Naturalmente, te quieren fuera de su vida y de su coraz\u00f3n. Sin embargo, te has dado cuenta de tu error y est\u00e1s dispuesto a hacer todo lo que est\u00e9 en tu mano para que te perdonen. <\/p>\n
Bueno, esto es lo que suele pasar cuando alguien trampas<\/a> sobre su ser querido.<\/p>\n Comprendes las consecuencias de tus actos y suplicas otra oportunidad para hacer las cosas bien. <\/p>\n So, how do you do it exactly? Do you write an apology letter in which you simply say “I’m sorry”? Do you keep on texting and calling your significant other until their anger goes away?<\/p>\n \u00bfO intentas echarles toda la culpa? \u00bfTe justificas y pones excusas falsas a tu comportamiento?<\/p>\n How to apologise for cheating? Well, you’re about to find out. <\/p>\n Sigue los pasos que se indican a continuaci\u00f3n y encuentra la mejor manera de salir de esta situaci\u00f3n. Mucha suerte.<\/p>\n Antes de tomar ninguna medida para arreglar las cosas, lo primero y m\u00e1s importante es romper con tu pareja.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t necessarily have to fight with them, but you can\u2019t stay best friends either.<\/p>\n However, if they are your coworker or some other person you can\u2019t kick out of your life completely, reduce your contact to the bare minimum. There is no texting, no phone calls, no spending time together…<\/p>\n You can\u2019t expect your partner to be okay with the fact that you still hang out with someone you cheated on them with, and you certainly can\u2019t expect to get another chance in those circumstances. <\/p>\n Nevertheless, you shouldn\u2019t blame your lover for anything that has happened either.<\/p>\n Of course, it is never okay to be the third person, but they didn\u2019t force you to become a tramposo<\/a>No importa lo que hicieran.<\/p>\n Fuiste t\u00fa quien tom\u00f3 esta decisi\u00f3n, as\u00ed que no hay necesidad de buscar pelea con ellos y considerarlos culpables de tus errores.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, tu pareja podr\u00eda interpretar mal tu comunicaci\u00f3n y llegar a la conclusi\u00f3n de que sigues sintiendo algo por esa persona en cuanto tengas la necesidad de buscar un cierre con ella.<\/p>\n Por lo tanto, lo mejor que puede hacer es interrumpir todo contacto posible con esta persona.<\/p>\n Naturally, you\u2019re not ignor\u00e1ndoles para llamar su atenci\u00f3n<\/a>: you\u2019re doing it because it is the only right thing to do. <\/p>\n S\u00e9 radical: bloquea sus perfiles en las redes sociales, bloquea su n\u00famero y deja de aparecer en los lugares en los que sabes que podr\u00edas encontrarte con ellos. <\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t be doing this to prove something to your partner either: you should make this move only because you\u2019ve realized that this was an awful mistake and because you want this person out of your life. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t wait until you\u2019re sure that your significant other will take you back to cut your lover off.<\/p>\n En lugar de eso, no te pongas en contacto con ellos antes de intentarlo e incluso antes de empezar a disculparte. <\/p>\n Trust me\u2014this is the only way for them to see that you\u2019re serious and that you\u2019re really sorry about everything you did. <\/p>\n The next step doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with your significant other: it is something you have to do on your own.<\/p>\n Para empezar, empiece a analizar su problemas de pareja<\/a>y tratar de averiguar por qu\u00e9 hiciste todo esto. <\/p>\n This is one of the first questions you\u2019ll be asked when you confront your partner, so it is better to have an answer ready.<\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 echabas de menos en tu relaci\u00f3n que intentaste buscar en otra parte?<\/p>\n \u00bfTe sent\u00edas desatendido emocionalmente? \u00bfO intentabas devolver a tu ser querido algo que hizo en el pasado?<\/p>\n Did your relationship fall into a rut? Were you looking for butterflies and the excitement you haven\u2019t been getting for some time? <\/p>\n \u00bfIntentaste demostrarte a ti mismo que a\u00fan tienes lo que hay que tener para conquistar a alguien del sexo opuesto?<\/p>\n Or you were just not thinking straight and don\u2019t even know why you did it?<\/p>\n Even when you get to the bottom of each one of these questions, they don\u2019t free you from guilt.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter what was going on in your relationship: cheating is never an option. <\/p>\n Si tu relaci\u00f3n pasaba por momentos dif\u00edciles, deber\u00edas haber actuado como un adulto maduro y esforzarte por arreglar las cosas.<\/p>\n Si hubieras visto que vosotros dos como pareja estabais condenados al fracaso, podr\u00edas haberte alejado a tiempo en lugar de hacer todo esto. <\/p>\n No importa lo que tu pareja te haya hecho y c\u00f3mo te haya tratado, esta nunca es una forma de resolver tus problemas de pareja o de hacer que cambie. <\/p>\n Otra cosa en la que deber\u00edas pensar es en tus sentimientos hacia tu pareja.<\/p>\n \u00bfNo fue m\u00e1s que pasi\u00f3n o se enamor\u00f3 de ellos?<\/p>\n Did you break things off with them out of fear that you\u2019ll lose your relationship or marriage, which are way more permanent and secure or did you really understand that you were making a mistake?<\/p>\n After you\u2019ve gotten all the answers, it is time to look at your relationship as realistically as possible.<\/p>\n \u00bfEs realmente por la que merece la pena luchar<\/a>\u00bfHay alguna posibilidad de que arregl\u00e9is las cosas despu\u00e9s de este desastre?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not trying to justify your affair in any way, but it is more than clear that something was off in your relationship as long as you cheated. Well, is this something that can be fixed?<\/p>\n \u00bfTienen usted y su pareja la fuerza y la capacidad de pasar p\u00e1gina y empezar de nuevo, sin mirar atr\u00e1s?<\/p>\n Or will this entire effort be pointless because deep down, you\u2019re perfectly aware that you can\u2019t succeed?<\/p>\n \u00bfEsperas que tu pareja te lo devuelva a la primera oportunidad? \u00bfSer\u00e1n capaces de perdonarte de verdad por todo?<\/p>\n Are you done with your affairs? Do you sincerely think that you won\u2019t repeat the same mistake at the first glance of trouble?<\/p>\n \u00bfOs quer\u00e9is lo suficiente como para hacer que las cosas funcionen, a pesar de esta traici\u00f3n y humillaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n \u00bfEst\u00e1s dispuesto a hacer lo que haga falta para recuperar a esa persona?<\/p>\n If you\u2019re trying to rebuild your broken relationship just out of habit and nostalgia and are not sure that you won\u2019t engage in another affair soon, please give up in time.<\/p>\n Ya has hecho bastante da\u00f1o a esta persona, y lo \u00faltimo que necesita es que vuelvas a apu\u00f1alarla por la espalda. <\/p>\n Sin embargo, si crees que es algo por lo que merece la pena luchar y tu pareja es tu alma gemela, arrepi\u00e9ntete y haz lo que sea necesario para que te acepte de nuevo. <\/p>\n When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to apologize for cheating and lying, you have to be ready to be interrogated by your partner.<\/p>\n After all, they won\u2019t forgive you just like that, without finding out everything they\u2019re interested in.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t lie and don\u2019t poner excusas<\/a> porque eso s\u00f3lo har\u00e1 que se enfaden a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t try making them a fool\u2014just be as honest as possible. <\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t talk about some sexual details, but you shouldn\u2019t wrap things up in a shiny paper either.<\/p>\n Besides, be aware that your partner probably knows a lot more than you might think, so don\u2019t let them catch you lying again. <\/p>\n After all, you\u2019ve already done enough, so getting another strike against yourself is the last thing you need. <\/p>\n Cuando tu pareja te pregunte por qu\u00e9 le enga\u00f1aste, dile la verdad.<\/p>\n S\u00e9 sincero sobre cu\u00e1nto dur\u00f3 tu aventura, si fue una relaci\u00f3n real o s\u00f3lo una aventura casual, si fue s\u00f3lo sexo o hubo emociones de por medio, si ocurri\u00f3 por primera vez o seguiste haci\u00e9ndolo, y cualquier otra informaci\u00f3n que quieran saber. <\/p>\n I know you\u2019re trying to spare them, but believe me when I tell you that coming clean is the only way to start over without any emotional baggage from the past.<\/p>\n Recuerda: la verdad no se puede ocultar, y tu pareja lo descubrir\u00e1 todo tarde o temprano. <\/p>\n Por lo tanto, siempre es mejor que seas t\u00fa quien se lo cuente todo.<\/p>\n Tienes que acabar con esto de una vez por todas en lugar de esconderlo bajo la alfombra y preocuparte constantemente por cu\u00e1ndo reaparecer\u00e1. <\/p>\n I\u2019ll be harsh here, but I don\u2019t care if you\u2019re ashamed to talk about all of this.<\/p>\n Yes, I know that you would rather skip this topic, but you weren\u2019t ashamed when you were fooling around, so now is the time to man (or woman) up and stand by your actions.<\/p>\n At first, wanting to know all of this sounds masochistic. However, if having all the necessary information will help your partner feel more in control and eventually forgive you, it\u2019s what you have to do.<\/p>\n They just want to know everything they\u2019re dealing with, and they\u2019re testing your honesty. <\/p>\n Repeat after me: \u201cI\u2019m the only one guilty for everything that went on, and I’m sorry<\/a>.<\/p>\n Nobody forced or manipulated me into committing adultery, and no matter what was going in my relationship at that moment, I\u2019m the one who is guilty.\u201d <\/p>\n No son s\u00f3lo las palabras que debes decirle a tu pareja para que te perdone y te acepte de nuevo.<\/p>\n Esto es realmente la verdad, y algo en lo que tienes que empezar a creer antes de dec\u00edrselo a nadie. <\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter if you had a long-lasting affair or you had a one-night-stand with someone while you were wasted or in a fight with your significant other: your sin is the same.<\/p>\n You\u2019re an adult, and you consciously chose to do the wrong thing, without thinking about how your partner feels. <\/p>\n You\u2019re responsible for cheating, for humiliating and hurting your partner, and for destroying everything the two of you have been building for years.<\/p>\n Responsable de todos los traumas y cicatrices que todo esto pueda dejarles, de sus problemas de confianza y de que se cuestionen su val\u00eda. <\/p>\n You carry full responsibility for their every tear and heartache. So, you\u2019re the only one who should be judged.<\/p>\n Lo peor que se te puede ocurrir es echar la culpa a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t plan on getting away with your misdeeds by accusing your partner of not giving you their undivided attention, of not loving you enough or of not treating you the way you deserved. <\/p>\n Ellos son las v\u00edctimas aqu\u00ed, \u00a1y la v\u00edctima nunca es culpable!<\/p>\n As was already stated, you could have tried changing the situation or leaving it, but out of all the options, you chose cheating\u2014like a real coward. <\/p>\n Also, remember that you ought to be sorry for everything you did\u2014not for getting caught.<\/p>\n Disc\u00falpate con tu pareja y s\u00e9 la mejor persona por tus fechor\u00edas, no porque te hayan descubierto. <\/p>\n Do it because it is the right thing and because you want to\u2014not because it is expected of you and not because it is something you should do in this type of situation. <\/p>\n If it’s necessary, write a sincere apology letter and put all of your feelings on a piece of paper.<\/p>\n For example, start with telling them “I’m sorry for what I did and I promise I’ll never do it again.”<\/p>\n Es una buena idea incluso si tu prometido o tu c\u00f3nyuge se niegan a escucharte: env\u00edales una carta de disculpa para hacerles saber c\u00f3mo te sientes. <\/p>\n Tu pareja y t\u00fa hab\u00e9is pasado por muchas cosas y hab\u00e9is pasado mucho tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n Los dos ten\u00edais grandes planes y compart\u00edais emociones profundas. <\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter what happened later on\u2014the fact is that at one point, this was the reality of your relationship.<\/p>\n Aunque ahora no haya rastro de sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos entre vosotros dos, lo vuestro fue una cosa y ten\u00e9is una historia juntos. <\/p>\n Por lo tanto, su relaci\u00f3n y todo lo que han pasado juntos merecen respeto, y merecen su disculpa sincera<\/a>. <\/p>\n Have in mind that you are a cheater and that your partner doesn\u2019t have to give you a second chance. In fact, they have every right to forgive you but not want you back in their life. <\/p>\n Por eso hay que disculparse sin expectativas.<\/p>\n Tell them straightforwardly that you know you\u2019re in no position to make any demands and that you just want them to know how terribly sorry you are for causing them this pain and for destroying your romance. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t even think of insulting them or changing your story even if you see that they have no intention of forgiving you.<\/p>\n They\u2019re not the bad guy here, and you\u2019re the one who needs to stay humble until the end because you\u2019re the one who made an awful mistake. <\/p>\n Also, make sure you apologize in private. Avoid writing apology letters and posting them on social media or involving your mutual friends in all of this because they won\u2019t help you. <\/p>\n When you hurt someone, you can\u2019t expect one sincere apology to magically erase everything you did and fix things overnight.<\/p>\n La gente necesita tiempo para procesar las cosas, aceptarlas y, por \u00faltimo, decidir si mereces su perd\u00f3n o no. <\/p>\n Y tu pareja no es una excepci\u00f3n. Ser infiel es terrible, y es natural que te pidan que te alejes durante cierto tiempo hasta que piensen todo y pasen por el proceso de recuperaci\u00f3n de la aventura<\/a>.<\/p>\n So, don\u2019t demand an answer right away simply because they can\u2019t give you one.<\/p>\n Even if your significant other already knows what the outcome will be but wants to torture you a little bit, it is what you deserve\u2014as awful as it might sound. <\/p>\n Give them as much time as they need to come to a decision. On the other hand, if you\u2019re not ready to wait, tell them straightforwardly, and try setting a date by which they will give you their final answer. <\/p>\n Use this period of time to work on rebuilding trust. Don\u2019t be a stalker and don\u2019t push them too hard, but let them know that you\u2019re there and that you\u2019re not going anywhere. <\/p>\n Show them that you really will change and that you\u2019ll do whatever it takes for their forgiveness.<\/p>\n Si no hay nada m\u00e1s, sea su mejor amigo<\/a> y alguien con quien puedan contar, a pesar de todo lo que ha pasado. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t even think of dating other people during this time, let alone getting back in touch with your lover.<\/p>\n Yes, you will be officially single, but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to fool around while you\u2019re allegedly trying to rebuild your relationship. <\/p>\n I will be straight with you: don\u2019t expect too much out of this. Don\u2019t get your hopes up because there is a big possibility of your partner choosing not to forgive and sending you to hell. <\/p>\n Por lo tanto, esto es algo para lo que simplemente tienes que prepararte. En realidad, es algo para lo que deber\u00edas haber estado preparado desde el momento en que decidiste involucrarte en este asunto. <\/p>\n Not only that\u2014your significant other might insult you, call you names, and refuse to even give you an opportunity to explain yourself.<\/p>\n Even if the worst thing happens and you two break up, remember that it is your fault and that you\u2019re the one who caused it. <\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying not to put all your efforts in apologizing\u2014I\u2019m just introducing you to all of your options, so you don\u2019t start acting all surprised if they cut all ties and kick you out of their life, as if you were never a part of it. <\/p>\n However, even if this occurs, at least you\u2019ll always know you didn\u2019t give up without a decent fight.<\/p>\n Despite the outcome, you\u2019ll know that you did everything you could and that you gave it your best.<\/p>\n Of course, if you have any conscience, this won\u2019t help you a lot. You\u2019ll still have to live with yourself and with the fact that you are the one who blew things.<\/p>\n However, if your partner decides to forgive you, don\u2019t forget to appreciate it more than anything and finally put them in primer puesto<\/a> en tu vida.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t see it as a green light to keep on hurting them, and don\u2019t take them for a fool just because they decided to give you another chance. <\/p>\n Cuando rompes un plato, se rompe en mil pedazos. Y cuando lo pegas e intentas recomponerlo, quedan cicatrices para siempre. <\/p>\n Well, that is exactly what will happen with your relationship and your significant other\u2019s heart, even if they accept your apology and decide to take you back.<\/p>\n The harsh truth is that things will never be the same, and you shouldn\u2019t expect them to be. <\/p>\n La confianza que ustedes dos ten\u00edan fue violada, y todo su romance fue puesto en peligro.<\/p>\n Everything you two had and all the love you shared is in question, so don\u2019t think that your partner will start acting like nothing has happened just like that. <\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that you should spend a lifetime apologizing for your affair.<\/p>\n Al fin y al cabo, si tu ser querido decide perdonarte, no tiene sentido sacar el tema todos los d\u00edas ni guardarle rencor. <\/p>\n In this case scenario, it is better for them to be honest from the start and tell you that they can\u2019t continue living next to you then to make your future a living hell and a torture for both of you. Nevertheless, be aware that this experience changed them for good.<\/p>\n Tardar\u00e1s a\u00f1os en recuperar su confianza y en que olviden de verdad el dolor por el que les hiciste pasar, porque tardar\u00e1n a\u00f1os en curarse realmente de \u00e9l. <\/p>\n Cuando alguien te enga\u00f1a, necesitas mucho tiempo para curarte, para recuperar tu autoestima<\/a>y superarlo.<\/p>\n And a lot of people don\u2019t succeed in accomplishing all of this is hard work. <\/p>\n Por supuesto, los milagros siempre son posibles. Existe la posibilidad de que este acontecimiento fortalezca su relaci\u00f3n, por descabellado que parezca. <\/p>\n1. Corta los lazos con la tercera persona<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Entender por qu\u00e9 lo hizo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Decide si merece la pena luchar por la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Proporcione una explicaci\u00f3n detallada<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Asumir la plena responsabilidad<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Disculparse sin expectativas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Darles tiempo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Prep\u00e1rate para el peor de los casos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Don\u2019t expect everything to be the same<\/h2>\n
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