Too many times have you thought that not getting a response meant you\u2019ve done something wrong, right? That you perhaps haven\u2019t been clear enough, that you asked too much, or that you haven\u2019t thought about how they really feel about the matter.<\/p>\n
Demasiadas veces te has culpado por no saber hacer las preguntas adecuadas para obtener las respuestas correctas.<\/p>\n
But, the truth is that it wasn\u2019t your fault. You were asking the right questions, and all you got in return was no response.<\/p>\n
Or was it so? Perhaps they were answering you all this time, but you simply didn\u2019t listen or couldn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n
Send one text message he\u2019ll have no choice but to respond to \u2013 HAGA CLIC AQU\u00cd PARA OBTENER M\u00c1S INFORMACI\u00d3N<\/a>.<\/p>\n Perhaps they were giving you clues that told you how they really feel, but you didn\u2019t want to believe it. You didn\u2019t want to escucha a tu instinto <\/a>dici\u00e9ndote que todo este tiempo ten\u00edas todas las respuestas delante de ti.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo porque haven\u2019t received a text<\/a> or heard a word from them, this doesn\u2019t mean that you haven\u2019t been sent the message (especially if te bloquearon<\/a>). <\/p>\n Lack of response is a powerful response that tells you a lot about a person\u2019s life, their perspective on things, and their intention.<\/p>\n Para despertar su inter\u00e9s por ti, te recomiendo encarecidamente que utilices Texto Qu\u00edmica<\/a>, gu\u00eda #1 para que se enamore de ti en un santiam\u00e9n.<\/p>\n Every time a person refuses to utter a single word or write a single letter, they send you a message that they\u2019re not willing to make you a part of their life, not willing to reciprocate, and don\u2019t give a damn how you feel about it.<\/p>\n Cada vez que una persona se niega a pronunciar una palabra o a escribir una carta, decide deliberadamente dejarte esperar<\/a> in case they change their mind and realize that they should\u2019ve answered you while they could.<\/p>\n Cada vez que una persona se niega a responder, decide guardarse para s\u00ed todas las palabras no dichas.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s obvious that they\u2019re not willing to share their thoughts with you.<\/p>\n Y no estar dispuesto a compartir tus pensamientos con alguien significa no estar dispuesto a que forme parte de tu vida. Esta es la lecci\u00f3n m\u00e1s valiosa que aprend\u00ed el a\u00f1o pasado.<\/p>\n But, you couldn\u2019t know that when you were looking the person in the eye, or when you were holding your phone filled with hope and excitement that you\u2019ll get a response.<\/p>\n When you thought that you should wait just a little longer or give them another chance because there must be a reason why they haven\u2019t responded yet.<\/p>\n Cuando ocurre algo as\u00ed, un mill\u00f3n de preguntas empiezan a rondar por la cabeza. Una de ellas es la siguiente:<\/p>\n I understand that no matter how many times you repeat the above sentence, it still doesn’t make sense to you because the irrational part of your brain prevails.<\/p>\n When you really care about receiving someone’s reply, you unquestionably poner excusas<\/a> for their lack of response because back then you didn\u2019t know that by saying nothing, they are actually saying a lot.<\/p>\n All you could hear was that little voice in your head reminding you of that one sentence: \u201c<\/b>Te echo de menos<\/b><\/a>.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n All you could do was hope that they\u2019d realize their mistake and finally open their eyes to see what you were trying to tell them all this time. But, they didn\u2019t. Instead, they said and wrote nothing.<\/p>\n Y ninguna respuesta es una respuesta<\/a>. No responder significa, en primer lugar, falta de inter\u00e9s y de voluntad. De hecho, el silencio es la mejor respuesta.<\/p>\n Porque el silencio vale m\u00e1s que mil palabras<\/a>!<\/p>\n Silence tells us what words cannot. Just like a picture, silence speaks a thousand words \u2013 all we need to do is listen to it.<\/p>\n En lugar de buscar respuestas visibles, hay que aprender a escuchar el sonido del silencio.<\/p>\n If there\u2019s one thing I\u2019ve learned during my humble life, it\u2019s this: La honradez es un regalo caro<\/i><\/a> que no se puede esperar de gente barata.<\/i><\/p>\n Being honest means sharing important things with the person you care (or don\u2019t care) about. It means having the dignity to say what you really mean and spare the person of unnecessary overthinking and drama.<\/p>\n Them deciding to stay silent instead of being a responder tells you that they don\u2019t have the guts to say what they really want to stay. They don’t have the guts to deal with hurtful things and emotions because you are not on their priority list.<\/p>\n The reason why they choose to do so is that they don\u2019t want to hurt your feelings, but in reality, they are hurting you ten times more by not saying anything.<\/p>\n Y, al mismo tiempo, te est\u00e1n diciendo diez veces m\u00e1s al no decir nada.<\/p>\n En lugar de seguir llam\u00e1ndoles y envi\u00e1ndoles mensajes de texto, esperando mensajes de voz, o acech\u00e1ndoles en las redes sociales y sus \u00faltimas publicaciones, s\u00f3lo tienes que disfrutar del sonido del silencio y, te lo aseguro, aprender\u00e1s mucho de ello.<\/p>\n Whenever someone decides not to respond, they deliberately decide to ignore. While you might feel like they\u2019re ignoring you, in reality they\u2019re ignoring the truth that they are cowards.<\/p>\n In reality, they\u2019re telling you that you\u2019re not worthy of their time and that\u2019s why they don\u2019t bother responding.<\/p>\n Silencio significa ignorar e ignorar significa playing with someone else\u2019s mental health<\/a>salud f\u00edsica y felicidad. Y nadie en el mundo merece sentirse as\u00ed.<\/p>\n No response is a response. No response lets you know that they\u2019re not willing to make you their priority or tell you what\u2019s really going on in their life.<\/p>\n Y en lugar de buscar ciegamente excusas que justifiquen su comportamiento, basta con crear una carpeta de spam y ponerle un nombre: Personas que no merecen estar en mi vida<\/i><\/a>.<\/p>\n A lot of times, I witnessed people believing that if they try harder, they might catch the other person\u2019s attention and somehow magically win their heart and make them respond \u2013 make them reciprocate.<\/p>\n Piensan: \u201cThey don\u2019t text me back because I\u2019m <\/i>no es suficiente<\/i><\/a>. I need to try harder.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n Pero esto no es cierto en absoluto. Que no respondan s\u00f3lo significa una cosa: que no est\u00e1n interesados en convertirte en su prioridad.<\/p>\n Their silence doesn\u2019t imply that there\u2019s something wrong with you. It indicates that it\u2019s not the right time, they don\u2019t feel attraction toward you<\/a>, or they simply aren\u2019t interested for some reason.<\/p>\n And this reason is not you. No response doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t deserve attention and you\u2019re not worthy of loved one’s and other people’s time.<\/p>\n No response means that they don\u2019t deserve your attention because they\u2019re not appreciating it enough.<\/p>\n You don’t say anything to them but you say to yourself the following things:<\/p>\n So, instead of waiting or blaming yourself, listen to the sound of silence telling you that it\u2019s time to move on and give up on fighting for something that simply wasn\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\n Instead of thinking there\u2019s something wrong with you, you need to gather courage and think about what you really deserve.<\/p>\n \u00bfCrees que te mereces a una persona que no est\u00e1 dispuesta a llamarte o enviarte un mensaje de texto?<\/b><\/p>\n Do you think you deserve to suffer because you don\u2019t deserve better? Think again. And listen to the sound of silence again.<\/p>\n Porque te mereces la grandeza y m\u00e1s all\u00e1. Que esperes a que te respondan es la m\u00e1xima muestra de tu paciencia, generosidad y gran coraz\u00f3n. Y t\u00fa te mereces lo mismo a cambio.<\/p>\n Te mereces a alguien que sea capaz de darse cuenta de todas estas cosas y est\u00e9 dispuesto a hacer un esfuerzo<\/a> to respond. To remind you that they\u2019re thinking of you even when they\u2019re in the middle of a hurricane.<\/p>\n Te mereces a alguien que aprecie tu paciencia, tu sacrificio y todas las peque\u00f1as cosas que haces porque te importan. Mucho. Y mereces que te cuiden a cambio.<\/p>\n Lo \u00fanico que consigues es ese silencio torturador que te recuerda todos los momentos felices que has tenido o podr\u00edas tener. El silencio es la ausencia de inversi\u00f3n y reciprocidad.<\/p>\n It takes only a few seconds to tell the other person how you really feel and what\u2019s really going on, so when you can\u2019t find time to do it, you\u2019re clearly taking them for granted.<\/p>\n You\u2019re deliberately deciding to invest your time in other things that mean more to you than this person\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n Their silence is sending you a message that you shouldn’t wait for them to change. Instead, you should run for your life and never look back!<\/p>\n It\u2019s hard to maintain a relationship when you\u2019re the only one trying, talking, and texting. It\u2019s hard to be there for someone who isn\u2019t even trying to be there for you.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t do it either.<\/p>\n En lugar de esperar a que algo cambie, deber\u00edas ser t\u00fa el cambio. La opci\u00f3n de ignorar no s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 disponible en lo virtual, sino tambi\u00e9n en la vida real.<\/p>\n You should initiate the change by deciding to open your eyes and realizing that you don\u2019t deserve a \u201cNo response\u201d treatment.<\/p>\n Aprenda a protegerse<\/a> from narcissists and other negative people by practicing self-love. Don’t expect their phone calls, texts, or voicemails because time is the greatest resource you have, and also one of the most limited.<\/p>\n Perhaps they\u2019re married, perhaps they\u2019re in a relationship, perhaps they want to widen their horizons (if you catch my drift) and that\u2019s why they\u2019re putting you on hold.<\/p>\n They\u2019re putting you on hold because they don\u2019t want or need you at the moment, but they\u2019re no estoy dispuesto a perderte<\/a> tampoco.<\/p>\n They want to make sure that you\u2019ll be there waiting on them when they decide to come back, that you\u2019ll be there when they decide to finally respond.<\/p>\n But, you shouldn\u2019t. If you care about your happiness at all, you should rely on what they\u2019re telling you with their silence instead of their potential words.<\/p>\n What they\u2019re telling you with their silence is that they don\u2019t really care about how you feel. They let you wait just because they know you will.<\/p>\n The longer you\u2019re letting them play with your feelings and <\/i>darte por sentado<\/i><\/a>, the longer you\u2019ll feel miserable and unhappy!<\/i><\/p>\n Cuanto m\u00e1s esperes a que te respondan, m\u00e1s prolongar\u00e1s tu dolor.<\/i><\/p>\n The longer you accept their toxic treatment, the more they\u2019ll be hurting you.<\/i><\/p>\n So, open your eyes and see the message that\u2019s been right in front of you all this time, but for some reason, you avoided it, didn\u2019t want to accept it, didn\u2019t want to seguir adelante<\/a>.<\/p>\n Open your eyes for the first time in your life and see that no response is a response, and it\u2019s a powerful one!<\/p>\n\u00bfLa falta de respuesta es un rechazo?<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>No response doesn’t mean rejection. The absence of a reply is not the same thing as rejection but it still carries a powerful message.<\/p>\n\u00bfDeber\u00edas volver a enviar un mensaje si no has recibido respuesta?<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>The answer is simple here. If you’ve texted them twice or more than that in the past few days and still haven’t received a response, do yourself a favor and put the phone down. Don’t text again until they text you back.<\/p>\nPorque ninguna respuesta es una respuesta<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>Silence means that they\u2019re cowards who didn\u2019t want to hurt your feelings by saying what they really wanted to say!<\/p>\nSilencio significa ignorar<\/h3>\n
No one deserves for their well-being to be influenced by another\u2019s decision to respond.<\/b><\/h4>\n
They aren\u2019t interested in convertirte en su prioridad<\/a>!<\/h4>\n
What do you say when someone doesn’t reply?<\/h2>\n
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You don’t doble texto<\/a> them. You don’t send them a sarcastic text only to make them laugh and motivate them to text you back. You don’t go out of your way to win their attention. Instead, you focus on yourself.<\/p>\n\n
El silencio es la ausencia de inversi\u00f3n y reciprocidad.<\/h2>\n
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El silencio es uno de los asesinos potenciales de toda relaci\u00f3n<\/a> and friendship. It\u2019s when you look your partner in the eyes and tell them how you feel, expecting the same thing in return, but all you get is no response.<\/p>\nNinguna respuesta es una respuesta, una respuesta poderosa.<\/h3>\n
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By not responding, they are sending you a message that they\u2019re not willing to invest in your relationship.<\/p>\nEl silencio significa poner a otra persona en espera hasta un momento m\u00e1s conveniente.<\/h4>\n
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Decidir no responder se traduce en decidir poner a la otra persona en espera<\/a> hasta que llegue un momento m\u00e1s oportuno. Las razones por las que alguien querr\u00eda ponerte en espera var\u00edan.<\/p>\nTe ponen en espera<\/a> just because they know you will be there when it\u2019s convenient for them.<\/h4>\n
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And the worst thing you could do in that situation is to wait and hope that something will change. Because it won\u2019t!<\/p>\n
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