{"id":51070,"date":"2020-06-15T21:19:01","date_gmt":"2020-06-15T21:19:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51070"},"modified":"2022-03-22T00:58:35","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T00:58:35","slug":"15-senales-inequivocas-de-que-nunca-te-casaras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-senales-inequivocas-de-que-nunca-te-casaras\/","title":{"rendered":"15 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que nunca te casar\u00e1s y por qu\u00e9 no pasa nada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>En el pasado, el prop\u00f3sito final de toda persona en la vida era encontrar un c\u00f3nyuge adecuado y formar una familia.<\/p>\n<p>Whoever didn\u2019t manage to do so was considered an outcast, and everyone thought something was wrong with them.<\/p>\n<p>It didn&#8217;t matter whether you were successful in other life fields; if you&#8217;re a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/true-love\/bff\/esto-es-lo-que-realmente-significa-ser-un-amigo-leal\/\">amigo leal<\/a>, a great worker and a kind person in general\u2014if you didn&#8217;t have a family of your own (which had to include a husband or a wife), you had nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Las parejas casadas eran una parte privilegiada de la sociedad, mientras que las mujeres y los hombres solteros eran menospreciados.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93962\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/happy-couple-posing-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"feliz pareja posando en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/happy-couple-posing-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/happy-couple-posing-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/happy-couple-posing-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por suerte, todo eso ha cambiado. Hoy en d\u00eda, la decisi\u00f3n de no casarse nunca no es un gran problema.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, more and more people start noticing the perks of a single life and make the choice of never saying: \u201cI do\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>But how can you know if you\u2019re one of those people and whether <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/romantic-love\/alma-gemela\/quedate-soltero-hasta-que-encuentres-a-alguien-a-quien-realmente-le-importes\/\">ser soltero<\/a> \u00bfes lo correcto para ti?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Just read the following signs, and if you can relate to most of them, it is pretty obvious that you\u2019ll probably never get married.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, lo mejor es que no hay nada remotamente malo en ello.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re a loner<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93959\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/girl-resting-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"chica descansando en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/girl-resting-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/girl-resting-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/girl-resting-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lamentablemente, seg\u00fan muchos estudios, la raz\u00f3n n\u00famero uno por la que la gente se casa es total y absolutamente err\u00f3nea.<\/p>\n<p>No, they don\u2019t experience a moment of epiphany in which they know they\u2019ve met the right one, and they don\u2019t do it out of love\u2014they do it out of fear of solitude.<\/p>\n<p>Ven a todos a su alrededor <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-te-preocupes-por-establecerte-tarde-preocupate-por-establecerte-con-el-hombre-equivocado\/\">establecerse<\/a>, and at one point, they become terrified that they\u2019ll end up alone without anyone to grow old next to.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando esto ocurre, todos los criterios desaparecen. Muchos se desesperan y se llevan por delante a la primera persona con la que se cruzan.<\/p>\n<p>Well, this is where you\u2019re different. It is not that you despite company, but to be honest, you\u2019re quite a loner.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, tienes muchos amigos y familiares con los que pasar el rato. Sin embargo, aprecias demasiado tu espacio personal y tu tiempo como para empezar a compartirlo con otra persona, a pesar del amor que puedas sentir por ella.<\/p>\n<p>You have your own habits and routines, and you don\u2019t allow anyone interfering in your schedule.<\/p>\n<p>Sabiendo todo esto, est\u00e1 claro por qu\u00e9 disfruta de su solter\u00eda y saca lo mejor de ella.<\/p>\n<p>You not having a romantic partner is not something life circumstances imposed on you\u2014you embraced your single life because you consciously chose it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tu independencia es crucial<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93967\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-having-dinner.jpg\" alt=\"mujer cenando\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-having-dinner.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-having-dinner-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/woman-having-dinner-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve always been self-sufficient. You knew you were more than enough, and you never needed another human being to give your existence meaning.<\/p>\n<p>It is not that you\u2019re incapable of loving\u2014you simply don\u2019t have a habit of hanging on to one person and allowing your entire world to collapse once they disappear.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, sabes que puedes salir adelante por ti mismo, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re an incredibly independent person who doesn\u2019t need anyone\u2019s guidance. And when I say independent, I mean truly <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/her\/alpha\/7-cosas-que-las-mujeres-ferozmente-independientes-desean-de-los-hombres\/\">independiente<\/a> on all levels: financially, emotionally, socially&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ever since you were a little kid, you haven\u2019t expected anyone to do your work for you, to resolve your problems or to get you out of trouble.<\/p>\n<p>You are not the type of person who is constantly looking for a shoulder to cry on or needs someone\u2019s assistance when it comes to choices you makes.<\/p>\n<p>You might listen to someone else\u2019s advice, but you\u2019re always the one who has the final say regarding all decisions in your life. In fact, you wouldn\u2019t be able to stand having someone tell you what to do.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need a leader or a tutor because you\u2019re capable of achieving everything you\u2019ve set your mind to without anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n<p>More importantly, you couldn\u2019t imagine your life deprived of this independence which makes up a crucial part of your personality or having to give someone a chance to limit your freedom in any way.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t believe in true love<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/beautiful-brunette-on-the-sidewalk.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa morena en la acera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/beautiful-brunette-on-the-sidewalk.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/beautiful-brunette-on-the-sidewalk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/beautiful-brunette-on-the-sidewalk-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si ponemos las cosas honestamente, la verdad es que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-ya-no-cree-en-el-amor\/\">don\u2019t believe in love<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Al menos, no en el amor rom\u00e1ntico, incondicional, que todo lo consume, que dura toda la vida y que tiene el poder de vencer cualquier obst\u00e1culo que aparezca en su camino.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t perceive it the way it is presented in romantic comedies: as this omnipotent force nothing and nobody can destroy.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t believe in the concepts of soulmates, true love, and twin flame connections.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re just too practical for these beliefs to guide you through life. You\u2019re not romantic, and you\u2019ve never dreamt of meeting your other half.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, usted cree que las personas pueden sentirse profundamente unidas. Sin embargo, seg\u00fan tu punto de vista, siempre hay un poco de ego\u00edsmo en todo amor rom\u00e1ntico, y eso no es algo que quieras para ti.<\/p>\n<p>You believe in mutual respect and appreciation. You think that two people can function together if they\u2019re compatible and convenient for each other\u2014not because a chemical in their brains and butterflies in their stomach told them they should.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, for you, the concept of forever and \u201cuntil death do us part\u201d is just a fairytale which is impossible to maintain in real life.<\/p>\n<p>Seg\u00fan su punto de vista, las personas se hartan tarde o temprano, pero siguen casadas porque no tienen otro sitio adonde ir.<\/p>\n<p>And if that is the point of marriage, you\u2019d rather pass it by.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re surrounded by negative examples<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93964\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-touches-woman-knee.jpg\" alt=\"hombre toca rodilla de mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-touches-woman-knee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-touches-woman-knee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-touches-woman-knee-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otra cosa que puede ser la raz\u00f3n por la que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estos-3-signos-del-zodiaco-ni-siquiera-se-imaginan-casandose\/\">don\u2019t want to get married<\/a> est\u00e1 en todo lo que ves mires donde mires.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t see love and respect. You see people living their lives in misery; you see serial cheaters, abusers\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you\u2019re a child of divorced parents. It is possible that you spent your entire life looking at the two of them arguing but remaining together just because of that piece of paper.<\/p>\n<p>O te das cuenta de que tanto tus amigas como tus amigos sufren en el matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>You see that married couples either end up with a nasty divorce or with the silent resentment of two people who can\u2019t stand each other but don\u2019t leave.<\/p>\n<p>De cualquier forma, para ti, parece que matrimonio es igual a infelicidad.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de todo lo que ha presenciado, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 cree que puede ser de otra manera?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY por qu\u00e9 te expones cuando es evidente que tienes cero posibilidades de \u00e9xito?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tiene miedo al cambio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93968\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/worried-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/worried-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/worried-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/worried-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Maybe this is something you wouldn\u2019t admit to anyone, including yourself, but the truth is that deep down, you\u2019re terrified of any unnecessary change.<\/p>\n<p>Disfrutas de tu vida tal y como es, y te encanta estar atrapado en tu zona de confort.<\/p>\n<p>El matrimonio marcar\u00eda inevitablemente algunas diferencias cruciales en su existencia cotidiana.<\/p>\n<p>Te guste o no, tendr\u00e1s que adaptarte a esta nueva persona que se ha convertido en una parte crucial de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>That is what scares you the most: having to modify yourself just to please someone else, having to change your daily habits and customs to fit the other person in, not being able to make important decisions without consulting them\u2026 and the list goes on.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not only that. You\u2019re also repulsed by the idea of bringing some minor differences to your life such as having to clear space in your clothes closet for your marital partner\u2019s clothes, disturbing your sleep schedule or seeing your friends less often.<\/p>\n<p>Alguien podr\u00eda llamarte cobarde, pero odias saltar a lo desconocido.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know how well you could get by in this new union, and you would rather remain blissfully uninformed than give it a shot in marriage and fail.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Odias las bodas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93958\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/girl-feeling-bored.jpg\" alt=\"chica aburrida\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/girl-feeling-bored.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/girl-feeling-bored-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/girl-feeling-bored-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re male or female: both boys and girls have dreamt of their wedding when they were kids.<\/p>\n<p>Most of us imagined the wedding dress or tuxedo we\u2019d be wearing and how that magical moment under the aisle would look.<\/p>\n<p>Well, you didn\u2019t. Moreover, you\u2019ve always despised even being invited to weddings.<\/p>\n<p>You see them as unnecessary and in most cases, tacky, and you don\u2019t see the point in spending this happy day surrounded by, among others, random friends and distant family members whom you couldn\u2019t care less about.<\/p>\n<p>Considera la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/una-carta-a-mi-mejor-amiga-el-dia-de-su-boda\/\">d\u00eda de la boda<\/a> una fuente de estr\u00e9s para los reci\u00e9n casados.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPodr\u00e1n permit\u00edrselo todo? \u00bfQuedar\u00e1n satisfechos todos los invitados?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSaldr\u00e1 todo seg\u00fan lo previsto?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Not only that, you were never into proposals either. You never saw any romance in a man going down on one knee and buying a ring he can\u2019t afford just to pop this infamous question.<\/p>\n<p>Who would consciously choose all of this just to make an impression? You surely wouldn\u2019t, even if your life depended on it.<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, \u00bfte has preguntado alguna vez si esto no es s\u00f3lo tu odio hacia el d\u00eda de la boda en s\u00ed?<\/p>\n<p>Could this be your subconscious repulsion towards the entire marriage thing and a subtle sign you don\u2019t want to get married?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Usted no es tradicional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93960\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/grom-and-bride-in-front-of-wedding-cake.jpg\" alt=\"grom y novia delante de la tarta nupcial\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/grom-and-bride-in-front-of-wedding-cake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/grom-and-bride-in-front-of-wedding-cake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/grom-and-bride-in-front-of-wedding-cake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>De hecho, a ti tampoco te gustaban las tradiciones y costumbres. No le ve\u00edas sentido a que la gente siguiera los h\u00e1bitos de sus antepasados, practicados hace d\u00e9cadas o incluso siglos, sin ninguna raz\u00f3n l\u00f3gica.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not someone who blindly follows stereotypes, and you do everything in your power to avoid blending into the masses.<\/p>\n<p>Your life decisions have nothing to do with societal standards and norms, so you never get pressured into doing something you actually don\u2019t want just so you won\u2019t be called a weirdo.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you\u2019re not afraid of anyone judging you or commenting on your life choices just because you decide to remain unwed.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t care about other people\u2019s opinions and expectations and don\u2019t let them guide you.<\/p>\n<p>Consequently, you don\u2019t think that finding a life partner and having kids should be every person\u2019s final goal and purpose in this world.<\/p>\n<p>No tienes ning\u00fan problema en quedarte solo, aunque eso contradiga todas las normas en las que te has criado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t believe in the institution of marriage<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93961\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/groom-putting-wedding-finger-on-his-bride.jpg\" alt=\"el novio poniendo el dedo nupcial a su novia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/groom-putting-wedding-finger-on-his-bride.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/groom-putting-wedding-finger-on-his-bride-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/groom-putting-wedding-finger-on-his-bride-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Para ti, un matrimonio legal no representa literalmente nada. Es s\u00f3lo un trozo de papel que no tiene ning\u00fan valor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Si amas a alguien y ese alguien te corresponde, pod\u00e9is pasar el resto de vuestra vida juntos, sin tener que rellenar ese tr\u00e1mite y firmar ese trozo de papel.<\/p>\n<p>De este modo, si alguna vez decid\u00eds separaros, podr\u00e9is simplemente alejaros el uno del otro, sin hacer un gran alboroto de ello y sin involucraros en diferentes procedimientos legales que hacen todo el proceso m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de lo que deber\u00eda ser.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00faltimo que quieres es tener que correr a los tribunales y divorciarte de tu c\u00f3nyuge delante de todo el mundo, adem\u00e1s de pasar por un doloroso desamor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, crees que la instituci\u00f3n del matrimonio no es m\u00e1s que una invenci\u00f3n social que no tiene ning\u00fan sentido real.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t mind living unwed with your loved one and never going down the aisle.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t want kids<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93963\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/happy-mom-with-daughter.jpg\" alt=\"mam\u00e1 feliz con su hija\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/happy-mom-with-daughter.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/happy-mom-with-daughter-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/happy-mom-with-daughter-768x516.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Contrary to popular opinion, it is not in everyone&#8217;s blood to want to have heirs. Some people don&#8217;t want kids, and that is their right.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Aunque puede que a\u00fan no est\u00e9s 100% seguro de esta decisi\u00f3n, lo cierto es que nunca fuiste de los que les gustan los ni\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p>You thought that this natural instinct would come to you with time, but that isn&#8217;t happening.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You simply love your life enough that you don&#8217;t want to change it. You don&#8217;t feel the need to have a child and don&#8217;t think you would be a good parent.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Algunos te llamar\u00e1n ego\u00edsta, pero tienes derecho a no querer ser responsable de traer a otro ser humano a este mundo cruel.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, being honest about this is way better than having kids just because society, your family or your significant other expects you to and then making everyone\u2019s lives a living hell.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you don&#8217;t have to get married in order to reproduce. You can always be a single parent or have kids with someone who won&#8217;t be your spouse.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>However, having this kind of attitude can also be a red flag that you&#8217;re not marriage material and that you couldn&#8217;t imagine yourself living a happy, married life.<\/p>\n<p>No obstante, si esto resulta ser un error y encuentras a una persona junto a la que quieres envejecer, aseg\u00farate de que desde el principio ten\u00e9is los mismos deseos y objetivos de futuro con respecto a los hijos (y a todo lo dem\u00e1s).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re looking for the perfect person<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93973\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"pareja junto al mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-by-the-sea-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another one of the signs that you\u2019ll never get married lies in your high standards. Don&#8217;t get me wrong\u2014I&#8217;m not accusing you of being <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/6-razones-por-las-que-las-mejores-mujeres-son-exigentes-con-los-hombres\/\">demasiado exigente<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m just pointing out that you have some deal breakers when it comes to the person you see as marriage material, which is a good thing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, se trata de alguien que deber\u00eda ser tu compa\u00f1ero de vida en los d\u00edas buenos y malos, y la persona cuyo rostro ser\u00e1 lo primero que veas el resto de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, es natural que todo el mundo tenga mucho cuidado a la hora de elegir a su pareja.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re someone who refuses to settle for less. You don&#8217;t want to get married to someone you&#8217;re not compatible with nor are you ready to end up stuck in a loveless marriage.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you&#8217;re looking for the perfect person who can reach all of your standards and criteria. Yes, there is a possibility of never finding someone like this, but that is a risk you&#8217;re willing to take.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After all, you&#8217;re perfectly aware that it is always better to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/6-razones-por-las-que-una-mujer-fuerte-seguira-soltera-hasta-que-llegue-el-hombre-adecuado\/\">permanecer soltero hasta que llegue la persona adecuada<\/a> que perder el tiempo y la energ\u00eda con las personas equivocadas.<\/p>\n<p>You would rather grow old alone than catch yourself wondering if you\u2019ve destroyed your entire life by making this bad choice.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Huyes del compromiso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93957\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-making-plans-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja haciendo planes\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-making-plans-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-making-plans-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-making-plans-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, las personas a las que les repugna la idea del matrimonio son <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/11-senales-de-que-estas-saliendo-con-alguien-con-fobia-al-compromiso\/\">f\u00f3bicos al compromiso<\/a>. And if you&#8217;re one of them, it is a clear sign you will never settle down, simply because you see it as your biggest nightmare.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>La monogamia y las relaciones comprometidas y duraderas te dan mucho miedo. Te sientes atrapado y enjaulado ante la mera idea de tener que pasar el resto de tus d\u00edas junto a una sola persona.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, prefieres las relaciones abiertas y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-razones-por-las-que-ha-renunciado-a-las-relaciones-esporadicas\/\">ligues casuales<\/a>. Te gustan los acuerdos en los que sales con la otra persona siempre que te apetece.<\/p>\n<p>Los dos lo pas\u00e1is bien, pero ninguno de los dos est\u00e1 agobiado por cosas como la monogamia o el compromiso.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Si esto es algo con lo que te sientes identificado, est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que claro que el matrimonio simplemente no es para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong\u2014not being able to devote yourself completely to another person is your right; you just have to be completely honest about it in time, instead of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/guiar-a-alguien\/\">guiar a alguien<\/a>, assuring them they&#8217;re in a healthy relationship while they&#8217;re actually dealing with a hidden commitment-phobe.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re haunted by past traumas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93965\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/sad-girl-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"chica triste en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/sad-girl-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/sad-girl-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/sad-girl-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Normalmente, las personas que deciden que nunca se van a casar son las que han tenido una vida amorosa de mierda hasta ese momento.<\/p>\n<p>Si pas\u00f3 por un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/sobrevivir-a-una-mala-ruptura-prospera\/\">horrible ruptura<\/a>, if you&#8217;ve been played, abandoned or cheated on, it is normal that you&#8217;ve lost faith in love and that you see red flags everywhere you look.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>En el pasado, eras un rom\u00e1ntico empedernido que pon\u00eda el amor en primer lugar. Hacer que tu relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica funcionara era tu prioridad n\u00famero uno.<\/p>\n<p>No hab\u00eda duda de que quer\u00edas hijos, y no hab\u00eda se\u00f1ales de la horrible ruptura que ocurri\u00f3 despu\u00e9s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, de la nada, toda tu vida se derrumb\u00f3. La persona en la que m\u00e1s confiabas y alguien que pensabas que nunca iba a hacerte da\u00f1o te caus\u00f3 un destrozo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/dentro-de-la-mente-chica-con-el-corazon-roto\/\">desamor<\/a> que dej\u00f3 secuelas imborrables en ti incluso ahora.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After all this time, you&#8217;re still haunted by your past traumas and demons, which you can&#8217;t seem to get rid of.<\/p>\n<p>Ever since all of this happened, you haven&#8217;t had a healthy relationship because whenever you meet someone new, you see the warning signs of their toxicity, even when there are none.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So, you can&#8217;t help but think: &#8220;Why get married?&#8221;, when you&#8217;ll only end up disappointed, betrayed and heartbroken one way or another. Isn&#8217;t it better to enjoy all the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/soltero-vs-en-una-relacion-los-beneficios-y-defectos-de-su-estado\/\">ventajas de la solter\u00eda<\/a>?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tu carrera y tu vida social son lo primero<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93966\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-female-friends-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"amigas sonrientes al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-female-friends-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-female-friends-outdoor-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-female-friends-outdoor-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you can\u2019t be both career-oriented and have a successful family life. However, the truth is that one has to suffer for the other.<\/p>\n<p>Eso es lo que quieres evitar, porque para ti tu carrera y tu vida social son siempre lo primero.<\/p>\n<p>Quieres progresar y ser el mejor en lo que haces, y lo que m\u00e1s te gusta es pasar tiempo con tus amigos.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e1sicamente, tienes todas tus prioridades claras, y lo \u00faltimo que necesitas es que alguien interfiera en ellas.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to dedicate your entire life to having a spouse and children without the possibility of putting all of your energy into your work.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, preferir\u00eda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/9-razones-por-las-que-las-mujeres-fuertes-eligen-quedarse-solteras\/\">seguir siendo una mujer soltera<\/a> or man than getting yourself into a situation where you\u2019re torn between your career and your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to pick because you\u2019ve already made your choice.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re not willing to compromise<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"pareja cogida de la mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-holding-hands.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-holding-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-holding-hands-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-razones-que-provocan-el-fin-de-una-relacion-duradera\/\">relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/a>Si quieres que las cosas funcionen, tienes que llegar a un acuerdo con la otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00eda injusto que todo saliera a tu manera mientras la otra persona obedece ciegamente todo lo que dices y haces.<\/p>\n<p>Well, you\u2019re simply not capable of compromising and changing your lifestyle to please someone else, as much as you love them<\/p>\n<p>Algunos podr\u00edan llamarte ego\u00edsta, pero lo cierto es que vives tu vida bajo tus propios t\u00e9rminos.<\/p>\n<p>You have your own rules you follow, and you don\u2019t want to put an effort into finding common ground with your significant other.<\/p>\n<p>You put your own needs in first place and don\u2019t want to be bothered by satisfying someone else\u2019s. And as long as you\u2019re honest about it, it is perfectly fine to behave in this manner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You simply don\u2019t want to&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-after-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"pareja tras discutir\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-after-arguing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-after-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-after-arguing-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La \u00faltima se\u00f1al de que nunca te casar\u00e1s reside en la falta de deseo que sientes por ello. No hay ninguna raz\u00f3n especial para tu repulsi\u00f3n hacia el matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>You simply don\u2019t see yourself functioning in married life, and you were never drawn to the idea of marriage.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t mind being in romantic relationships, but you never wanted to get married.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Al principio, pensabas que este deseo llegar\u00eda con el tiempo, a medida que crecieras y maduraras. Sin embargo, eso nunca ocurri\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>If this is something you can relate to, I\u2019m begging you not to do anything you don\u2019t truly want, just because \u201cthat is how things should be\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t judge yourself for feeling this way, and have the courage to live your life the way you want it, instead of sentencing yourself to misery.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93969\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/15-Surefire-Signs-You-Will-Never-Get-Married-And-Why-That\u2019s-Perfectly-Fine-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"15 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que nunca te casar\u00e1s y por qu\u00e9 no pasa nada\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/15-Surefire-Signs-You-Will-Never-Get-Married-And-Why-That\u2019s-Perfectly-Fine-Pinterest.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/15-Surefire-Signs-You-Will-Never-Get-Married-And-Why-That\u2019s-Perfectly-Fine-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Back in the past, every person\u2019s final purpose in life was to find a suitable spouse and start a family. Whoever didn\u2019t manage to do so was considered an outcast, and everyone thought something was wrong with them. It didn&#8217;t matter whether you were successful in other life fields; if you&#8217;re a loyal friend, a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":93970,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/15-Surefire-Signs-You-Will-Never-Get-Married-And-Why-That\u2019s-Perfectly-Fine.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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