{"id":51068,"date":"2020-08-13T16:20:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T16:20:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51068"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:19:59","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:19:59","slug":"la-guia-definitiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-guia-definitiva\/","title":{"rendered":"La gu\u00eda definitiva para seducir a tu mujer"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’re wondering how to seduce your wife like a pro and bring the spark back in your marriage, then you just landed in the right place!<\/p>\n

Cuando acababas de empezar a salir, todo era nuevo, emocionante y fresco como una brisa de verano.<\/p>\n

Seducing your then girlfriend that would become your future wife was easy as pie \u2013 you always knew which buttons to press in order to make her feel special and get her in the mood, right?<\/p>\n

Your sexual desire and emotional connection was peaking like a porn star’s career.<\/p>\n

Your sex life consisted of long foreplays, hot outfits, sexy lingerie, dirty text messages on a daily basis \u2013 you name it. <\/p>\n

En aquel entonces era imposible que tu deseo sexual o conexi\u00f3n emocional<\/a> menguara o desapareciera porque cada encuentro amoroso se sent\u00eda como si fuera la primera vez.<\/p>\n

Cada caricia era como si la pasi\u00f3n y el deseo te recorrieran el cuerpo.<\/p>\n

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Y luego, despu\u00e9s de una relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/a>de repente te despiertas como un hombre casado.<\/p>\n

Tu mujer te rega\u00f1a por tus calcetines sucios debajo de la cama, los ni\u00f1os gritan por la casa (si los tienes), lo m\u00e1s parecido a la intimidad f\u00edsica es cuando tocas accidentalmente a tu mujer mientras duermes (y a veces incluso te disculpas por ello).<\/p>\n

Empiezas a preguntarte qui\u00e9n sustituy\u00f3 a esa mujer sexy y salvaje de la que una vez te enamoraste, porque esta <\/i><\/b>tipo de mujer<\/i><\/b> es imposible <\/i><\/b>encender<\/i><\/b>...tocar, por no hablar de cualquier otra cosa. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Este <\/i><\/b>tipo de mujer<\/i><\/b> est\u00e1 constantemente quej\u00e1ndose de cosas al azar y matando a su <\/i><\/b>deseo sexual<\/i><\/b> con la menci\u00f3n de calcetines sucios, platos y cientos de otras cosas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Bueno, amigo m\u00edo, as\u00ed es como funciona la vida matrimonial.<\/p>\n

Os pele\u00e1is, os grit\u00e1is, la lista de posibles discusiones es cada vez m\u00e1s larga, os re\u00eds, viv\u00eds. Y la \u00fanica forma de devolver la chispa a tu matrimonio es aprender a seducir a tu mujer.<\/p>\n

Yup. If you want to stop hearing sentences like \u201cI have a headache,\u201d <\/i>o \u201cDamn it, I told you to wash the dishes today and not tomorrow,\u201d <\/i>you\u2019ll need to refresh your memory on the charms of seducing because a happy and content woman equals a happy marriage.<\/p>\n

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De hecho, el arte de la seducci\u00f3n es tu mejor amigo cuando se trata del matrimonio, porque mantener viva la chispa es un trabajo a tiempo completo y no s\u00f3lo algo reservado para el principio de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

A woman’s desire needs to be nourished in order to be constant and flourish into something bigger and greater.<\/b><\/p>\n

Porque esforzarse est\u00e1 de moda.<\/b><\/p>\n

Being a nice guy will not help you boost your marriage if you don’t learn the art of seduction, which will help take your marriage to the next level. <\/p>\n

Su matrimonio se llenar\u00e1 de pasi\u00f3n una vez que aprenda a interactuar con su esposa en el nivel que presiona esos botones de nuevo y hacerla sentir especial, amado y apreciado. <\/p>\n

And here’s a step by step guide on how to do it! So, buckle up and let’s get started!<\/p>\n

PASO 1: Recu\u00e9rdate a ti mismo por qu\u00e9 te enamoraste de ella en primer lugar<\/h2>\n

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In order to be able to seduce your wife, you need to make sure that you’re doing it because you WANT to and not because you HAVE TO.<\/p>\n

If you’re intentions are purely physical, your woman will notice it and you won\u2019t be able to seduce her properly.<\/p>\n

Women have this sense that tells them whenever someone is being disingenuous with them. They don’t fall for fake words or actions.<\/p>\n

Seducir a una mujer es llegar primero a su coraz\u00f3n y no s\u00f3lo prepararla para hacer el amor. <\/p>\n

And that’s why you need to remind yourself of the reasons why you fell in love with her in the first place.<\/p>\n

Think about the first time you saw her, about that bright spark in her eyes, her warmth\u2026<\/p>\n

Piensa en tu primera cita, en su sonrisa, en vosotros paseando de la mano como dos adolescentes enamorados.<\/p>\n

Think about her unique personality. What attracted you to her most? Think about that feeling when she said \u201cyes\u201d and made you feel like the happiest man alive.<\/p>\n

Y luego preg\u00fantate si quieres hacer que esa mujer vuelva a estar feliz, contenta y amada. <\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantate si quieres que vuelva la vieja chispa a tu matrimonio porque realmente lo deseas de todo coraz\u00f3n y no porque sientes que debes hacerlo.<\/p>\n

If your intentions are in the right place, then you know you’re ready to start reviving your passion and making your wife the happiest woman on earth.<\/p>\n

PASO 2: Empieza a responsabilizarte de tus acciones (y de tus no acciones)<\/h2>\n

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Los hombres tienen la idea de que si una mujer les rechaza con una excusa como tener un fuerte dolor de cabeza (por mil\u00e9sima vez hasta ahora), lo \u00fanico que tienen que hacer es esperar y las cosas volver\u00e1n a su sitio por s\u00ed solas. <\/p>\n

\u00a1No!<\/p>\n

If a woman tells you one time that she’s not in the mood because of a headache, then she’s probably not lying.<\/p>\n

But, if a woman constantly repeats the same thing every time she senses that you’re initiating sexy time, then know it\u2019s no coincidence and there’s a serious reason behind it.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de esperar a que las cosas se solucionen por s\u00ed solas, empieza a pensar si podr\u00edas hacer algo diferente que la ayude a abrirse y a aumentar su deseo sexual<\/a> y necesidad de conexi\u00f3n. En resumen, empieza a asumir responsabilidades tanto por tus acciones como por tus no acciones.<\/p>\n

Rebobina la pel\u00edcula en tu cabeza y piensa si ha ocurrido algo antes que pueda haberla hecho sentirse as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Or think about whether you’ve given her enough attention, whether you made her feel special from time to time, or you just waited as a passive observer.<\/p>\n

En lugar de quedarte esperando a que las cosas se resuelvan solas, empieza a hacer las siguientes cosas que har\u00e1n que se vuelva a enamorar de ti.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 se\u00f1ales de una esposa distante emocionalmente y por qu\u00e9 se volvi\u00f3 as\u00ed<\/a><\/p>\n

PASO 3: Al\u00e9grale el d\u00eda con peque\u00f1as cosas que signifiquen MUCHO<\/h2>\n

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Did you know that your performance during the day and every word you say can greatly influence your wife’s sex drive?<\/p>\n

Every manual on a happy marriage tells you the same thing: It\u2019s all in the little things! Because women memorize EVERYTHING.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll remember if you said something insulting, if you neglected her, if you gave her that look, if you forgot to do something, if you were just a couch potato uninterested in anything, and especially if you put your dirty socks under the bed.<\/p>\n

Se acordar\u00e1 de todo ello y se sentir\u00e1 decepcionada, poco respetada y apreciada.<\/p>\n

And when a woman feels that way, she\u2019s definitely not in a mood for anything, let alone sex. <\/p>\n

Now, I’m not telling you that you should do things only to prepare her for some action. No.<\/p>\n

Debes alegrarle el d\u00eda con peque\u00f1as cosas para que se sienta querida en primer lugar, y luego compartir ese amor con ella entre las s\u00e1banas. <\/p>\n

You can help her with laundry, dishes, you can take the kids to school, you can prepare her favorite meal, you can make her a coffee the way she likes it, you can compliment her choice of outfit that day, you can hug her…<\/b><\/p>\n

Todas estas cosas no te quitar\u00e1n mucho tiempo, pero significar\u00e1n mucho para ella.<\/p>\n

And even if you fuck some things up in the process, she won\u2019t get mad that easily because she\u2019ll see that you’re trying. And trying means caring about her feelings.<\/p>\n

PASO 4: Mostrar afecto<\/h2>\n

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Remember when you were still dating and you\u2019d kiss passionately like there’s no tomorrow.<\/p>\n

You\u2019d never forget to kiss her when you parted and always texted her once you got home. You were in touch with each other on a daily basis, both physically and mentally.<\/p>\n

En matrimonio, mostrar afecto<\/a> se convierte en una tarea porque la gente se vuelve perezosa.<\/p>\n

They think that once they’re married, it automatically means they should stop making an effort because their job here is done.<\/p>\n

Lograron conquistar a esa mujer especial y ahora les pertenece.<\/p>\n

Well, you might have succeeded in winning her, but if you don’t continue making an effort to continue doing so, your affection, passion, and love will slowly start fading.<\/p>\n

Si quieres aprender a seducir a tu mujer como es debido, tienes que empezar a mostrar afecto a diario. <\/p>\n

Abr\u00e1zala<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Abr\u00e1zala<\/a> por la ma\u00f1ana cuando se despierte, varias veces durante el d\u00eda y cuando se vaya a dormir.<\/p>\n

Hugging helps women release a hormone called oxytocin \u2013 a feel good hormone \u2013 which makes her feel loved. <\/p>\n

B\u00e9sala<\/h3>\n

\"en<\/p>\n

Kiss her on her forehead (especially when you’re leaving for work) because this will make her feel utterly loved and special.<\/p>\n

Kiss her passionately whenever you get the chance, kiss her on her cheek when she’s being silly, kiss her arms and whole body to show her how much you’re crazy about her.<\/p>\n

Dale un masaje<\/h3>\n

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Make sure to give her a massage after a long day at work and especially when she’s complaining that she is feeling tired or has a headache.<\/p>\n

El masaje relajar\u00e1 tanto su cuerpo como su mente, e incluso puede llevarla a algo m\u00e1s picante, lo que la har\u00e1 sentirse a\u00fan mejor. <\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, aseg\u00farate de a\u00f1adir algunas velas arom\u00e1ticas, una copa de vino y otros remedios rom\u00e1nticos que a\u00f1adir\u00e1n ese toque especial.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantale por su d\u00eda<\/h3>\n

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Mucha gente cree que las muestras de afecto est\u00e1n espec\u00edficamente relacionadas con el afecto f\u00edsico. Pero esto no es cierto.<\/p>\n

You can show your affection through merely words \u2013 by asking her about her day and listening carefully to what she has to say.<\/p>\n

This will let her know that you’re interested in what\u2019s going on in her life and that she’s not alone.<\/p>\n

This will reassure her that she can rely on you, her fellow husband, and that she doesn’t have to carry all of her burdens alone. That she has a safe place to vent when needed and is understood.<\/p>\n

PASO 5: Haz que se sienta especial<\/a><\/h2>\n

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There’s not a single soul on earth who doesn’t enjoy when someone makes them feel special.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the ultimate sign of respect, love, and affection. Making someone feel special means telling them you’re there for them now and always, and that you’re willing to go out of your way if needed only to make them feel good.<\/p>\n

Y probablemente lo practicabas antes de casarte porque era una parte esencial de tu plan para conquistarla.<\/p>\n

And now you have to keep doing the same thing if you want to learn how to seduce her and let her know that she’s still that special woman you once fell in love with!<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll make her feel special if you:<\/p>\n

Hazla re\u00edr<\/h3>\n

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Antes de casarte, probablemente te sab\u00edas de memoria todos los chistes de Internet y te asegurabas de incorporarlos en cada cita para hacerla re\u00edr.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same in marriage as well. Seducing means making your woman feel relaxed, blissful, and happy. <\/p>\n

Y re\u00edrse har\u00e1 exactamente eso. As\u00ed que, en lugar de estar de mal humor por algo malo que haya pasado, r\u00edete y saca lo mejor de la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Tell her a joke here and there, especially when she’s feeling off. Retell her funny scenarios from your work so that she can be a part of your daily life, too.<\/p>\n

Hazla re\u00edr siempre que tengas ocasi\u00f3n s\u00f3lo para ver su preciosa sonrisa y recordarle que te importa c\u00f3mo se siente.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: How To Make A Girl Laugh (4 Situations To Work Your Charm And Avoid Major Turn – Offs)<\/a><\/p>\n

Sorpr\u00e9ndela<\/h3>\n

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I think there’s no need to accentuate the fact that women love surprises! And not just women \u2013 we all love being surprised because it’s a perfect escape from routine and daily chores. <\/p>\n

You can surprise her by sending her flowers or lunch to her workplace, by buying her new sexy lingerie that will spice up your sex life, by writing on a piece of paper a few reasons why you’re so crazy about her and hiding it underneath her pillow.<\/p>\n

Puedes planear un viaje sorpresa por carretera a alg\u00fan lugar preferiblemente rom\u00e1ntico o al lugar donde os conocisteis. <\/p>\n

Puede sorprenderla abraz\u00e1ndola por detr\u00e1s<\/a> when she least expects it and then kissing her passionately, by telling her how beautiful she is when she complains about her appearance, by making DIY gifts for her birthday that\u2019ll let her know how much effort you\u2019re willing to put into her happiness.<\/p>\n

Hazle cumplidos<\/h3>\n

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Los cumplidos para una mujer son como el agua para una flor. Por desgracia, muchos hombres lo olvidan cuando se casan.<\/p>\n

Piensan que sus mujeres ya deber\u00edan haber aprendido que est\u00e1n guapas porque ya se lo han dicho muchas veces. Pero, al igual que los hombres, las mujeres a veces tambi\u00e9n se sienten inseguras.<\/p>\n

Sometimes they need reassurance that their dress looks beautiful on them, that their hairstyle or the color of lipstick fits their outfit, that they’re still the same hot woman you once fell in love with. And that’s where you come in!<\/p>\n

Si quieres seducir a tu mujer y hacerle saber lo mucho que significa para ti, aseg\u00farate de piropearla siempre que tengas ocasi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

The only rule when it comes to compliments is that they have to be genuine. If they’re not, then they’re not real \u2013 and she\u2019ll sense it. <\/p>\n

Whenever you feel like telling your woman how beautiful she is, don’t just keep it for yourself because you assume that she probably already knows it.<\/p>\n

Make it part of your everyday life, because the more you compliment her, the more she’ll feel good in her skin.<\/p>\n

The more you compliment her and make her feel special, the more she’ll be relaxed and satisfied.<\/p>\n

Because by doing that, you\u2019ll erase all of her insecurities and make her feel truly loved and beautiful.<\/p>\n

And when a woman feels loved and beautiful, she’s able to feel sexy as well!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Los 20 mejores piropos para chicas (haz que se sienta especial)<\/a><\/p>\n

Trabaja en ti mismo<\/h3>\n

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Just because you’re married now, this doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t keep improving yourself and investing in yourself.<\/p>\n

Quieres que esa mujer se sienta orgullosa de haberte elegido como compa\u00f1ero de vida, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

And that’s why you need to keep working on you so that you show her that you’re willing to become the best version of yourself.<\/p>\n

Trust me, there’s nothing sexier than that.<\/p>\n

Si quieres seducir a tu mujer como un profesional, plant\u00e9ate ir al gimnasio al menos tres veces por semana (si puedes), ponte presentable eligiendo ropa bonita (aunque s\u00f3lo sea para estar por casa), mant\u00e9n el pelo bonito y limpio y cuida especialmente tu higiene.<\/p>\n

If you don’t have a hobby or something you’re passionate about, then it’s time to find something you enjoy doing, something that makes your day.<\/p>\n

Puede ser cualquier cosa, desde cocina a clases de guitarra, etc. <\/p>\n

Haciendo todo esto, la impresionar\u00e1s. El esfuerzo y la pasi\u00f3n son las cualidades m\u00e1s sexys y uno de los mayores afrodis\u00edacos naturales.<\/p>\n

By doing all of this, you\u2019ll seduce her like a pro and make her proud for choosing you!<\/p>\n

PASO 6: Convi\u00e9rtete en un aut\u00e9ntico dador<\/h2>\n

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By becoming a true giver, I don’t mean showering your wife with expensive gifts. Instead, I mean giving your wife your attention, affection, and love without asking for anything in return.<\/p>\n

Once you achieve that level of giving, then you know you’re doing it right!<\/p>\n

It’s important to implement it in all aspects of your life together. Apart from the above-mentioned about showing affection and making her feel special, this also includes being a true giver when it comes to sex.<\/p>\n

En lugar de centrarte s\u00f3lo en satisfacer tus necesidades y tu placer, deber\u00edas centrarte en el de ella. Su placer debe ser tu placer, por raro que suene.<\/p>\n

That’s the real definition of being a true giver.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de que los preliminares duren lo suficiente para que ella pueda prepararse mental y f\u00edsicamente para la acci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que las mujeres necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo para prepararse para la intimidad porque necesitan m\u00e1s est\u00edmulos y atenci\u00f3n para relajarse y ponerse a tono. <\/p>\n

B\u00e9sale todo el cuerpo y t\u00f3cala sensualmente. En resumen, todo esto har\u00e1 que se sienta c\u00f3moda y muy querida.<\/p>\n

So, next time, don’t be surprised if she starts initiating sexy time on her own because she simply can’t get enough of it.<\/p>\n

Deja que te gu\u00ede por sus propios caminos hacia el placer.<\/b><\/p>\n

Deja que se exprese. Deja que te cuente las cosas que le gustan en la cama. Deja que se sienta c\u00f3moda compartiendo ideas contigo.<\/p>\n

Let her choose positions she prefers. She’s the one who knows her body and what feels best. <\/p>\n

Besa cada cent\u00edmetro de su cuerpo, sus estr\u00edas, sus brazos, sus piernas, su vientre. Haz que se sienta c\u00f3moda en su propia piel.<\/p>\n

Make her be in love with her body! So, instead of just focusing on what feels good for you, focus on what feels good for her and you\u2019ll succeed in making her feel truly loved and nurtured.<\/p>\n

Once you focus on her happiness and all the little things that mean so much to her, you\u2019ll succeed in bringing the old spark back in your marriage. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll succeed in <\/i><\/b>seduciendo a<\/i><\/b> y hacerla la esposa m\u00e1s feliz de todas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Cinco datos importantes que debe saber sobre la intimidad f\u00edsica en el matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n

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