{"id":50975,"date":"2021-05-10T01:30:39","date_gmt":"2021-05-10T01:30:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50975"},"modified":"2022-02-17T17:36:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-17T17:36:01","slug":"debo-bloquear-a-mi-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/debo-bloquear-a-mi-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfDebo bloquear a mi ex? Estas 10 conclusiones te ayudar\u00e1n a decidirte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deber\u00eda <\/i>Bloqueo a mi ex en las redes sociales<\/i>? \u00bfDebo bloquear tambi\u00e9n su n\u00famero? <\/i>I can\u2019t tell you how many times these annoying, pesky questions have rummaged through my mind despu\u00e9s de la ruptura<\/a>. En efecto, aprender c\u00f3mo superar una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> no es tarea f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n

And I can bet that I’m not the only one. We’ve all been through pretty much the same dilemmas when it comes to people who were such a huge part of our lives.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs un movimiento desesperado? \u00bfY si luego me arrepiento? \u00bfLe demostrar\u00e1 que Todav\u00eda me importa<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e1ndolo bien, \u00bfes esto lo mejor que puedo hacer por mi salud mental y mi futura vida amorosa? \u00bfMe traer\u00e1 la tan deseada paz interior?<\/p>\n

I bet these are all the questions going through your head. You’re putting the pros and the cons on a scale but you can’t seem to come up with the answer.<\/p>\n

Well, you’ve come to the right person because I’m about to give you all the answers you need- or at least, I’ll help you get to them.<\/p>\n

Here, I\u2019m going to discuss what you should consider and ask yourself before blocking your ex and explain how your decision could be perceived by your <\/i>ex-novio<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 deber\u00eda hacerlo?<\/h2>\n

\"mujerHay m\u00faltiples razones a favor de bloquear a tu ex, pero una las supera a todas: si juegas bien tus cartas, este puede ser tu billete a un viaje de curaci\u00f3n saludable<\/a>. It’s not an easy decision but it definitely is the one that will help you move on with your life.<\/p>\n

As long as you’re following all of your ex’s social network accounts and, even worse- expecting him to call or text you- you cannot make any significant progress.<\/p>\n

Remember: if he’s a hombre t\u00f3xico<\/a>, he will probably never leave you alone- at least, not for good. As long as he has access to you, he’ll be using his privileges.<\/p>\n

By not blocking him, you’re indirectly showing him that you’re perfectly okay with him marching in and out of your life.<\/p>\n

You’re showing him that you don’t mind his presence.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: Me ha bloqueado: Qu\u00e9 significa y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto<\/a><\/p>\n

Ojos que no ven, coraz\u00f3n que no siente<\/h3>\n

En un ex novio (o ex novia)<\/a> so virtually close at any given moment creates an uneasy and anxiety-ridden environment in which it\u2019s difficult to thrive.<\/p>\n

How does one handle being one click away from their ex\u2019s life while expected to not sneak a peek?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se puede sobrevivir al desamor<\/a> y superar el proceso de curaci\u00f3n sabiendo al mismo tiempo que est\u00e1n desesperados por ver qu\u00e9 hace su ex y estando tan cerca de averiguarlo?<\/p>\n

Entiendo. <\/i>Querer un <\/i>ex vuelta<\/i><\/a> es algo completamente natural.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve spent such a huge chunk of life together and now he\u2019s just cut out from your life as if he never made a dent in it.<\/i><\/p>\n

Pero tener a un ex en tus redes sociales es una situaci\u00f3n delicada y, a veces, bloquearlo es la mejor soluci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But how do you know for sure? You\u2019ve got so much history together.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve gone through monumental changes with each other and he was the one by your side when you were scared of reaching out to anyone else.<\/p>\n

And now, he\u2019s just gone. The thought of not being with him is almost as gut-churning as seeing him happy on his <\/i>cuentas en redes sociales<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

What if you see him with another girl? You couldn\u2019t possibly handle it.<\/i><\/p>\n

But at the same time, is not knowing what he\u2019s up to even worse? Right now, this seems like a real nightmare.<\/p>\n

The man who used to be your rock is now but a distant memory you\u2019re desperately trying to rid yourself of.<\/p>\n

Only you\u2019re not sure if you should go through with it because the repercussions might be more than you can handle\u2026<\/p>\n

Demostrar un punto<\/h3>\n

Another argument on the blocking side is showing this guy that you’re serious about not getting back together with him.<\/p>\n

You’re perfectly fine with the two of you breaking up. You can’t stand looking at him, let alone hearing from him. You see your past relationship as a chapter that has reached its end.<\/p>\n

In fact, it’s even possible that you already have a new partner. So, you want your ex out of your life and out of your phone.<\/p>\n

Let’s get one thing straight: putting the last nail in his coffin shouldn’t be your primary motive for blocking him. If you’re doing it, you’re doing it because of yourself.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, why wouldn’t you see this as some extra bonus? You finally threw him out of your life and additionally, he is very well aware that puedes vivir sin ellos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Basically, it’s a win-win situation.<\/p>\n

Why You Shouldn’t Do It?<\/h2>\n

\"hombreLet me tell you this- the worst thing you can do is be indecisive. You know exactly what I’m talking about- about blocking and unblocking this guy all the time.<\/p>\n

That way, you’re making yourself a fool. You’re showing him that you know that getting a second chance is the worst idea ever (that’s when you block him) but you miss him too much to really go cold turkey (that’s when you unblock him).<\/p>\n

This type of behavior makes you look immature. It’s a clear indicator that you’re struggling with the breakup and that you’re not strong enough to really cut your ex off.<\/p>\n

So if you think this is what you’ll be doing after you block him for the first time, don’t! It’s better to keep on giving him full access than doing things halfway.<\/p>\n

Una vez tomada esta enorme decisi\u00f3n, debe ser definitiva y no hay vuelta atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Decisi\u00f3n final<\/h3>\n

Before I give you the answer to the question “Should I block my ex”, let me tell you that always carries a certain weight and it’s not something to do while angry or overly emotional. Just try to imagine how would you feel si tu ex te bloquea<\/a>…<\/p>\n

Quiero que seas consciente del efecto que este movimiento puede tener en \u00e9l, en ti mismo y en tu propio crecimiento personal.<\/p>\n

Haciendo clic en dejar de seguir<\/i> es tan f\u00e1cil, pero despertarse al d\u00eda siguiente y no ver sus historias de Instagram y darse cuenta de que unfriending \u00e9l afectar\u00e1 a su vida de una manera grande es un juego de pelota totalmente diferente.<\/p>\n

If you think that blocking your ex on social media might be a bad idea and you\u2019re having second thoughts, I\u2019m here to offer some reasonable reasoning behind your actions to make the process easier.<\/p>\n

If you think there might come a time when you\u2019ll want recuperar a tu ex<\/a>, it\u2019s all the more reason to educate yourself on all the possible scenarios and not rush this decision.<\/p>\n

Reacting out of anger, fear or frustration is the best way to make a wrong decision that\u2019s only going to make you feel good for about two seconds.<\/p>\n

And after that, you\u2019ll feel overwhelming sensations of regret, anger, and dissatisfaction with your decision that will haunt you for a long time.<\/p>\n

Una vez bloque\u00e9 a mi marido (hace mucho, mucho tiempo) cuando hab\u00edamos roto temporalmente y estaba con un <\/i>nuevo socio<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Durante ese per\u00edodo de tiempo, mis ojos se abrieron realmente a algunas verdades m\u00e1s grandes, y aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n algunas cosas \u00fatiles que me di cuenta que me ayudaron a seguir adelante y encontrar mi cierre.<\/i><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo vivir en paz y armon\u00eda con la ayuda de estos 5 pasos<\/a><\/p>\n

Through His Perspective\u2026<\/h2>\n

Before getting to the part which will help you evaluate whether or not you should block your ex, here\u2019s where we\u2019ll start.<\/p>\n

Quiero le guiar\u00e1 a trav\u00e9s de su <\/i>cabeza<\/a> and his thought process upon seeing he\u2019s been blocked.<\/p>\n

You obviously know what you\u2019re doing and why you\u2019re doing it (or you’re minutes away from finding out below) but he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll see this act as something that it probably isn\u2019t and will therefore arrive at certain conclusions which will make it improbable recuperar a tu ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe has preparado para las posibles consecuencias? \u00bfTienes la menor idea de lo que puede ocurrir si bloqueas a tu ex?<\/p>\n

Here are some of the things he\u2019s likely to think after having been blocked.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00eda hacerte parecer amargado y resentido<\/h3>\n

\"vistaYour ex doesn\u2019t have firsthand knowledge of what\u2019s happening inside your head so he isn\u2019t privy to your reasoning for such actions.<\/p>\n

De este modo, \u00e9l podr\u00eda percibirlo como un signo de tu amargura.<\/p>\n

Quererlo de vuelta<\/h4>\n

Y si alguna vez quieres recuperar a tu ex, estar amargado es el camino equivocado.<\/p>\n

In his eyes, after you unfollow (or block) him, you\u2019re likely to appear resentful and hurt about how things played out and therefore still very much hooked on him.<\/p>\n

Puede que incluso lo exagere en su mente para aumentar su ego y hacerse ver como una influencia tan fuerte sobre tus decisiones.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs \u00e9ste el mensaje que quieres enviarle? \u00bfEs as\u00ed como quieres que te vea?<\/p>\n

Social media platforms are a huge part of our lives these days and therefore, he\u2019ll definitely have a strong opinion about this.<\/p>\n

Deciding to unfollow him all the while knowing you\u2019re likely to want recuperar a tu ex<\/a> alg\u00fan d\u00eda no es la decisi\u00f3n m\u00e1s inteligente.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSeguro que lo has pensado bien?<\/p>\n

Terminado con \u00e9l<\/h4>\n

On the other hand, if you’re over with this guy for good, why would you care what he thinks? He might see it as your revenge or game at first but once he realizes that you have no intention of unblocking him, he’ll see the truth.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, he’ll understand that you blocked him just to get rid of him. And that’s when he’ll realize what he’s lost<\/a>. Of course, it will be too late then to get back into your life since you’ll be all healed.<\/p>\n

\u00bfIntentas ocultar algo?<\/h3>\n

Esta pregunta tambi\u00e9n aparecer\u00e1 en su cabeza. \u00bfIntentas ocultarle una nueva relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

What\u2019s next\u2026 Changing your phone number and never texting him again, just like that?<\/p>\n

Have you told your mutual friends not to share any of your personal info with him? If not, it’s likely that he’ll do whatever he can to get a hold of your social network profiles.<\/p>\n

He’ll want to see what you’re posting at all costs. Suddenly, this guy will become more interesting in your whereabouts than he’s ever been before.<\/p>\n

In that case, it’s better to unfriend his friends as well- or at least, to hide your stories from them.<\/p>\n

Last week you were his best friend and so close to him becoming your fiance and today, you\u2019re realizing you were in a broken relationship and last week was the last time you would call him el amor de mi vida<\/i>\u2026<\/p>\n

Is this how it\u2019s going to be now? Hiding from each other and him not even being able to see your profile picture anymore?<\/p>\n

Who knows what\u2019s going on and he sure as hell will picture the worst possible scenario. How is he supposed to know any better?<\/p>\n

Si quieres recuperar a tu ex (en alg\u00fan momento en el futuro) es posible que quieras reconsiderar bloquearlo en las redes sociales.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a strong message and it\u2019ll hurt your chances of reconciliation.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 se\u00f1ales de una esposa distante emocionalmente y por qu\u00e9 se volvi\u00f3 as\u00ed<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not handling the break-up well<\/h3>\n

\"fotoYou probably have your own reasons why you should block your ex but he\u2019ll see what he wants to see.<\/p>\n

In his head, it\u2019ll seem as if you\u2019re struggling with coping with the break-up.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not doing well and the thought of seeing him on social media every day gives you anxiety.<\/p>\n

Esto le da todo el poder. En su mente, \u00e9l gana la ruptura.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll feel sorry for you and that way, you\u2019re highly unlikely to be seen as hot and attractive to him again.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll pity you and see you like this chica rota<\/a> but he\u2019ll never want to take you back.<\/p>\n

This way, he won\u2019t see clearly what he\u2019s losing and whatever you thought you had going for you will be amiss.<\/p>\n

El desamor no es vergonzoso<\/h4>\n

But please, have one thing in mind: your reaction is completely normal. You’ve loved this guy and he was the center of your world for a long period of time.<\/p>\n

It would be weird if you are utterly indifferent about losing him. You’re not a robot- you’re a human being. Therefore, it’s natural that you’re not okay with looking at photos with him with some other girl.<\/p>\n

What I’m trying to tell you is not to be discouraged by his thoughts. Don’t keep on hurting yourself and don’t choose not to block him just because it would give him proof that you’re hurt.<\/p>\n

Tener el coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> is nothing to be ashamed of. Let him “win”. Actually, the point is that you’re done competing.<\/p>\n

Usted quiere seguir adelante<\/a> con tu vida sin preocuparte de qui\u00e9n hizo qu\u00e9 primero y qui\u00e9n hizo el corte final. Y esta es la forma de hacerlo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re playing mind games<\/h3>\n

And he\u2019s simply not having it. This makes you seem completely fake and desperate. Who resorts to this type of thing? Only the weak and defeated.<\/p>\n

At least, this is what he thinks. But hey, you know the truth very well and that’s all that matters.<\/p>\n

The fact is that he’s probably comforting himself by acting like you’re the bad guy of the story.<\/p>\n

It’s easier for him to put all the blame on you and to think that you’re into some toxic games than to rethink his actions and understand why you blocked him in the first place.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que deja que piense lo que quiera. Lo \u00faltimo que deber\u00edas hacer es darle explicaciones a este tipo.<\/p>\n

You don’t owe him anything anymore- remember that.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: As\u00ed es como dejas de sentir celos de una chica m\u00e1s guapa<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re being childish<\/h3>\n

\"hermosaIf you appear childish and immature, he\u2019s unlikely to get back in touch with you because seeing you like this will push him away.<\/p>\n

Quiere ver un chica fuerte<\/a> que sepa levantarse y conservar su dignidad durante todo el calvario, no una cr\u00eda inmadura que recurre a los golpes bajos e intenta vengarse de su ex de las formas m\u00e1s malsanas.<\/p>\n

This may not be the case but he\u2019ll see it this way.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re also ignorando sus mensajes de texto<\/a> y llamadas telef\u00f3nicas mientras le ha dejado de seguir en las redes sociales, \u00bfqu\u00e9 otra cosa se supone que tiene que pensar?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re off-limits to him and if he wanted to talk to you about this, he literally has no platform to do so.<\/p>\n

This is why blocking people shouldn\u2019t be a rash decision. You should think it through and weigh up the pros and cons.<\/p>\n

Only after being at peace with this decision, knowing you\u2019re doing it for a higher purpose, should you actually go through with it.<\/p>\n

Tu crecimiento personal y tu autocuidado son tus principales prioridades.<\/p>\n

Through Your Perspective\u2026<\/h2>\n

Now you\u2019ve seen how this whole thing is likely to play out in his eyes, as you\u2019ve probably noticed, it\u2019s not pretty. <\/p>\n

He\u2019ll see it how he chooses to see it and unless you have a conversation about it with him beforehand, things could go off the rails and you\u2019ll never get your ex back- if that is something you want to do.<\/p>\n

But now, it\u2019s time to bring the focus back onto usted<\/i>. Ahora tienes que hacerte algunas preguntas dif\u00edciles y buscar dentro de tu alma.<\/p>\n

Now is the time where you finally realize what you\u2019re about to do and why you\u2019ve chosen this route.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1s haciendo esto para crear un muro entre t\u00fa y tu ex novio o hay una parte de ti que todav\u00eda espera poder recuperar a tu ex?<\/p>\n

If so, it\u2019s really crucial to ask yourself the following questions before choosing to block him on social media for good.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfSexo con amigos? Los 10 mayores secretos que nadie te contar\u00e1<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su principal objetivo?<\/h3>\n

\"morenaThis is the first thing you should ask yourself and here\u2019s why. During break-ups and heartbreaks, one often forgets to nourish oneself and take care of what they need at this time.<\/p>\n

And I assume this might be the case with you too. In all of this conundrum, you\u2019re likely to have forgotten about yourself, your needs, and your wants.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 anhela tu coraz\u00f3n en este momento? \u00bfQu\u00e9 intenta decirte tu cabeza?<\/p>\n

Esc\u00fachalo y date un capricho sea cual sea. Ahora mismo, deber\u00edas estar su primera opci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This part of your journey should never be about him. It\u2019s all about you and being your own best friend.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs tu intenci\u00f3n apartar a tu ex de tu vida y centrarte en un nuevo futuro en el que \u00e9l no te influya? \u00bfEs este el primer paso en tu viaje para seguir adelante?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres cortar todos los lazos con tu pasado para poder disfrutar de tu presente y dar un salto hacia tu futuro? \u00bfEst\u00e1s pasando p\u00e1gina?<\/p>\n

Or do you want to seek reconciliation at some point and by blocking him, you\u2019re merely trying to get his attention (in the worst way imaginable) and make him see what he\u2019s losing?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs \u00e9sta su t\u00e9cnica de manipulaci\u00f3n? \u00bfEs usted ignor\u00e1ndole para llamar su atenci\u00f3n<\/a>? \u00bfEst\u00e1s jugando?<\/p>\n

What is your main focus right now? Your ex or finding yourself again? Look- I’m no Judge Judy- I just want you to be dead honest towards yourself so you’re able to make the right call.<\/p>\n

\u00bfBloquear a tu ex te acercar\u00e1 al cierre?<\/h3>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 aspira a conseguir bloque\u00e1ndole en las redes sociales?<\/p>\n

\u00bfBuscas entender lo que ocurri\u00f3 entre vosotros y necesitas espacio para resolverlo?<\/p>\n

\u00bfDesea crear una separaci\u00f3n muy necesaria de esa parte de su vida para centrarse en cerrar ese cap\u00edtulo<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Those should be your main goals\u2014what you need, as opposed to what his reaction will be.<\/p>\n

Dejar de seguirle deber\u00eda servir para darte paz y tranquilidad, en lugar de volverte loca por no ver sus redes sociales.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEsto te va a aportar un cierre? \u00bfSer\u00e1s capaz de encontrar consuelo despu\u00e9s de bloquearle y seguir adelante por el bien de tu propio bienestar?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSer\u00e1s capaz de ponerte en contacto con la chica que un d\u00eda fuiste pero que ya no ves en el espejo?<\/p>\n

Si bloquearlo te va a hacer ganar m\u00e1s de lo que pierdes, entonces, por supuesto, hazlo.<\/p>\n

But if the distance and the not knowing what he\u2019s up to will keep nagging at you, perhaps this is not the best solution.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 8 problemas de las relaciones a distancia (y c\u00f3mo hacer que funcionen)<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfIntentas enviarle un mensaje bloque\u00e1ndole?<\/h3>\n

\"mujer\u00bfIntentas ser preventiva bloque\u00e1ndole porque crees que \u00e9l podr\u00eda hacerlo primero?<\/p>\n

\u00bfLe guardas rencor porque he still hasn\u2019t answered your text message<\/a> so you hope that by blocking him you\u2019ll let him know how pissed you are?<\/p>\n

Are you indirectly (and not-so-subtly) sending him some kind of message? If so, that\u2019s the worst reason to do this.<\/p>\n

Never act out of anger or desperation. You\u2019re guaranteed to regret it in the future.<\/p>\n

Your best solution here is to be honest and direct with your ex. If you want to let him know about how you\u2019re feeling right now, pick up the phone and call him.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re too sensitive and don\u2019t want to hear his voice, send him a text message. Directness is always the best choice.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him come to his own conclusion simply because your ego is telling you to act this way.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 fuerte y afronta esto de frente. Si necesitas que escuche algo, \u00a1d\u00edselo!<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs s\u00f3lo una soluci\u00f3n a corto plazo?<\/h3>\n

Sometimes, we put up barriers that stand in the way of our happiness and we\u2019re totally oblivious to it.<\/p>\n

This could be the cause of your emotional downfall. You\u2019re trying to fix this by making a rash decision that you know isn\u2019t going to provide you with long-term happiness.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re likely to wake up the next day and feel resentful about blocking him on all his social media accounts instead of being honest about what you really need.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad quieres golpear ese dejar de seguir<\/i> bot\u00f3n<\/a> \u00bfo s\u00f3lo intentas poner una tirita en una herida profunda?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you think you\u2019ll start wondering what he\u2019s doing and if he\u2019s in a new relationship and this way, you\u2019ll never be able to know?<\/p>\n

It will be eating you alive and you\u2019ll have nobody to blame but yourself.<\/p>\n

At some point, you\u2019re going to wish to be a part of his life again (not necessarily as his girlfriend) and this will make it extremely difficult.<\/p>\n

How do you think you\u2019ll feel afterwards?<\/h3>\n

\"jovenImagine that you\u2019ve actually gone through with it and you\u2019ve finally blocked him.<\/p>\n

Right now, you can\u2019t see his feed, not even his profile picture. He\u2019s vanished from your online reality and the damage is done.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo te sientes? \u00bfEst\u00e1s en paz y contento?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe ves levant\u00e1ndote al d\u00eda siguiente y sinti\u00e9ndote satisfecho con esta decisi\u00f3n? \u00bfSientes el impulso de consultar su Instagram?<\/p>\n

Do you need to check his Twitter to see what he\u2019s been posting about lately?<\/p>\n

Todas estas son preguntas que te rondar\u00e1n por la cabeza despu\u00e9s de bloquearle.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 dispuesto a correr el riesgo de no sentirse realizado con esta decisi\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

Las secuelas ser\u00e1n algo digno de ver. Y deber\u00edas estar preparado para la monta\u00f1a rusa emocional por la que podr\u00edas pasar.<\/p>\n

This is what it\u2019s all about. Blocking your ex might give you the perspective you\u2019re lacking right now and even if you learn to regret it, at least you\u2019ll know for sure.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no right or wrong answer here. Just you and your gut feeling.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo poner fin a un romance con integridad y ayudarle a dejarlo para siempre<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfDebo bloquear a mi ex durante la ausencia de contacto?<\/h2>\n

\"naturaleza,If you know that you won’t resist the urge to call or text your ex, the best choice is to block them. I mean, what’s the point of the periodo de no contacto <\/a>if you’ll spend it stalking their accounts or even worse- talking to them every now and then.<\/p>\n

But before you make this decision, please be honest about why you’re going no contact.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs una forma de recuperar a tu ex pareja? \u00bfQuieres que empezar a echarte de menos<\/a> and see what they’ve lost?<\/p>\n

In that case, it would be best to ignore them without actually blocking them. Yes, I know what you must be thinking right now: if they want to revive your past relationship, they’ll find a way to reach out to you.<\/p>\n

And you’re not wrong. Nevertheless, is your ex the kind of person who will send love letters to your home address or contact your friends just to get a hold of you?<\/p>\n

Or is it more possible that they will see you blocking them as a big sign that you two are really over? Will they just accept your “no” as a final decision without pursuing you any further?<\/p>\n

On the other hand, the situation is quite different if you’re cutting all possible ties because you really want to move on. In that case, unfriend or block them the moment your relationship ends.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs inmaduro bloquear a tu ex?<\/h2>\n

\"mujerBlocking your ex as a way of getting even or as a part of your mind games is, without doubt, childish and unnecessary. Nevertheless, if you’re thinking about blocking your ex’s number to save yourself and your mental health- there is nothing immature about that.<\/p>\n

In the first case, you’re being toxic. Whether you admit it or not, you’re just doing it to break their heart and to play with them a bit longer.<\/p>\n

But in the other case, you’re just putting your sanity in the first place. If you have a hard time telling them “no” (but you know they’ll try to pull your heartstrings), see blocking them as a programa de autocuidado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s just a way to heal your coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido y eso es en realidad lo m\u00e1s maduro que puedes hacer.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs mejor bloquear o ignorar a un ex?<\/h2>\n

\"SiluetaThis question doesn’t have a universal answer because it all depends on your specific situation. If you can deal with looking at your ex’s posts and photos all over your social networks- then it’s always better to ignore them.<\/p>\n

The same goes for the ex who won’t disturb you in any way- there is no need to block them on WhatsApp or on any social media.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you’re dealing with an ex who keeps showing up in your life or even worse, with an ex abusivo<\/a> que te est\u00e1 molestando todo el tiempo- bloquearlos es el camino a seguir.<\/p>\n

Of course, you always have to be 100% honest with yourself to make the right decision. If you’re secretly hoping to get a second chance with your ex, ignoring them beats blocking them.<\/p>\n

\u00bfBloquear a mi ex me ayudar\u00e1 a seguir adelante?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer“Out of sight, out of mind”. Not seeing your ex’s phone number on your display, not stumbling upon their photos all over social networks, and not knowing what they’ve been up to certainly will help you get over them.<\/p>\n

You can’t expect to move on with your life, as long as you’re stalking their online status, their followers, and their stories. Even though you two broke up, you’re still involved in their life and that won’t bring you any good.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, ir de cabeza con ellos le ayudar\u00e1 a entender que it’s really over<\/a>. S\u00ed, al principio ser\u00e1 doloroso.<\/p>\n

It will deprive you of a false sense of security. Your ex might not be physically present in your life. But they’re present on your phone and that’s better than anything, right?<\/p>\n

What you need is a fresh start. You need to start a new life and it’s about time to leave the past in the past.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs de mala educaci\u00f3n ignorar a tu ex?<\/h2>\n

\"JovenIf your ex wishes you a happy birthday and you know that a simple reply won’t affect your emotional health- I don’t see a point in ignoring them.<\/p>\n

But if they act like you’re still together, negatively impact your progress or a new relationship- there is nothing rude about paying no attention to their attempts to reach out.<\/p>\n

Look, you have to make a difference between an ex who says “hi” when you run into them and the one who blows your phone up all the time.<\/p>\n

Esto tambi\u00e9n depende de c\u00f3mo hay\u00e1is roto. Si no ha pasado nada demasiado horrible, no hace falta que gires la cabeza cuando los veas.<\/p>\n

This person was a huge part of your life and you should observe them as an old friend you haven’t seen in a while. Chit chat with them, have some small talk and continue with your day as nothing happened.<\/p>\n

Pero \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa con un ex que sigue suplicando una segunda oportunidad<\/a>? What about that ex who tries to come back into your life the moment you think you’re over them?<\/p>\n

What about the ex who abuses you mentally and emotionally? What about the one who continues sending you good night and good morning texts and wants to talk to you every day, as if you’re still together?<\/p>\n

Well, since you’re a polite person with excellent manners, try explaining your point to them. Tell them honestly that you don’t think keeping in touch is a good idea.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if they continue harassing you this way or another, just ignore them. Sooner or later, they’ll get the message and they’ll give up on you.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ha aprendido?<\/h2>\n

\"Relaj\u00e1ndoseEsperamos que este art\u00edculo le haya ayudado a tomar una decisi\u00f3n informada sobre este delicado asunto y le haya ayudado a avanzar con una visi\u00f3n clara de todos los escenarios posibles.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres lo primero<\/h3>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante que espero que saques de todo esto es la importancia de a ti.<\/i><\/p>\n

En sufriendo el desamor<\/a>A menudo pasamos por el aro y, en medio de la tristeza, la amargura y el arrepentimiento, nos olvidamos de c\u00f3mo cuidar de nosotros mismos.<\/p>\n

Nos centramos demasiado en nuestro ex y nos olvidamos de cuidar nuestro propio bienestar.<\/p>\n

This is your wake-up call. Your reality check is here to let you know that the right decision is the one you can make today and be sure you won\u2019t regret the next day.<\/p>\n

Decidir mientras se lucha y se est\u00e1 al borde de un colapso mental es perjudicial para la propia salud mental.<\/p>\n

When feeling so overwhelmed and anxious, it\u2019s best to take a step back and focus on yourself. Not on your ex, not on his social media and not on getting even.<\/p>\n

Soluci\u00f3n temporal<\/h3>\n

Hazlo. Ay\u00fadate a ser mejor. Despu\u00e9s de haber hecho eso y haber llegado a un lugar m\u00e1s feliz, toma una decisi\u00f3n que vaya de la mano con tu nuevo yo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t bring yourself down just to show your ex something he won\u2019t even see.<\/p>\n

Si quieres bloquearlo para hacer borr\u00f3n y cuenta nueva y pasar p\u00e1gina, adelante, hazlo.<\/p>\n

Pero si tu \u00fanico objetivo es enviarle un mensaje, quiz\u00e1 no sea una decisi\u00f3n acertada despu\u00e9s de todo.<\/p>\n

Haz caso a tus instintos y piensa en tu objetivo final. Una soluci\u00f3n temporal te proporcionar\u00e1 una felicidad temporal.<\/p>\n

Pero una decisi\u00f3n bien meditada allanar\u00e1 el camino hacia un futuro m\u00e1s feliz que probablemente dure mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

Para concluir<\/h2>\n

\"mujerI don’t know if I managed to give you a specific answer to your question “Should I block my ex?”. But that’s the point- nobody can make that decision for you.<\/p>\n

I gave you some directions that, I’m sure, helped you a lot. Nevertheless, at the end of the day, you have to be a big girl and hit that button by yourself. Or live with the fact that your ex can reach out whenever he feels like it- it’s up to you.<\/p>\n

Think things through, sleep it over and I promise you that you’ll make the right call. I’m rooting for you!\"\u00bfDebo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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