{"id":5173,"date":"2020-05-16T20:33:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T20:33:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5173"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:38:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:38:31","slug":"por-eso-la-perdiste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-la-perdiste\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que la perdiste"},"content":{"rendered":"

You didn’t think things through. You were careless.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You foolishly took her for granted. Her\u2014the best thing you’ve ever had.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You made her feel left out. Like she wasn\u2019t even involved in your relationship. You were selfish, and you didn\u2019t even realize it. Instead of being a team, you decided it\u2019s going to be a one-man show.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what drove her away.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sufri\u00f3 durante mucho tiempo. Se recluy\u00f3 en su propia mente, sumida en su enorme dolor.<\/p>\n

She even probably wanted to leave you, but she felt sorry for you. She kept hoping you will realize what you are doing wrong and change\u2014but you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You kept on dancing on your own on the dance floor of your life, while she was sitting aside all by herself\u2014watching you.<\/p>\n

You lost her because you didn\u2019t commit to her completely.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

You knew you had her. You knew she was around. She was your safety net. You didn\u2019t commit to her all the way because you didn\u2019t appreciate her enough.<\/p>\n

All those times you had to make a choice\u2014she or something or someone else\u2014you picked the other option. To you, she was a backup plan.<\/p>\n

You lost her because you didn\u2019t understand her.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She is not like everybody else\u2014and you are. It was impossible for you to get her. It was impossible for you to understand what was going on inside her head. She was always one step ahead of you.<\/p>\n

But yet, she never made you aware of that. That\u2019s how much she loved you. You took a shot of being with her and so easily gambled it away.<\/p>\n

You lost her because you didn\u2019t trust her.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe you didn\u2019t trust her because you were threatened by her. Maybe somewhere deep inside you knew she was better than what you deserve, so you paid her back with suspicion and questioning her motives for loving you. It was really bold of you to do that. I admire how shamelessly hypocritical you were.<\/p>\n

\"Ri\u00f1a<\/p>\n

You lost her because you didn\u2019t see her for who she really is.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t recognize that special something she keeps hidden inside. You didn\u2019t understand it because she never bragged about it. That\u2019s the way she is.<\/p>\n

She is humble, and she always puts others before herself because she knows she will manage anyway. You missed out on that\u2014you should be ashamed of being a \u2018blind\u2019 man.<\/p>\n

You lost her because you didn\u2019t listen to her.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Her words never found their way to your heart and mind. You looked like you were listening but you never were. That\u2019s why you lost her.<\/p>\n

You lost her because you didn\u2019t realize her value.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si las cosas fueran al rev\u00e9s, \u00bfc\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas? \u00bfC\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas si lo dieras todo y no recibieras nada a cambio?<\/p>\n

You would feel like crap\u2014like she does.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She is a girl who will always give all she\u2019s got, but you and those like you take her for granted. She then becomes the victim of her own kindness.<\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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