019s of crucial importance for what\u2019s coming next.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make the first step\u2014it\u2019s just like ripping off a Band-Aid. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sure, it\u2019s the most painful and the most difficult step to take. But it\u2019s the most liberating one. You simply have to cut yourself off from him without thinking about it twice. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que borrar todos los mensajes que te haya enviado. B\u00f3rralo de todas las redes sociales. De hecho, borra todo lo que te recuerde a \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY sus palabras retumbando en tu mente? <\/b><\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puedes deshacerte de ellos. Puedes deshacerte de ellos muy f\u00e1cilmente. Hazte a la idea de que sus palabras nunca significaron nada.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nada de lo que te dijo fue verdad, ni sali\u00f3 del coraz\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era un mont\u00f3n de mentiras, <\/span>un mont\u00f3n de promesas vac\u00edas<\/span><\/a> dijo para llevarte a la cama o para conseguir lo que necesitara de ti en ese momento.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s merciless to think this way but I\u2019m afraid it\u2019s the cold and harsh truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

The sooner you realize you were just a casualty to him and never nothing bigger than that, the sooner you\u2019ll be able to rip yourself from him and move on with your life the way you deserve it. <\/span><\/p>\n

La tirita s\u00f3lo puede escocer cuando te la quitas. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mujeres<\/p>\n

The aftershock is coming! Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking you\u2019ve done it on the first try. It\u2019s never that easy. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be like a junkie without your drug for too long. You\u2019ll want the dose, you\u2019ll want the fix because you need it. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>En esos momentos, har\u00edas cualquier cosa por volver a verle y tocarle. En esos momentos, caminar\u00edas sobre ti misma y perder\u00edas toda tu dignidad s\u00f3lo para abrazarle una vez m\u00e1s y sentirle a tu alrededor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fight it with everything you have because that feeling doesn\u2019t last. It\u2019s just a moment of weakness followed by\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Recordando tu vida antes de \u00e9l. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Triste<\/p>\n

Recuerda que la vida no gira en torno a \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

Recuerdas qui\u00e9n eras antes de conocerle y lo comparas con lo que eres ahora. Son dos personas muy diferentes y s\u00e9 que odias la que eres ahora. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, para volver a ser la mujer segura y feliz que una vez fuiste, tienes que deshacerte de \u00e9l y de todos los recuerdos que tengas de \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

Recuerda los planes que ten\u00edas antes de conocerle. Recuerda las metas y los sue\u00f1os que quer\u00edas alcanzar pero que se congelaron cuando le conociste. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>You can do all of that now. You\u2019re free to do whatever you want now. <\/b><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer es dar ese paso adelante hacia el futuro que te mereces.<\/b><\/p>\n

El resto depende del destino. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going to be alone for the rest of your life but you don\u2019t have to worry about it either. Karma brings presents at just the right time. And you\u2019re in for a big surprise. <\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone who has suffered and didn\u2019t deserve it will be rewarded sooner or later. You\u2019re up next, trust me. <\/span><\/p>\n

God will reward you because you\u2019re honest. <\/b><\/p>\n

You haven\u2019t done anything wrong. This time, you are just a victim of a cruel reality. <\/span>Deja el resto a Dios<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dios se asegurar\u00e1 de que se te haga justicia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever happens to the man you loved, don\u2019t sweat it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think about it. Even if he apologizes to you and begs you to come back, even if he changes or if you never hear from him again, don\u2019t think about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dios te llevar\u00e1 por el camino que deb\u00edas tomar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al final, no saber lo que va a pasar siempre es m\u00e1s divertido.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"As\u00ed<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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