{"id":51049,"date":"2020-01-11T15:59:45","date_gmt":"2020-01-11T15:59:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51049"},"modified":"2022-09-20T08:35:32","modified_gmt":"2022-09-20T08:35:32","slug":"lucha-de-poder-en-las-relaciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lucha-de-poder-en-las-relaciones\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de lucha de poder en la pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"

Seg\u00fan la mayor\u00eda <\/span>expertos en relaciones<\/span>, a <\/span>lucha de poder<\/span> no es nada raro en la <\/span>inicio de una relaci\u00f3n<\/span> con alguien nuevo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want to show this person that they can\u2019t play with you and you see this as a way of earning their respect.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque esto sea infantil y completamente in\u00fatil, <\/span>luchas de poder<\/span> en <\/span>nuevas relaciones<\/span> en realidad son bastante comunes y no hay de qu\u00e9 preocuparse. <\/span><\/p>\n

En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, esto no es una se\u00f1al de alarma de que su relaci\u00f3n es <\/span>condenado al fracaso<\/span><\/a>como este <\/span>etapa de lucha por el poder<\/span> will go away the moment you two get to know each other and become more certain in the other person\u2019s feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si <\/span>luchas de poder en una relaci\u00f3n<\/span> continuar incluso despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, puede ser bastante alarmante. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a clear sign of deeply rooted insecurities and fragile egos in both partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando esto ocurre, el romance deja de existir como una asociaci\u00f3n igualitaria y se convierte en una competici\u00f3n, lo cual no es en absoluto un entorno saludable. Te suena familiar, \u00bfverdad?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bueno, si este es el caso, definitivamente deber\u00edas seguir leyendo y ver si puedes relacionar a tu pareja y a ti con algunas de estas se\u00f1ales que se mencionan a continuaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re both stubborn<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

Lo primero que tienen en com\u00fan las parejas que <\/span>luchas de poder<\/span> es que todos tienen personalidades incre\u00edblemente fuertes. <\/span><\/p>\n

These are usually hard-headed people who find it impossible to change their minds, listen to someone else\u2019s advice, or look at things from another <\/span>punto de vista<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

These are the people who don\u2019t give up easily on something they set their minds to and whose stubbornness is their most dominant quality. <\/span><\/p>\n

As soon as something doesn’t go the way they planned it to be, <\/span>sentimientos de impotencia<\/span> overwhelm them \u2013 and that is something they can’t stand. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desde este punto de vista, estos rasgos de personalidad parecen bastante atractivos. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, the last thing you want is a partner who doesn\u2019t know what they want and doesn\u2019t stand behind their words.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la terquedad no es buena para ninguna relaci\u00f3n, y mucho menos para una rom\u00e1ntica. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y eso es exactamente lo que os pasa a ti y a tu pareja.<\/span><\/p>\n

It appears that both of you would rather die than admit that you\u2019re wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

You rarely change your mind and admit something was your fault, even when deep down you know you\u2019ve made a mistake.<\/span><\/p>\n

This type of arrangement can only work when one person is hard-headed, while the other doesn\u2019t have a problem bending a little (even though this isn\u2019t a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/span> either \u2013 nobody should be forced to take over the role of a people pleaser or deal with <\/span>sentimientos de impotencia<\/span> s\u00f3lo para evitar que un ser querido se vaya).<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, en su caso, no se trata de un <\/span>tipo de relaci\u00f3n dominante-sumisa<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, you both want supremacy and you\u2019re both used to being in charge; that\u2019s exactly why all these <\/span>luchas de poder<\/span> est\u00e1n ocurriendo.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. There\u2019s no compromise<\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Stubborn people don\u2019t compromise. You and your significant other never put an effort into finding <\/span>terreno com\u00fan<\/span>y tomar una decisi\u00f3n que satisfaga las necesidades de ambos.<\/span><\/p>\n

No hay <\/span>formas saludables<\/span> of communication, no understanding, no trying to look at things from the other person\u2019s <\/span>punto de vista<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Neither of you ever take a walk in your partner\u2019s shoes, try to comprehend how they feel, and try to get to the bottom of the struggles they\u2019re going through.<\/span><\/p>\n

En cambio, lo \u00fanico que importa es tu perspectiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re both quite <\/span>ego\u00edsta<\/span><\/a> and rarely take the other person\u2019s needs, desires, and feelings into consideration.<\/span><\/p>\n

Relacionado: 35 se\u00f1ales de alarma en las redes sociales de las que hay que cuidarse<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Se dan celos mutuamente<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 a little bit of jealousy in <\/span>amor rom\u00e1ntico<\/span> es lindo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este es especialmente el caso del <\/span>inicio de una relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> cuando los dos os est\u00e1is conociendo.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want to appear too desperate in front of your new date. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want them to think you\u2019ve spent your entire life patiently waiting for them, as if you had no other options and would\u2019ve remained single forever if they didn\u2019t come along.<\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, sabes que esa persona se enamorar\u00e1 m\u00e1s de ti si intuye un poco de competencia a la vuelta de la esquina. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tendr\u00e1n miedo de perderte antes de tenerte de verdad y ese miedo despertar\u00e1 sentimientos m\u00e1s fuertes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, un poco de celos puede ser se\u00f1al de que la otra persona se preocupa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00eda antinatural que su pareja se mostrara completamente indiferente ante la posibilidad de ser sustituido y que le pareciera perfectamente bien que usted, por ejemplo, flirteara con otras personas delante de \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, making the other person jealous even though you\u2019re in a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/span> es definitivamente un signo de una relaci\u00f3n enfermiza. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero esto es exactamente lo que usted y su ser querido llevan haciendo desde que tienen uso de raz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even though you\u2019re not doing anything behind each other\u2019s back, you feel enormous satisfaction whenever you notice you managed to shake their sense of security. <\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that neither of you cross the line, so you can\u2019t think that the other person is actually having an affair, but you both use every opportunity to make each other jealous.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Problemas<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you keep bringing your ex to the table, comparing each other to other people, whether you have a habit of flirting right in front of each other, texting other people, or simply disappearing for hours, leaving them wondering what you\u2019ve been up to \u2013 your sneaky intention is what matters.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ambos quieren que la otra persona sienta que puede ser sustituida f\u00e1cilmente y privarla de una sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad.<\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, cada vez que os pele\u00e9is o <\/span>romper<\/span>, you both make sure your significant other thinks you\u2019ve found someone new in a matter of seconds, even if this person doesn\u2019t even exist.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s clear that you both seek confirmation of your partner\u2019s feelings through jealousy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quieres que te vean como alguien deseado y deseable, y que vivan con el temor constante de perderte en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of this might sound interesting, but it\u2019s actually a bandera roja de que algo va muy mal en tu romance. <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

A serious relationship doesn\u2019t bring any doubts and insecurities \u2013 it makes both people in it secure.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let me tell you one thing. Jealousy is not a proof of genuine feelings. Instead, it\u2019s a sign of someone\u2019s huge ego. <\/span><\/p>\n

And just because your partner acts like they couldn\u2019t stand seeing you with someone else, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that they love you for real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe they just couldn\u2019t bear the possibility of someone taking what\u2019s theirs.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember: Just because you\u2019re a couple, you don\u2019t magically own each other. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, doing things in spite of each other won\u2019t bring you anywhere.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. It\u2019s important who sends the first text<\/h2>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

Cuando conoces a una persona nueva, calculas todos tus movimientos, incluidos los mensajes de texto que env\u00edas. <\/span><\/p>\n

You measure the time of their last reply and make sure you don\u2019t rush with your answer (so they don\u2019t notice that you spent hours staring at your phone, waiting for a text back.) <\/span><\/p>\n

Evita enviarles mensajes dobles o triples. <\/span>Lleva la cuenta de qui\u00e9n ha enviado m\u00e1s buenos d\u00edas o <\/span>textos de buenas noches<\/span><\/a>qui\u00e9n envi\u00f3 qu\u00e9 emoji, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque todo esto pueda parecer inmaduro, lo cierto es que todos lo hacemos. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to appear too needy or look like you don\u2019t have a life of your own.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, esta es otra pr\u00e1ctica que termina cuando se entra en un <\/span>relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/span>. Al menos con la mayor\u00eda de las parejas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, todo, incluido esto, es muy diferente entre usted y su pareja. <\/span><\/p>\n

For you two, it is still important who sends the first text during the day, who takes longer to reply, and who\u2019s the first one to reach out when you\u2019re in a fight.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y no s\u00f3lo eso, estos juegos mentales incluyen tambi\u00e9n las redes sociales. <\/span><\/p>\n

Los dos llev\u00e1is la cuenta de qui\u00e9n vio primero la historia de qui\u00e9n, qui\u00e9n puso m\u00e1s me gusta y comentarios en la actualizaci\u00f3n de estado de qui\u00e9n y qui\u00e9n public\u00f3 una foto de vosotros juntos en su muro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Suena frustrante y angustioso, \u00bfverdad? Bueno, adem\u00e1s de esto, tambi\u00e9n es peligroso para el futuro de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

And the worst thing is you don\u2019t talk about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

En cambio, aunque todos estos <\/span>luchas de poder<\/span> are happening, you\u2019re both pretending that everything is in perfect order and all of this is normal and usual.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, if you\u2019re involved with a person who\u2019ll see you as a lunatic or stalker just because you sent them a few text messages in a row, maybe it is time to reconsider your choice. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad est\u00e1s dispuesto a jugar a estos juegos el resto de tu vida?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Y qui\u00e9n inicia las citas<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Lo mismo ocurre con las citas. A pesar de la duraci\u00f3n de vuestra relaci\u00f3n, ambos segu\u00eds preocup\u00e1ndoos por qui\u00e9n propuso m\u00e1s reuniones y qui\u00e9n invit\u00f3 a qui\u00e9n a una cita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you want to see your partner today, you won\u2019t <\/span>invitarles a salir<\/span><\/a> s\u00f3lo porque lo hiciste las \u00faltimas tres veces. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 infantil!<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that you should go around, begging someone to spend time with you while they couldn\u2019t care less whether they\u2019ll see you or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfrealmente importa qui\u00e9n inici\u00f3 m\u00e1s citas, despu\u00e9s de todo este tiempo?<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo que tienes que tener en cuenta es que todos estos c\u00e1lculos, adem\u00e1s de ser infantiles y carecer de sentido real, tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n disminuyendo la calidad de vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see each other way less than you would both like to and you both get frustrated if you feel like you\u2019re dragging the other person by the sleeve.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Compites cuando se trata de dinero<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Otro signo inequ\u00edvoco de <\/span>luchas de poder en una relaci\u00f3n<\/span> est\u00e1 estrechamente relacionada con el dinero. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re in a committed romance, it\u2019s perfectly natural that both partners share everything they have, but this is not the case between you and your significant other. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’m not saying it\u2019s acceptable for one person to take care of all expenses while the other acts like a typical gold digger. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfimporta realmente qui\u00e9n paga m\u00e1s y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, qui\u00e9n gana m\u00e1s?<\/span><\/p>\n

But this is exactly what\u2019s going on between you and your partner. No, neither of you avoids taking the check \u2013 you’re actually doing completely the opposite. <\/span><\/p>\n

Parece que los dos est\u00e1is compitiendo sobre qui\u00e9n tiene m\u00e1s dinero y qui\u00e9n gana m\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can’t wait to brag to your partner about your new purchase and make it clear that you\u2019re the one who can afford more. <\/span><\/p>\n

The same goes with your careers as well. You use every opportunity to put each other’s jobs down and present them as totally irrelevant. <\/span><\/p>\n

A <\/span>amor maduro<\/span> relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> is about pushing each other to accomplish more. It certainly doesn’t include lowering the other person’s <\/span>autoestima<\/span> and making them feel as less worthy just because they’re not doing their dream job at the moment or because they earn less money than you. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. It matters who\u2019s right <\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Todas las parejas se pelean<\/a> \u2013 there\u2019s absolutely no doubt about that and whoever\u2019s trying to convince you otherwise is lying. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, seg\u00fan casi todos <\/span>expertos en relaciones<\/span>una discusi\u00f3n de vez en cuando es una de las <\/span>retos de las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas<\/span> que todos afrontamos y, en realidad, un signo <\/span>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s perfectly normal for two people to disagree on something. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, es posible que no tenga ning\u00fan problema en el <\/span>periodo de luna de miel<\/span><\/a>pero en cuanto te quitas las gafas de color de rosa y la <\/span>etapa de amor rom\u00e1ntico<\/span> passes, it\u2019s inevitable for some things regarding your partner to start bothering you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dicho esto, si lo que tienes es un <\/span>amor maduro<\/span>vuestras peleas ser\u00e1n productivas. Os servir\u00e1 a ambos encontrar un <\/span>terreno com\u00fan<\/span> and solution to whatever you’re dealing with.<\/span><\/p>\n

En las relaciones serias, siempre sois vosotros dos contra el problema. <\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1is unidos, buscando una soluci\u00f3n y la mejor manera de dejar atr\u00e1s este asunto, sin que afecte m\u00e1s a vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Plano<\/p>\n

Formas saludables<\/span> de argumentar incluyen socios que <\/span>asumir la responsabilidad<\/span> and don’t have a problem with admitting they are guilty. <\/span><\/p>\n

En trabajar en su <\/a><\/span>comunicaci\u00f3n<\/a> competencias<\/span> y hacer todo lo posible para superar esta fase y pasar a la <\/span>siguiente etapa<\/span> de su relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, cuando se trata de usted y su pareja, las cosas no est\u00e1n ni cerca de esto. <\/span><\/p>\n

En su lugar, se ve cada uno de estos <\/span>retos en las relaciones<\/span> como una amenaza que podr\u00eda poner fin a vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ninguno de los dos est\u00e1 listo para <\/span>asumir la responsabilidad<\/span> for their actions and instead of trying to work things out, the only thing that matters is who\u2019s right and who got what they wanted. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t look for closure, you look for a personal victory. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando luchas, te olvidas de tu <\/span>habilidades comunicativas<\/span>, you insult and humiliate each other, and even when you realize that you\u2019re wrong, you don\u2019t admit your mistakes, even if your life depends on it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Incluso cuando tu pareja trata de llamarte la atenci\u00f3n sobre tus acciones, lo ves como un ataque. En lugar de escuchar sus argumentos, tu <\/span>actitud defensiva<\/span> se despierta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Consequently, you never get to the bottom of the problem nor do you make sure it doesn’t repeat. <\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, ambos acaban resentidos, guardando rencor como munici\u00f3n para disparar a su pareja en cuanto surja la pr\u00f3xima oportunidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. Y a qui\u00e9n le importa m\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Whether you’re aware of this or not, the final goal of each one of these <\/span>luchas de poder<\/span> es simplemente una cosa: no ser el que <\/span>ama m\u00e1s<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You make your partner jealous and don’t want to be the one who first professes love, the one who forgives more, or the one who initiates dates just out of fear that you’ll be left hanging. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1, este tipo de comportamiento es comprensible y, de alguna manera, aceptable al principio. <\/span>etapa del amor<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re overly careful because you still don’t know who you’re dealing with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared that you’re the only one who fell in love while the other person couldn’t care less, and you don’t want to make a fool out of yourself by exposing your true emotions right away. <\/span><\/p>\n

Neither of you wants to be the one who says “I love you” first and you don’t want to admit how crazy you actually are for the other person, until you\u2019re certain of their emotions too. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t want to be the first to show your vulnerabilities, who invests in more effort and shows more affection, and who puts themselves out there completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que te niegas a derribar los gruesos muros que rodean tu verdadera personalidad y sigues actuando sin coraz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, una vez que su <\/span>relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/span> alcanza el <\/span>siguiente etapa<\/span>Todo esto deber\u00eda ser cosa del pasado. <\/span><\/p>\n

En <\/span>periodo de luna de miel<\/span> is over and you two are still together, which makes it obvious that you love each other. So what\u2019s the point of faking indifference? <\/span><\/p>\n

En su lugar, el final del <\/span>etapa de lucha por el poder<\/span> es el momento en el que ambos deb\u00e9is esforzaros por demostraros mutuamente la intensidad y la fuerza de vuestro amor incondicional. <\/span><\/p>\n

The period in which you should compete in who loves whom more, instead of doing everything in your power to show that you’re the one who cares less. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Juegas a juegos mentales<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Env\u00edo de se\u00f1ales contradictorias, <\/span>soplando fr\u00edo y calor<\/span><\/a>, pretending to be hard to get \u2013 these are all signs of low <\/span>autoestima<\/span> e inseguridades. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lamentablemente, esto se ha convertido en un patr\u00f3n habitual en la mayor\u00eda de los pa\u00edses. <\/span>nuevas relaciones<\/span> en las citas modernas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, what\u2019s even worse is when this kind of behavior continues \u2013 and this is what’s happening to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de tener <\/span>comunicaci\u00f3n abierta<\/span> y ser completamente sincero con tu pareja sobre los sentimientos, deseos, miedos m\u00e1s profundos y objetivos de relaci\u00f3n de ambos, haces completamente lo contrario. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re bothered with something your significant other did, you give them the silent treatment, instead of talking things through like adults. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of telling them when you’re hurt and kindly asking them not to repeat their mistakes, you plot your revenge and wait for the best opportunity to get even.<\/span><\/p>\n

Neither of you is consistent and you’re not constants in each other’s lives. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, you’re always in some kind of an on-and-off relationship in which you basically never know where you stand. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are periods when you act like you couldn’t live without each other and then days when you act like each other\u2019s worst enemy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vas y vienes, y est\u00e1s atrapado en un c\u00edrculo sin fin de <\/span>rupturas<\/span> and makeups, in which it\u2019s only important who came crawling back more often and who was the one who left more times. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your relationship would be non-existent if you’re both not putting in effort into dissecting the other person’s texts, words, and actions. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nada est\u00e1 claro y nunca se sabe lo que deparar\u00e1 el ma\u00f1ana. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, this might sound thrilling \u2013 it\u2019s never boring and it keeps the sparkle alive. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, este tipo de comportamiento es una bandera roja importante y definitivamente no es una base para una relaci\u00f3n funcional en el futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

10. Se menosprecian unos a otros<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Otra clara se\u00f1al de que una pareja se enfrenta a <\/span>luchas de poder<\/span> (o pasando por un <\/span>etapa de lucha por el poder<\/span>) en una relaci\u00f3n es la forma en que aprovechan cada oportunidad para menospreciar al otro. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see, when you’re in a mature relationship, you and your significant other have <\/span>comunicaci\u00f3n abierta<\/span> and can tell each other everything, but as relaxed as you are, you don’t call each other names nor do you use jokes that you know might hurt the other person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bueno, contigo y tu pareja, todo es muy diferente. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re constantly insulting humiliating each other (especially in front of others) and do everything you can to show the other person they’re beneath you in every way possible. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of praising your loved one, you’re using every opportunity to point out their flaws, make them look bad, and feel as if they’re <\/span>insuficiente<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Es obvio que ambos quer\u00e9is ser dominantes y pens\u00e1is que la \u00fanica forma de conseguirlo es devaluar al m\u00e1ximo a la otra persona. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al mismo tiempo, ambos se niegan a aceptar que si quieren que su relaci\u00f3n funcione, tienen que ser un equipo. <\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no leader and no follower \u2013 you’re equal partners who should go through life shoulder to shoulder next to each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

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According to most relationship experts, a power struggle is nothing uncommon in the beginning of a relationship with someone new. You want to show this person that they can\u2019t play with you and you see this as a way of earning their respect. Even though this is childish and completely useless, power struggles in new…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":51062,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51049","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1289075416.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51049","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=51049"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51049\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/51062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=51049"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=51049"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=51049"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}