You feel free, rejuvenated, and loved. You feel like anything is possible when you’re together because the world, all of a sudden, doesn’t have limits.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
You seek dating advice and relationship advice from everywhere and everyone because you’re so anxious that you’ll fuck things up \u2013 and that’s why you landed up here reading this.<\/p>\n
No matter which stage of the relationship you’re at right now, use ESTA GU\u00cdA<\/a> para no cometer errores.<\/p>\n You were looking for the things that characterize the first three months of a relationship so that you can know where you stand. And you\u2019ve done the right thing!<\/p>\n Ver\u00e1s, cuando entras en un <\/b>nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/b>b\u00e1sicamente se introduce el <\/b>fase de luna de miel,<\/b> which lasts for 90 days \u2013 in other words, 3 <\/b>meses de noviazgo<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n And this phase is critical. It\u2019s at this time when you usually decide whether or not you’re ready for a <\/b>relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/b> \u2013 whether you’re ready to either take it to the <\/b>siguiente nivel<\/b> o <\/b>romper<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Many people start doubting their relationship at the three-month mark, so we could say it’s totally normal for you to feel this way also.<\/p>\n Al fin y al cabo, \u00bfc\u00f3mo vas a saber con seguridad que lo que tienes ahora se convertir\u00e1 en una relaci\u00f3n sana o en algo totalmente opuesto?<\/p>\n No worries \u2013 that’s why I’m here today. The first part consists of a list of changes that are bound to (and should) happen in every 3-month relationship.<\/p>\n La segunda parte trata de los cambios que podr\u00edan ser se\u00f1ales de alarma a las que deber\u00eda prestar especial atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Aseg\u00farate de que no haya sorpresas y aprende todo lo que hay que saber sobre la psique masculina y la fuerza que impulsa sus acciones en las relaciones: HAGA CLIC AQU\u00cd.<\/a><\/p>\n 3 MESES DE RELACI\u00d3N: 12 CAMBIOS INEVITABLES<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n Como ya se ha dicho anteriormente, la fase de luna de miel <\/a>es como entrar en un nuevo mundo m\u00e1gico lleno de diversi\u00f3n y emoci\u00f3n, y dura aproximadamente tres meses.<\/p>\n Esta fase es tan adictiva que la mayor\u00eda de nosotros queremos quedarnos ah\u00ed para siempre con tal de seguir sintiendo esa dicha.<\/p>\n But, unfortunately, this is not really possible because at some point (usually after three months), the honeymoon phase will begin to fade. But, don’t be mistaken.<\/p>\n This doesn’t mean that your feelings will begin to fade or anything like that.<\/p>\n It means that all that bliss and magic that you’ve felt from the beginning will start turning into something more serious.<\/p>\n When you enter a relationship, it feels like you’ve just been born and everything around you is new, therefore, exciting.<\/p>\n Pero, cuando pasa el tiempo, te acostumbras a todas esas cosas y la magia va desapareciendo poco a poco.<\/p>\n The exact same thing happens to relationships as well, and this is perfectly normal because it means that you’re evolving!<\/p>\n When you just start dating, you’re overly concerned about basically everything.<\/p>\n You worry that you’re texting them too much, you’re afraid that you’re giving them too many likes on social media, you’re scared that they’ll think you’re playing hard to get, you don’t want to seem needy or pushy, you wait for a specific sequence of things to take place before you decide to take some action.<\/p>\n All of these can be classified as sweet, dating games that every couple goes through. It shows that you like each other a lot and that’s why you’re so anxious about not ruining anything.<\/p>\n But, after three months have passed, you’ll be more relaxed around each other and you won’t think about all those things that much.<\/p>\n You won’t worry about what they will think of you if you send them that specific text message at a specific time, or whatever the case may be. You’ll be stress-free and casual!<\/p>\n Every relationship progresses at its own pace and there isn’t a guide that can tell you when the right time is to say those three words.<\/p>\n For that, you have to follow your heart and listen to your feelings. Usually, people start feeling like they’re ready to say Te quiero<\/i> despu\u00e9s de tres meses o m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n After so much time spent together and all the fun you\u2019ve had, you will start feeling those warm sensations telling you that you should profess your love because you’re perfectly ready.<\/p>\n You will often fantasize about saying it and even though you’ll feel like you’re ready, it\u2019s understandable that you may have certain levels of anxiety about saying it, which is totally normal because it’s not something you say every day to someone!<\/p>\n When you just start dating, it’s you and them. You’re still two separate individuals in the process of uniting.<\/p>\n But, gradually, this changes as well and you start using the words “us” and “we” instead of “you” and “I.”<\/p>\n You start making both big and small future plans like going to a concert, visiting that one special place you’ve talked about, trying certain food, watching an addictive series that’s about to get released\u2026<\/p>\n Empiezas a pensar por los dos y no s\u00f3lo en tus propios deseos y anhelos.<\/p>\n Tus gustos y aversiones se convierten en los suyos o se convierten en un compromiso.<\/p>\n You make sure to plan things in advance because you want to keep spending every second with each other. You take care about each other’s happiness.<\/p>\n And that’s what the right relationship is all about.<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 diferencias entre una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica y una sana<\/a><\/p>\n Al principio de cada nueva relaci\u00f3n, pasas 90% de tu tiempo pensando en c\u00f3mo puedes impresionar a tu persona especial.<\/p>\n You choose perfect outfits, you never leave your house without shaving beforehand or doing your makeup (if you’re a girl), you take special care of your hairstyle, and so on.<\/p>\n You do all of this because you want everything to be perfect. You like them so much that you just can’t leave anything to chance.<\/p>\n Pero, despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, todo esto empezar\u00e1 a cambiar, lo que significa que estar\u00e9is totalmente de acuerdo en veros en ediciones informales.<\/p>\n No tendr\u00e9is ning\u00fan problema en veros sin afeitar, sin maquillaje, en pijama y con el pelo fatal.<\/p>\n But, this doesn’t mean that you should get lazy or that you will get lazy.<\/p>\n Seguir\u00e1s queriendo lucir tu mejor yo, pero de una forma m\u00e1s desenfadada, \u00a1lo cual no tiene precio!<\/p>\n Meeting each other’s friends for the first time was probably a fun experience, but it came with lots of anxiety as well.<\/p>\n Given that you wanted to leave a good impression, you just couldn’t be 100% relaxed in front of them.<\/p>\n Estabas tan preocupado por gustarles que literalmente te sent\u00edas como si estuvieras en una entrevista de trabajo en vez de en una quedada.<\/p>\n And that’s another perk of starting a new relationship. But, around three months, this also changes.<\/p>\n You\u2019re naturally more relaxed around each other’s friends. You\u2019re more casual and there are less awkward situations or silent moments.<\/p>\n A estas alturas, ya sabes muchas cosas sobre sus amigos y viceversa, y pasar tiempo con ellos empieza a sentirse como en casa.<\/p>\n No importa lo abierta que seas por naturaleza, nunca puedes serlo demasiado el primer d\u00eda y el primer mes, o los dos siguientes, porque crear confianza y un entorno sin preocupaciones en el que te sientas lo suficientemente segura y confiada para abrirse a las cosas<\/a> lleva tiempo.<\/p>\n After you’ve been together for some time, you start being more open about things such as your past love life and your emotions.<\/p>\n You\u2019re more open about literally everything \u2013 your secrets, all the embarrassing things that happened in your childhood, and the like.<\/p>\n Os sent\u00eds lo suficientemente c\u00f3modos como para llorar el uno delante del otro cuando vuestras emociones os lo piden.<\/p>\n You share all of your fears, talk about things that made you the person you are today, and open up about your life-changing events and people who had the strongest impact on your development \u2013your role models.<\/p>\n And you collect all of this data in your brain’s special compartment, nurture it, and later rewind all of it with a smile on your face.<\/p>\n When you’re still at the initial stages of getting to know each other, you spend lots of your time on the phone texting or calling each other.<\/p>\n Your phone becomes the main communication tool because you want to know everything about each other, and for that, you\u2019d need to be together 24\/7.<\/p>\n You know that’s quite impossible and that’s when your phone comes in handy.<\/p>\n That’s why you literally become attached to your phone every second of every day, impatiently waiting for them to reply to your text messages, return your missed call, and talk into the small hours until you fall asleep.<\/p>\n But this lasts for the first few months and after that, you won’t feel the need to be attached to your phone 24\/7 because you\u2019ll rather choose to save some topics for when you’re seeing each other in person.<\/p>\n En esta fase de la relaci\u00f3n, la comunicaci\u00f3n cara a cara se convierte en la principal herramienta para estrechar lazos e intercambiar ideas.<\/p>\n Como toda nueva relaci\u00f3n necesita un tiempo para progresar y para que las dos personas empiecen a abrirse, al principio no habr\u00e1 apenas peleas.<\/p>\n Why? Because you’re still trying to get to know each other, you don’t know each other’s likes and dislikes, points of view, and true personality.<\/p>\n When you’re still in the process of getting to know each other, there is no space for fights or arguments.<\/p>\n You just absorb everything, connect the dots, and create each other’s profiles in your heads.<\/p>\n Y entonces, s\u00f3lo despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, puede que empec\u00e9is a pelearos un poco m\u00e1s a menudo porque os sentir\u00e9is m\u00e1s c\u00f3modos, relajados y sin miedo a decir lo que realmente quer\u00e9is decir.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll open up more and more to each other, and arguments will be just an inevitable part of that process.<\/p>\n Fighting a bit more often, compromising, and accepting each other’s differences are clear signs of every healthy relationship!<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 discusiones que se\u00f1alan el principio del fin<\/a><\/p>\n Not everyone of us has the same opinion regarding introducing their family to the person they\u2019ve started dating.<\/p>\n Algunos optamos por hacerlo antes, y otros lo dejamos para m\u00e1s adelante. De nuevo, todo depende de la persona y de sus intenciones.<\/p>\n Usually, after a few months of dating, it comes naturally to the majority of us to start thinking about meeting each other’s family.<\/p>\n You want them to see who the beautiful-inside-and-out person you’re with is and share your joy with them.<\/p>\n Quieren unir a sus familias porque son una parte importante de su vida y de lo que son hoy.<\/p>\n Y quieres o\u00edr todas esas historias embarazosas de la infancia y detalles jugosos que s\u00f3lo los padres tienen el valor de contar.<\/p>\n As a matter of fact, parents enjoy retelling every detail from their child’s first steps to when they did something ultimately stupid yet no one could blame them for it because they were just kids.<\/p>\n There’s nothing more exciting in the whole world than the first few dates when you just start dating.<\/p>\n You’re full of romantic ideas and you want to visit every place together, which means spending lots of time mostly outside and doing all the fun activities suited to new couples.<\/p>\n A medida que avance la luna de miel, tambi\u00e9n cambiar\u00e1 el concepto de las citas nocturnas.<\/p>\n This means that at one point you’ll start spending most of your Friday nights on the couch watching Netflix and enjoying your favorite foods, without any regrets about not visiting a new exciting place together.<\/p>\n Over time, you’ll become totally casual and enjoy every second of each night spent curled up next to each other while watching your favorite TV shows.<\/p>\n After some time spent together (after a few months), you’ll become honest to the core about who you are \u2013 about your dislikes and likes, dreams, perspective on different things \u2013 and you\u2019ll also know each other’s flaws and quirks.<\/p>\n You won’t pretend that you’re okay with something just because you want to be polite.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll express your concern or discontent in a polite manner when you need to and expect the same from your partner.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll discuss things on a daily basis and learn to compromise when you can’t agree on something.<\/p>\n Ser honesto sobre qui\u00e9n eres realmente, aceptar todas tus rarezas y defectos y estar dispuesto a ceder son la base de toda relaci\u00f3n sana y exitosa en el futuro.<\/p>\n RELACI\u00d3N DE 3 MESES: 7 (POSIBLES) SE\u00d1ALES DE ALARMA<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n Now that we know all the changes that are bound to happen in a relationship after a few months, it’s time to move to more serious matters.<\/p>\n It’s time to learn about all the (potential) banderas rojas que podr\u00edan destruir cualquier relaci\u00f3n<\/a> (especialmente los nuevos, porque pueden esfumarse f\u00e1cilmente).<\/p>\n While it’s true that after three months, you will no longer feel the need to be attached to your phone 24\/7, this doesn’t mean that you should stop sending those cute, spontaneous texts that mean so much and can brighten your day.<\/p>\n Estos textos son una parte importante de toda relaci\u00f3n, porque ayudan a mantener viva la chispa.<\/p>\n And if you notice that, as time progresses, you’re less likely to send each other those cute texts or retell something funny that happened to you at work, you know that you’re subconsciously killing your relationship or preventing it from turning into something more serious.<\/p>\n Every dating or relationship coach will tell you the exact same thing: It\u2019s all in the little things. And, indeed, it is.<\/p>\n Mantener una relaci\u00f3n significa esforzarse por seguir sorprendi\u00e9ndose mutuamente con todas esas peque\u00f1as cosas que significan tanto.<\/p>\n Y si, en alg\u00fan momento, dejas de hacerlo, tu relaci\u00f3n empezar\u00e1 a perder poco a poco su encanto inicial y se convertir\u00e1 en una relaci\u00f3n sin amor.<\/p>\n Al igual que los mensajes espont\u00e1neos y las sorpresas, planear cosas divertidas es otro aspecto importante de una relaci\u00f3n sana y duradera.<\/p>\n It’s something that keeps your passion alive and should be an essential part of your everyday lives.<\/p>\n While watching Netflix and chilling on a Friday night is something you should definitely do, still this shouldn’t be the only thing that you do when you’re together.<\/p>\n It’s important to bring some variety into your relationship \u2013 variety means excitement.<\/p>\n Esta es probablemente una de las mayores se\u00f1ales de alarma de que tu relaci\u00f3n de 3 meses no durar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n If you’re still not feel at ease telling each other secrets, opening up, and being who you really are in front of each other, then you know there’s something just not right \u2013 something unsaid that will keep creating a huge gap between the two of you.<\/p>\n And if you’re not comfortable enough to be with each other, even after you’ve spent lots of time together, then you know you shouldn’t take this fact for granted.<\/p>\n Otra posible se\u00f1al de alarma que podr\u00eda aparecer en una relaci\u00f3n de 3 meses es la falta de conversaciones sobre planes de futuro.<\/p>\n Those partners who talk about their hopes, dreams, and future plans together are basically telling each other that they want to stay in each other\u2019s lives and make sure to include their partner in their every future activity and life-changing event.<\/p>\n Si tu relaci\u00f3n carece de este aspecto, deber\u00edas plantearte seriamente si vas por el buen camino o deber\u00edas cambiar de carril.<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: If You Can’t Talk To Him About These 5 Things, Your Relationship Has No Future<\/a><\/p>\n There’s a huge difference between making your relationship the ONLY priority and making your relationship a priority.<\/p>\n You should never make your relationship your only priority \u2013 it’s unhealthy for the both of you \u2013 but you should definitely treat it as a major priority.<\/p>\n This includes constant effort, surprising each other, not making excuses for why you haven’t showed up on a date, and the like.<\/p>\n Implica confianza, respeto mutuo, aprecio y luchar por lo que se tiene.<\/p>\n If there’s none of this, then you know your relationship won\u2019t last.<\/p>\n Las relaciones no son s\u00f3lo citas divertidas y Netflix and chill. Tambi\u00e9n tienen que ver con apoyarse mutuamente<\/a> y poder confiar los unos en los otros.<\/p>\n If you can’t trust your partner to the extent of sharing everything with them, then it’s time to question your relationship.<\/p>\n If you can’t rely on your partner when something bad happens to you or you’re feeling off, then it’s time to question your relationship.<\/p>\n If you’re the only one going out of your way to make things work, then you should definitely question your relationship.<\/p>\n If your partner is not willing to invest in your relationship and fight for it, then there’s nothing you can do on your own.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo el respeto mutuo, el aprecio y el esfuerzo son capaces de resistir incluso en las peores condiciones.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo el amor verdadero es capaz de vivir para siempre sin perder su encanto inicial. Y el amor verdadero exige sacrificio.<\/p>\n![\"Feliz](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-young-couple-embracing-and-smiling-while-sitting-on-the-pier-near-the-lake.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/933-1.jpg\")
<\/a><\/p>\nLa fase de luna de miel empezar\u00e1 a desvanecerse<\/h2>\n
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-1.jpg\")
<\/a><\/p>\nYou’ll stop playing dating games and be more relaxed around each other<\/h2>\n
![\"Una](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/A-young-couple-relaxing-at-their-home.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll start feeling like you’re ready to say: I love you<\/h2>\n
![\"Mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll start using the words “us” and “we”<\/h2>\n
![\"retrato](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/portrait-of-living-young-couple-at-the-beach.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEstar\u00e9is totalmente de acuerdo en veros en ediciones informales<\/h2>\n
![\"Pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Young-Couple-Relaxing-On-A-Boat-Enjoying-Sunny-Day-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll be more relaxed around each other’s friends<\/h2>\n
![\"Grupo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Group-of-friends-walking-along-the-beach-with-men-giving-piggyback-ride-to-girlfriends.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll be more open and start revealing each other’s secrets and embarrassing things<\/h2>\n
![\"Vista](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Top-view-of-young-couple-talking-and-laughing-while-sitting-in-cafeteria-relaxing-and-drinking-coffee.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou won’t feel the need to be attached to your phone 24\/7<\/h2>\n
![\"Pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Young-couple-watching-TV-on-a-sofa-at-home.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll fight a little more often<\/h2>\n
![\"chico](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll start thinking about meeting each other’s family<\/h2>\n
![\"Noel](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Noel-evening-night-family-gathering-meeting.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll spend most of your Friday nights on the couch (without any regrets)<\/h2>\n
![\"Pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Loving-couple-watching-tv-and-eating-popcorn-at-home-covered-with-blanket.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll be honest about who you truly are<\/h2>\n
![\"Pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Playful-couple-laughing-in-a-bar.jpg\")
<\/p>\nFalta de textos bonitos y espont\u00e1neos<\/h2>\n
![\"Mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Woman-Sitting-On-Couch-At-Home-Using-Mobile-Phone.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYa no se sorprenden unos a otros con peque\u00f1as cosas<\/a><\/h2>\n
![\"Pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Bored-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-holding-phones.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYa no planean cosas divertidas para hacer juntos<\/h2>\n
![\"Mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Young-woman-getting-bored-while-man-using-phone-in-the-background.jpg\")
<\/p>\nNo ser capaces de ser aut\u00e9nticos el uno con el otro.<\/h2>\n
![\"Pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nNo hacer planes de futuro<\/h2>\n
![\"Pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-With-Problems-Having-Disagreement-In-Bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\nNo hacer de tu relaci\u00f3n una prioridad<\/h2>\n
![\"Pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Sad-couple-sitting-on-bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\nNo poder confiar en los dem\u00e1s<\/h2>\n
![\"Retrato](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Portrait-of-young-couple-being-in-a-conflict-in-the-park..jpg\")
<\/p>\nRecuerda que para bailar un tango hacen falta dos.<\/h2>\n
![\"3](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/3-Month-Relationship-12-Changes-That-Are-Bound-To-Happen-And-7-Red-Flags-Pinterest.jpg\")
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